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"Scared about" meaning "what's the big deal with seeing if the person recognizes you in real life." Especially if they were seen in a dream stage; they'll either recognize you or not. If they DO, that…
Im so scared im feel like im going to theow up please help me — Im so scared about loosing my grandparents, i believe this is because of when my mom died a few years ago and now im like terrified of loosing my grandparents i dont know what to do. Btw my grandparen…
The us just banned foreign routers. — I’m really scared about this, the us banned routers made outside the country, which means that the government will now be able to spy on everyone and control what is being said on the internet because…
I need people to let me know if I should seek professional help — Hi, for my own privacy let me tell you that I am not an adult but I am not a child either. I have a small fear that I might have a psychotic disorder or I might do something bad later in life. In shor…
I'm tempted to reach out tonight — Ex(20f) and I(24m) broke up two months ago because I relapsed on my porn addiction and hid it from her for a few weeks. She was distraught, betrayed, and really conflicted since she still loved me. I…
I (34F) have to move from WA to CA for my dream job and my boyfriend (42M) would have to quit his job to move with me — I (34F) am a successful product designer living in Seattle WA. I own my home. I make Good Money. My bf (42M) has never had an issue with me outearning him and is celebratory of my success. I was laid …
27F — Should I Marry Someone I Don’t Trust Will Change — I’m 27F and feeling really confused and honestly a bit scared about my future. My fiancé has some traits that are worrying me a lot — he can be very selfish, narcissistic, and quite stingy. He also d…
30m broken and feeling alone — I’m not going to beat around the bush. I’ve been with my best friend, my wife for 13 years, nearly half my life. 4 years ago I was manipulated by someone very close to her that convinced me my wife ha…
My brother (35M) and his gf (27F) want me (25F) to help insure their car but I’m uneasy about the idea — Hello, I am currently being asked by brother and his wife I can help them insure their car and i’m really not comfortable with the whole So right off the bat, no they can’t do it themselves. My broth…
My life is falling apart, what do I do? — Hey everyone, I'm a student in college who just turned 18 2 months ago. This year everything in my life has just felt much more unstable than it was before. My grades are horrible, the worst I've had …
My best friend turned lover ghosted me last year, but turns out he was cheating — He was my best friend, my rock, my lover, my support system. We had been friends for 7 years. He asked for space last March to deal with some grief, and I obliged, but he told me to wait for him. He t…
My (F34) husband (M35) hasn't tried to learn what makes me orgasm in our seven years together. I don't want to leave the relationship but am beginning to feel like a predator. Any advice? — I've been with my husband for almost 7 years, married for 2. He is legitimately my best friend, and I am very much still in love with him, so please don't immediately tell me to leave him. Throughou…
The most unconventional ways of thinking that help you? I'll go first — ***"They have the audacity, why can't I?***" Sometimes I struggle with standing up for myself and my needs/boundaries. I get stuck in my head, scared about whether what I'm saying is fair, or balanc…
New fear unlocked — I 23f am feeling really anxious and honestly kind of scared about something that just hit me recently. In about 3 months, I’ll be finishing school and starting work. And I realized that school has ba…
What should I do? — Hi all, just recently found this sub and been feeling like I can relate but not to the same extent. Some people had both parents just not even care about them or anything at all, but for me, my parent…
Guidance for the upcoming turbulent period due to change in dasha — I (23m) have been in a serious relationship since past one year and this is my first relationship. I am going through my Saturn md and Venus ad. Now I will be entering ketu pd in a few months. So, Sat…
Scared about symptoms — A bit about me: I’m 28f, live in Australia, vegetarian, active and generally eat a healthy whole food, plant based diet. I’m 5’8 (172cm) and weigh 58kg (128lbs). I don’t take any medication and don’t …
Really scared about the Trump Iran thing — i know there are a lot of post like this alteady but I'm really scared about all of this especially after his newest threath. is something going to happen or is this again just empty threaths? I'm te…
When did you start having sex again? During separation vs waiting for divorce to be finalized — 50m married for 25 years. Kids are adults now but still live at home. Cohabitating with my stbx, right now working cooperatively to come to a settlement soon and move through this as amicably as possi…
The difference a year can make. — So I'm very thankful that I'm in a position where I can do some traveling during the divorce process. Thankfully, my business took off essentially after my divorce started. After my wife left me, and…
Not sure what to do — Me 44m and wife 36f - married 11 years 6 months ago my wife filed for divorce. We both had lawyers and I had pretty much given up hope. We were living in separate rooms and not talking. One night…
How do I (30f) deal with repeated gift disappointment from my boyfriend (35m) — I don’t want to be an ungrateful brat, but I dread Christmas and birthdays and the gifts I may receive from him. For my last birthday he gifted me a cast iron pan we had talked about buying for the …
Mom accused me of being abusive, coming to terms that my parents may be narcissists — I’ve spent my entire life being abused by my parents. I spent my whole childhood in chaos feeling unstable and scared. My mom was neglectful, unstable, and both physically and emotionally abusive. Now…
In R and having sad thoughts about the future just getting off my chest❤️🩹 — Short brief of my story: My boyfriend (25M) had a one-night stand with a new coworker (she was 22F), (im 26F) he was training her as he was her team lead. It was unprotected. He confessed to me on hi…
is it a break up or no? — I would like to have outsides view from people to understand if its a break up or no. Everything started 8 months ago when i met at my japanese school in japan, this 31 years women from the US (I am…
28F, feeling pressured into marriage and confused about my decision — I’m 28 years old and I’ve already had two broken engagements in the past. Financially, my family is not very strong but we are managing. I’m educated and working in a company. My father is unwell and …
Feeling lost and confused — I (27F) and my partner (26M) have been together for nearly 5 years and have been living together for 2-3. I’m feeling really conflicted about our future— I love and care about him a lot and we’ve grow…
My partner says I’m abusive towards myself, but I feel like I’m too light on myself if anything — I often read the posts here and relate to them or get emotional reading them, so I thought maybe this community might know if I’m not treating myself right, and if so why? I (25TF) have a lot of bad…
Suffering from anxiety and many other issues since more than 5 years. How do I get better? Please read. I have no one to talk with. — Hello everyone, As the title says, I have been to therapy before but had to stop due to financial difficulties and rising bills, as it became too expensive for me to continue. I struggle a lot with …
Suffering from anxiety and many other issues since more than 5 years. How do I get better? Please read. I have no one to talk with. — Hello everyone, As the title says, I have been to therapy before but had to stop due to financial difficulties and rising bills, as it became too expensive for me to continue. I struggle a lot with …
I (22M) am so confused. Didnt know where else to go with this anymore. I just want help understanding what happened? PLEASE READ - its long, kinda. — important context- i was born into a religious family and grew up a religious kid not in any unorthodox manner only a typical hindu family in india. when i was a child i was afraid of the dark then on…
I haven’t worked in over a year how do I get back to it? — 19F in a month I’ll be 20 and damn no job, no car, no friends. What do I tell them about the year gap of not working ? I honestly been thinking about lying saying I wanted to focus on college for a li…
Look, I do understand where you're coming from. And I can tell you're only looking out for me. But think about it this way. Things have been really good, really stable and I do feel genuine connection…
If you had truly followed this sub,studied and read the index, you would have learned to use the search bar to find previous posts concerning a similar topic as well as an assortment of advice on how …
I really hope I can find some answers here about why I’m unable to let go of and forget one person. The breakup was unbearably painful, drawn-out, and emotionally exhausting. I spent years chasing an…
Yes I do feel horrible and I feel scared about the future because of that...most of the times women who have to be dependant on their man for the financial support have a hard time leaving a toxic rel…
I think disclosing that you have some anxiety and fears surrounding sex before the first time, or I guess right after would work too but face-to-face before you/they leave, because that would give you…
Hey there. Before I begin: You are loved, your feelings are valid, and you are worth it. Now, to me this sounds like an anxious spiral. You did something you yourself would see as 'too much', and are …
You should be more scared about him doing something to hurt you or your boys. This behavior is far from normal and makes him an unsafe person to be around. You should talk to his family about it.
1 month for me as if yesterday, Ex is moving out this week, finalising this Saturday, and the silence and loneliness is exactly what i am currently most scared about. Hope you’re doing ok
It does help though. I've been doing reformer pilates to tackle my gollum back posture and while the exercise hurts in the moment and maybe a couple days later it does get better over time, your muscl…
Your marriage is on the brink of collapse and you're scared about placing blame, so much so that you are allowing the relationship to break. She sees nothing wrong with what she did, which was a compl…
If you're getting more indifferent every day, will you take him back if he one day takes accountability and asks for the relationship back? I feel like I wont, and that's what I'm scared about.
I was thinking of looking into hypnotic regression but I am really scared about what might come.
1) we actually we APing together. There are numerous cases recorded in podcasts, social media and I suspect, books as well. I’m aware this is not the case, but I chose it as an example of people not …
You do know what you have to do, and let me say this: As someone who caught the cheating a week before the wedding and chose to stay because I was scared about people being upset about a canceled wedd…
Honestly, that’s a very good point. If my boyfriend said that to me, I’d be pretty scared about what was coming (assuming red flag behaviour hadn’t already happened). It’s always been weird because …
Sometimes I forget I have freeze, because it's been a default response for me for so long. It's really scary because you are locking up and feeling scared about that, and then having to explain to ot…
How did you get out? There must be something that cheaters must be scared about. They should not keep taking advantage of us.
Might aswell not get on that bus or train tomorrow too, it might crash and you might die. Also, next time you fancy an olive - dont do it! You might choke and suffocate! Life is for living and sharing…
This is very concerning. No one should ever threaten partners with a break up when there are problems. It should be a mutual conversation and it’s a little controlling to be “okay I’m not compromising…
My husband constantly reminds me that I’m an adult and adults don’t get in trouble…. We’re 46 years old and I don’t remember a day in my life where I wasn’t scared about being in trouble or yelled at.…
Really, really mad at my brain this morning (or I guess more so someone from my past) I had an amazing slow burn reconnection with someone towards the end of last year after we dated last summer and …
I’m mostly scared about not finding someone who will treat me like that again. I just hope someday I’ll be able to find someone who will truly want me for me. Thank you :)
I came home from college for thanksgiving and said I’d blacked out from drinking and was scared about it and asked what to do. My mom said “I don’t know, I never did anything like that” and changed th…
You are not behind. You are at the part of the story where the map has not appeared yet. A lot of people get told to “find their passion” like it arrives as lightning. For most of us it looks less ho…
Today’s Easter update- 1. Went in coffee date on Friday. He asked me as a second. I agreed, but also wasn’t too impressed by the small coffee date. 2. Have a “date” scheduled Saturday, cause guy se…
We don’t know your relationship dynamic more than you do. We can go off what you posted. I’m also going to play devils advocate here and not go straight into: FCK HIM, YOU NEED TO LEAVE HIM, YOU ARE G…
Yeah OP hasn't provided any of the reasons they want to break up. While "I just don't see myself with her" is a valid reason and you shouldn't stay in a relationship you aren't happy with, it's super…
I read your post history and it looked like you were in this relationship while you were separated? Maybe you haven’t spent enough time on your own. Maybe you’re burnt out both from the person that …
Thanks for the reply this is actually something I’ve been so very scared about because it is hard to remember things when I was that young but I’ve spent many years recalling what happened drowning in…
The numbness after all that chaos is so weird, right? Like your brain just decided to protect you but now everything feels muted, even the good stuff I get being scared about the apology too - it'…
Actually I remember rolling my eyes up and then waking up immedietly (Thank you for this detail). But I was not unwilling at all, I actually want to keep going, I just did not have any idea what was t…
Notice that you seem a lot more scared about damaging the friendship than she is. She's allowing her dog to make you feel unsafe in your own home. No decent person would allow a situation like that to…
None of this is your fault. It is the fault of your APs. The other people have given you good advice so I'll just say that I know you're probably very scared about what the future holds, but if you fo…
The more I think about it, I'm not scared about the interaction specifically, since the talk is an obligation and any obligation I'll go ahead and do without question. When I want to think deeper, I…
Thank you for your comment! You totally get me as in I’m definitely feeling way too much compared to the stage we’re in…I want to ask this but I’m pretty scared about the answer and I guess leaving a …
My dad (white) bitched at me sooo hard for this even though he knew my mom (Asian) asserted we had no money. We did have the money btw. So yeah idk, my dad expected me to whip out $300 for summer tra…
She probably realizing the rebound guy isn't what she thought and now with another baby coming she's getting scared about her situation.
It's a stupid game to play because someone might tell you something bad that you don't want to know. She did that, now she will NEVER tell anyone that again because you've shown her that you're scared…
This is classic trauma bonding and I’m happy it’s blown up in your face sooner, rather than later. Personally, I would leave. Early on, my ex (whom I trauma bonded with) told me that his ex prior to m…
How did she make it all about her? She has every right to be scared about how this will affect her family. You are so far off it’s just crazy.