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I (28F) had an affair and don’t know what I’m doing. Please help.

It sounds like what you enjoy with your husband is security. Not who he is, but what he brings and represents. And I say that without negative judgement; it's just how it reads. He is not the one for…

r/Divorcecomment3/9/2026
My (23F) boyfriend (27M) flipped the script on me and I feel hurt

My (23F) boyfriend (27M) flipped the script on me and I feel hurt — My (23F) boyfriend (27M) flipped the script on me today. He told me a boundary that I didn’t take seriously (we weren’t having a serious discussion, he asked me to use a different phrase). I didn’t re…

r/relationshipspost4/7/2026
Making sense of a past relationship, still dealing with the aftermath

Making sense of a past relationship, still dealing with the aftermath — I (F30) am trying to make sense of a past relationship with my ex that lasted a year (M30), because even 7 months later I still feel really stuck, angry, and unable to move on. I keep replaying everyt…

r/NarcissisticAbusepost4/9/2026
Having Far-Right neglect trauma as genz sucks ass. People acknowledge the problems and others bad behavior, but dismiss your experience and symptoms. They can acknowledge online spaces are toxic, but it's your fault that online spaces were the only spaces you had. "Just stop caring and go outside."

Having Far-Right neglect trauma as genz sucks ass. People acknowledge the problems and others bad behavior, but dismiss your experience and symptoms. They can acknowledge online spaces are toxic, but it's your fault that online spaces were the only spaces you had. "Just stop caring and go outside." — Walking to the park, watching the ducks, listening to music only gets you so far. No one in my real life can understand me. Even my therapists have struggled. I’ve lived such a fucky niche life in the…

r/CPTSDpost4/11/2026
Healing is noticing abuse in REAL time.

Yes, I’ve been in addiction recovery (opioids) for the past 8 years or so and have been through all the different modes/styles of therapy. Eventually, I was diagnosed with Complex PTSD caused by nar…

r/Codependencycomment3/10/2026
Healing is noticing abuse in REAL time.

This has been happening in my marriage. I first started calling out bad behavior, but I would back down when he would gaslight me (when I would say I want to be spoken to respectfully, he would say th…

r/Codependencycomment3/10/2026
My wife got pregnant and immediately turned into a completely different person. It’s like she’s trying to destroy me.

My ex had a psychotic break that started during her pregnancy. There was a change right with pregnancy. That’s when she became abusive toward me, but it was anger grounded in reality. As time passed, …

r/Divorcecomment3/14/2026
I (36F) want to eat dinner together every night. Husband (37M) is resisting.

I have ADHD, and cook for and eat with my family. Reddit thinks this is a get out of jail free card for all bad behavior, it’s infuriating.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/17/2026
Burned Haystack: I Break the Rules

I think we’ve gone too far. It’s ok to decide that someone who is bigoted or lazy or just politically juxtaposed needs to be screened out without calling a whole ass method. Burned haystack? More like…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/27/2026
Used to get yelled at for crying

I have a really strong memory of my dad yelling this at us when I was really young, but I have no idea if it actually happened or I am like remembering a TV show or movie I saw too young or something.…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment3/31/2026
This doesn’t make sense to me

It sounds like this guy is just married, married. Not in the process of being unmarried. Don't defend bad behavior, ok?

r/datingoverfortycomment4/3/2026
WP’s friends - I don’t wanna hang

No only should they be cut from your life for lacking morals and encouraging bad behavior, but I would also let their spouses know if they don't already!

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/5/2026
My F24 boyfriend's F26 long term girl best friend F26 confessed to him. Don't know what to do?

OP, go to the party with him, even if you don't want to. Plan to not stay for long. Have a code phrase to leave early or indicate if you don't like her behavior. I think this is the only way to put yo…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/8/2026
My (32f) partner (37m) says I “don’t let him talk,” but he talks in circles for so long that I can’t even respond

Doesnt work. Therapist pointed out the bad behavior, was on my side, and we magically stopped going after 3 sessions lol

r/relationship_advicecomment4/9/2026
My mom is a psychopath with strong narcissistic traits

I want to express my full support to you. I also suspect that my mother has psychotic traits. She lies constantly She always tries to scam people She is in complete denial about her bad behavior, e…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/9/2026
My partner (29m) is upset that I (29f) don’t hold him accountable

Girl call it quit. He is too fucking old to be passing the buck on his bad habits and his bad behavior, plain and simple. He is a grown ass man. He’s damn near 30 years old. He is a narcissist that wi…

r/relationshipscomment4/11/2026