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That's a pretty common experience among a particular demographic of young people. Usually very intelligent (or at least, very academically successful as a younger child), and either a little bit neuro…

My story and where i am at the moment — My girlfriend and I have been happy for two and a half years. Granted, she said I rushed things a little and sometimes she feels like we were winging life. Life was genuinely happy—not perfect, but pe…

Hyper independence from the earliest I can remember. Realising before I was school age that nobody cared about me and if I wanted to feel safe I needed to learn how to stand up for myself. Went from a…

i struggle with this a lot too and i almost always give advice on this as i figured why it didn’t work (for me atleast). to be honest, there isn’t a “bigger” or “smaller” manifestation goal. whats rea…

Interesting. I appreciate your perspective. I still think it’s about control - or withholding or avoidance, or whatever you want to call it. I did not ask this man for sex. I didn’t bring it up. I …

> Guess I’m hoping he would one day realize I am worth it to change I had this thought process for 15 years in a 20 year marriage. I was patient and kind and she was neither. She is OCD and I was not…