being tough

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I have been a "pretty" male my whole life and it was one of the reasons I got SA as a child and teen and my brother (who has always been obese) didn't. Also as a young adult, I had very disgusting enc…

The grass is greener where you water it. And you stopped watering like a year ago. Renovating a house is one of the hardest things a couple can do together bc of the stress of the $ and all the deci…

Super not normal behavior, very mean, really unnecessary. Leaving you on read for two days is the icing on the cake. I'd leave him alone for awhile after this. This is a show-up-with-flowers-and-cake …

Ehr no, I also don't do secretly any of those things. Actually I don't even think it is being tough, I do them because I feel weak and I know that if I checked it would hurt me...

Right? I don't check because it could hurt my feelings, and I'd rather not know. It's the opposite of being tough.