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Why is healing from a discard taking longer than the relationship itself? It was only 2 months — I'm 3 months out from a discard with a suspected covert narcissist, but we only dated for 2 months. Is it normal for it to take longer to get over the discard than the time we dated? It feels kind of …

Letter to my ex — **7th February 2026** “You will find me, right?” That sentence is the last sentence. The one that always stays with me. Every single day I think about it, and I think that’s why I know what I have t…

Transits that can show long-distance travels & spiritual retreat? — I was trying to find what transits could show long-distance travels, involving a spiritual retreat? Or maybe, that comes with a massive life-change? It should be the 9th and 12th house, and Jupiter,…

Life's expectancy for life & love — Unfortunately, I think for the rest of my time on this planet, I will carry a quiet fear. Even in the midst of real, full-blown love, I may never truly trust that one day I won’t be lied to, cheated o…

I spent years trying to fix my life with discipline. Therapy showed me why that didn’t work — **My Journey** I can’t remember not being depressed. I have some memories of the time before, but they are pictures, frames of a child enjoying life. But I’ve struggled with depression almost my enti…

Uranus in Gemini — Curious to know how (maybe, when) this transit, or other transits, can impact the airline industry this year since there’s a lot going on astrologically.

Synchronicity and the Beginning or Continuity of Experience? — To begin, I have had quite a long winded set of experiences, that have seemed to have calmed down a bit over the last few weeks. They went on for several months beginning 3 months and 3 days before my…

Broke up with her, need to talk about it — Well, as the title says, she broke up with me two days ago. At first, I didn’t really feel anything, but ever since then it’s been a complete emotional rollercoaster. About a month ago, I was going t…

She broke up but i think (/hope) that its just temporary — Now I'm going to be as detailed as possible so yall can know the story better. It all started in winter break when my friend asked me if i wanted to know a girl, i agreed and sometime after we both …

I(19M) feel like I’ve lost my girlfriend(19F) even though we’re still together — TL;DR: I made mistakes early in the relationship (past flirting, not being fully transparent), which broke my girlfriend’s trust. Since then she’s become distant, says she lost feelings, and gives unc…

Letter to Self before Meeting her — Figured it helped a few on other subs so I would add here. I've also been told to warn it may be a trigger to some. Hey dumbass, I don’t really know how to start this without it feeling unreal, beca…

I don’t really like my therapist. (Rant) — Hello, I’m making this post to mainly rant and ask for a bit of advice. To start off, I don’t really like my therapist because she talks about herself kind of a lot. Of course if it was once in a whi…

I talked my dead grandma in a first ever lucid dream — I was not able lucid dream for 2 weeks and i used WILD and MILD and also reality checks. Today morning I feel asleep and i say my grandma in the kitchen asking me to take her to the room, and I tho…

If I've completely given up and I'm a nuisance to be around, why is it so wrong to die? — I've seen 3 therapists at this point, I quit going a few months ago because it was awful. I actually had some hope, some desire to change and have a better life before I started therapy. Now, I believ…

Read this if you're miserable and want your ex back. — # Your ex won't come back until you've COMPLETELY let go of them. ...and it's not gonna take 30 days of No Contact. I wish it was that simple. Let me explain how I've come to this conclusion while …

Worried I'm a Sexual Abuser — I (F) have a therapist but don't feel comfortable sharing this with her, so I thought I'd make an anonymous post here. I am trying to understand things and work through my shame and guilt. I remem…

I have this question all the time, and would someone, PLEASE answer it?! Why my body isn't there whenever i astral project? And why I can see in the dark, although my room is pitch black darkness? — I didn't planned to astral project, just awake up to do something else entirely, because for some unknown reasons when I tried to astral project multiple times in the past 2 years, I usually end up…

I responded to an ex of mines no contact breach, with a link to Good Luck Babe — So i 18(M) had a 2 year long weird homoerotic friendship with a guy (20M) who had a boyfriend (22M) (i know stupid ofc) but in my defense, he pretty much introduced himself to me as "tortured guy stuc…

From when I was younger, my mother ruined my life and turned my into an ungrateful bastard. — ​ the peak of everything is my mother, where she has always been the one trying to hold everything together, (and didnt accomplish. So, its all her fault.) She works at a shoe store. From whe…

Afraid of everything - What you think i could do? — If i was going to use archetypes, im a child of a devouring mother and an absent father. **Most of my attitude in life is a combination of flight-freeze but also some fawn.** Anima, Animus and Shadow …

Afraid of everything - What you think i could do? — If i was going to use archetypes, im a child of a devouring mother and an absent father. **Most of my attitude in life is a combination of flight-freeze but also some fawn.** Anima, Animus and Shadow …

Afraid of everything - What you think i could do? — If i was going to use archetypes, im a child of a devouring mother and an absent father. **Most of my attitude in life is a combination of flight-freeze but also some fawn.** Im essentially afraid of…

I think i really need to change my approach or you guys can guide me — I don’t usually write posts like this, but I think I’ve reached a point where I need clarity more than motivation. I’ve been following the teachings of Neville Goddard for a while now — the idea that…

I APed into what I'm guessing was a monster, and also visited a weird blue building — I just had the WILDEST experience, I really can’t put it any other way. Most of this is from my journal where I wrote it all out, the stuff in (these) is my personal thoughts or something that occurre…

From when I was younger, my mother ruined my life and turned my into an ungrateful bastard. — ​ the peak of everything is my mother, where she has always been the one trying to hold everything together, (and didnt accomplish. So, its all her fault.) She works at a shoe store. From whe…

Just got discarded and could really do with some emotional support. — I met my FA over a year ago and we started out as friend. Within a month he started signalling attraction and a month after that we stated making out. We shared soo much stuff with each other and spok…

From when I was younger, my mother ruined my life and turned me into an ungrateful bastard. — ​ the peak of everything is my mother, where she has always been the one trying to hold everything together, (and didnt accomplish. So, its all her fault.) From when I was really small, she’d…

I wrote a goodbye letter today. I am not there yet, but I fear I am getting closer everyday. — I would like to start this off by saying that I am sorry for my actions. They were somewhat selfish in the sense that I am not the one that has to live with the pain and suffering that my actions have…

Have I made the right decision? F24 M24 — I’m going to try to keep this short. Thanks for reading. My partner and I (F24 M24) have been together for about 1.5 years (talking for 2.5). It’s been a really difficult relationship. He has serious…

First person telling of a intelligence coming into existence. — I recorded this as a raw, unedited stream-of-consciousness while high. At some point, it started to feel like a separate “consciousness” emerged—something that believed it had just come into existenc…

ChatGPT for Therapy? Great Results — I have been told to seek therapy for my depression and anxiety? Been told my whole life that I have had depression and anxiety. Well I have seen 4 different therapist over the last 3 years. One wa…

I spent 30 years playing a role just to survive – and now the mask is finally shattering. — Hey everyone, I need to get this off my chest because I’ve just had a realization that is both soul-crushing and incredibly liberating. I’m sharing this in case anyone else feels like they’re living …

I Saw How They “Manufacture” Miracles… and It Was a Game — One night I was at home with my girlfriend and couldn’t fall asleep. She had gone to bed early, so I left the room to avoid bothering her with light or noise from the TV. I sometimes use substances,…

I’m done — Why the fuck am I upset about a mid-looking man that admitted to stringing me along for years? May he rest in peace. I hope that karma really does exist. After months of begging, I’m done. I think aft…

Wtf kind of breakup is this — I am so confused. genuinely. This is between me (19F) and my now ex-boyfriend (20M). The relationship was 2.5 months, but the attachment, connection and attraction was extremely strong. He's a great …

Ex doing so much better without me — This is going to be a mess of a post because I'm currently spiraling rn I've (20M) been spiraling ever since my relationship with her (20F) fell apart. It's been more than a month since we last talke…

From when I was younger, my mother ruined my life and turned me into an ungrateful bastard. — ​ the peak of everything is my mother, where she has always been the one trying to hold everything together, (and didnt accomplish. So, its all her fault.) From when I was really small, she’d…

I'm genuinely loosing hope. — One year of being cooped at home for various reason, has made me gain weight tremendously. Even then I'd never ever imagined it would get this bad. My bmi was always a healthy range, at the border ma…

Maybe my expectations for me need to change — I’m not sure if other people have felt this way, but I’m about a week out from my relationship ending and I have a lot of mixed feelings. On one hand, there’s a sadness that comes with this grief. On …

I need help, please read. — This is messily written because im really not ok. My first relationship. A year and a half from my first day of college. She wanted me from the second she saw me from a distance. She loved bombed me …

New updates!! — Hey there guys, its me again. So, we have made some updates to the community. Thought I would share them. 1. Community appearance: colors changed, icon and banner changed. 2. added image uploading …

Apologies, I know this is an old post but I just read it for the first time today and felt the need to reply. Yes, what you're saying is absolutely true. However, at least for me, this is the motiva…

This just gives hope to me that maybe she is, or maybe she really isn't the one. And the simplest solution is just to work on your self. I'll take this one by heart and maybe, maybe it will be fine af…

Just joined this sub yesterday and this single post by a mod is making me question my choice. Calling people “losers”? Posting photos of “hot babes” in the sub index? What is this, high school mach…

PLEASE READ IF YOUR LOOKING INTO ASTRAL PROJECTING. About 2 months ago I was looking extremely deep into astral projecting, once I seen what it was I was instantly drawn to it and thought it was inter…

Orrrrrrrr.... In the early thaw of spring, when frost still clung stubbornly to the edges of the earth, the apology remained unsent. It lingered like a letter never mailed. Its seal unbroken, its tru…

I absolutely agree! And in regards ro different expressions, traits, etc -- *everyone* has avoidant tendencies from time to time. *Everyone* (except, maybe, people with ASPD?) has anxiety from time to…

Good, I’m glad 😊 I’ll also add—and maybe you feel similarly—but I was always freaked out by using the Love word and I often fretted, “How am I going to know I love him? How is that supposed to feel? …

>Yeah I can relate. When I first was doing that manifestation, it was hard for me also because I am very analytical, skeptical, and come from a scientific background basing everything on verified fact…

This is not a skill issue. It’s not something that can be fixed by the use of one tool or another. This isn’t about feeling. That’s why grounding statements don’t work because it’s not about the arous…

Interesting. I’m gonna test it! Mostly I just tell them to honestly analyze the convo. Edit: I tried it, and it told me maybe, maybe not. 😂

Ok, spanish man here, 39, never married. So take what I feel as a grain of salt: I think he is enjoying his time with you, and wants you close (for selfish reasons? maybe, maybe not) I'm worried tha…

Unpopular maybe, but do you really want to subject yourself to the unknown drama and stress this may cause if you were to tell his wife? Protect your own peace, block him and move on.

Nah I'd be irritated and feel disrespected too. A text to confirm whether or not plans are going ahead just seems like basic courtesy to me - I find it hard to believe she didn't use her phone at all …

Ok so, hear me out. What would happen, if you would ask her a small token of affection. Like a hug. For science :) You had a need. That need was not voiced. The need was not met. You made an assumpti…

> I’m not yet blocking because I’m curious how long he will keep this up. Are you curious or are you enjoying the attention? Seems like you're openly accepting the same validation that he is by not …

Wow, I bow before this very scientific-minded deconstruction of this situation as described by some particularly mope-y fellow. Of course you are absolutely right that my "lens" through which I perce…

Maybe, but I wouldn't assume she's interested just yet. I've had 1:1 lunch and/or coffee with colleagues regularly (when there is no business for us to talk about) and it's generally not romantic. Al…

It seems like no matter what amount of good you did for someone in the past, it doesn't matter. Why? Because when someone is captured by their negative emotions, their evaluation of you is solely …

I've done cold approaches. I don't recommend it. Will it work eventually? Maybe, but probably not. Most modern relationships form from dating apps. The vast majority of the remaining ones form between…

I think this is what happened to me! I had been feeling down for a couple of months when I started watching Heated Rivalry. While bingeing it, I literally said out loud to myself , "maybe, I just need…

Maybe, maybe not. Can just be happy-go-lucky optimism like Sag’s have.. or Fool Card energy.

Maybe, I know he is weak where he has to confront his family. His father Infact says that his son would never speak against him no matter what his father says. He is the youngest in his family and he …

Thanks for the response. I will think on it. A clean break has always been hard for me. I’m always trying to put myself in others shoes and do right by them, even if they’ve made a mistake or done wro…

Please be patient, english isn't my first language. "You're not allowed to feel. That's for them and that's for us to take care of. Shut up, ignore and hide your pain." Fuuuuuuuuuuck.... that '…

I am offering my thoughts in hopes that something somewhere might help you see things in a new light. This will be long and I will take no offense if you don't read it. >Unfortunately, I think for th…

OP, most times if it is "emotional" and they can find even a moment alone, there will be sex, they are adults. What I found in your post and comments here is rug sweeping overall. Yes, she did qui…

Never thought of it that way. But yeah you could have a point. Maybe, it's only once kids start having an identity outside the narc mom it triggers the abuse/jealousy and hatred.

It doesn't sound like she was expecting that. Hoping for it maybe, but she doesn't sound to surprised that he didn't

Stop trying so hard. Stop judging so fiercely. Your 4 yr old meditates because she doesn't know from 'better' or 'worse'. Meditation is not about controlling your thoughts. It is not about *not* ha…

Maybe, but I do know the void method is used in this and I had my most accurate void state methods happen during the afternoons in past experiences! Definitely makes you tired though!

Never cared for Buffy, but Angel is something totally different. I find that My Little Ponies: Friendship is Magic helps when it is bad. But I love my cop shows from Law and Order to Criminal Minds. I…

2 years of relationship… Me: “Did you ever even love me” Him: “I don’t know, maybe, in moments”

Well maybe, i do feel you. I do feel like a reject a lot of people but when you have had a partner that is really great in a lot of ways, they will set the bar pretty high for other people. The trick …

I'm currently working on this with my new psychologist. I went through YEARS of CBT when I was younger and it fucked me up. I've been through 5 years now of trying to "fix" this current round of what …

So what I get from this is that it is hard for YOU. Yes, some people struggle with Lucid dreaming, others don't, my friend and I, for example, we continued to do reality checks for like 10-12 days and…

Maybe, but it's also a terrible way of doing things. Like, I shouldn't have to check the app once an hour leading up to the date if we have already confirmed plans. I'm hoping for a nice, non-ghostin…

That sounds cool, I want to hear it just because I'm curious! I should have guessed flash fiction is shorter form, it seems so obvious now 😅 You'd need like a book of haikus then maybe, akin to a b…

The stuff done to my body had starts and ends and in those times just after, I could know that I was kind of safe in a sense for a brief while. The bomb had burst. Kettle boiled over. Whatever. The s…

I know a lot of you ladies have walked very similar paths. Different details maybe, but the same heartbreak, the same doubts, the same moments where you wondered if you’d ever feel strong again. What…

I’m glad you’ve improved. Do you have any empathy for people who are fresh into learning about themselves and aren’t where you are yet? I would imagine it took a lot of work, years maybe, to become mo…

So don't dig. Rest a bit. It's not so bad down here. Theres...uh dirt...and cute worms...and sometimes a butterfly floats overhead. I'm not sure what happened so I'm not confident telling you that y…

Maybe, but never for the right reason. 3 exes of mine have messaged me months/years late but only because they’re either bored or want something sexual from me. Not one single one took accountability …

Trust me, I get from being too hard on yourself! No one is as harsh and unforgiving with me as I am myself. I frequently get lectured by my friends and family about how I need to be more forgiving and…

Quick note - English is my second language, so if sentence comes strange, that's why. What jumped out at me reading this is - the shift you're describing, it's not gradual. It's sudden. You went fr…

>Based on Mars in your third house (sibling/peer relationships, primary schooling, communication), I wonder if there isn't something angry or confrontational in your communication style that you're no…

Right but that’s the point. You can’t grow giant bird wings like birdman because you think you can’t. Your awareness is focussed on yourself without wings. If you thought you could, maybe you’d sudden…

All those "hello, how was your morning?" "how was your day?" "how is your evening?" stupid idiotic messages from new date are annoying af as nobody at his age as this much time and energy for this BS.…

Maybe, and I know my own experiences doesn’t discount your views, but I don’t think any of my partners over the years would ignore or hide it in their subconscious. Probably because I’ve always been a…

Something about you makes your BF feel safe in a way that men get to experience only a few times, maybe, in their entire lives. Plenty of women have everything else you have - career success, looks,…

I get you. I broke up with my love four months ago. He was my everything, but we had some issues. We talked about how the future seemed to be dim for the both of us. That maybe, one day, when we event…