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Infidelity laws exist and are on the books in a lot of states. Even if it doesn't get prosecuted as a "crime" it will be used against you in the divorce proceedings. 🤣 I love my lawyer!! ❤️
E-commerce Industry News Recap 🔥 Week of May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/ecommerce \- I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter. Every week for the past 3+ years I've posted a summary recap of the week's top stories…
This Week's Top E-commerce News Stories 💥 May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/Shopify - I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter, which I've published weekly since 2021. I was invited by the Mods of this subreddit to s…
Fed up with scattered UK property data, I built an AI tool that combines everything into one smart search — **What It Does** This is an internal tool I’ve been building to help with UK property prospecting, market research, and deal due diligence. If you've ever tried to buy or invest in property in the U…
Struggling with wondering where life went wrong without a "defining moment" — I struggle with wondering where my life went wrong. I have good parents, had a good childhood, got good grades, had friends, went to college, etc. However, I've never been in a healthy romantic relati…
I feel like I am probably wasting my potential because of family and not making a decision that I should?! — Today I was just enjoying the day. The weather felt quite warmer than few days ago. Love the spring season! Then I started wondering... Started thinking like how I feel that I am at a stage where i sh…
My mom who disowned my for being gay is ready to forgive me, oh and for me to financially support her and my dad after he retires of course. — I don’t speak to any of my family anymore because they disowned me for being gay after i was outed. It hurt at the time but honestly the more time i spent away from them the more i realized how awful …
I am 18F and I’m exhausted dealing with my Indian mom who practically worships her narcissistic, manipulative younger brother and lets him control my life while treating me like garbage. — My mom (44F) has two younger brothers. The one I’m talking about is the middle child. He’s married and has a 10-year-old daughter. In my opinion he is one of the most narcissistic, selfish, and arroga…
I made my husband confess to OBS and here’s what happened — For your education and entertainment purposes, this is the story of what happened when I forced my husband to confess to OBS. Quick backstory: (you can read the full post on my profile) my husband h…
My ex-husband is engaged, 5 months after our divorce. — My ex-husband is now engaged to the girl he began dating a few weeks after our divorce was final. We had been separated/divorced (we said we were divorced as soon as we decided - at that point it was …
I need people to let me know if I should seek professional help — Hi, for my own privacy let me tell you that I am not an adult but I am not a child either. I have a small fear that I might have a psychotic disorder or I might do something bad later in life. In shor…
She turned sunlight into homework. I left her house years ago. My mind still hasn't. — The sun came out today. And the first thing I felt wasn't warmth. It was guilt. A full-body, immediate, almost chemical reaction: *you should be outside. You should be using this. You're wasting it.*…
Help me understand something...I am literally a victim of multiple gropings, physical abuse, a knife assault, rape and other crimes. How can I be "playing a victim role" if I am constantly placed in one? — What is up with people dehumanizing victims of trauma on social media and in real fucking life? For my very first relationship I was in a DV relationship and was beat for 3 years. I got groped as a …
17F, my parents read my private chats out loud and still don’t trust me 2 years later — I’m 17F, and something happened 2 years ago that my parents still haven’t let go of. Back when I was in 10th grade, I started talking to a guy online. It was just casual at first, and within a few da…
Stop Asian Hate's iconic victim Grandpa Vicha's murderer Antoine Watson is going to walk free now without punishment — [article 1](https://www.nbcbayarea.com/news/local/grandpa-vicha-sentencing-murder-case/4058429/) [article 2](https://www.cbsnews.com/sanfrancisco/news/granpa-vicha-killing-san-francisco-suspect-relea…
April 2026 Astrology: Key Dates, Weekly Forecast and Mundane Astrology World Events — April is one of the most active months we’ve seen. Not one planet is in retrograde. Aries fire and cardinal energy sets the stage for initiation, assertion and spontaneous energy. There is a bit of na…
stop calling abuse survivors “strong” when what we needed was help — stop calling abuse survivors “strong” when what we needed was help whenever an abuse survivor shares their story, people respond with things like “you’re so strong”, “you’re so resilient”, “that’s in…
Was anyone else raised in a household which was non-religious but *felt* religious? — I mean no disrespect to anyone who has positive experiences with religion - I'm talking about shame, unquestionable dogma, and fear of making a single mistake because you'd be a bad or sinful person. …
Realising I was raised in a non-religious household that *felt* really religious. Anyone else? — I mean no disrespect to anyone who has positive experiences with religion - I'm talking about shame, unquestionable dogma, and fear of making a single mistake because you'd be a bad or sinful person. …
Why is it so wrong to date and have a bf/gf while being legally separated? — I hear all the time that dating is wrong and none would be interested in me since I am still living my wife and separated. I will be moving out soon but were stuck together amicably until the house is…
The house is empty again — Hey all, The ex just picked up our kids, and I’m definitely hurting a little bit tonight. Give me your top few comfort movies, or comfort musicians, or even documentaries that helped you to get throu…
I finally told my mom the truth in front of everyone and now she’s acting like i ruined her life — so this happened last weekend at my cousin’s birthday, whole family packed into this tiny apartment, kids running around, people pretending to enjoy dry cake my mom was in one of her moods, you know t…
I get back at my mom by stealing her money — My mom is emotionally immature and most of the time unavailable when it comes to emotional stuff . In her eyes , as long as she makes enough money to put food on the table and keep a roof over our hea…
Bullied Out of my Family — I've never fit in with my family. My mom had post postpartum depression, so she didn't really love or connect with me as a baby. She struggled a lot and had no support network, so I don't blame her fo…
How do I (f19) navigate moving on from my ex(f20) so quickly while my friends think I’m a bad person for it? — I broke up with my girlfriend of 7 months yesterday and a majority of the relationship felt like a friendship to me, so I’m not particularly attached to her in a romantic way or a way that one would b…
Support needed. Last year at this time I had a crisis and ended up being victimised multiple times — ​ Last year between April and May I had a crisis and I started breaking away from abuse (reiterated s.abuse). When you try to break free from abuse, a lot of things can happen, but I never tho…
Tips for when they won't negotiate in good faith? — Typical abusive dynamic being spun as mutual high conflict, but I'm a licensed mental health professional so when I say I am divorcing a covert abuser who may actually fit the definition of a pedophil…
I am genuinely horrified that I have commited the worst crimes a person can commit. — My mind is in such a dark place that it legitimately makes my chest hurt. My OCD has gotten so bad that I obsess and have unwanted thoughts and urges about every possible taboo. Incest, p#dophilia, z…
How to get over resentment “27f” “30m” — How do you get over resentment? “27f” “30m” Posting on a throwaway because I don’t want this getting back. Anyway, I’ve been with my fiancé for 5 years. Our biggest issue has always been communicati…
Jury Duty triggered my CPTSD and turned the day into a humiliation ritual — TW: mentions of domestic abuse and attempted unaliving I'm not sure if this is the place to post something like this but sometimes in order to cope and make myself feel better, I write it all out an…
Can I confess my most messed up secrets to my therapist — I am planning on seeking therapy. Some of the wrongdoings in the past, while not illegal as they were thought crimes or did not affect others, are something I regret very deeply. If you could read my …
I had a lucid dream where i woke up from the simulation. — I was having a random lucid dream, and then I felt like I had to wake up. But instead, I woke up in an even more “lucider” dream. I was in a completely different place. There were humans like us, b…
Be Gentle with Yourself — I'm writing this to myself, and everyone else who went through or is still going through something similar: *Be gentle with yourself* You did everything you were capable of doing at the time, with…
Written Chinese names for Korean/Japanese/Vietnamese people - Do you systematically follow this tradition? — As a Taiwanese person who has always had a written Chinese name, I find it charming to see how my Japanese/Korean/Vietnamese acquaintances' names can be formatted in Chinese characters, compatible wit…
Can’t watch love stories — I posted here before that I lost faith in love, and somehow when I read other people’s stories and they are full of pain and I’ve experienced that before but this time it’s different, like something d…
Asian American hate crimes have increased 195% (the 3rd most over the last 10 years). Only outpaced by Anti-Latino and Anti-Trans hate crimes. — Yet we’re still thriving throughout this country coast-to-coast *and making no excuses*. So no, we’re not making up ”Asian hate” the next time anybody wants to say that. If anything, they’re probably…
Asian American hate crimes have increased 195% (the 3rd most over the last 10 years). Only outpaced by Anti-Latino and Anti-Trans hate crimes. — Yet we’re still thriving throughout this country coast-to-coast *and making no excuses*. So no, we’re not making up ”Asian hate” the next time anybody wants to say that. If anything, they’re probably…
Narc Abuse - Coercive Control - Police — I’m from England. Coercive Control is now a criminal offence here. I left 1.5 years ago as he slept, four days later got the most brutal discard (all the things he promised he wouldn’t do), silent tre…
Has anyone else felt this way? How do you manage this kind of guilt? — Please help, I can't take this panic, anxiety, and pain anymore. I think the hardest part of trying to stop being codependent is the dizziness I feel when I stop making myself responsible for that pe…
An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next? — I have been with Jason for just over 3 years and I have never had any concerns or any obvious red flags about his behavior. He has always been very respectful to me throughout all our relationship. We…
Trying to live in a way that does not perpetuate negative stereotypes of people with CPTSD or other mental illnesses — These days, because of the internet, people are more aware than ever about toxic behaviors, crime, misogyny/misandry, "red flags", and so on. It is a good thing when society becomes aware of problems …
Oh boy do I love being exploited(Long rant, life story, lots of heavy stuff) — Hi, new here. I'll just go ahead and describe my relationship with my parents and my general environment, cuz I've been stuck in a cycle of depression and toxic optimism since childhood. For conte…
Single occurrence memory lapse of 3 weeks — ok so I have a pretty good memory, both short and long term. I remember what I ate for breakfast last week and I remember my childhood since I was 3. I’m a Russian immigrant (moved to US when I was al…
My ex moved on in 2 weeks — I was dating this guy for almost a year and he was going to move in with me when he told me he was cheating on me the entire time with a girl he told me was his friend. She had a bf so I didn’t think …
My mother died and I'm finally free, I'm just scared I'm too old — I'm kind of nervous to say this because I can't help feel like an imposter here, my mother wasn't all that abusive after all, but now she's dead I can't help but feel like she caused me a lot of harm.…
Update: An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next? — Original post is on my account, but a TLDR is an anonymous person messaged me saying that my boyfriend (Jason) was arrested in his early twenties for, well it’s difficult for me to say, but the messag…
I'm a Taiwanese-American scientist running for Congress in CA-32. Another candidate called me a Chinese spy and asked a rival campaign to act on it. Here are all the receipts. — **Edit 2**: The full unedited video of the forum I attended on April 8, 2026, less than two hours after seeing the March 5-6 texts from Anna Wilding is now live on YouTube. I showed up, I did my job, …
I don't even know. — this is gonna be pretty jumbled. sorry in advance i have family, that have such a detachment when it comes to sexual abuse. most of the women in my family have been abused. I was by my adopted sibli…
am i hiding too much from my parents??? — so i'm 14f Indian and I've always had a lot of boundaries set for myself and one of them is privacy. I've always been a private person and would only open up to someone if it was someone I trust. I'…
TRIGGER WARNING DV/SA 19 years kept it secret and dealing with dysmorphia, flashbacks, and other effects — TRIGGER WARNING DV/SA 19 years of silence, I'm breaking free Trigger Warning DV/SA ***DO NOT READ BELOW IF YOU TRIGGER EASILY OR ARE NOT SAFE RIGHT NOW*** Hey everyone. I spent the last 19 yea…
Bridge of incidents - I got my house! — I was manifesting a house for me and my daughters. I wrote a post about it on here. You can go into my past posts to read (it the one where i wrote about finally understanding my self concept. I was…
That’s amazing and encouraging!!! Is it about true crime?
Haha we like to have fun that's no crime.
Ghosting is one of the most mind-fucking and cruel things you could do to someone. If the apology isn't matching the crime, don't bother. And his tone is giving "sorry i burnt down ur house hehe" like…
When I find myself caught in an anxious spiral, these are the things I've found that help me most: 1) Get moving - I pop in my earbuds, turn on a true crime podcast to engage my brain, put the leash …
I disagree with most commenters here, I think it's quite normal to want to feel safe in a way where you can trust your partner to be level-headed and decisive in a crisis in case you become incapacita…
An incredible poem — thank you for sharing. Here's a contribution. Vibe is a little more optimistic, perhaps speaking of the moment before beginning healing. Everything is Waiting for You David Why…
Stop doing oppression olympics. It’s not a competition. It doesn’t matter who “has it worse.” Suffering is suffering. Everyone, regardless of gender, suffers under the patriarchy or kyriarchy or whate…
A break from the apps is never a bad thing. I would always encourage it! By the way…what was the doc?? Haha. I’m always watching documentaries. Whether true crime or any other
I had virtually no breaks where I wasn't talking to someone or actively dating someone after my divorce for years and I think in retrospect it's really delayed my healing and I probably should have ta…
Maybe I've listened to too much true crime, but it sounds like you might have dodged a catfish 👀. One way or another, plenty of red flags.
This is so weird to me! Do people really just keep all of their thoughts to themselves and not send them to their best friends and/or boyfriends? 🤔 See how I couldn’t even keep this question unasked?…
Watched Crime 101 last night and the man next to me smelled soooo good. I didn’t see his face but the scent automatically made him seem more attractive. Fellas, make sure you smell nice on your date…
Because in my experience as an attorney, certain crimes are far, far higher in terms of recidivism rates and there is a mountain of research indicating that certain crimes are the result of behaviors …
Because details will matter. Someone who have been in prison for a long time doesn't go there for petty crimes. So if we are asking if society can accept him that will depend what a crime was.
Lover, paramour, partner in crime
Love - depending on the state you live in (in the US) it is battery or even sexual assault to do what he did. It is actually a crime.
You can’t commit half a crime - it’s still a crime. However, I can’t speak to outside of the US. I am sorry someone did that to you. The ultimate betrayal. Jeopardizing someone’s health is evil.
That’s no excuse for non disclosure. Saying - I didn’t know this was a crime is not a defense.
Makes sense on why you are sad. Loss of life is sad. Knowing someone is in that deep of sadness is sad. I will say survivors guilt is normal even if you don’t know the person, you wonder if you could …
Pumped and dumped. He ended it the day after he slept with me because I am friends with a guy I’ve slept with. Who he knows, sort of, distantly. Who he outright told me he was okay with me being frie…
Oh no I'm not saying he should come, just that he should dress up and maybe he'd see the fun in it 🤣 he can arrest you when you get home for the crime of being a good friend lol
Lol. That's rich. You talk about the imperialist war machine but conveniently leave out Communist China, their slave labor practices, experiments against humanity, restriction on freedom of speech, th…
I'm not saying what you've brought up are wrong. But isn't it rather fallacious to argue the fault in the lack of mentioning such topics in an Asian AMERICAN sub? Why, cause they look the part? If so,…
It is a virus with serious consequences - the true extent remains unknown. But, we will be downvoted into oblivion on this board which is wild. It does explain why there are so many singles on this …
lol out of all the things you could say, this is the one you landed on? How do we go from mere disagreements to talking about war crimes lmao. Like there has to be a better way to discuss these things…
This sounds like a group I've encountered that I refer to as pseudo-mantids. [I talk about my experiences with them in this comment, as well as my observations on and thoughts/opinions about them.](ht…
> I've dealt with plenty of black supremacy, but you don't want to talk about that either now do you? Black on black crime - silence. why don’t u talk about it; let’s see how much more racist you can…
He may have to try to think outside the box. Something is better than nothing. He may join a few Reddit Australian type subs and who knows. Australia only makes up less than 4% of Reddit. Or oth…
Just say you are a woman hater OP. In this patriarchal society, it is majorly women who are taken advantage of. Be it unpaid labor at home or allowed polygamy for men or being cheated on. Though it is…
Depending on where in the world you are, They can get the carrier to track the origins of the messages and find the culprits. Using a telco to harass is a federal crime in many places.
I straight unmatched I guy I liked first, who had “partner in crime, a muse….” Basically the live, laugh, love but dating profile version. He finally pops up- any exciting plans for this week? Despit…
What I believe is the perpetrators suffer in this life only but it is not as visible as the victim. What goes around comes around and the price for the pathetic acts which the perpetrators have commit…
Press charges on that woman he’s having an affair with and contact their place of employment and tell them what she is doing. Your husband might lose his job though. If anything, I’d press charges on …
You should worry a little about the finances... But if they were divorced and got stuck with the debt or with the house payment etc that works out long term... But yeah they may not be able to take fa…
I had a friend like that. We are merely acquaintances now. Everyone makes mistakes. This is not a crime of passion. It’s planned, methodical, and hurtful. > bragging about how this guy is obses…
All of that would be reasonable and I would generally agree with you, except that the current republican party is a threat to the basic fundamentals of our nation, eager grifters, and willing partici…
Yah that seems like the start of a bad true crime series " Fear Thy Boyfriend " trapped in a Blockbuster maze.
I stopped seeing a woman who would quietly say "sinners" under her breath in a hushed, quiet voice every time we had sex. It didn't make sense to me because she was not, as far as I knew, religious. S…
My comfort movies are John Carpenter’s The Thing, Blade Runner and Alien. The aesthetic and lighting of the movies soothe me. Also crime documentaries and things like Law and Order and CSI help me red…
Exactly. A lot of true crime focuses almost entirely on the killer, their psychology, childhood, motives, and the victims end up almost secondary in their own story. When the focus shifts back to the…
https://preview.redd.it/xy1r69512fog1.jpeg?width=1486&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=da3b78e464465d080fa6c7e4521357a0096811ae I saved this from a different discussion on LNY/CNY but you can see how LNY(Red)…
💯💯💯 Your post is something that I wish every single person could read. This is my exact experience after years in the court system trying to get away from a malignant narcissist psychopath. The c…
I'm sorry, she wasn't a very developed human, and the years lost create a hole so big you don't know if it will ever get filled. But, love yourself, heal yourself. Its ok to dissect what happened to …
Perhaps “Sinospheric”or just simply “Sino”? It’s the only phrase that exists to mean “East Asia + Vietnam”. We are already familiar with seeing it describing Sino-Vietnamese, Sino-Korean, and Sino…
Abuse and Exploitation is and always unacceptable to all minors, regardless of race! This subreddit was created to be positive and uplifting to asian Americans. Ask yourself what is the point of this?…
Que bom ler o relato de vocês ; estou a apenas alguns meses sem contato e essa dúvida também é minha ; mas a cada dia que melhoro minha vida sem contato sinto que é isso que devo continuar fazendo; co…
There's nothing wrong with you. Don't listen to a bunch of randos online who enjoy telling people they're the AH. People are way too sensitive and triggered. If you feel guilty, that just means you'r…
No regrets. Went NC in 2015 at age 42, nFIL is still with us but nMIL passed two years ago. We got the “deathbed” phone call that turned out to be a false alarm about a year (maybe two?) before nMIL…