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It's a difficult question, probably it takes a whole life of experiences for a clear answer. I believe dreams - lucid dreams - false awakenings and OBE are connected, but at the same time, I don't con…
Finally sober, but I bedrot every day and can't do anything... need help — Hey all, 31F with ADHD and struggling to get out of bed lately. It takes so much energy just to survive. To eat. To go to work. I used to be a drunk, and I drank all of my 20s away. I was an ugly drun…
My ex reopened old wounds with a drunk apology and now I feel like I’m back at square one — my ex broke up with me around a year and a half ago after a 2 and a half year relationship with the last 9 months of it being long-distance. and it was really really devastating for me, but after a ye…
How do I keep going? — About 8 months post-separation now. Stuck on the other side of the country from family for medical training after my wife cheated on me while I was applying to residency - chose to stay as a compromis…
as a fa, how can i learn how to ask for help? — Hi everyone. I'm not totally sure if this is an appropriate advice to ask in this sub, but I have some issues with social anxiety that are linked to my harsh inner critic, and one of them is asking fo…
Never said I was secure. I'm both attachment styles.
I am not sure if it would translate the same with opposite genders. They're normies, I'm both perpetually online yet also self aware about it and sociable IRL, so I kind of have a good feel in fo…
that's awful! I'm sickened by the fact that someone who presumably "cared" about you for over 3 years would suddenly invalidate you as a person like that'. And then he started treating you like a "les…
In the last year, I have successfully weened myself off of the "validation" of my ex boyfriend (who used pick up artist techniques to mentally abuse me and keep me on my toes and pining for his attent…
So about 2 weeks ago I mentioned a friend who seemed hurt I joked about him [friend zoning me.](https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/1rllcsg/comment/o8wzph9/?context=3&utm_source=share&u…
Red flag 1 is you having health anxiety and subsequently believing that your physical sensations are something to worry about. This is not coincidental, you are literally falling for the trap right no…
I dated an avoidant (I'm not even sure if he knows he is one) that I met on Hinge for one month, and we both wanted of a long-term relationship. At first, things were sweet. We had some deep conversat…
Is there maybe a happy medium where you could find something you're more comfortable in but that still achieves a similar result? Maybe there's some really comfy but tight leggings/yoga pants you coul…
I have a similar experience. Both my parents are the type to bite people's heads off at the slightest provocation, need to always have the last word, and don't know how to get their point across witho…
How do you turn on lucid dreaming? I've had lucid dreams and it unlocked something in my mind. Now my dreams are semi lucid, like I'm both aware but also just dreaming like a regular person at the sam…
It's not that any one person *needs* religion to be compassionate and understanding. I'm not religious and I'd like to think I'm both of those things. But I think those two values are harder for human…
I don't know.... I've found that nearly all right wing women will match with me even though my profile clearly shows I'm both liberal and atheist. The odd thing is that nearly 100% of women whose pr…
I 100% agree with you. I think we can feel sorry that Narcissists are often born the way they are or shaped that way by trauma, but we *have* to be able to talk about what they do without fear of bein…
It makes me want to just stop trying to help these strangers and move on. I don't know why I'm bothering sometimes. I think it's that I hope I can at least get through to ONE of them to stop letting …
Well, it gave me OCD and also made me very result-oriented, so I'm both a perfectionist and a high achiever, which is pretty useful in my job. Also, hypervigilance can be useful.
Yeah, I often feel like I'm bothering people or I'm a burden on them. It makes sense because when I was growing up and tried to get my dad's attention, he always acted like I was an annoyance. My mom …
Yes, and I find it all the more confusing, I'm both extremely competent and don't know how to navigate certain aspects of the world
Thank you so much! The problem that happened with me was that when I was listening to height subs, I managed to grow like 2 cm in 2 days, and I really started to believe in subliminals. So, I though…