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28 F 38 M - Husband has asked me to stop taking my antidepressants. How do I do this safely?

I used to take this medicine and reading of that dose combined with "cold turkey" is making me lose it. Holy fuck at that

r/relationship_advicecomment4/7/2026
Success Story: FA/Disorganized Attachment Healing Roadmap, Resource Recommendations

Success Story: FA/Disorganized Attachment Healing Roadmap, Resource Recommendations — **Hello, fellow Fearful Avoidants! The below post has grown out of almost 3 years of research and healing this attachment style, which in my case was coupled with Relationship OCD (ROCD). ROCD is a vi…

r/attachment_theorypost10/23/2025
IF YOU ARE 30+ USING NC

IF YOU ARE 30+ USING NC — If you’re 30+ using the “no contact” method as a means to “Get your ex back”, DON’T. This is long. I just met up with my ex for the first time in 3 months. I was nervous, worried & genuinely conce…

r/BreakUpspost3/20/2026
Planning on cold turkying smoking cannabis for the nth time

Planning on cold turkying smoking cannabis for the nth time — I’ve been planning to quit for a long time now. I’ve said “this is my last day” more times than I can count, but every morning I wake up and immediately feel anxious at the thought of not being able t…

r/selfhelppost3/27/2026
Boundaries for when partner is drunk / hungover

Boundaries for when partner is drunk / hungover — My (38F), partner (40M) has been struggling again time to time with his substance use. I left for one day this weekend to see my best friend and he had a friend over, drank too much, then went to the …

r/Codependencypost3/30/2026
I can feel (and see) my heartbeat in my fingertips when I do this Mudra. Is this normal?

I can feel (and see) my heartbeat in my fingertips when I do this Mudra. Is this normal? — I’ve been meditating on and off for a couple of years, but recently something just clicked. It’s like a switch flipped inside me. I’ve started meditating every single day, and I even suddenly gave up …

r/Meditationpost4/4/2026
Parents recorded Csam of me - don't know what to do

Parents recorded Csam of me - don't know what to do — I'm not sure if this is too graphic but I feel that I need some validation because I keep questioning my reality and if it was really abuse. When I was 10, I was watching home videos with my parents …

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/4/2026
smoking

smoking — Anyone here open to sharing their experience quitting smoking after many years? I’m 31 and have been smoking since age 13 with relatively brief periods of abstinence. Historically I’ve tried to quit …

r/selfhelppost4/4/2026
One day sober

One day sober — Posted in here the other day about struggling with 🍃 addiction….. completed my first full day sober yesterday🎉 This is the first time I have willingly not smoked in about 4 years (I went sober for…

r/selfhelppost4/5/2026
I wasn't fully awake after I woke

I wasn't fully awake after I woke — Post from yesterday: Im so scared. I was so tired I fell asleep but I don't remember falling asleep and I was having vivid dreams I can't necessarily remember what but that they were vivid. I briefly …

r/Anxietyhelppost4/6/2026
Any advice on how to quit

Any advice on how to quit — I’ve been smoking pretty much daily for about 4-5 years now (apart from the occasional trip away every so often). I am 21M now, I started when I was about 16 and I’m aware this has had an impact on my…

r/DecidingToBeBetterpost4/6/2026
Sucking Thumb/Anxiety Relief Habit

Sucking Thumb/Anxiety Relief Habit — I'm not sure how to go about this, I'm 32F and I've been sucking my thumb basically my entire life as a form of stress relief (only during sleep/private moments, never in public or in front of others)…

r/CPTSDpost4/6/2026
How should I (22M) bring up my porn problem to my (21F) girlfriend? Should I at all?

How should I (22M) bring up my porn problem to my (21F) girlfriend? Should I at all? — Just a bit of backstory, I already had a problem with porn coming into this relationship. Not necessarily an addiction or a problem so bad that it actually took away from my life, but more so that it …

r/relationshipspost4/9/2026
What does feeling the emotion look like?

What does feeling the emotion look like? — I live far away from the family for college, and recently moved out of campus housing to get my own place. It's very small and not a lot of sunlight comes in, but it provided a level of security and p…

r/CPTSDpost4/9/2026
5 DNA reasons why u feel so painful after broke up.(that's also why u need "no-contact theory")

5 DNA reasons why u feel so painful after broke up.(that's also why u need "no-contact theory") — 1. Back in the hunter-gatherer days, if you being completely alone meant you were basically dead. To keep you from wandering off and getting eaten(real eat mean), evolution wired social rejection to t…

r/ExNoContactpost4/11/2026
5 DNA reasons why u feel so painful after broke up.

5 DNA reasons why u feel so painful after broke up. — 1. Back in the hunter-gatherer days, if you being completely alone meant you were basically dead. To keep you from wandering off and getting eaten(real eat mean), evolution wired social rejection to t…

r/survivinginfidelitypost4/11/2026
Bf is getting sober - I am spiraling

Bf is getting sober - I am spiraling — Ok so maybe I’m being highly insecure but here goes - met a guy 8 months ago. He was not sober. I’m in my late 20’s he’s about 6 years older. Started off super casual but it was clear we both caught f…

r/therapypost4/11/2026
did i dodge a bullet?

did i dodge a bullet? — currently going through a breakup, and i am reflecting back on what i can take as lessons to further protect my heart in future relationships. my ex got me a gift within the first couple of weeks of …

r/BreakUpspost4/12/2026
1st acid trip

1st acid trip — the first time i did it , it was like quarter of this really strong blot maybe i tripped balls cause i was 3-4 days sleep deprived cause i was snorting (was on a trip w my friends , a lil weekend get…

r/Psychonautpost4/13/2026
Silence after a breakup

Unfortunately that's how most of these work. Everything cut cold turkey. It's painful but helps with healing in the long run

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/18/2026
Silence after a breakup

Several months is nothing to be honest with you. Ive dated people for years and gone cold turkey

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/18/2026
Help me understand what happened here after around 2 months of dating and talking with someone I knew from 7 years ago

Salutations, You already have your answer my dude. > she doesn’t want a long-distance relationship, but she’s finding it hard to stop seeing me because she likes me a lot LDRs are brutal if you're …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/26/2026
Porn and Energy

Here’s my understanding of it based on being an energy worker, healer, and psychic. I have years of exp experience working in men’s sexual energy. When a man masturbates and ejaculates to pornograph…

r/energy_workcomment3/9/2026
Letting go of LUST

I succeeded now basically retention, hard to believe, but like with everything it isn't cold turkey, goes over a decade upside and downs till you fully control it, one if you're busy like cresting som…

r/Meditationcomment3/9/2026
What non-benzo meds are out there that I haven't tried? I already have Xanax, but want something that works all day or for lesser panic attacks

I think I'll ask for more Gabapentin to give it another shot, it couldn't hurt, and 100mg was pretty low from what I'm reading. As for the Xanax, I've taken it before and quit cold turkey when I felt …

r/Anxietyhelpcomment3/11/2026
Struggling with a morning porn habit that ruins my whole day need advice

LeadMeNot lets you block apps and set up keyword filters at the system level, plus your accountability partner has to approve changes which adds real friction. Covenant Eyes works too but its more exp…

r/selfhelpcomment3/12/2026
My cop husband cheated and now I can't trust him when he leaves for night shift.

I am so sorry. I understand how devastating this is, even more so if he is a cop, someone meant to protect and serve others and he can't even remain faithful to his own wife. Does he realize the impac…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/12/2026
How to begin the “healing”

You went nuke. Good job! You can let the OBS know you’re there if she wants to talk and needs evidence. That pretty much will end the A because that POS probably never planned to leave his wife and wi…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/17/2026
Is brainrot real?

I tried so hard to scroll past this comment but fuck it, I’ll bite. What AngryJanitor said is true: both of your points are as pointless as each other. But they can also be as helpful as each other.…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/20/2026
Is brainrot real?

I think an excessively cold turkey approach is unlikely to last long term and that level of stimulation might make it easier to be outdoors and active and make you more consistent with it. I think its…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/22/2026
Does the urge to break no contact ever actually go away?

I knew I'd struggle to go cold turkey no contact when I had to. Tapered it down for a month and then December 5 2025 was when we had last spoken. The urges come and go. There have been instances I've …

r/BreakUpscomment3/23/2026
Why no contact fails for most people

No contact should be the end. It should be the act of shielding yourself from self-inflicted pain. People don’t take it seriously. They don’t go 100% cold turkey and sit with the pain. They don’t buil…

r/ExNoContactcomment3/25/2026
Caffine withdrawl and anxiety?

yeah… this actually sounds a lot like caffeine withdrawal tbh. if you were having 2–3 of those Starbucks Frappuccino bottled drinks a day, your body got used to that. when you suddenly stop, anxiety …

r/Anxietyhelpcomment3/26/2026
Caffine withdrawl and anxiety?

yeah… this actually sounds a lot like caffeine withdrawal tbh. if you were having 2–3 of those Starbucks Frappuccino bottled drinks a day, your body got used to that. when you suddenly stop, anxiety …

r/Anxietyhelpcomment3/26/2026
For Those who Quit Cocaine, were you Ever Able to Drink Casually Again?

It’s possible you could only drink in situations where cocaine is completely inaccessible to rewire that Pavlovian response with alcohol, but if that’s not possible, then quitting drinking in a safe w…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/27/2026
I have an Ai addiction and need help

Hey, it's good that you're recognizing the incongruity between your beliefs and your actions and trying to make a change. It sounds like you're really lonely and AI has been a crutch for you to replac…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/27/2026
I have an Ai addiction and need help

i felt like this. i have struggled with making friends a tonnnn of times and sat there and wondered to myself. even recently! i just sat i. my room and wondered why the people i considered my friends …

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/28/2026
For Those who Quit Cocaine, were you Ever Able to Drink Casually Again?

I was heavy user for a few years, like a bag almost everyday, and when I got off it was brutal. I abused painkillers to help with the withdrawals, then abused over the counter meds to help with withdr…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/28/2026
I have an Ai addiction and need help

Thank you for the tough love honestly, I think I’m going to try and go cold turkey but I need time to build up to it. And honestly I’ve realised that it’s extremely damaging my ability to think by my…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/28/2026
For people who begged their exes

For the first time in my life, I didn't beg once when we broke up 3 months ago. It gets better very quickly after the inital cold turkey heartbreak. But I used to destroy my life/hobby/social life/men…

r/ExNoContactcomment3/28/2026
We broke up almost a year ago. I just found out she cheated on me

Take some time and read up on narcissistic abuse, because that is what you were a victim of. The arc of your relationship fits the pattern. Let me make a few assumptions. You knew her for quite some…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/30/2026
My brother (28M) is getting married to his gf (18F) and I am TA for disapproving...

I was just lucky I didn't have a baby. If we had a kid, it would have been way harder than realizing that staying would kill me and going cold turkey. I broke it off and disappeared for a month, total…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/30/2026
Have You Found Weed To Be Helpful For Your CPTSD Symptoms?

The research on this is incomplete, but from the limited long-term studies we do have, the answer would be to proceed with caution. THC habitation is a concern, and for people who quit cold turkey a…

r/CPTSDcomment3/31/2026
Need to write out what I've been dealing with for 3 months now

You are aware of it ..... You just got to cut it off like a drug go cold turkey Nothing will ever change you will just keep going round and round until you leave it will get harder to leave later o…

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment3/31/2026
How can I stop being addicted to TikTok?

yup. cold turkey. delete any apps that have reels/shorts on them too. only access them via desktop, and on your desktop, install extensions for you to not be able to view shorts and reels. or can set …

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/31/2026
How can I stop being addicted to TikTok?

i deleted tt and followed a couple of youtubers that cover main trends as a long form content, not a perfect solution but at least it is just 30 minutes twice a week i swear deleting app worth trying…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/31/2026
How can I stop being addicted to TikTok?

what is something that you love doing? maybe can frame that as a reward for when you manage to be away from tiktok for a period of time. Not sure how iphone works as I'm on android, but there are apps…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment4/1/2026
Stories of exes coming back after saying they never will

Absolutely. If they could legitimately change and be a safe person for me, I wouldn't walk, I would run back to their arms. This person is older though and already set in their ways. While they did st…

r/BreakUpscomment4/1/2026
Any recommendations for retreat type-thing?

Are you in Asia? If you're in the West then it would make far more sense to do a retreat in the West, in English, and without the dysentery. As someone else said, the vipassana retreats are very avail…

r/Meditationcomment4/1/2026
(25M) I feel extremely anxious about taking newly prescribed medication (ESCITALOPRAM OXALATE10MG)

Hi :) I was on it for 3 years, and it severely helped maintain my extreme depression. Give it a shot! Only advice I have is once you’re on a decent dose, don’t just stop taking them cold turkey. Br…

r/Anxietyhelpcomment4/1/2026
Do I need to quit vaping?if yes how do I do so?

I hear you man, it sounds exhausting dealing with the hassle, the cravings, and all the social pressure. Honestly, if you’re done with it, quitting is worth it, and you don’t have to do it cold turkey…

r/selfhelpcomment4/2/2026
How do you actually become a better version of yourself without overcomplicating it?

My first step towards a better me this year was kicking bad habits cold turkey, then introducing mundane ones but doing them extremely fast including simple tasks like washing dishes. Whenever I f…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment4/2/2026
Husband quit smoking weed and now cannot sleep at night

i’d maybe encourage not going totally cold turkey, if possible — weaning down on one’s dose is so much easier, and even then only having enough weed to alleviate the symptoms, and no more than that! a…

r/selfhelpcomment4/3/2026
I am addicted to food and I don’t know how to stop.

That is why I am asking for help. I don’t plan on having kids for years and I want to get started with my health now. I have actually already started with this a year ago and got on metformin and have…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment4/3/2026
I am addicted to food and I don’t know how to stop.

You can quit food cold turkey, at least for a while. Fasting is one of the most healthy things you can do to give your body a break from all the digestion it does. Not only will fasting improve your w…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment4/3/2026
Feel lost in life

1. You need to start with 1 habit that will get you on track. Something you never thought you would do but you did and you feel like an achiever. For me I started with Badminton at the age of 29 You n…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment4/4/2026
Is it possible to do too much meditation as a beginner?

Going days without sleep (or even ‘day’) is incredibly unhealthy. If this is something you do I would highly recommend a cold turkey zero caffeine / zero stimulant rule. Best of luck.

r/Meditationcomment4/4/2026
does smoking weed really hold you back?

Yes.  If you are a recreational smoker, someone who only does so maybe a couple times a year, maybe to a lesser extent. How ever, that is a smoker I have yet to meet. I only know daily smokers who ha…

r/AstralProjectioncomment4/5/2026
Confused AF

I have been resetting since Feb 11th (after a three months which included almost a month of no contact in between). Almost two months now (Apr) and every freaking day, I am wondering why he stopped c…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/5/2026
smoking

Cold turkey, even quitting with someone else can provide support I quit for 2 years at one point

r/selfhelpcomment4/5/2026
Wondering about potential of full on LD whilst taking antipsychotics

**This hits close to home.** I was on quetiapine, zolpidem, alprazolam and trazodone for years. Started as a sleep aid prescription, ended as a full dependency cocktail. And yes, they absolutely kill…

r/LucidDreamingcomment4/5/2026
My addict father constantly takes advantage of me financially, I stood up to him and he said I was a terrible and disrespectful person.

Do not let yourself be codependent…time for cold turkey, your dad need to succeed or fail on his own

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/6/2026
I think i need anxiety meds, how to cope without?

I get a lot of help from Metagenics magnesium glycinate. I white knuckled my entire life from about age 16 or 17 where it was manageable to around 34, when Klonopin gave me my life back. It works for …

r/Anxietyhelpcomment4/6/2026
smoking

Smoked pack a day for eight years and quit cold turkey- the only way. Really rough for three months but so glad I toughed it out. That was before learning this: There's a pattern with all habits: thin…

r/selfhelpcomment4/6/2026
just come back, please

I get where you are coming from, but I would not recommend OP to reach out.  Closure comes from within. It comes from accepting reality and finding a new way to live without one’s ex. There’s really …

r/BreakUpscomment4/6/2026
My (29F) boyfriend (34M) got drunk and hit me. I don’t know what to do.

Everyone is right. You should leave, but if you’re not ready to do that, please at least set a boundary in your relationship about substance use. He is done using. Once you hit someone, you’re no lo…

r/relationshipscomment4/7/2026
28 F 38 M - Husband has asked me to stop taking my antidepressants. How do I do this safely?

You have your doctor make a dosing schedule so you can wean off. Do not go cold turkey. Also, talk to the doctor about why husband wants you to stop taking them.

r/relationship_advicecomment4/7/2026
28 F 38 M - Husband has asked me to stop taking my antidepressants. How do I do this safely?

You typically need to titrate down from medication not just stop cold turkey. Please speak with your doctor. Your husband needs to realize he is putting your health and safety at risk by asking you …

r/relationship_advicecomment4/7/2026
28 F 38 M - Husband has asked me to stop taking my antidepressants. How do I do this safely?

You don't quit psychotropic meds cold turkey. There's a step-down process with monitoring to make sure you're not slipping into psychosis, which is rare but can happen. This is especially important si…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/7/2026