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HOW TO BE HAPPY

r/EmotionalNeglectUpdated 30 days ago
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Do you get given gifts that prove how little they know about you?

Haha yeah I don't hate that! I've told my older sibling he should read it but that would be hilarious. The ones she gives are invariably the "HOW TO BE HAPPY" ones. She's the passive type who spouts e…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment3/24/2026
How to be happy single?

How to be happy single? — Hi all. Im a 20 year old male, never had a gf, and not a very attractive bloke. Ever since I was a wee lad (start of puberty) I had always thought that I'd just be in a relationship out of the blue, …

r/selfhelppost3/31/2026
Spending too much time on Reddit and phone

Spending too much time on Reddit and phone — I spent most of Sunday on my phone or PC using reddit. I don't play video games anymore and now I'm just bored as hell all the time. I constantly ask reddit search engine questions to solve issues in …

r/DecidingToBeBetterpost4/13/2026
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

it’s been a very long time (~2years) since I ended a relationship with someone due to unrequited feelings after a few months of dating and we wanted different things. In those two years I have tried …

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/11/2026
First post here, don't normally do this but I need help. 27M

Me - Childhood trauma (extreme bullying), difficult family (drug addictions, worse), adhd, ex two-times drug addict, left at home at 17, turned my trauma into being the absolute worst version of mysel…

r/selfhelpcomment3/15/2026
Can I be honest? Scrolling through this subreddit is really depressing.

they don’t know, i’ve only been there technically two weeks but i’ve been home with the flu the past week so i guess ive only been there one week. i freaked out because i hit rock bottom and everyone …

r/CPTSDcomment3/18/2026
Being single sucks

I am 44. Dating takes up just as much time in almost any age. So you are complaining that being single sucks with no additional information and then responding that dating takes up too much time? So d…

r/BreakUpscomment3/31/2026
29F 35M Bf giving me an ultimatum for not wanting a dog after 4yrs of being together

He has told you that he is getting a dog no matter what, so it’s up to you to decide whether that’s a dealbreaker for you, or whether you want to try and and figure out how to be happy coexisting toge…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/1/2026
Consistency is KEY

Exactly! I don't like the idea i hear repeated a lot of "why are you even looking for the thing in the 3d if you already are living in the end state?" Because the whole purpose of Neville's teachings …

r/nevillegoddardcomment4/1/2026
The best summary of cptsd ive come across

I have a lot of stories. Many of them have been written down. I had a terrible trauma as a baby. My childhood was a nightmare. My parents were defective and incompetent. I took a lot of acid in colle…

r/CPTSDcomment4/9/2026
If you were diagnosed with a terminal illness today, what would you do differently tomorrow?

Figure out how to be happy with less. Then figure out how to pare away at the unnecessary things. Realize that actual happiness is not tied to things, but rather to people, experiences, mental/physi…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment4/11/2026
What actually pushed you to make the final decision to divorce?

Accept the fact that you can still be good parents beyond the relationship running it's course. There's a sunk cost fallacy to relationships that perpetuate beyond mutusl respect love and care for e…

r/Divorcecomment4/12/2026
Dating makes me feel lonelier than just being single...

Thank you for your point of view. You're probably right that it might bear fruit if I sticked to it... Concerning being happy or not, let's put it this way: I've been more or less single most of my …

r/datingoverfortycomment4/12/2026