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My 71 year old mother escalated to throwing objects at me tonight because I started vacation from work

My 71 year old mother escalated to throwing objects at me tonight because I started vacation from work — Quick intro: I'm a 49-year-old man earning \~$225K/year, living with my 71-year-old mother in a house that's fully paid off. I'm planning to move out within the next few weeks. You can see the post hi…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/2/2026
I got ghosted and I feel blindsided

I got ghosted and I feel blindsided — I (26F) met a guy (26M) 3 months ago who was in every sense of the word my dream guy. We spent 1 week together before he left back to his country. Ever since we have Facetimed every single day, and we…

r/attachment_theorypost4/20/2025
Dr Joseph Murphy's view on the Bible

Dr Joseph Murphy's view on the Bible — Did Dr Joseph Murphy believe the people in the Bible to be actual living people? or just states of mind? I have these books: * The Power of Your Subconscious Mind * The Cosmic Power Within You * You…

r/JosephMurphypost1/18/2026
Have your parents ever given you an illusion of choice?

Have your parents ever given you an illusion of choice? — My mom gave me a choice today, but in reality it felt more of an illusion. We were stuck inside a diner as we had no umbrella for around 45 minutes. By the time the rain had stopped, I was already ha…

r/EmotionalNeglectpost3/12/2026
Being forced to become smarter than them because they are dumb as hell

Being forced to become smarter than them because they are dumb as hell — My Indian parents turned out be really really dumb. Their problem solving skill is terrible. My father is the worst, he is a utter brainlet. All he does is work all day. No socializing, no nothing. Ju…

r/AsianParentStoriespost3/12/2026
How Neville Manifested His Marriage - Do Not Meddle In The Middle.

How Neville Manifested His Marriage - Do Not Meddle In The Middle. — **For Those Who Need...** From Neville's Audio Lecture. The verbatim from Neville's Lecture (*Updated*) : *“When I decided to marry the lady who now bears my name I applied this principle. At the t…

r/nevillegoddardpost3/27/2026
NC since christmas. got ambushed at easter. abuser parent showed her colors infront of family(socially), first time ever. need emotional support. (struggling to come to terms with MBP,/captivity /starvation abuse and abusers complete refusal to acknowledge)

NC since christmas. got ambushed at easter. abuser parent showed her colors infront of family(socially), first time ever. need emotional support. (struggling to come to terms with MBP,/captivity /starvation abuse and abusers complete refusal to acknowledge) — to preface , id like to say some of my story/past (although, for those of u who are regular here im sure u have seen some of my olde rposts from 2 years ago) the easter incident will be at the bottom…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/8/2026
My arguments against manifestation

you can do it correctly all you want - it has to be permanent in you SM, and in response slowly changes your CM that you even start forgetting about desire. How many times you want want want smth, and…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/24/2025
What are the signs to spot a DA or FA in early talking stage?

Not necessary, but I think it's common - Not wanting to share anything. My ex didn't want to share many details about themselves, even in the beginning, when things were great. And I said: it's okay, …

r/attachment_theorycomment5/20/2025
Do narcs enjoy kissing?

my nex started to make disgusting faces after kissing me. he said it was because I am a smoker, but when we started to date he told me it didn't bother him. I eventually stopped smoking (after four y…

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment3/9/2026
Tips for attracting left-leaning men?

I'll use myself as an example.  I voted for DJT in 16, 20, and 24.  Because to me he was a better choice than Hillary, Biden, or Kamala.  I believe in the concept of "Making America Great Again"…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/12/2026
why are they able to put in more effort with the affair partner than in their own relationship?

Wow!! I am so sorry you had to go through that. Why are they like this? It doesn't make any sense to me at all. My ex was the same way!! He said lip filler was gross, said piercings were "trashy", n…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/14/2026
My girlfriend tells long, detailed work stories every day after I get home exhausted. 25M-23F, 6 months.

As I said: we know each other, our political convictions, views on society, favorite artists etc... intimately. And I am indeed more interested in how my kids' day went, what they did with their frien…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/17/2026
Share your most insane ‘money just appeared’ story

My father had a health issue and I had to pay his hospital and caretaker. It was around 4.500 in my currency. I had to pay upfront, and used the money I had on the company bank account (my company btw…

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/22/2026
Mom wants to review financials with me 2x a year to receive my inheritance

This is a pretty typical narcissist control attempt/tactic. She's dangling inheritance in front of you while claiming she wants to "review your financials" in order to be ok with giving it to you; in …

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/23/2026
Help! Feeling dread and doomed after sessions.

Huh? Sounds like you are making assumptions here. Families of autistic children tend to have higher anxiety than most parents, so it’s recommended to seek professional help even if you are mentally he…

r/gatewaytapescomment3/26/2026
Has anyone dated a lot and kind of regret it?

Of course he is! A very tall, good looking father at my son’s library class asked me out. I was all excited until I found out that he only has his child every other weekend.  He said: let me explain.…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/26/2026
What Standards to Reduce?

You need to add: takes care of his children if he had any. Met a gorgeous, 6’3 dad with thick hair. Our kids got to the same music “class.” He asked me out. I said, I am busy, but available on…do you…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/27/2026
Is there a safe, low-key way to tap into sexual energy using meditation?

As I said: I’m often low energy and I feel like this would help. As context I’ve practiced meditation for decades. I’m really interested specifically in channeling this energy into work, so it’s for a…

r/Meditationcomment4/6/2026
my gf (24F) wants me (25M) to go into our first home purchase but won't define her financial contribution, wants shared ownership and is thinking about breaking up with me because I don't have a "provider" mentality

I am laughing so hard! I had a GF explain how she expected the finances to work and it sounded *just like your GF!* I listened carefully because she was very thorough, about who would save money …

r/relationship_advicecomment4/6/2026
Do Vietnamese families have a lot of generational trauma?

Yes, which is why I said: "Man, that sounds like many families beside refugees."

r/AsianAmericancomment4/6/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - April 06, 2026

I mean, your argument actually agreed with what I said: if people aren’t or can’t properly represent themselves and dating is performative then dating profiles do flatten people. So, same conclusion d…

r/datingoverthirtycomment4/7/2026
What did your parents hear when you confronted them about your upbringing?

What I said: “It’s hard to spend time around you because I’m constantly on edge and feel responsible for everyone’s feelings” What they heard: You don’t want to spend time with us?😱

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment4/8/2026
What are some double binds you remember from growing up?

I don't remember that much of my childhood, most of it is a blur.. but I can remember very vividly, a "double bind", that my (what I believe to be) narcissistic mother, presented to me, as an adult. …

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/10/2026
Help me cut a cord with my ex

That's very different to what we are talking about here and my response was specifically for the OP, that's why I was using the word "you" instead of "a person". Also in my experience the things fro…

r/energy_workcomment4/12/2026