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54M – Going through a separation and just looking for people who understand

You're the same age as my LDR partner, who I met on this sub. We've been together for 14 months. We've definitely had those ups and downs regarding the afterlife of our respective ended marriages. Ou…

r/Divorcecomment3/9/2026
Trust issues & emotional problems. me[18M] gf[18F]

Trust issues & emotional problems. me[18M] gf[18F] — Me and my long distance girlfriend have been dating for over 2 years. We live in different countries and have never met in real life; however, we are planning on it. There have been very rocky momen…

r/relationshipspost4/7/2026
Do your n-parents love your shitty siblings more?

Do your n-parents love your shitty siblings more? — As the title says, my mother loves my siblings more, one of whom has a ton of debt, and the other have child with who she doesn't know who. My mother flat out says she loves them more. When I ask why,…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/7/2026
If you are new here..

a) law of assumption, not law of belief. And where did you get the other descriptions from? I've been on Neville sub for a while, literally noone describes the law in those words or speak in a spiritu…

r/JosephMurphycomment2/18/2022
Dressing To Impress For Dates (And Everyday Life)

It reeeeally depends on the venue and the time of day, for me. If the first date is at a nicer restaurant for dinner, I’ll come in a dress, or dress pants and a cute blouse, heels etc. BUT if the firs…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/5/2026
Thoughts on dating people who are legally married (but separated)?

This is extremely none of your business. If your friend cared they wouldn't date them. How you feel is immaterial 

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/6/2026
Nmom wants an invite to my wedding or she is going to divorce my dad

What is going on between your dad and nmom is none of your business, because that is not your marriage to manage. She shouldn’t be putting any of that on you and none of it is your fault. Please try t…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/10/2026
She started hooking up with multiple guys right after our break-up...

Well, I know it's difficult and I'm sorry this is happening to you. Everyone copes differently and this is her way to "get over you". you've got to think that 'she's none of your business anymore'. …

r/BreakUpscomment3/11/2026
My (19f) boyfriend (19m) keeps telling me I’m at high risk of diabetes. How do I address this?

Just because someone sounds confident doesn't mean they're right. In fact, the dumbest, most wrong people are extremely confident. Why would you trust his stupid opinion over your own? It's good yo…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/12/2026
32 years of marriage, but I'm still unsettled by an affair from 2006. Is it too late to ask for the truth?

Did she ever apologise or be remorseful about what she did admit to? It comes across like she’s told you to get over and it’s kinda none of your business.

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/14/2026
Some men have questionable hygiene and it has made dating even more challenging than it already is.

Fair enough, but hear me out. This is a bit of a rant and I’m not trying to sound judgmental, I’m trying to explain why this would turn ME off. First of all, I can’t stand these types of questions an…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/15/2026
How to have a helpful conversation when you feel something is wrong.

As I see it, you don't have the right to tell another person what to do with her body OR how to engage with her religion. These are centrally important boundaries for any individual. You can express…

r/therapycomment3/15/2026
My ex wife changed after the divorce and I don’t want her back but I am angry

OP: please learn to understand at least the basic how woman operate/think/behavior in general. Your comment, honestly, already explained to us all on reddit, and it's why your ex behaves like that. …

r/Divorcecomment3/17/2026
My (29M) prenup with my fiance (28W) pays her for having children. My parents (65M, 62W) are telling me to call off the wedding

It’s giving enmeshment. Your parents might have had no reaction to this but they just wanna back your sister in her huge overreaction. Draw a firm boundary that this is none of your business and tell …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/17/2026
Struggling with Chinese In Laws

I've never been married but I broke it off with my (now ex) boyfriend because of his traditional Chinese parents (I'm Chinese myself). I was given a lot of valuable advice while figuring out how to na…

r/AsianParentStoriescomment3/18/2026
r/datingoverfortycomment3/23/2026
My ex destroyed his life after we broke up

Honey I am so sorry you went through all this but while reading your story i couldn't help but notice how much you allowed him to use you because you're way too kind that it's becoming du...mb to be h…

r/BreakUpscomment3/25/2026
My slut shaming parents

I'm going to assume you are born in 2009 and it's what it explains your red pilled comment. It's really none of your business :) Imagine telling your coworker to stop slesping around, you'd be immedi…

r/AsianParentStoriescomment3/26/2026
What Happened?

If she's going through something I'd leave it and forget about it. It's not you. If you're worried it's someone else, maybe. But that's also none of your business in that's out of your control. Pers…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/27/2026
She started hooking up with multiple guys right after our break-up...

The good news is that you don't have to waste any time thinking you have a chance to get back together. Its also none of your business what she does after a breakup

r/BreakUpscomment3/29/2026
I 22F found my fitness instructor’s 27F gf on hinge

If they didn't potentially want someone in their business maybe they wouldn't have used such a widely prolific dating app that runs the risk of bleeding into normie culture. Not sure how clarifying th…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/30/2026
I 22F found my fitness instructor’s 27F gf on hinge

This is literally none of your business.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/30/2026
r/relationship_advicecomment3/31/2026
I 24 f got a dm that I think is about my 28 m husband and idk what to do. How can I bring this up to him without sounding accusatory?

You spy on him?? You kinda deserve what you're feeling right now about that DM. It's none of your business .

r/relationship_advicecomment4/1/2026
Found out my friends are covering for a cheater

People on Reddit will tell you “it’s none of your business,” or “not your circus, not your monkeys.” But I firmly believe that you are a reflection of who you choose to spend time with. I have cut lo…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/2/2026
My (25f) neighbor (29f) believes she is miraculously pregnant

It’s none of your business, even if it comes from a place of caring.

r/relationship_advicecomment4/3/2026
My (25f) neighbor (29f) believes she is miraculously pregnant

Yeah, OP! It's none of your business if your neighbor (and possibly friend) is going through a mental health crisis! It's better to just let her die on her own.

r/relationship_advicecomment4/3/2026
I found out what my girlfriend is talking about behind my back with ChatGPT M24, F27

Her GPT chats are like a therapist patient confidentiality. It’s not meant to be “true” or pondered by anyone else. Don’t internalize any of it. What someone else thinks about you is none of your bu…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/3/2026
My ex's new girlfriend is 10 years younger and it's making me spiral about how I look.

Who initiated the divorce? Are there kids? I have no idea whom my ex is dating because I don't care, if she started dating Brad Pitt it wouldn't bother me at all. The fact that you discovered this inf…

r/Divorcecomment4/5/2026
21F and 22M Am I wrong for being frustrated with how my boyfriend supports his family but doesn’t support me the same way?

You need to grow up and learn to be more independent. You should not expect another person to help you out financially. You are not married, therefore what he does with his money is none of your busin…

r/relationshipscomment4/6/2026
21F and 22M Am I wrong for being frustrated with how my boyfriend supports his family but doesn’t support me the same way?

It’s none of your business why and it has nothing to do with you. Get a job. You need to learn how to support yourself. It’s one thing to help out someone out here and there when they need a bit of …

r/relationshipscomment4/6/2026
2 Months Later

As you said, if he knew you had been having doubts, he could have started detaching aswell before the break up even happened, because he grew mentally tired of trying. I also find it funny how you a…

r/BreakUpscomment4/6/2026
They are gonna regret It.

This is a really unhealthy way to look at it. Sometimes they never regret it. And even if they do, why would that matter ? You should only focus on yourself and healing. After you break up it’s none …

r/BreakUpscomment4/6/2026
Be honest — do guys actually move on fast or just act like they do?

It depends, because not all exes are missed equally. But if you meant a lot to me, I’ll probably show it for a bit when it’s really fresh. But I’ll go silent on it once I come to my senses. That do…

r/BreakUpscomment4/6/2026
My best friend (29F) cheated on her husband (29M) with their mutual best friend (29M)

Its none of your business. You can encourage your friend to come clean to her husband, but its not your place to say anything.  Stay out of it. 

r/relationship_advicecomment4/7/2026
My best friend (29F) cheated on her husband (29M) with their mutual best friend (29M)

cheating is the most intimate betrayal. if she cheats on her husband, why would you think you're safe from that level of betrayal? you need to tell him, unfortunately. before she realizes whats up and…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/7/2026
My Parents LIE about their salaries. AND I'm not sure how much they earn. Tell me if My condition is pretty bad.

Your parents lie about their salaries but its also not their obligation to tell you cause it is none of your business... That said they should provide you with things that you need and them not doing…

r/AsianParentStoriescomment4/7/2026
I can’t stop smiling when talking about my cptsd

It's so normal. I do this too. I think it was helpful for me to stop trying to change it. It's how I'm reacting to the trauma. And minimizing, making jokes, fawning, all of those are normal reactions…

r/CPTSDcomment4/8/2026
40F. How do you answer “did you not want kids?” Question? It just didn’t happen for me but I find this so dumb and rude given I’m single.

I’m sorry you get asked that. The proper response unless you are really deep in a relationship is “ That’s none of your business!”

r/datingoverfortycomment4/9/2026
So Had a Honest Talk Today

Only you can answer your questions if and when your fantasy happens. If it's a spark and just happens, why do you think that you have the right to choose between acting jealous of any relationship she…

r/Divorcecomment4/9/2026
My (21F) boyfriend (26M) met my parents and it didn’t go well. I want a strangers opinion on the situation?

You know nothing about me nor my family.I am not going to give you a litany of the sorrows, losses, and grief experienced because it's none of your business. We have been confronted with more challe…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/9/2026
40F. How do you answer “did you not want kids?” Question? It just didn’t happen for me but I find this so dumb and rude given I’m single.

Again, you fail at speaking. "None of your business" is also a valid answer. Blaming others for you not having the confidence to speak your mind is going to get you no further than you are at the mome…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/10/2026
Girlfriend already dating only 4-6 weeks after we broke up.

You are wrong. It is none of your business who she dates. People process the end of relationships differently. You can’t remain friends with someone for whom you have romantic feelings. You CLEARL…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/10/2026
I (32M) had a date with (32F). She went with the other guy?

Guys will turn everything into a debate if they're trying to get sex. First of all, you don't know that she lied. Maybe she did feel a connection with someone and it didn't go well. That still doesn…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/11/2026
How do I [25F] cope with my boyfriend’s [30M] last relationship being 6 years long

Ffs. That relationship is over and really none of your business. What he did before you met is not your concern. You keep up this silliness? You will probably destroy your relationship. Grow up,

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026
Is my therapist innapropiate or am I overly sensitive

I'm a therapist who had C-PTSD and now I treat C-PTSD. I've been practicing since 2010. Do not return to see him. He has helped you as much as he can. His feelings are none of your business. You are …

r/CPTSDcomment4/12/2026
Blocked for what?

So now he's none of your business

r/datingoverfortycomment4/12/2026
What is the best way for I (21F) to go about breaking up with (20M) because I am tired of arguing about the possibility of future kids?

Some people don't have romantic (or sexual) feelings or feel them less than average, but still have the desire for companionship and life partnership. There's a spectrum of desire for humans, some hav…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026
I (M37) am unsure on what to do about my Christian friend (M34) who cheated on his pregnant wife.

> it's none of my business. It's none of your business. Let Amy, John, and Sarah, work it out themselves. Keep your relationship with John as professional and non-personal as possible.

r/relationship_advicecomment4/13/2026