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Posts tend to get lost in this sub sometimes just due to how often people post here. I did go to your profile and read it! I just want to express how sorry I am you're struggling with this right now. …

REMINDER: be kind to yourself. This is hard, and you’re handling it with grace and strength. — I know of what I speak. I held so much guilt, sadness, anger, and regret for so long. I hated myself for failing to make my marriage work. That mindset was getting me nowhere good. Do the little thing…

Trying to learn CSS. Now I'm lost and feeling overwhelmed. — I tried making a practice site, but navigating the style sheet feels like I'm lost inside a maze. Is it normal for the CSS page to reach 100+ lines? I'm not even halfway done and I've already forgott…

Is this Deactivation? Seeking insights from FAs. Please help me understand this — We're together for 6 months, a lot of push/pull in the beginning, but by the 4th month everything was finally going fine between us. He even called me his girlfriend nd promised to heal and everything…

I think I'm in the process of healing, but it hurts so much. Feeling very forgotten and abandoned tonight — I truly recognize and see how much I've grown and how far I've come. I have so much self awareness, gotten good at soothing myself, talking to myself, even managing anxiety attacks. It's not always pe…

Recovering DA trying to reconnect with FA wife — For context: * I (40M) am a DA, my wife (41F) an FA. We have three children. * Together for 17 years, married for 13 years, distant/no-touch for over 10 years but stable and no deep conflicts. * Cont…

Life's expectancy for life & love — Unfortunately, I think for the rest of my time on this planet, I will carry a quiet fear. Even in the midst of real, full-blown love, I may never truly trust that one day I won’t be lied to, cheated o…

Any clue what could have happened? — I took a heroic dose of dmt last year. I had every intention to communicate with whatever I may have seen during the experience. I hit my rig until I couldn't anymore, I had been sitting on my brother…

My attorney said "most people don't know what they're entitled to" - so I made a checklist and found $47K my ex "forgot" about — Going through a divorce right now. My attorney told me something that floored me: most people settle for less than they're owed because they don't know all the places assets can hide. So I went throu…

Reflecting — I was sitting in my car at a shopping center today. Couple after couple passed in front of me holding hands, laughing, and leaning into each other like everything in the world was good. Part of me wi…

THE PHOENIX LIGHTS 29th ANNIVERSARY This is what I saw that night March 13, 1997. It was a totally solid piece of machinery not just lights. I could see the bottom of the UFO clearly by two light sources illuminating the bottom of the craft as it flew over my head — I posted this also in UFO sub. March 13, 1997 I was working in East Mesa, Arizona in a 10 bed Hospice inpatient unit as the Charge RN. We worked 12 hour shifts getting off at 7:30 PM but that night t…

Histories of Native American Treaties and Anti-Chinese Violence Win Bancroft Prize — Emilie Connolly’s “Vested Interests: Trusteeship and Native Dispossession in the United States,” published by Princeton University Press, examines the financial aspects of many U.S. government treatie…

NHI that Stop Time and Timelessness of the Oversoul; More Research that Supports how Aliens Obscure Human Memories. — Hi everyone. This is [me](https://www.reddit.com/r/Experiencers/comments/1ai4nzi/i_had_26_physical_contact_events_with_grey_aliens/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_c…

People today have forgotten how to be alone — Lately I’ve been noticing people more and more, how restless they become in silence. The moment things get quiet, we reach for our phones. Music, scrolling, notifications, something constantly and en…

Visited a dive bar in an abandoned and flooded city 03/18/2026 — 03/18/2026 Several projections during the same morning, most of them mundane and not worth recording, but the total must have been 10 in a row. As soon as the astral body would forcefully return, I i…

Have you had any experiences where your beings saved yours or someone else's life in some way? — *(Added this image as I thought it was fitting given the title - its one of my favourite sculptures which is called The Ecstasy of Saint Teresa by Gian Lorenzo Bernini, finished in 1652)* \------- P…

Case 3: A shift in Perspective — **Background Info:** [Nature of Dreams & the abilities therein](https://www.reddit.com/r/Experiencers/comments/1s5zpt7/the_nature_of_dreams_the_abilities_therein/) **Case 3: A shift in Perspective*…

MILD UPDATE: Struggling right now with feelings — Hey everyone. Don't have much of an update right now. I haven't forgotten about the comments or updating everyone as I can. I am personally going through a rough patch about our marriage. We really…

April 2026 Astrology: Key Dates, Weekly Forecast and Mundane Astrology World Events — April is one of the most active months we’ve seen. Not one planet is in retrograde. Aries fire and cardinal energy sets the stage for initiation, assertion and spontaneous energy. There is a bit of na…

I am completely convinced that somehow my mind is being read. — Hi people, this has started to happen around 8+ months ago. It primarily happens on Instagram or Facebook. Random thoughts pop up in my mind, some topics long forgotten (not in the trend) maybe 10-15 …

7 months later — It’s been almost 7 months since the breakup, and I’m still learning how to live with the ups and downs. Some days feel light. I don’t think about him much, I go about my day normally, and it almost f…

First visit after going no contact. Support needed. — I (31f) went semi no contact with my narc mother in November 2024. What I mean by ‘semi’ no contact is that I had her blocked on everything except for email - which she of course utilised to the best …

Should I stop waiting for my ex? — TLDR: I want to get back together and I still love him and he says he still loves me but he‘s too afraid to risk breaking up again. Should I still wait? I broke up w my bf about a month ago. We were…

She called me - i didnt answered the phone — My ex friend just called me, i didnt answer the phone and she left a voice note on the answering machine. Told me she just wants to tell us (?) Happy birthday. I had my birthday a week ago and she h…

My partner [24f] is extremely negative and I [26f] don't know what to do as it's draining. How do I deal with this?, I think I'm in a codependency — My partner is consistently very negative she complains about her life, her problems, her disabilties (which I share) and various issues constantly. She also struggles to self regulate and often relie…

I built Axiolog: A gamified life-logger to replace the old traditional CV — Hi everyone, I’ve always hated how our life achievements are scattered across dozens of platforms—or worse, forgotten. LinkedIn is fake, and traditional resumes only show 1% of who we are. That’s w…

I want to try and understand something — Is it wrong to date, see/talk to people even though I’m still not over my ex and miss them most days? For context It’s been 4 months since the breakup, she hasn’t reached out at all or checked in eve…

Can you get past a drop in momentum? — I, 45f, went on a first date with 46m two weeks ago. I've been dating for a few years, this was his second date since his 15+yr marriage ended two years ago. He was incredibly nervous and had had a bi…

Hi everyone! I have a question: Has anyone here tried talking to their subconscious during a lucid dream? Like, asking about something you’ve forgotten or seeking advice? Also, have you ever tried looking at yourself?

Looking at my parents makes me so angry and resentful. I don’t know what to do. — For the past year and so, my life has been full of horrible events. I had to completely focus my attention of my academics and college exams because that was the way I could distract myself. When I di…

How do I detach from people who have an on and off pattern with me? — 23(f) I have always been emotionally invested in my friends. The thing is, my friends are either really good at filling there void with company or their family. Being a motherless child who is only su…

I can't lucid dream even after years of trying — It was probably more than 5 years ago when i first heard about lucid dreaming. At the time i was super hyped, lucid dreaming sounded so cool, the endless possibilities sounded amazing. For multiple we…

You can in fact break up with someone you still love. — It seems to be a common theme on this sub that if someone dumps you they clearly don’t love you anymore, because no one leaves someone they love. A perspective I don’t see enough that you can truly lo…

Forgetting what I read — Anyone else finish a book and feel like they've forgotten everything within a week, especially non-fiction? I've been trying to fix this and nothing has really stuck, summaries feel too passive, highl…

My Nex Contacted Me 2 months after blackmailing me to never contact her. — She specifically blackmailed me to never contact her. After seeing the material I felt so destroyed that she would use something so fragile against me. It's been 2 months since I blocked her from ev…

I don’t know what to do — So I hate confronting people, to me it feels like I’ve hurt their feelings or impacted their self esteem/respect that’s why I end up bubbling it all up inside and then I feel shitty because I let some…

22F, 22M, 2 year relationship — I have been in a relationship for 2 years, and both of our families are involved. We are likely to have a wedding next year. However, something happened a few months ago that has deeply affected our r…

I had a very big realization about my nmom — i usually don't post and am using my alt to post since my main is very obviously me. usually i just support everyone from the comments so don't mind me ! when i was much younger my mom forcefully rea…

At Portland’s Lone Fir graves, a long-awaited apology is finally heard — At a ceremony honoring ancestors and marking the start of memorial construction at Lone Fir Cemetery’s Block 14, Multnomah County’s chair and commissioners read their apology on site for the first tim…

I saw the Romans, and I was nailed on the ground — This experience is truly like no other. My only proof (pictures) that it happened, when there’s no other explanation or reason that a dark spot or mark would just appear on the palm of my hand. I hav…

Ex reconciliation message - confused between two ways of messaging.. — My ex left me 1 year ago (24M 20F) after a huge fight that I talked shit about her texted her bad stuff in a moment of heat and huge stress. I have outgrown this and made a huge progress of who I am t…

I (22F) and my boyfriend (22M), 2 year relationship - wedding next year but something happened a few months ago that’s affected us — I have been in a relationship for 2 years, and both of our families are involved. We are likely to have a wedding next year. However, something happened a few months ago that has deeply affected our r…

Anyone else have their exes family member(s) add their previous ex to their social media shortly after you were blindside dumped? — I’m just posed this question as I’ve been thinking a lot for the past year after I was blindside dumped by my ex. I may be just paranoid or overthinking. But it all seemed so weird. I can give more de…

My (42F) boyfriend (55M) upset he wasn’t given cake — I (42F) have been dating my boyfriend (55M) for about a year and a half. I’m a single mom, so my time is split 50% with kids, and 50% with him. My kids (two - tween ages) have had a hard time except…

My best friend f25 ended our relationship with explaining why NB24 — Throwaway because mutual friends use Reddit. For context I '23NB' had a close friend I'll call Sage '24F' who I'd known for about two years. We were best friends and roommates for roughly a year. Sa…

you guys were right. first loves don’t last — hi guys yes i used chat gpt to write this, only because i had told it all my problems and it was to hard to put into words how i felt so i asked it to just make a prompt using everything i told it. …

I (18M) was broken up with by my GF (20F) and first love. How do i grow from this? — you guys were right. first loves don’t last yes i used chat gpt to write this, only because i had told it all my problems and it was to hard to put into words how i felt so i asked it to just make a …

Father has cancer — I called my grandfather yesterday to say happy easter. We chatted a bit and he brought up my father (his son). He usually does not talk to me about him because I have been no contact with my father fo…

The only thing I have to look forward to is my final victory. — nDad is dead, has been for a while. He was abusive my entire life, made things a living hell, and now my enabler mother is moving back to her home country to be closer to the rest of her family and pr…

Sent this to her. Will start no contact. — I’m not gonna end up like my mom who gave up everything for someone who doesn’t truly love her. I’ve lived under my single-mother long enough to know that when she loves, she gives it her all. She s…

My dad stripped me naked for wetting the bed — idk if this is the right place for this but a lot happened to me as a kid. my father was....mean to say the least. I'm m23 and I can't bring myself to list the things done to me even in a space like t…

Mine has forgotten me.. and I couldn't be happier lol.

You think you don't owe your partner, someone who's entered into a loving partnership with you, anything? That you can just walk away from that righteously, whenever? Sounds like a paltry, wispy comm…

Not forgotten about you, I'm on a holiday around the country at the moment and it'll be another week before I can video chat again! Looking forward to it!

You were very right to hold off and try to calm down before addressing the issue, this could very well be a misunderstanding that doesn't mean you aren't loved. This is coming from someone whose bf is…

I hear you. I’ve also been there. Acceptance is tough because it feels like giving up, but it’s actually about shifting perspective. Friendships evolve, sometimes they deepen, sometimes they fade, an…

First of all, I just want to say, I really feel your pain in this. Healing isn’t linear, and even when you’ve made so much progress, nights like this can hit hard. The fact that you’ve gone almost a y…

Oh exactly! My best friend has forgotten my birthday many times and it's a literal month before mine on the same exact day! I wasn't even phased 😂

For those of you in romantic relationships, especially living together. I have a few questions for yall: 📝 How often does your partner text/call you during the day when you’re apart? Did you notice…

Thanks for responding! I’m totally fine with a few texts a day and the lunch call and end of day call. What I’m saying is not most days I don’t even get texts through out the day… 😔 just 1 lunch time…

I actually did that in our most recent argument which triggered his abandonment wounds hard-core and he completely ripped into me with about 11 paragraphs of why I was a terrible person and why he exp…

I'm in a miniature version of your dynamic with a guy who makes me feel on top of the world sometimes and forgotten about others. The hot and cold is exhausting and the good times are just enough to …

Kudos to you for doing recovery work. I was in a long on/off relationship with a DA until recently, and the biggest thing I learned is that secure attachment is only sustainable when both people activ…

Great job 👏 very well written and I can identify with this. I have a monster closet after my monster box got too small. Part of my shame was being a tom boy, and the ridicule I faced for not looking…

Two thoughts: As an adult I’ve always had an abundance of friends, but I feel distant from them. As shitty as it is to admit, I feel like people think we’re closer than I do. Sometimes I think this …

TL;DR: I moved to a new country and invited a coworker (married with a kid) to be my roommate. We got along well, and I thought we had a genuine connection. On my birthday, no one showed up, but he of…

I think the real question is, do you want to be in a relationship that’s always on their terms? You’d be doing things their way, on their timetable, and your needs would be at best pushed aside, and a…

right its so easy to forget that!! i think this especially trips me up when the other person is super busy and doesnt respond to texts as quickly as id like them to, even if there is a perfectly valid…

I’ll also add the bit about people pleasing is a learning strategy, me included as a woman, if I don’t initiate and keep connection alive with girls there will be no friendship, I have a couple of fri…

If you're taking 2+ days to reply to a message I can see why the guy thinks you forgot about him and try to keep the conversation going by asking more questions. Most guys will assume that the wome…

the easiest and best way to move on with your life is going no contact. As if the person never existed in the first place. As good as dead, hence, forgotten.

easiest and best way to move on with your life is going full on no contact. As if the person never existed in the first place. As good as dead, hence, forgotten. I like that and applaud that, wish l h…

Apart from the mentioned survivorship bias I believe we have our human memory to thank for: lots of mundane things get forgotten over time which means that instead of "we met and then argued and then …

Heartbreak usually consumes me and I count the days until one day I wake up and I've basically forgotten about it. Usually around three months (I haven't had a long relationship in almost a decade). I…

Literally went to grab an item from my ex's porch yesterday cos he'd forgotten to return it when he got me a bag with all my stuff. I appreciated the fact even if he clearly wants to go no contact he …

It seems like no matter what amount of good you did for someone in the past, it doesn't matter. Why? Because when someone is captured by their negative emotions, their evaluation of you is solely …

I dunno, I've shut the app down before and forgotten that I was matched with someone I wanted to keep in contact with. If you liked her, I'd say go for it. If she's sketchy, other sketchy things will …

After living in NYC for twenty years, I've definitely re-dated more than a few people. A few I had completely forgotten (I have a predilection for crashing motorcycles). I remember two, one spent th…

Every single time I ask a man on a dating app out, he ends up ghosting or cancelling at the last minute. This has happened 6 or 7 times now. So i've stopped doing it. If he doesn't ask me out in the f…

Past couple of weeks have been tough. I've been seeing a guy since mid Jan. Saw him a total of 8 times in the first four weeks. He's sweet and respectful, good communicator, good cook, we generally …

Ha, you and me both. In fact, I had forgotten that the Boston Massacre and the Boston Tea Party happened with Uranus in Taurus. It's crazy to think that we're seeing the signature of our most literall…

Haha yeah this made me remember stuff from childhood I had forgotten. Why the fuck was my mom saying I was abusive I was like 7 💀

That's not an issue of devaluing sex, but of bad/lacking sex ed and sometimes access to protection and testing. Sex has no inherent value, and that's exactly by assigning it this moral value that we …

I am offering my thoughts in hopes that something somewhere might help you see things in a new light. This will be long and I will take no offense if you don't read it. >Unfortunately, I think for th…

You never know the quality of the people in your life until you need them. You have been done a favour. These two people have removed themselves from your life. Don’t judge new people by their actions…

Check into what his attorney retainer amount was. Often times they will throw a large retainer to the attorney (more than necessary) as it is often forgotten. For example: he gave his attorney $50k …

The same paragraph in the Bible that says to honor thy father and mother ALSO has a passage "and fathers do not aggrieve your children" but that part is often 'forgotten' because it doesn't help the a…

I effectively doxed my narcissist ex-wife after our marriage ended due to her low-key cheating and lying. I won't go into detail how I did this in the open forum but it was enough to have my narcissis…

That's actually very thoughtful of you; I had totally forgotten about the important papers part. Well my dad won't fully sabotage me alone because he himself want me to go abroad to study for my bac…

In Dolores Cannons books short grays are mostly organic robotic beings and the tall grays are like a nurse that calms the experiencer down. There’s a good book by a life long grays experiencer Sherry …

Definitely not gender-specific. 47F here and it felt like pulling teeth when I was on the apps. My rule of thumb is I ask two questions, if by the second response there's still no question back, I end…

I think there's a few things that might help here. Maybe a little of BPD as well as Co-Dependency and possibly some PTSD. Firstly, co-dependents need to be really careful around aggressive egos. It c…

You're right. It probably wasn't created for that purpose, but it's certainly how it's used. We're in the middle of a fascist pushback against intellectualism (and reality itself), so this shit is com…

it's a hard one. I feel like I've recovered enough to be open to it, and I miss the companionship, but honestly I'd rather preserve my peace than risk inviting another monster into my home. I know the…

I get being picky. I've had lingering feelings about my ex. Both despise her and love her (who she was not who she is now). It gets very confusing and I've reached out to her too much (she's too cowa…

I have very similar issues about not feeling. I found through some intense therapy that when I’m not feeling anything it’s because if I did, the feelings would be too overwhelming, so, I feel nothing.…

My husband has been overweight for years. He has also been up and down, loses it then gains it back on. Im not attracted to overweight men and I have openly told him this too in the hopes that it wil…

Can you expand on what you mean? :) I forgot to add to my post that this actually returned randomly (UPDATE: have added this now) - as in - when it first started kicking in again I never had the thou…

"Poor Aunt Jo", I'd text back, "I didn't realize you had progressed so far into dementia that you've forgotten how my father viciously beat his own daughter. I'm sure that if you had recalled it, you …

Near Christmas in 2014. It was a difficult year - my dad passed away and I was diagnosed with a chronic, incurable illness. I had very little money and was struggling. I received a check in the mail f…

I found something in my current reality to enjoy and was in a state of gratefulness for that instead of thinking about wherever else I wanted to be. Then I got to enjoy twice as much as the other thin…