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I totally get you. My Ex hasn't remarried, but still sure it's going to hurt the day if it happens. Just thinking about it. It feels and sounds "stupid". Reading your other comments, seems your in th…

Long road to dream job and instant healing. — Bestcub called me to write this, I hope it will be helpful to someone. A story like many others. After years of wandering around shitty loa and other stupid spheres, books and forums I finally start…

How does one go about creating these sorts of animations? — Sorry in advanced if this is a stupid question. I am such a noob when it comes to this sort of stuff. I came across this website ([https://animejs.com/](https://animejs.com/)) which has a really cool…

Lately, it seems like every new client I get is either a weed company or a yoga/spiritual guru. — I’ll trade you for a good old-fashioned plumber or landscaper—seriously, I’m offering a two-for-one deal. Also, a friendly reminder: a yoga mat does *not* make a good logo background. And no, “Namast…

Inappropriate Design Task — I recently did well in an interview and have been given the most wild design task to date that I was made to feel stupid for pushing back on and would like some opinions. I was presented with a 9 pag…

We Fired a Developer But Not Because He Was Bad, But Because He Wasn't Right. Only 2 Legit Reasons to Fire Anyone. (i will not promote) — After building a small team and running a startup for a while, We’ve come to a hard conclusion: There are only two legitimate reasons to fire someone. 1. They are not the right fit for the company.…

Making the entire website a fixed-width — This is probably a stupid question, so I apologize in advance. I am working on a website for my dad that he had someone create back in 2013. Everything is fine so far, but the only problem is that he …

Quick help with CORS error — Hello, This is a stupid question I think I know the answer to, but I'd like confirmation. All the research I've done indicates my gut is right, but I like to check. I'm getting a CORS error when tr…

If you're sending ALL paid traffic to your homepage, you're burning money - here's why — I see this constantly: businesses dropping serious money on paid ads - Google, Meta, Instagram, only to send traffic straight to their homepage. Then they’re shocked when the cost per lead is through…

Need advice: Is it possible to be anxious anxiously attached to a specific person? — Good evening everyone! I am 25 M Recently, things ended pretty badly with this woman I was close to with. She was aware I had feelings for her, and well would flirt back sometimes. I was and still am…

Why do I get upset when bad stuff happens to my partner and it doesn't even impact me? — I'm struggling to understand my pretty intense reactions to certain things. I don't know if attachment theory can help explain this part of my brain. For context: Me (38 F) and partner (44 M) have b…

First Time Serious Connection With an Avoidant — I was in a relationship with an avoidant for around 3 months and everything was going well and we weren't moving too fast in my opinion. We had gone on dates and met each other's families. They had be…

The monster jar theory of FA or avoidant attachment. — So I was talking to a friend of mine and supporting her and my own feelings of shame and I was reiterating somethjng that isn’t anything new at all but hit on an analogy that really worked for both of…

I thought they were very complex, but they were just emotionally unavailable — I can't believe I was so stupid.

I want love but can't push past knowing that I would be a burden in all of my relationships — Hi, I am a 26F and want to seek some advice from this subreddit because I truly do not know who else I can talk about this with, and writing has always been easier than talking out loud. Sidenote: I …

I'm deactivated right now and not sure it's worth trying to save my marriage — I'm DA (40M), my wife FA (41F), 3 children. Together 17 years, married 13 years, very distant 11 years (due to my earlier long-term deactivation) with no affection or intimacy at all, working on recon…

Please help — Hey there! Found this community a few days ago and I seriously need advice on how to push thru the panic/ anxiety. I know I'm an avoidant. All my life I've never wanted people to see me. All my life…

my(F28) bf(M30) thinks themed bridal shower of my friend is stupid and my costume is stupid. — I (F28) am a teacher and my boyfriend(M30) works for a company. we have been together for 4 years and are highly compatible. He has always been reserved and quiet and introvert by nature. i'm more of …

Have your thoughts on shrooms been somewhat like this? — Yesterday I first tried shrooms. I did 15g fresh, which you can expect to be about 1.5g dry ± I've tried acid 2 times before, which were very amazing, intense and long experiences. They theached me a…

Shame has dictated my entire life for 41 years — And I didn't know it until now. It was the silent background noise, the "I'm not good enough," "Don't do that or you'll fail!" "Look how stupid you are, you can't do anything right," "Don't notice m…

I (F18) am jealous of my boyfriend (M18) for the gpt chat — I know it sounds strange, but I can’t do it anymore. At first my boyfriend started using chat for normal things, such as workout plans, food advice etc. at some point, he started sharing his appearanc…

Obsessing Over There Being a Draft — I have not been able to quell my fears of a draft happening for the past few days. I’ve had this fear before but felt comforted by the fact that boots-on-ground is becoming increasingly obsolete and t…

My AM is a stupid fucking snitch — Any time I tell my AM anything that I want her to keep between us, she’s always snitched to my AD. But whenever she wants me to keep a secret from my AD, I am somehow expected to follow that same secr…

Does anyone else just not tell their mother anything — I have too much trauma to write here but in short I stopped telling my mum anything from about the age of 16 (now 31) because I learnt the hard way that anytime I was brave enough to share my true tho…

What is the best starter psychedelic? — Probably sounds stupid, i know. But i want to know wich type of psychedelic can give me the most neutral hallucinogenic effect without getting into a journey/giving me mental effects like with shroom…

No I don’t want to be a medical doctor — I am 23 fucking years old, I do not want to be doctor. I NEVER wanted to be a fucking doctor. I am so sick of this. I feel like a failure. I applied to grad school for 2 years in a row and I haven’t g…

Struggling really hard to get out of bed and wake up quickly. — I eat healthy and go to the gym and sleep well, but I struggle really hard to leave the bed because it's so stupidly comfy! Any tips? I am not sure how to word this to be taken seriously but the strug…

I'm sick of the state of this subreddit — I'm tired of it: I love lucid dreaming, I achieved it on a weekly level for years now and I love to read about people's experiences, sharing my own piece of advice, learning about the different techni…

I hate everything — I got threatened with marriage because I seemed like I gained weight through video call. And because I had the audacity to wake up late. And my brother is a piece of shit that sees nothing wrong ever …

Do not break No contact — Don’t judge me. When you are in love you do stupid things. After long no contact. I did send a text if they like to meet up over the weekend. Why did I do that?! I saw them, they are active in socia…

Manifested a $32K scholarship with accidental SATS!!! — Hi all :) I have a pretty amazing success story that I’d love to share, and I hope it may motivate some of you in your manifestation journeys 😊 Basically, I accidentally manifested a $32,000 scholar…

Endogenous DMT activation in sleep? Spontaneous breakthrough-like state with fractals, death sensation, head pops, high-pitched noise — [](/r/DMT/?f=flair_name%3A%22Experience%22)So this is going to sound stupidly insane but… I need to put it somewhere for someone who might understand. Background: had a 6g mushroom trip a while back.…

My Personal Key For Shifting (Repost because my pther account got deleted somehow 😢) — Lets start with i accidently shifted in early 2000s, before I even knew what I was, or understood what it was, I just passed it off as a very realistic dream. And just to put it out there, i am very s…

Why do some parents expect you to take care of them(because that's why they made you after all) and at the same time try to fuck over your life so that you have no resources with which to help them? — Seriously, wouldn't it be more sound if you would help your child(or atleast try to not fuck over their life) and then they would help you out of their own will not only because they want to but also …

I (34F) found out my ex-husband (40M) cheated on me again, after we were supposed to be working things out. — I found out, from the person he's been cheating on me with, that it happened over a year ago and has been happening since. Of course i flipped out and went ballistic! He claims she was psycho and wa…

I think I’m genuinely stupid — As the title says, I think I’m genuinely a dumb person. When someone says “this guys is empty headed” that’s literally me. I’ve always known I’m not the most intelligent person, I deflect that by ta…

Finally Got a Lucid Dream... So I Tested your Queries in it — Hey guys, this is gonna be a bit of a long one lol. \[CONTEXT\] For a while, I've been trying to lucid dream, but was too lazy to consistently do training, write in journals, or set multiple alarms …

Sunken Cost Fallacy — Married for almost 27 years. Got married at the ripe age of 19. Funny thing, I thought it was a mistake on my wedding night when he got out of bed to jack off because I was so exhausted from the long …

My boyfriend blew our savings. (F32) (M34) — I don't want to go into too much detail since he uses reddit but as the title says my(f32) boyfriend(m34) blew our savings on a really dumb investment. We've been together 6 years and have a 4 year ol…

I wish I left after the first affair — I feel so stupid for trying to reconcile after I caught the first affair. I was too much of a coward. I was too afraid to be alone. I was still in love. The hurt, the pain, the betrayal, everything wa…

My Divorce Journey - Hope it Helps someone — Just want to share some notes on my journey through divorce…I’ve been divorced for about two years after a 15 year marriage (2 kids) and I’m finally on firm ground with myself. Just some key points …

Just feel so disappointed in myself all the time — I just can't help being so disappointed and sad about myself all the time. I constantly feel like I've been a disappointment, and that no matter what I do, I won't be able to escape that, and I'll end…

I spent years trying to fix my life with discipline. Therapy showed me why that didn’t work — **My Journey** I can’t remember not being depressed. I have some memories of the time before, but they are pictures, frames of a child enjoying life. But I’ve struggled with depression almost my enti…

My mother is super affectionate now that I'm an adult and she has dementia. It disgusts me. — My mother doesn't remember the screaming, my mother doesn't remember her calling me stupid everyday, she doesn't remember her telling me to get out of her house. She talks to me now in a baby voice, s…

As long as your ex knows you will always take them back, they will never truly want nor respect you — Now how come it is this way? How come you need to walk away, abandon them and put yourself first in order for them realize what they had? And why can’t your ex just put their pride and ego aside, st…

How can I make the most of the rest of my 20s? — I’m 26F and will be turning 27 soon. I really can’t believe that I was 17 ten years ago now. But I still feel like a teenager, like I haven’t actually grown up. Like my frontal lobe didn’t even fully …

I'm a rotten abuser and I can't forgive myself for it and I don't feel that I should. — I 30F am an abuser who has ruined my husband just because I can't accept being loved. yesterday I told him that I hope one day he gets the self esteem to leave me, and he responded that he hopes one d…

Gen X and Boomer Asian parents are stupid asf — Don’t feel like typing a wall of text so I’ll just leave it at that. And don’t forget, Asian parents are not your friends, they don’t care about your interests or you as a person. They brought you int…

my boyfriend always talks about my body as if he’s settling for it :( (20M 20F) — We’ve been together for just under a year.. these are really his only flaws when it comes to our relationship. But when he talks about my body he always frames it like i’m just ‘good enough’. Ofc he …

My ex messaged me. — She simply just showed me a picture of a place she was at where we went on holidays together, a couple of years ago. We messaged for a few days, and I tried not to get invested again. I tried to just …

Decided to stop blaming things on my breakup, the world, and my mental health — Ever since my break up last year i’ve turned to alcohol, gambling, lots of random hookups with girls i would never make my wife. I’ve come to realize that she was one of the most important lessons in …

Reality transurfing is a bunch of balls. Some idiot says stuff using complex modern language and people believe it without thinking because they are addicted to things being complex. Posm is very s…

>Hi everyone, > >I am new here.. i got the link of this group through the NG sub.. i am glad i found it.. i have been reading the posts and the content in the index.. i have started reading the P…

Yup its stupid, theres a whole set of sub skills that by the time u have those your basicly doing self hypnosis And refined directing your attention and using your imagination

There was no reply because you asked a stupid question.

You just may be one of the few people coming through here who is too stupid even for the ng sub. Go join the maga channel. lol

>Correction: Neville taught to “feel as if”. There were many New Thought authors that taught their students to “act as if”, but Neville primarily taught how to impress your subconscious mind using sle…

>About my successes, I manifested more money than I had ever seen before. Prior to that, I thought I’d always be broke. I even had to take a screenshot of my bank balance to remind myself of that amaz…

a) law of assumption, not law of belief. And where did you get the other descriptions from? I've been on Neville sub for a while, literally noone describes the law in those words or speak in a spiritu…

Yes!! it took me 8 months to completely cut the cord with all the BS after we broke up because he wanted to linger on but he was moving on with other girls while he had me like stupid hanging on. And …

Hey, I am an overconfident twat that lacks any real creativity. I tend to just jump in on anything to feel included . Sometimes it's confusing cause I don't even understand what I'm trying to shit on.…

| know this is stupid, but what are side bars?

One other pet peeve of mine is people who argue in the comment threads but don't try to give the OP any advice of their own. Like you have told me before you think what I said is stupid.....but you a…

PLEASE READ IF YOUR LOOKING INTO ASTRAL PROJECTING. About 2 months ago I was looking extremely deep into astral projecting, once I seen what it was I was instantly drawn to it and thought it was inter…

Absolutely wrong name for that sub. I read a few random posts with comments and what do we have here: affirmations, sublimals, self-love and mental diet.  So they are not criticizing Neville's teach…

I had a quick glance at this on my break and will chip in more later, just by point 1 alone I see you haven’t grasped it, feeling is the secret indeed. But the feeling isn’t emotions. 2 That knowing…

Hahah. This souphead makes me laugh. I love it when failures do all they can to prove why something doesn't work - based of the fact that it so clearly was applied wrong 🤡 And I do agree, being con…

Lol, "anyone can achieve it"... Guess I'm one of those undeveloped, stupid, slow bastards that can't "get it".  Or that statement is pure fabrication.  No, not everyone can do it as not everyone can b…

Why are people so stupid lol

I inflate the story point values of every task by about double usually, and don't do anything with those tasks that produce timestamps that contradict those story points. I also break projects down to…

Umm.. I think your % is off and there are way more lurkers here and some real people out there. I thought about doing posts, a podcast, or a book as an entrepreneur about how hard it was for years ru…

So instead of replying individually and repeating myself, I'm just going to make a comment addressing it all. Firstly, it was interesting to read all these perspectives. I see where some of its comin…

Thank you so much. I hope we heal properly ❤️🫂 It baffles me how similar my ex DA was to yours when I read what you wrote. Except the 2nd point, aml of them were true in my case. Now I feel so stupid…

😂I’m glad you could get a chuckle out of this. I can see how this is funny, sort of in the way the Darwin Awards are funny. When you call out audacity and stupidity, the people who know better and do…

The normal stereotype is that non-secure men lean avoidant and non-secure women lean anxious. I would bet a lot of money that these days there are more avoidant women and the number is on the rise. T…

This is what it came down to with my ex, I know he is not an evil manipulative villain. He is just an emotionally stunted man who can’t identify or handle his emotions. And unfortunately his emotional…

I had a DA friend who never called first and i asked him to do it from time to time. When we talked (me initiating) he was always nice, helpful and responsive but without me calling first he was only …

Well, I sadly had experience with avoidant before and I knew some patterns. Unfortunately for me I didn't recognize it fast enough, at the point where, I think, I could discuss it better and maybe bre…

People are everything. They're fickle, they're stupid, they're disagreeable, they shove you away at times, they're not solid...but they're also beautiful, and dependeable, and deep like the sea, and e…

So let's say I want to be able to become friends with famous people, like actual friends that hang out, talk often & do things together, but I'm not & never have been in the entertainment industry or …

No ita not stupid. I have done with and the people have shown up as soon as the next day. I have seen people I wanted to meet come into my house and I had never met them prior. I have seen some crazy …

The world is not as you are. The world is as you subconsciously believe it to be true. And those subconscious beliefs need to be manually built day by day by methods proven to work and it may take mon…

I mean, you could have said the same thing about Hitler before the end. Or literally anyone who was majorly successful in their narcissistic, immoral agendas. This is a stupid post that ignores all th…

Banned for not reading and thinking about the index, something required by the rules of this sub. Which is why you came up with such a stupid post to begin with. And you expect everyone else here who …

I am so scared to date again. I don't know if I can open up after my last relationship. It sounds so stupid, but as a lover girl, I don't wanna lose it. I wanna stay a lover girl, stupid & naive. But …

Hey, I'm in a similar situation, do you have some suggestion on what to do when those shut downs happen? We end up arguing on super stupid stuff, because of her, she doesn't want to recognize it and…

Yeah. I was used to my mom being not loving but when she got busy with other stuff or my cousins and was just indifferent to me, I think that really damaged me, I still remember how that felt, like yo…

Work on your shame wounds. Deep down, anxious attachers believe “if they saw the real me, the whole of me, they’d realize I’m broken/disgusting/stupid/too much etc. and therefore worthless and unlovab…

Already started therapy a couple weeks after breakup.  As far as engagement I thought that's what she may have wanted...I think she did in the moment, but it triggered something in her.  I was there f…

before exploding and engaging you could sing. i had the urge to explode too but i knew that i wasnt able to handle it. so when i feel rage turning up and i feel like an argument is necessairy i sing …

when someone can *ignore* you, but you can’t even *breathe* without them - that’s not love, that’s nervous system hijack until therapy starts, treat your brain like a toddler with scissors. don’t rea…

This is me currently! 😢 he actually blocked me and told me he’s done and doesn’t want to be around me anymore. I’m devastated. It’s like all the chasing, crying, begging and people pleasing I’ve been…

Damn that sucks. This and many other stories and experiences are why I can never have a completely secure attachment. Because I’m not stupid. Trusting your partner completely doesn’t mean they’re not…

About a year ago, we got new seasonal hires at my job. One of them ended up being this woman. I usually chitchat with new hires if they have questions regarding the job and that’s about it. I would ch…

Most stupid question i have ever seen in this community, and that's saying something. You could not use your own damn mind to think of a small experiment yourself like manifesting free ice cream or so…

> The sub doesn't let me post That's weird. There are auto-rules that limit TOP-LEVEL comments for posts tagged as "Seeking Personal Stoic Guidance". You have to be tagged as a "Contributor". I do…

This is so great! I love this communication but I do have a question. When you give him this list and he goes away and then follows this list, do you ever read those goodnight texts or look at that si…

Told the toxic girl 'I cut off' I love her. It was a drunk text and I don't know why I sent it. I hadn't talked to her in 5 months despite regularly seeing her in class. No response after 48 hours and…

I really hope I can find some answers here about why I’m unable to let go of and forget one person. The breakup was unbearably painful, drawn-out, and emotionally exhausting. I spent years chasing an…

Thank you for responding to me. Making this post was incredibly embarrassing for me because this entire situation feels absurd and the fact that it’s making me spiral so much has been really confusing…

Being avoidant wouldn't be so bad if I could at least pick and choose which emotions to, well, avoid. Not only do I suck at navigating negative or anxious feelings and automatically stuff them down, I…