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Overcorrections 2 Electric Boogaloo — This time I'm focusing on the way things are phrased in this subreddit's Read Me First. The problems I'm noticing can be either attributed to right understanding but wrong phrasing, or wrong understan…
Read! if you were anxious ! — I am going to write this with neville goddard lectures quotes. I know it will help some of you :) **Feel the wish fullfilled :** I know some people can't generate the feeling of wish fullfilled and b…
I wanted to discuss letters 3 to 5 of Moral Letters. — I just finished letters 3 to 5 of Letters From a Stoic by Seneca. I wanted to summarise what I got from them, and talk with y'all about the parts I didn’t fully understand. If I misrepresented or mis…
My mom is accusing me of incest. Again. — I'm a minor. I live with my parents. Yesterday I slept in the afternoon that's why I couldn't sleep and was awake till dawn, my older brother is awake as well. We talked, reminisced about our past exp…
Stop trying to one up physical abuse victims — You're not being radical or breaking the mold the way you think you are. Wider, non-trauma informed society already enforces every invalidation tactic you use on us and our abuser numbed us to it firs…
It still hurts — It's been 4 months roughly since I broke things off. We technically only dated for a month but had a situationship thing going on for a bit before that. (My first and definitely not last blaring red f…
He got into a relationship the very next day!! — Hi, me and my ex were in a relationship for 5 years and know each other for almost 5.5 or 6 years now. We had a very loving and truthful relationship. We were genuinely very close, emotionally, me…
Having a really hard go of seeing her in person for any length of time — Hello again I had to leave our shared apartment about 2 weeks ago due to the fact that I was constantly feeling sad and jealous while living in such close proximity to my stbx of 16 years. (We were t…
I feel like everything is over — im fully falling out and burning. Recently quit my job, I dont have any friends, my family is not close or caring, all Ive had for 6 years was him. we are currently going through a break up. my life w…
How to stop thinking I’m better than everyone! — I have a REALLY bad habit of always thinking I’m better than others. For example when I start a new hobby I think to my self “if I start this then I’ll be better then this person” and I hate this way …
THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS! (manifestation and neville) // PART 1 — (YA'LL I DONE POSTED PART 2 AND 3 - GIVE IT A READ OR DONT -YOU DO YOU LOVELIEESSSS!) Alright now ! it's gonna be some tough love so take it that way.' Also it's gonna be one long post so imma need y…
THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS! (manifestation and neville) // PART 1 — (YA'LL I DONE POSTED **PART 2 AND 3** \- GIVE IT A READ OR DONT -YOU DO YOU LOVELIEESS) Alright now ! it's gonna be some tough love so take it that way.' Also it's gonna be one long post so imma need…
Channeling Moses- but is it actually Loki?? — Hey everyone, I’m not sure who to turn to for advice on this, but I’d really appreciate some insight or guidance. This is a long post but it gets weird: About 8 months ago, I had a spiritual awakenin…
I need some people to hear and believe me — Someone in my life is a lot like my mother. Not someone I chose to know, I was unlucky enough to move in above her. And she's DARVO'd and smear campaigned, the list goes on. I know there's essentially…
I just cannot find a therapist no matter where I look — I just can’t fucking find anyone. I’m really trying to lock in on at least one but there’s just no one. No one that looks like I’d be comfortable with them, or they don’t really help with trauma. Psyc…
Alone once again — there's an art exhibition of senior students at my school tomorrow and i asked one of my only friends to come with me because I didnt want to show up alone. she just canceled it (at 11pm) because she …
how come (certain) people react aggressively to suicide, and suicidal thoughts? — I started thinking about suicide when I was 12. I'm 21 now. One of the first things I heard was that I was being "selfish" and "stupid". My grandmother was dying back in 2016, her brother found out ab…
I need anyone to tell me I exist. — Please hear me out. I have no one. I'm 20. My only friend is my boyfriend and he's pulling away because I'm "too sad all the time." I live with my parents (absent dad, morbidly obese (it’s relevant l…
I’m losing hope. — please just hear me out for a second. i’m not asking for anything big. i just… don’t want to feel like i don’t exist anymore. i’m 20 and i have no one. my boyfriend is basically my only friend and ev…
My ex fiancé ruined my life and it’s kind of my fault. — This is a long, absolutely insane story. So buckle up. I’m only here as a way to get it out of my head and because of smosh story time on fb. Idk I guess I like other people reading stories. So here’s…
Thinking about her again after 9 Months — Title. I hope everyone understands this is my perspective. It will come off one-sided and I will be blunt as to not keep running in circles. I will be as unbiased as possible but I understand any ques…
get me out get me out — my mom rants and vents to me about her useless conflict with some boy for like 7 HOURS the whole day and I'm so tired and burnt out from it. she expects me to say certain things that boost her ego, li…
Starting to set in that it’s over — She’s staying with a friend starting in May until the lease is up this summer. We discussed divorce about a month ago but nothings been signed yet. It’s stating to set in that my marriage will effecti…
First breakup, don’t have friends to talk to about it and feel so alone — I don’t know exactly what to say, I just feel so overwhelmed and upset and I just want to say something and stop keeping it in. It was my first “relationship”, if you would call it that, and was onli…
First breakup, don’t have friends to talk to about it and feel so alone — I don’t know exactly what to say, I just feel so overwhelmed and upset and I just want to say something and stop keeping it in. It was my first “relationship”, if you would call it that, and was onli…
Spinning out, no contact and isolated, landlord trying to evict me again. Everything is falling through. — I’m trying to find the strength in going fully no contact with my entire family and entire extended family. It’s mostly just emptiness, suicidal thoughts and the imbalance going to one or two relative…
Can't sleep. I can't take this anymore. — I cannot sleep. Every night, I just lie here thinking of all the good memories, and it hurts so much. But my stbx husband is not a good person. He’s so mean. I wish I could focus on all the harsh thin…
he dumped me, I miss him — My ex broke up with me 2 months ago. It was a short but toxic relationship that lasted 9 months. During that time, he slept with his ex, lied about it, kept photos of her on his social media, and refu…
How could you do this to me? — How do you let go when they were everything to you? How do you accept the sad reality that you might never see them again? I was so in love with you. I guess I still am, even after everything that…
Wow, you have done a significant amount of research. I am just now learning about these Avoidant Attachment Styles. I'm not real sure what my SO has, and I'm also not sure which attachment style I hav…
My ex dumped me in a cruel-hearted way on September 8 (I’ve written a ton about it in comments and posts in my history if you’re interested), texted me one week later with a chatGPT-written non-apolog…
I started dating a guy, about half a year ago, I'm not sure when exactly. We both have kids.. When my partner met my kid, my ex was there, my ex was aware, my ex and I communicated about this relati…
No one. Let him learn the hard way.
This sub is Stoicism, a philosophy of life which tells us to mind what is ours and not to mind what is not ours. We are not in control of what others do, and worrying about what others might do is a …
Yeah. I've been away 5 months, after only having abuse in my life for 27 years. Isolated my entire life, only was ever around the abusers and they did every type of abuse. I feel worse after I left be…
Your boyfriend’s compulsive violent thoughts and outbursts are a direct threat to your safety. You can appreciate the apology, but his mental illness is completely unmanaged right now. He doesn’t ha…
I provided a free, actionable psychological breakdown to help her start healing right now, alongside an optional professional tool for deeper recovery, meanwhile, your only contribution to her trauma …
Because focusing on national level issues is pretty silly. Focus on things you have control over. If you aren't even volunteering locally, it's safe to say worrying about national level issues is perf…
Dude isn’t a looker, regardless. Plus, he presents as one of those weird white-washed AMs. That’s attractive to no one.
Your imagination was a sanctuary you built for yourself. Good job to little you ❤️ My childhood was much the same, whole lotta nothing, being quiet, having tea parties with my teddy bears in complete …
I'm so sorry you lost your Dad. I know someone who was in your position45 years ago. Life did not turn out well for him. You need a job. Any job. It can be a volunteer job, but do not start doi…
Do not tell them. Just be a normal guy and do your job. Do not spend too much money. Also never share this with anyone. You never know who is gonna become your enemy. Usually what happens is gf then …
They always point out the reaction but never acknowledge the abuse they did, even when I have proof. They would also shame me for having proof. It's good you have support from a family member. I have …
Omg just saw the title and IMMEDIATELY CLICKED. OMG Yeah. Fuck yea I do. Its been all I can think about at 37 years old and wondering when do I or even do I get to take part in society at all. I am ve…
I don't hate my ndad. I know why he was the way he was, his childhood was... inconceivable. Just horrible. I actually think for what he had to work with, he did as well as he possibly could have. That…
I’m in this situation now. I moved back in with my folks after a breakup + because of family stuff. Things were in flux and I didn’t know how long I’d be here. When I thought it would be just a couple…
Why not both? Epictetus is really describing stages of development. At first, we blame others because we don’t yet see our own role in our judgments. Then, as we begin to understand, we blame ourse…
I don't have advice but just wanted to say that I think you are amazing and I am praying for you and your sisters. The only advice I could possibly offer is just to make every effort to fight against …
I would just tell him tbh. We all know she's "working" on things with him right now because she's waiting to see if this new man is worth uprooting everything. Making sure she doesn't end up with no o…
I wouldnt say no one. My main "fear" is loneliness. Currently in final stage. House sold and just waiting for takeover date
Good news my friend, now you know who your gf really is!!! This is not about your ego. This is not about insecurity. This is about betrayal. You trusted you gf with something you've told almost no o…
You will NEVER ne able to trust her. Ever. She betray you. This is not a small thing. In general she cant keep her mouth shut which is a make or break personality trait for me personally. Know this...…
You should have learned already, tell no one.
Well can you be grateful she wants to be around you at all. Some people are so lonely and have no one. You’re actually being selfish. Maybe tell her you be exhausted and that you will go min Wednesday…
“Well you grew up with a lot of privilege so maybe you should go without for a while” -evil stepmom This was a week after my dad had died. Which was 4 years after my mother had died. I was working o…
Humans are not designed to have ZERO support. No family, no relationship, and yes some "friends", but they prioritize their OWN family and relationships, as they should. If something happens to me,…
EDIT: why am i getting downvotes. I m just asking a question cuz i m confused, i m not hating on no one. I don t know what nb stands for
A very attractive rep in her late 20s recently flirted with me and I just didn’t know what to do with it. She told me I was attractive. I blanked. She reiterated. I said thank you. I have to admit, ha…
Thats absolutely insane. Why is her first jump to incest? The accusation itself is more telling of her thoughts than anything to do with you. If we use her logic, then is her being close to your broth…
I know my ex was mean but he wasn’t always mean he was the only one there for me when I had no one. Not even family so I got really attached. I did try and cut things off with the new guy but no matte…
Are you doing the Gym / Work thing too ? Distraction is a great temporary reliever that can make all the difference, but it's not a strategy for moving forward so - YES, you need to utilize that Too…
Karma?!?!. Its 2026. List the people you know that are scared of karma?! Yea no one. No one rethinks their actions bc of being afraid of such nonsense. You want to believed in a mindset that “hey th…
You don't want to see them again. You offer. They decline. Literally end of story so why are you caring what they think of you? I'm a firm believer in invitee pays. I don't go out for meals, too form…
I’m really sorry that happened to you. Hopefully you’ve been able to work through the trauma. That being said, your situation clearly was much worse than what’s being indicated here in the story. OP …
This is HIGHLY individual. No one has a definitive answer here. No one. I did a bunch the day my dad suddenly died. I was in another country and alone. No family, no friends and it was a major holid…
Realizing that reality is but an illusion created by the consciousness to experience itself. Look at the bigger picture and don’t get lost in small and meaningless details. You are the creator of your…
(1) He used to be a hero dad. (2) He distanced himself from you once he got with his new partner. (3) When he *does* contact you, it's usually when his partner isn't around. Sounds to me like he …
I have an anxious attachment myself that I discovered a few years ago. Idk if it's still the same or maybe worse now. I could relate to every word in your post, and you're right about how incredibly v…
I've been in therapy since 2018 and I just recently started delving into why I accept certain things or let people treat me a certain type of way. From my situation I had 2 narcissistic parents, one w…
I feel so much of what you’re feeling. The optimism you feel when you meet someone you click with. A potential friend to go and do fun things with. Then all of the sudden everything inside feels all w…
I understand it's hard. And we're allowed to grieve what we could've had if we the had the same opportunities as someone. But, comparison serves no one.Comparison is the fastest way to take all the fu…
Imma teach no one. Okay so why post (: I'm just saying you came here, and wrote a three part book on the subject. And then cross posted to other subs. You came to teach. You checked your 3D, and you …
I went quiet. Told no one. I do not live near her or her side of the family. Then I started getting the flying monkeys reaching out. “You only get one mother”, “we know she is difficult, but she l…
I used to scream for help and no one called the cops. Yeah every police interaction, generally for his friends and such being loud/partying, which wasnt fun after but when I was being severely abused,…
Tried to make it work and told no one. Then realised that was unhealthy and I needed to speak about it and so did he. Told close family and friends. Still tried to make it work after. It didn’t in the…
this helps no one. don’t be a dickhead
what a surprise to no one.
I have active suicidal ideation AND I think suicide is selfish and horribly cruel to everyone who cares about you. Both can be true at the same time. My son made an attempt once after a prolonged bo…
I totally get your pov, but I'm just so alone at this point and I have absolutely no one. It's only him rn. I'm at that point in my life, if he leaves me, my life will be ruined.