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Omg me too. 6 months almost on the dot. The point where the dopamine runs out. And then it was "I KNOW I'm late because I have ADHD!" and "I KNOW I didn't call when I said because I have DEPRESS…
how come you didn't ask if she was attracted to you before asking her on a date? how come you didn't ask her if she'd like to go on a date?
> I think this is an anxious trait so I want to know if this also happens to you? Why am I reacting like this? Is it justified or is it my insecurity talking? How do you communicate, instead of pullin…
You should check out the book Nonviolent Communication!! There are free PDFs online if you want to try before you buy. I'm moving from AA -> Secure and it has been super helpful. The basic idea is: …
You didn't ask her friend name just to be sure you don't end up in an awkward situation?
If you just want to focus on yourself, you still have work to do around vulnerability being used against you triggering such a strong reaction. It is self protective, it serves a function. But the fac…
Yeah this scenario is what will drive someone toward insanity for an entire lifetime... this reason (amongst many others) is why cheating is blatant abuse. Now you forever question everything, her, yo…
Yeah this scenario is what will drive someone toward insanity for an entire lifetime... this reason (amongst many others) is why cheating is blatant abuse. Now you forever question everything, her, yo…
Yeah this scenario is what will drive someone toward insanity for an entire lifetime... this reason (amongst many others) is why cheating is blatant abuse. Now you forever question everything, her, yo…
Yeah this scenario is what will drive someone toward insanity for an entire lifetime... this reason (amongst many others) is why cheating is blatant abuse. Now you forever question everything, her, yo…
Yeah this scenario is what will drive someone toward insanity for an entire lifetime... this reason (amongst many others) is why cheating is blatant abuse. Now you forever question everything, her, yo…
Yeah this scenario is what will drive someone toward insanity for an entire lifetime... this reason (amongst many others) is why cheating is blatant abuse. Now you forever question everything, her, yo…
Your last sentence told you everything you need to know. 'They hate DIY gifts so they are not an option'. They hate DIY gifts that their child put their time and effort into making for them? Look. Y…
I'm sure he is curious and interested in your life... He cares for you in many ways. But he is probably like myself... If you had something interesting happen he figures you would tell him... This i…
Ok, i struggled with my inner critic for EVER! (I edited this because it sounds like I don't still struggle...I absolutely do). I saw this example of turning your inner critic voice into a voice of so…
OP, you didn't ask for advice about birth control, # of kids, etc. You only asked about telling your MIL. You absolutely must insist that your husband tell HIS mother. He needs to understand that…
Tell her you didn't ask to be born. Then send her an invoice for "pain and suffering".
I know you didn't ask me but I will add on to Sandi. What I did back in 2024 around this time was remember the reason for the event I was trying to change was due to an "error." It my case it was do…
You didn't ask a question or for advice so I think you needed some validation for your feelings and some feedback. I think most married men would be hurt if their wife was encouraging a friend to go …
Babe the reason you want to unalive yourself is because you feel trapped and hopeless and you're probably developing CPTSD. But I promise you, your brain is lying to you right now. You are not mentall…
I would say that 99.99% of parents do not love their children. Firstly, people have a perverted idea of what love is. Which, to delve into semantics, is relational, unconditional, and irrevocable…
again, I wasn't responding to you, I was responding to the person who asked why you didn't ask for a certain type of therapy. not to your later comment saying they were trained and that you DID ask. m…
STOP. You should never stop taking an anti- depressant abruptly. You need to wean off gradually and that's something your doctor can talk you through...and he/she is also in the position to tell you …
Op, wish I could tell you something nicer, unfortunately this is the early sign of a doomed relationship. I don't condone looking at someone's phone, but considering that you had to ask him to unfollo…
Do not underestimate the power of resentment. It builds up and kills the relationship very slowly. You didn't ask for much. You sensed something was wrong and addressed it. Never ever settle for an em…
Part of your brain that loves him is telling you he's loving and caring and treats you like a princess. Be very critical of that voice and compare it to his *actions*. If being sick with *COVID* doe…
You didn't ask to be born and it sounds like she did the bare minimum and was abusive to you. That isn't someone you need to feel guilty about feeling this way over but I know that is easier said than…
I won't lie, in the past 145-ish days it's been since my breakup, I've probably been high/drunk or both for at least 110 of them. It absolutely helps in the moment, I'm not gonna lie to myself and act…
I don't know any successful couples that don't remind each other of things. It's usually because they asked each other to. If you didn't ask It's more like nagging.
Your fears are completely normal. He's untrustworthy and you nailed it when you said what would he do when things get tough (raising children are a stressor to even the best relationships) . You di…
I have so much to say but I'm just gonna keep it short. my AM is exactly like your AP. The blaming, guilt-tripping, berating, all of it. Every mistake is unforgiveable, every thing that went well …
They ask do you Iike red or blue better. You like red more but you say blue because you know they'll do want you didn't ask for. Or you might get green because it's their favorite.
I know you didn't ask this for personal finance or whatnot, but one of the few reasons to do married filing separately (MFS) for taxes is due to income-based student loan repayment. Your student loan …
Reminds me of a child who, when you ask them, "can you please get me this," they sneer at you and say "sure i CAN," but then they don't do it because you didn't ask them "will you get it" lmao.
Tell him you didn't ask for his assistance and to stop.
You didn't trap him - you didn't ask him to move in he forced himself into your space, and you weren't comfortable with it. Look up the DARVO tactic. He is systematically abusing you, controlling you…