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Why is healing from a discard taking longer than the relationship itself? It was only 2 months

Why is healing from a discard taking longer than the relationship itself? It was only 2 months — I'm 3 months out from a discard with a suspected covert narcissist, but we only dated for 2 months. Is it normal for it to take longer to get over the discard than the time we dated? It feels kind of …

r/NarcissisticAbusepost4/3/2026
DA Downplaying friendship

DA Downplaying friendship — I have a self-confessed avoidant friend (I am secure). We dated very briefly but ended it because he said he couldn’t do serious relationships and I didn’t want to continue something ambiguous, catch …

r/attachment_theorypost1/5/2026
Bf of 14 months hasn’t said I love you

Bf of 14 months hasn’t said I love you — My bf (35M) and I (33F) met December 2024 on a dating app and became exclusive immediately after our first date. On our first few dates he asked what I was looking for and I said I was looking for som…

r/datingoverthirtypost2/12/2026
💾 Why You Should Consider MinIO Over AWS S3 + How to Build Your Own S3-Compatible Storage with Java

Yes of course next parts will be around how to deploy production ready MinIO cluster on K8S, This two articles were like introduction beginner friendly, as POC for devOps and developers who wear the …

r/DevOpscomment5/7/2025
I despise myself for having avoidant tendencies.

Wow I have no idea where to begin with this you’re just wrong on so many points it’s daunting. First of all I’m not a man. Second, that’s not necessarily how avoidants work at all but honestly your wr…

r/attachment_theorycomment8/6/2025
I’m tired

That comment was for you. Yes of course you can pm me.

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/8/2025
Is casual sex compatible with secure attachment?

Yes of course. Secure attachment means you’re comfortable with your feelings, don’t have problems setting boundaries or leaving if needed, and don’t have problems attempting to be closer if you feel t…

r/attachment_theorycomment1/9/2026
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

I'm 18. I'm barely an adult and these feelings I don't see myself getting rid of. Yes of course I crave that love, because no one ever gave it to me. Everyone that was supposed to, and everyone that I…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/31/2026
Bf of 14 months hasn’t said I love you

All posts are manually reviewed before being approved for posting. This usually takes less than an hour, though it can take longer depending on moderator availability. While you wait for your post to …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/12/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 27, 2026

Ok. I am sorry for spamming here. I am just doing unwell coz of the breakup. So I just made a little recap in my head about all my relationships. And I am very aware that I am putting myself into tr…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/27/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 12, 2026

Yes of course. One of them became a best friend. Another one is my neighborhood friend. People keep saying a guy and a girl can never be friends. I don't agree at all.

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/13/2026
Does Ho’oponopono really work for healing others? Any real experiences?

Yes of course it does. Your mindset changes, the way in which you see things changes, and the things you see... miraculously change.

r/Meditationcomment3/13/2026
DECIDE EVERYTHING IS CONFIRMATION

I think the issue is there really isnt a way to do it right, it's just about doing whatever makes you feel more certain. So with this post im basically saying that whenever something happens and worri…

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/15/2026
The "Manosphere"

I think it depends on at what stage we are giving men empathy. Men having empathy yes of course let’s go. Men who are abusers getting empathy are a different story because those men don’t give empathy…

r/Stoicismcomment3/18/2026
Did anyone else’s Nex ‘love’ to cook, just to leave a gigantic mess?

Yep. My ex left the holiday mess out for weeks while I was visiting family and friends. His sick dad begged him to clean it. He refused multiple times. He wanted to make the point of mold and bugs. An…

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment3/19/2026
The 'technique' that helped me manifest in 1 week what I have been trying for months

(Edited for grammar) Yes of course! So let's say I want a car. I get the desire that I want a Tesla Model 3/Y (I am clueless about cars but yeah let's just say something lol). You make the decision, y…

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/22/2026
Has anyone looked into what chronic depression and trauma actually do to your body at a cellular level? The research is both terrifying and oddly empowering.

Yes of course.  I’m sorry to hear you’re struggling 😞 But really glad to hear you’re fighting for you - that’s a good place to be I think.  Self abandonment is devastating (especially if we’re not ev…

r/CPTSDcomment3/23/2026
Catastrophic incident

Of course it never makes sense when someone so young dies so early. As someone who had 2 NDEs and lost loved ones way too young, I have to say that this life is a temporary experience of consciousne…

r/gatewaytapescomment3/23/2026
I successfully manifested my SP after 6 months NC and a high paying part time job

yes of course, I always start with I'm so thankful or I'm so happy because of Isn't it amazing that this thing happened to me. I don't care about affirmations "feeling natural" to me, for me is more a…

r/Manifestationcomment3/26/2026
I think my friend is leaving me and it's destroying me

Yes of course! Feel free to message me anytime :)

r/Codependencycomment3/27/2026
Who wants their ex back?

Yes of course I do! I just feel like it would be lame of me to do. We broke up for a reason and I’d rather keep it that way(so I can move on). In due time (I’m talking years) I’d love to catch up with…

r/BreakUpscomment3/29/2026
I figured out why my affirmations weren't working and most folks miss it.

I thoroughly enjoy J. Murph’s teachings and his works to use alongside Neville’s wisdom. Personalizing the mental frame we really want to impress upon our beYOUtifull, individual subconscious mind can…

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/30/2026
Did you feel something was off when you first met the narc?

Mine had this weird stare when he made a comment to me that he could pin me down and I wouldn’t be able to move. And when I asked him if he’d move if I asked him to, he said maybe and held the intense…

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment3/30/2026
Would this put guys off?

M46, had open heart surgery a few years ago to save my life, now under yearly check up for possible follow-up risks. Even with that, I have the scars, the severely impacted stamina, and I might still …

r/datingoverfortycomment4/1/2026
My ex's new girlfriend is 10 years younger and it's making me spiral about how I look.

Yes of course. I was simply trying to provide some reassurance to OP that her age won’t be a factor to some men and in fact will be a preference for some as well.

r/Divorcecomment4/5/2026
Do Vietnamese families have a lot of generational trauma?

Yes of course. We often think of America as the hero, but honestly as you get older you’ll realize there really were no good guys. 20 years of US military industrial complex stationed there to make bi…

r/AsianAmericancomment4/6/2026
Why am I not a mysterious Scorpio rising or a travel seeking Sagittarius sun?

Haha yes of course I know that. I was just interested to see if other aspects of my chart made sense in relation to be the opposite of those very general stereotypes.

r/AstrologyChartSharecomment4/6/2026
Feeling resentful, bitter, and jealous of my (28F) twin sister (28F)

Yes of course I have. She just always dismissed, says "I'm too tired to talk about this now" or "I'm not in the mood" or "stop treating me like you're my mother" well she didn't listen to our mother e…

r/relationshipscomment4/8/2026
Will I ever find a better guy than my ex?

Yes of course you will<3 My I felt that way about my ex of 7 years, how could i find better than her, and then I did, my most recent ex was practically perfect and i currently feel that way about her…

r/ExNoContactcomment4/8/2026
How to stop letting toxic and negative people affect and control my whole life?

Yes of course. I'm unemployed now and I am a student. So I basically spend all my day in university, at least I can talk to people and try to start connecting with people again. It's really harder now…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment4/9/2026
r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment4/10/2026
Need motivation desperately (trigger warning)

the act of shifting felt like an OBE, but all I felt once I was there was some residual vibrations that faded within minutes.  do you ever tell yourself to do something before bed, and remember it h…

r/realityshiftingcomment4/10/2026
How do I deal with my (24M) girlfriend (21F) considering breaking up due to my inability to have kids?

She’s just very immature right now for that conversation. Very young too. Yes of course she’ll feel like she’s missing out, but getting pregnant is some times not that easy and she might feel that way…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/11/2026
From “soulmates” to near no-contact in the span of 24 hours. Living an actual nightmare.

Honestly, there were many warning signs and I guess I’ve always been the type to try and see the best in others. In the beginning of our relationship, I’ve noticed inconsistencies in her stories and w…

r/BreakUpscomment4/12/2026
Is it a valid for me to be concerned by my partner’s cultural knowlege?

Yes of course your concern is valid. This incompatibility is the reason that high school or college sweethearts break up in their early 20s (or get divorced later). I'm sure he's a wonderful person. …

r/relationshipscomment4/13/2026
Is it a good idea to take a 5k loan to move out? (2 months to pay back)

Yes of course you should move out, but on the loan aspect, what's the interest on the loan? APR? Always do research on these things before just accepting. If the interest is higher than 8% you're gett…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/13/2026