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Miprocin or 4-HO-MiPT for me! (Or plain ole' shrooms!) I know 4-HO-MET gets all the love on reddit, but I find Miprocin similar and superior. If it is visuals that you want, go for Metocin though. B…

Responsive Font Weights? — How often do you guys set responsive font weights in your projects? If you do, what are your typical use cases - like using slightly heavier weights on mobile for better readability, or lighter weigh…

Having trouble differentiating between anxious attachment / normal needs, feeling lost and alone — First Reddit post here! (It's a long one, I just really need a place to put it all down and get some support, so thank you). I (19F) got out of my first long term relationship about 3 months ago. It l…

My friend felt stuck for years - in session we found a core belief that life is only suffering — I did a quantum healing session for my friend Ramona and honestly what came up was intense. She has felt stuck for a long time. Putting things off, hard to get moving, hard to create, hard to do even…

My friend felt stuck for years - in session we found a core belief that life is only suffering — I did a quantum healing session for my friend Ramona and honestly what came up was intense. She has felt stuck for a long time. Putting things off, hard to get moving, hard to create, hard to do even…

Coming to terms with possible childhood emotional neglect - curious how others turned out — As I’ve gotten older and started reflecting on my life, I’ve slowly worked backwards and realised that I might have experienced childhood emotional neglect (CEN). What’s funny is that it actually sta…

You can reality shift just by washing your hands — Hey everyone, I’ve been obsessed with this idea lately and I can’t stop thinking about it: what if the simple act of washing your hands, when you actually slow down and get fully present with it, bec…

Energy healing. How it works and what does the “patient” have to do so it is successful!! — My main technique when performing energy healing is that I don’t “put” some other energy or mine into patients body. I work with their energy since I believe they have all energy they might need for a…

Break up + no contact update (post 4 months) — I thought I’d give an update into my healing progress since my breakup, in hopes to shed a little light on the small positives that can come from heartbreak. For context, my ex and I broke up in Octob…

No one tells you that you have to KEEP deciding on the divorce — Arriving to this decision was so hard. Once I did, I felt lighter and confident and had Bad Bitch Energy about it. But that's faded a bit as I'm living in the same house with my STBXH, and I feel lik…

Heart Chakra opened, and I feel very very calm — Last night I laid down to meditate. After a while, my thoughts began to drift away again. They felt strangely random almost like they didn’t belong to me. I saw a woman and her child. She looked noth…

Help clean room’s energy — Hi, I am completely unsure if this is the best place to post this. I am currently working on opening my chakras, energy, thus changing my behaviour and habits. Recently, after becoming a bit higher…

The Moment I Realized Astral Projection Was More Real Than I Ever Imagined — Last night, I had an astral projection experience that completely blew my mind. At first, I was skeptical, thinking it would just be another lucid dream. But as soon as I felt my consciousness lift fr…

People who started studying stoicism as teens or young adults, how has your perception changed overtime? — 18 year old this side, I just put down *A Guide to the Good Life* and I am now wondering how much of how I look at the philosophy and life as a whole will change overtime. I feel, one of the biggest…

energy work on bf — my boyfriend has been having this horrible "charlie horse" cramp pain in his upper thigh area, all day at work and last night. for some reason, i intuitively felt like i could try something to assis…

25000 lives. What if? — Lately I’ve been thinking about time in a weird way. Instead of thinking “I have one life”, I started thinking in days. Like… if you live around 70 years, that’s roughly 25,000 days. That’s it. …

How to tell? — I know I haven't healed yet from my experience. But I'm having days where I feel lighter. I grew up in a home where we never repaired from conflict. We just moved on because we knew we loved each othe…

Writing about my experience with Iboga medicine 🌱 — Earlier I made a post and someone commented that they didn't want to watch a video. Understood! Here is an account of what I saw during my time with ceremony number one with iboga. It was not what I i…

How do you rebuild your life after depression takes everything? — I’ve had a pretty rough life overall - lots of abuse and difficult experiences. I’ve done a lot of therapy and worked really hard to become a healthier person, and I feel like I’ve moved past a lot of…

I've had headaches for 3 days now since I did 3 audios in a row. Help, advice. — Three days ago, in the afternoon, I listened to three audio recordings in a row: Focus 10 Pre, Advanced, and Libre. I read here that someone said they could achieve an OBE (Out-of-Body Experience) eve…

The chains your parents put on you (that you don't even remember) — My English is not native, sorry if I write a bit imperfect. I want to share something from a recent session that might help someone who feels stuck in their love life. Tina came to me feeling stuck. …

The Most Shifting Symptoms I've ever felt listening to a guided meditation — I'm actually pretty excited to talk about this because I've literally Felt things I'VE NEVER EVER FELT BEFORE IN MY 20 YEARS LIVING!!! I've got into shifting and started actually trying it a lot mor…

How do you know when you're just in a relationship because you've known them for so long? — I have my mom telling me my bf is no good for me. I got a text from a person saying that my bf had an inappropriate relationship with them, they were a band kid like he was. The old band members are b…

Is it ok to seek validation/support here...? — I am a mid 40s woman that historically had always wanted to have a biological child. In recent years I did a lot of work/therapy to let go of that as I was single for years and getting older, and I be…

Healing — It’s been 3 weeks since we broke up. 5 years 3 months 2 days evaporated. You showed me your true colors right away with the lies, gaslighting, and cheating. I endlessly gave you the benefit of the dou…

R failed. I left him — I left him yesterday. He asked for a last chance today but I was able to stop him and I clarified that I already said the last time that it was his final chance. It was really difficult for me. I fe…

Are you a fighter, flighter, freezer, or fawner? — Fun little depressing tag yourself poll 😎 I’m a freezer and fawner

Weird/scary experience during meditation — In short, just today I did very short literally 10 min (though it didn’t feel like that) pranayama with candle in front of me. As usual, how I my teacher has taught me, I did an aura cleansing by conn…

Struggling to manifest physical changes — Hi! So I’m using a throwaway account for this because my family knows my normal account, but for a few months now I’ve been trying to manifest some physical changes. (Decreased height, lighter skin, s…

Does anybody have a parent that always insists they're in the right? — ...and even if you explain the situation well enough for them to understand, they'll continue to insist that they're in the right. They might even accuse you of something bad, then frame you as though…

the clarity i didn’t know i needed — after years of dealing with emotional abuse, i finally ended things and made them leave. at first there was talk about it maybe being temporary, and then at some point they told me they were over it/m…

simple way of manifesting — Since we are so used to autopilot we rarely question or decide what we truly want. I always catch myself arguing whether something is gonna happen or not. I have dark brown hair and without bleaching…

I realized I’ve been trying to ‘repay’ the blessings in my life—and it was exhausting — I noticed something about myself recently that I didn’t expect. *This started as a reflection on Gratitude.* For most of my life, anytime something good happened— an opportunity, support, even j…

April 03, 2026 - Weekly FAQ and Beginner Q&A Thread | If you are new to Neville, please post your questions here! How do I manifest X? What does Y mean? — Feel free to ask any type of question on this thread. More importantly, feel free to answer questions that have been asked! Additionally, please refrain from posting multiple questions in the subredd…

UPDATE - I 29F told my partner 35M I'm done, but he won't return my messages or my plants, what can I do? — My original post - https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship\_advice/s/3yKNYfIhxW I HAVE MY PLANT BABIES! It felt like an impossible task, but I have my plants back. I don't think anyone is still follow…

Is there a timeline for dating again? — Hi everyone! So I’ve been separated from my husband for 6 months now and I’ve already filed for a divorce back in January. Anyway, a friend of mine and I have expressed interest in each other last mon…

I feel myself turning into an incel and I don’t know what to do about it. — Ever since I entered senior year at school, I’ve always felt alone. Anytime I hung with a certain group in or outside of school I always just seemed to be not there, or just be that one person who did…

THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS! (manifestation and neville) // PART 2 — SELF-CONCEPT (roll those drums caz i got my tea and i got to PREACH) i can claim to be the GOD of self concept i swear on me i got it baby and i got it sooooooo goooood (please take what you will …

THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS! (manifestation and neville) // PART 2 — SELF-CONCEPT (roll those drums caz i got my tea and i got to PREACH) i can claim to be the GOD of self concept i swear on me i got it baby and i got it sooooooo goooood (please take what you will caz…

Day 18 - I almost smoked... — bro bro bro this time it was really difficult because I was having my drinks and I was having a good time and all of us attend my friend said just light up a cig for him and I almost just light up tha…

Ending things (M31 and F28) Over Shallow Reason? — I've been seeing a woman for 7 weeks (9 dates). We met on Hinge. She's extremely nice and has a good personality. I think she likes me quite a bit. I'm hung up on an aspect of her that I didn't realiz…

How often do you guys get mistaken for a different ethnicity? — I’m Vietnamese and people (including my own family) have said that I looked more Japanese. Maybe it’s because i’m lighter skinned than most SEA I know but idk. I remembered being in Japan during lay…

20F need more proof of my boyfriend 21M cheating on me — I \[20F\] don’t want to sound like the dumb girlfriend here but i really need some advice, desperately. i went onto my boyfriends \[21M\] phone, not because i suspected anything but because i am just …

i told my mom the truth in front of everyone and now she won’t answer my calls — so we’re at my aunt’s place eating this dry ass chicken and my mom (50sF) is in that weird extra nice mood she gets sometimes and i swear that’s always when something goes sideways, she starts telling…

I figured it out — I've known about emotional neglect for a while now, but despite knowing this I've been stuck in this deep dark pit for a decade. I've been living at home with my parents ever since I dropped out of co…

Okay, so I know I cannot be the only person to have manifested a new/different eye color from my previous eye color?? — So I originally started out with dark brown eyes, very basic, very common, very standard. Then I got into the subliminal community on YouTube, and started listening to the “Amber eyes” subliminal by t…

a lighter post — i hope this is allowed, i was wondering if anyone had things that are technically a result of trauma but were helpful in certain situations/circumstances. ill leave an example if i didn't explain it…

how do i find myself — im 21, i've got a year left until i get my degree, ive gotten straight A's for 5 semesters in a row, i work a full time job where i was promoted and got associate of the quarter, my financial responsi…

he showed up to my door uninvited yesterday — i'm spiraling. it's been two months since our last breakup conversation. i told him i was still in love with him, and he still said he didn’t want to be partners anymore, but that “labels are confusin…

Sp looking miserable and awful — So I had a problem with stalking and constantly checking on sp but I stopped and grew my energy into myself instead. Anyway after I did that I felt so much better and lighter; still do actually and I …

I feel like I'm too much for for my best friend and I don’t know if I should step back or try to fix it (31F / 29F) — I’m trying to understand if this is an attachment mismatch or if I’m just… fundamentally too heavy for people. I’m 31, she’s 29, and we’ve known each other for over 10 years. She’s not a casual frien…

Orrrrrrrr.... In the early thaw of spring, when frost still clung stubbornly to the edges of the earth, the apology remained unsent. It lingered like a letter never mailed. Its seal unbroken, its tru…

Thank you, truly. Your words mean more than you know. I can feel the kindness and empathy in them, and I’m really grateful they resonated with you. I’m so sorry you’re hurting too. Even if neither of …

Talking to guys and going on dates while having a steady FWB is actually great (to clarify: only in the early stage, and yes, he knows and he’s fine with it). My “basic needs” are fulfilled, so, they …

I don't think you understand what I mean. Attachment is some sort of coping. Coping with stress situations is happening to keep up a salutegenese or in other words: trying the best possible without ha…

The whole experience feels painfully forced on both sides 😂 hope it will be lighter and more romantic in the future!

Also Libra rising, Saturn at 21* Scorpio in the 2nd, ruling 4th and 5th houses. Day chart, Saturn ruled by 29* mars in cancer in the 10th and/or Pluto in Scorpio at 2* in the 2nd. Saturn is conjunct …

I have a date on Saturday. She's cute and nerdy and likes folk horror. There's been very little chatting, so I'm not really sure what to expect, but her vibes are fun. This'll be first date since g…

Tranisting Pluto opposite natal Sun 🫠😵‍💫🥴💀... If you survive it, it feels lighter, nicer, stronger 🎈 🎐🏆😌

When I (31m) deleted my OLD apps in late December for a much needed mental health break, I struggled a tiny bit with the transition from a busy, active dating life back to being single. One thing I wa…

I don't disagree! It is very odd but I honestly think the reaction if I told someone I thought they were lying would be genuine shock. I think I wouldn't mind dating a little shorter than myself if t…

The good news about wanting change in my own life, is that by the time I can voice the change I want, I'm already close to having achieved it. It sounds like there are some things you value, and for…

What you're saying IS true, but it's kind of a moot point cuz being surrounded by abusers is significantly traumatizing whether you're conventionally attractive or not. But being outside that, pretty …

Not much to say other than this sounds exactly like me, perfect and present husband and father (together 7 years) but I want nothing to do with him . Can't pinpoint an exact cause or big event to blam…

Reading all of these responses has honestly meant more to me than I expected. When I made the post I was just hoping to find a few people who understood what this feels like. Instead I’ve been hearing…

I guess I have a very hyperactive and planner mind. At the peak of the trip I couldn't achieve anything but keeping rolling in the mental loop. I guess that I wanted to much and I didn't let anything …

In yoga, it’s said that if you can’t use logic and reason to change the mind/habits, something must be stored in the body. It’s been proven that the body keeps the score - book https://a.co/d/062WTQ…

My ex was bald from the beginning of our 20yr marriage never bothered me. He was turned off by my weight but was not honest. Always rejected me and body shamed me. Today I am 25 lbs lighter and in th…

2C-B (Nexus) hands-down one of the most manageable psychedelics to start with when you nail the dose 🫶🏼15-20 mg oral hits that sweet spot where you get the best of both worlds: the warm, euphoric, l…

This was one of the first guides I listened to. And the best part is that it worked! I managed to shift to an alternative version of ours. Nothing serious changed but the reality I went to had a com…

One time I felt my body getting lighter and ligther, similar to that state we feel before going to sleep. Thats a good thing or I was probably getting sleepy?

I struggle with the exact same issue and the only thing I do is 1) meditate 2) notice the pattern each time it arises and sometimes I investigate the logic and beliefs behind that and it leads to new …

“Seven pounds lighter, ma! In just one day!”

Thanks for the feedback 😊 Yes, wherever Scorpio can be found in the chart there may be a feeling of insecurity and scarcity...personally I have Scorpio on my 4th house cusp (I'm a Leo rising) and I a…

Gosh, you must feel so much lighter. I hope you are proud of yourself, because you made it through all that and knew you deserved better and that's so hard!

Exactly. My type is tan & dark hair. Especially with tattoos and lighter eyes. My husband was pale and blonde with no tattoos, as have been a few of my boyfriends. Never have I told any of them about …

6 months post BU and nope I don’t plan to date any time soon. It is VERY important for me to work on the things in me that led to the breakup and areas of dysfunction that have led me to unfulfilling …

this isn’t accurate — while you CAN cough during lighter sleep, not everyone does very much at all, and you CAN’T cough during REM sleep also, as an aside — somatic cough syndrome is in fact “medic…

You're taller and lighter than I am and I'm much older without diabetes, you will be fine. I'd diagnose you with a shitty boyfriend though.

Oh my goodness, congratulations! That’s a huge accomplishment! I’ve only varied maybe 20 lbs on the apps (about 150-170lbs, 5’10”) and I always do much better when I’m lower, but the overall demogra…

Hello Nutrition Coach here. You aren’t going to get diabetes. You do seem to be in a relationship with a bully though. Time to get out. You’re young, fit and healthy. Go and enjoy your life. A little …

Hey friend. First, I’m really glad you spoke up here. Carrying something like this alone since you were nine is an incredibly heavy weight for one person, especially someone your age. The numbness y…

How much will your weight hinder you? Not in the least with the caveat that it’s all about confidence. If you go into it apologetically it’s not going to end well. I’ve dated at 50+ pounds heavier …

Well, just the fact that you're 34 years old helps a lot because you have the maturity to deal with all this. That has made you much luckier than me, for example. You have the right tools to deal with…

I'm sorry, this is hard. Healing from burnout can take years. You are on the right path. All you need is to feel a little better about your choices. I am going to try to help you with that. Ok. Fi…

That pattern is actually very common. When someone triggers those abandonment or validation wounds, it can make you hyper-aware of every little shift in their behavior. I went through the same thing. …

No, he didn’t want to talk for the sake of the breakup. I tried to explain to him it was more than me just being tired. I posted on my Instagram story about what it had done to me. And he saw it but i…

This post and the comments brought up so many ideas for me in regards to healing, recovery, society, relationships, past versus present, my future, the future in general, and so much more. It gave me …

For the newer folks I'll also add, I know some periods of life will just be rough. Sometimes we can hear these things and think it means we need to avoid or push down our negative emotions, and that w…

The Sedona Method is about releasing the emotional charge you are holding around something rather than trying to force a different thought or outcome. When a feeling comes up, you bring awareness to i…

That’s a great point. Getting a few things done early must make the rest of the day feel much lighter. I like the part about giving yourself grace too. That’s something a lot of people struggle with.

TW: brief mention of DV I remember feeling incredibly relieved and lighter. It was like, finally, I didn't have to justify not having the capacity or desire for employment. For once I wasn't carrying…

I just started this one and I was kinda confused. I didn’t have anything in particular to focus on (maybe I will prep something for next time) so I just pictured the word “fear” and started with that.…

The pain is intense and it's hard to imagine that it will pass. Like the first time it happened to me, I felt like I was physically in pain. It was unbearable. It will feel just a little lighter every…

I had these happen in the height of my experiences in early 2000s, usually in bedroom. but.....happily (?) one happened in the hallway in the presence of family members.. a place where there is no lig…

One day we’re all going to die, and none of this will matter. Maybe I have thirty more winters, thirty more summers, and only a handful of chances left to see my parents. Realizing that has been the m…

Been 9 years together and can't share my kinks cause she would be grossed out by it (because I've said some lighter things and yeah).

Hmm, yeah that's a good question. Not really, I'd say. I mean, she was very cold in texting from the very, very beginning - I just assumed she doesn't like texting and just is that way in text. Oth…

I had a very similar experience when my partner and I separated. I thought I knew them, and I knew that fantasy better than I knew myself. When the fantasy broke, I was shattered and completely lost. …

Around Feb ~12 this year a "joke" about me moving 1500 miles away started with a friend that lives in that city. Flash forward, enter a new relationship that feels like it checks every manifestation b…