failures

I ignored my self-critic for a full week and boy was it exhausting — A week ago I decided that since behavioural activation therapy, CBT, other therapies, and trying to find ways to be productive or find meaning with others or by myself, and even low pressure advice we…

My arguments against manifestation — 1. **Maladaptive daydreaming proves that manifestation isn't real**; Manifestation doctrine teaches that what you focus on expands and manifests in your physical reality. Do not split hairs and try to…

I have failed. More than once. (i will not promote) — Been 10 years since I started my professional journey. I have failed. More than once. I have also succeeded and still doubted myself through it. I have risked time, energy, money, relationships. S…

Any experience monitoring Redshift — Does anyone have experience monitoring Redshift? We've been having a series of data incidents and we're lacking visibility for what's happening with various jobs. The team usually resorts to tracking …

Finding Like Minded Business People — **TL/DR :**  Looking for people who are stuck with unsure with what business they want to pursue and end up learning a little bit about all of them; that want to partner up to stay focused with each …

ELI5: What is TDD and BDD? Also, TDD vs BDD? — I wrote this short article about TDD vs BDD because I couldn't find a concise one. It contains code examples in every common dev language. Maybe it helps one of you :-) Here is the repo: https://githu…

How do you actually feel safe believing and knowing when it comes to an SP manifestation? — Brief context: I've studied the law on and off for 6 years. Tried to manifest 2 old SP's with varying success, then eventually having them both try to contact me, but I realized that I was shooting so…

I (re)earned my secure attachment this week. What a journey this has been. — I just wanted to share this diary dump with anyone who wants a success story. I believed myself to be FA/A for a long time, and this week I can finally call myself secure. TW: sexual assualt Despite …

I spent years trying to fix my life with discipline. Therapy showed me why that didn’t work — **My Journey** I can’t remember not being depressed. I have some memories of the time before, but they are pictures, frames of a child enjoying life. But I’ve struggled with depression almost my enti…

THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think) — Soo days back I made a post voicing frustrations about my shifting experience and mentioning a few a of my roadblocks. Two days ago I shifted successfully to the Odyssey and when I came back to my cr…

Can a full year (or multiple years) be analyzed astrologically? — I should preface by saying I know very little about astrology beyond the basics I’ve seen from astrologers online so I apologize if any part of this question contains inaccuracies or incorrect termino…

The most important part of EVERYONE IS YOU PUSHED OUT (EIYPO) — I think that what I will say in the following lines has to be reminded as much as possible in the manifesting exes and partners communities. Manifesting a person is not only easy, it is effortle…

Failure & The Power of Awareness — Just thought I’d share a quick excerpt around failures. It’s easy to get in your head about it. Don’t try so hard, let it be natural. As Neville says, “it is the frequency, not the length of time that…

I just don't know anymore — why do i always feel like that i need validation. i mean i make my own decisions but i always doubt my decisions, overthinking whether it is right or wrong. when i fail at something, i know just the t…

My story, just have a need to vent somewhere — 25 years old desperately trying to finish his uni to maybe finally have some independence, crying in the bathroom stall at the internship again. I guess I'll just put my story here to cope. Througho…

feeling kinda hopeless and a failure — this is kinda of a sad post but I feel like I need to talk it out because it would be unhealthy if I kept it in and I'm usually a dont tell anyone about anyone about your emotions. Lately, seeing all …

Acting like nothing happened after they sabotaged you — When I was about to escape their grasp, they did everything in their power to harass me and sabotage me, I ended up faling back into depression and all my hard work and opportunities were lost. I spen…

What changes did you notice once you started taking actions ? — I’m learning nothing is wrong with me, all I’m doing is just avoiding actions and habit of extreme overthinking which has lead to fear, embrassment feeling to ask someone for help or seeking advice, a…

pls help — I know this is like a common mindset issue but I feel like there’s something wrong with me. I feel like im the special person who is immune to manifesting. I‘ve known about it for years and I feel lik…

Should I just leave my father and move back to my home country with my mom? — Tl.dr Should I(17f) just leave my dad(40sM) and and move back to my home country with my mom(40sF) (who isn’t in this country btw) bcz things are really messed up. My mom is thinking of getting a divo…

Amor fati(love of one’s fate) — After 9 months of no contact and 1.5 years breakup from my ex, it is my first day that I am feeling a sense of relief. For me the key of healing was accepting my own fate. Accepted my mistakes, accept…

I (M45) and my online friend (40F) have been spending a lot of time together but I’m not sure whether to pursue or not. — This friend that I’ve been playing an online game with for the past two months and I have been texting, sexting, and have been all-around having a good time. It started off as us just having fun with …

how to remember to do the head lift method — i’ve been trying to ap everyday for years and have never gotten anywhere, i think i’ve became really apathetic and numb after doing all this work but only getting failure, so nothing will stick into m…

Alone — I was raised by narcissists. They abused me in multiple different ways, did not allow me to see my friends, blamed me for things they literally did, encouraged me to harm myself, stole my identity, an…

Mom revealed that she doesn't have empathy — It sounds strange, but my mom has told me several times that she has no empathy or struggles with it. For example, she once told me that when her friend called after friend's mother died, she answered…

Career insights - Lot of failures — Can anyone please read my chart and give me insights on my career. My stress levels are at peak and whatever I do, there’re a lot of hindrances.

Do you really go permanent no contact after a huge LTR? Is that really common? I’m struggling recently with it all… — I’m a 21yo dude, was with my ex (22f) for about 4.5 years on-off too for all of college. She was my first in literally everything. I worked really hard, got myself a great job after college, etc, larg…

40, divorced 3 years, but feel like I'll never find a partner again. What would you do if you were me? — Location: Hong Kong Age: 40 Status: divorced 3 years, no kids Money: net worth \~US$6M (no debt), few furniture stores and a rental property. High income but stress level is insane. I could retire…

I’ve just released the evidence to the press that NSW Police fabricated a medical diagnosis to criminalize my trauma. I am dropping the files here on Friday. — *Disclaimer: I am remaining anonymous while investigative journalists review the evidence file I just submitted to them. I have on me clinical assessments, hospital documents, and audio recordings sup…

*Repost* Old OrionDirectorate post (prior username change) — Hello everyone, I found this success story interesting. I hope others do too, especially the ones seeking the financial aspects of manifesting. **For those new here, I'd like to clarify once more tha…

I'm the bad guy! And I admit it! But I'm growing. — TL;DR I did dumb shit but I've learned & grown & I want some insight from guys who've accepted accountability & made the best from the worst. So I'm gonna get this started with some backstory. STBXW …

A hatter and loser — I wandered with you into the dark, following the flicker of your gas lantern. With our childs small hand in mine, I have done the unthinkable. I stopped chasing you. I watched your lantern grow smalle…

The book Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz — This isn’t motivation. This is a system. The book Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz is not just “self-help.” It’s a precise breakdown of how your mind actually operates. Core idea: You don’t live…

One year of CBT, self-harm not anchored in sessions, just learned I might have BPD — thoughts? — I have been seeing a therapist for over a year, weekly sessions, CBT approach mainly. I noticed that when I express self harm moments, she just ask one or two questions then the topic changes. Since I…

I know there is way but I'm shattering myself — This not a positive post but I feel this way and I have no one or anyone to share. I just saw a post on LinkedIn a girl named something. She is a gold medalist at iim indore(prestigious college in In…

Strategies to overcome freeze response — I’m diagnosed with CPTSD, ADHD and narcolepsy. I’m medicated and currently on waitlists for psychotherapy. I struggle with chronic procrastination due to debilitating perfectionism, fear of failure an…

My partner and I mirror each other's emotions, and it's starting to hurt — TRIGGER WARNING: MENTIONS OF EMOTIONAL ABUSE, SEXUAL ABUSE I'm not sure if this is 100% a vent or a rant, but I def need to say this *somewhere*, and maybe get some advice or tips ? For some context…

Dumpers, do you believe in second chances? — (assuming the relationship wasn’t toxic and there was no abuse/cheating involved) Why or why not? Frequently see stuff thrown around this sub like “an ex is an ex for a reason”, “a relit cigarette n…

Index — \[Updated: December 30th, 2021.\] Links with an asterisk beside them recently added. ​ **Books** [The Power of Your Subconscious Mind - Joseph Murphy](http://www.logoscenter.org/downloads/T…

If you are new here.. — .....you likely came from the nevillegoddard sub, in which case you should understand a few things. a. The Law of Belief (LOB) is a law of physics. It says that mental thoughts become physical realit…

Hahah. This souphead makes me laugh. I love it when failures do all they can to prove why something doesn't work - based of the fact that it so clearly was applied wrong 🤡 And I do agree, being con…

Thank you. I will ask the op to insert these links into her other post. They are a good addenda and are a beneficial part of the record. We may make her post a part of our index as well. It is a very…

It’s good that you’re reflecting on past relationships - that’s what transforms them from painful failures into learning experiences. 1) In confronting your deep sense of unworthiness (which I totall…

I started out when everything was one app on a physical server. I don’t miss those days. I couldn’t tell you the amount of sleep and free time I lost due to hardware failures. Plus the begging finance…

24 hours makes sense when you consider their infrastructure scale. Rolling back ML models isn't like deploying a typical web app - you're dealing with massive distributed systems, model weights, and c…

Yep, Redshift observability is one of those things that should be easier, but ends up buried in system tables and tribal knowledge. Some practical tips that might help: 1. Build a lightweight monito…

Reaching $300k in profit usually doesn’t happen overnight, but here's how I got there: I started with a side hustle while working full-time. Having a steady paycheck allowed me to take risks without …

Repeated failures are valuable learning experiences that can refine your approach and resilience, not signals to abandon your entrepreneurial dreams. Instead of giving up, reassess your strategies, se…

Started with minimal capital, no big savings, and had a 9-5 while working on my business. It wasn’t smooth, but I focused on learning, executing, and iterating. Failures taught me more than success ea…

As I said, whether you're 'avoidant' or 'anxious' because there is either a lack of emotional processing, or complete omitting of emotional processing. People that are 'avoidant' perceive time as fin…

All of the above. Whenever i feel triggered by something (The latest one is an approaching movein with a partner) it’s a lot easier for me to step back and look at it and think to myself, why do i fee…

Everything you wrote explains why you spent 3.5 years with no results. You didn't read the index and all of the comments, or you did but didn't think critically. You're banned for 90 days. If you st…

You’re sweet and you don’t know how much that means to me :”) I finally got away from a bad relationship last year and my last two mini relationships since have been spectacular failures so dating has…

Hey there, 14 years of my life have been like this, lots of darkness, amazing bad luck, very bad relationships and connections with people, I lost all my friends, I lost trust to the world, everythi…

Or bad mouth him, blame your so called failures on bad parenting and how you needed an operation but he didn’t allow you to have one.

Good lord 😂 Are you saying you think their models make no attempt to account for these inaccuracies or that those attempts are abject failures?

Their idea of “success” is not what you should be trying to achieve. You need to define success for yourself. For me, success means having a career that I enjoy and pays the bills while giving me the…

For me, the fundamental issue with anxiety is that it takes me out of enjoying my imagination in the state fulfilled. All you desire is already within you. For example, the center of my wish right n…

This sucks. Best advise is block him entirely. Block every email, every text, every call. Any bills he is stuck with are because of his failures not your. You need to escape that abuse asap and never …

Thank you. I think as I'm getting older this feeling starts to get more intense because of that toxic impression that I'm running out of time. Not that these "failures" (for lack of better term) are…

Yup, yup, and YUP! They are trying to make me out to be the bad guy and themselves as the innocent little sad sack. Nah, not going to work. They can never take responsibility for their actions. THEY'R…

Yes exactly. I think I misunderstood the point of your post but I still agree with it after understanding better. And yes you are right. I got burnt out replying to post after post or comment after co…

Not in that sense, but she has very often in the past publicly talked about my failures to extended family and such and when confronted told me she did it because everyone apparently thought I was "so…

It’s a question I ask myself everyday. Some of the most meaningful art is born from suffering. Some of the greatest inventions required countless failures first. For the existence of love and light ar…

Thank you.  :-)  but how do we know when to choose a reality vs. allow intelligence...? Ive had lots of successful manifestations but failures too. Hard to tell

I think you're correct, if a bit pessimistic. The grievances are real, issues like men underperforming in schools is real but they need to treated as their own problems rather than a footnote to women…

The hardest part about dating is dealing with my own insecurities and negative beliefs that creep up on me in the quiet times between dates and texts. I’m getting better and recognizing it and fencing…

First off before we discuss "success", to answer your question, talking about "unsuccessful manifestations" contradicts the law of attraction to focus attention and energy to things we do want, which …

That is really a good one. I kinda started writing some on this but backed off a bit thinking about others situations. But yeah you have to be able to see your failures, accept them, and forgive yours…

I honestly can't tell this time around if it was really lack of interest or genuinely that he knew I had standards and knew he wouldn't or couldn't meet them, but it comes to the same, doesn't it? Thi…

Oh 100%. I believe they thrive in the feeling of contempt which sounds absolutely miserable. They certainly all seem to experience schadenfreude which is the enjoyment of other people’s failures and…

Staying away from sugar; and telling myself when I get up in the morning how strong, power, and capable I am, and how i will accomplish amazing things.  Then when I look at recent failures from amazin…

How did you deal with discouragement/negative thoughts ? Like "It is impossible", "Nobody has ever done it" "This seems insane", "If I can do it why did I fail before" "It is going to take a lot of …

For me it was less about “hacks” and more about lowering the bar in a way that still counts. On bad days I stopped thinking in terms of full tasks and switched to tiny versions. Not “clean the room,”…

You’re not wrong. And this is one of the most frustrating systemic failures in mental health care. The hard truth is that a significant portion of how clinicians are trained to respond to suicidal ide…

Yeah, every situation has nuance so not sure how much value mine will have for yours, but I did do a retro and share the blame for granular failures that likely contributed to cracks in the foundation…

Curious about grandiose narcissism and failure though. I think that’s truly the key regarding LOC. During times of failure, do grandiose narcissists take the blame for their failures?

Absolutely not! This is child abuse. Your stepfather is a sadist and your mother is an Absolute failure to you for allowing this to happen. Please seek help from the authorities immediately. This is n…

i respect your decisions, but i disagree. i repeat my previous idea that people our age are a little bit fragile, and if you're "all or nothing" you're going to get nothing because to get to all requ…

I see. Maybe we can call it as 'Hey, you need counselling' if the reasons are close to being academic and career oriented. This way he might feel like it's not a mental health therapist, but a counsel…

Sounds identical to my situation except I think they were together before we split officially. He married her exactly 6 months to the date of our divorce. I seriously doubt my ex did the healing and s…

You have a human issue disguised as a dog issue. Your BF is neglecting their dog. This is a dog that cannot behave appropriately in society or at home. The good news is, that's largely fixable for mo…

What multibillion dollar industry? The kpop wave has made it so much easier for us? We beat their asses but half the men in this sub are upset about "the oxford study"..? This is exactly the type of b…

Put in 20 years. I'm the dumper. It was very hard and still is. We were very young and emotionally immature when we got together. We had a very non traditional creative relationship. But after a decad…

The house was more situational than planned. We were in an apartment together and just renewed our lease when an opportunity too good to pass up came along, and we went for it. That's a fair question…

I would agree but it's not from nowhere, look up dog food recalls of 2007. I had two dogs that suffered kidney failures and short lifespans (could be subjective but of the many dogs I've had these two…

I had children and I love them and they love me. Then I also lost a lot of weight with a GLP-1 prescription. I also had a series of career successes after a decade of career failures. I knew I’d hea…

I'll [reshare](https://old.reddit.com/r/AstralProjection/comments/1romc9h/i_have_been_trying_to_astral_project_for_12_years/o9h9snq/) some advice I gave a couple of weeks ago. Don't concern yourself …

Ice agents are the dregs of society, just absolute failures in life so they turn to this.

Don't tell them anything about your life including success or failures because they will weaponize it to mess with you. AP's are emotionally insecure narcissist adults, everything is conditional and …