when you know, you know

Grief — I honestly just need to scream into the void a bit tonight because my friends/family seem a bit tired of hearing me go on and on about grieving the loss of my relationship, and honestly I'm pretty tir…

Does anyone else who has a 'high' ACE score feel like a fraud for having that score? Like they bypassed the questions and are exaggerated to get this score and don't actually deserve it? — I want to get into this by saying that ACE test **extremely** unreliable, false and too constricted to cover everything that can cause profound trauma, they often don't include stuff like religious/cu…

I (29F) think I hate my (M30) Husband 8 months postpartum. Divorce or stick it out? — As the title says, I don’t know what to do about my marriage after we had our baby. My husband and I were swept away by each other when we first met. I thought it was the “when you know, you know” tha…

I have done some self-work and I might not be the most severe example of an AP, but I find that in a secure relationship I can become secure myself. I had an 8 year relationship with I believe a secur…

When you know, you know, I guess!

I say when you know, you know. And if it changes, it changes I suppose 🤷🏽‍♀️

I'm a health centric person, so I definitely want someone similar minded. I for one can't sit around. Active dates and an active life in general are important. It doesn't necessarily have to be the ex…

I feel this It'll happen when you least expect it, just relax If you want a partner, you need to work at it. It's a numbers game You need to give people more to see how you really feel When yo…

It’s green where you water it. When you know, you know. And you will help that flourish. Not constantly inquire if there’s something better.

As another reditor already said, he does know - he doesn't want to marry you. Thousand of cases "I don't want to marry" and "I don't know" ans then after the waity one left, the man marries another wo…

I was talking with my therapist about this today. It is interesting but I've noticed it too, I just call it "It". Can't really describe it but when you know, you know and if they got it, they just got…

“when you know, you know” - except when you come for attachment trauma in childhood where someone feels familiar to that environment.

My impression is that you're incompatible and no amount of couple's counseling is going to fix that. While you were dating you went to counseling? Huge red flag. That should have been your honeymoon …

“When you know, you know” is better applied to leaving a relationship. I know it’s hard with a baby, but trust yourself here. You know it’s time to leave and divorce. And him bringing his mom back …

If this experience is based on the dating site trial and error dates of that world, then I would say, be chill if you can. Send a nice note and leave it to fate. Also keep dating and don't internalize…