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Saw my wife's phone from an over-the-shoulder POV, saw the word puzzle she was doing, suggested what she was currently typing as if it was my own answer — Title, basically, but I'll give more background. (I know it's April 1st but this is not an april fool or anything like that.) My wife and I were on the sofa. It was shortly after dinner and I was pl…
So what happens next? — I’ve been hearing some incredible hubbub about Easter 2026 and the Bledsoe Lady prophecy recently. I’ll be honest, I can’t get a read on Chris and I’m not terribly inclined to trust the things he has …
What's something your parents did to you that YOU had to apologize to them for that still makes you angry? — As in, situations where despite you being the victim, you were forced to be the one apologizing. I know mine too well, unfortunately. I've told this in comments before, but now I'll tell it here. So…
Anyone else struggle to get doctors to take them seriously? — Went to the hospital last night with 7-7.5/10 pain with bursts of 8-8.5/10 pain (I do hate that pain scale, but its the best way I can describe it). It was some of the worst pain I’ve ever felt in my …
Family won’t leave me alone during my online classes — Did anyone else have this problem? I have to put a note up so people leave me alone and they still don’t. My family says they “didn’t know where I was.” Seriously? I can’t focus at all because I’m wa…
My mother died in front of me ten years ago now. I'm 26. I'm losing my fucking mind. — The actual anniversary of her death is in a few weeks and I'm burning inside. I hate this fucking month and the one my sister died in, and this one starts with April Fool's, hers starts with my birthd…
Broke up with girlfriend who is suicidal, what should I do? — Me male 25, and female 23 were together for 10 months and knew each other for about a year total. We both initially fell genuinely in love with each other, but both me and my now ex girlfriend had a l…
Best book for emotional intelligence and social intelligence as a young woman who wants to be taken more seriously? — I'm a med student with a goal of starting my own business. I want to improve my EQ and social skills practically — not therapy-ish stuff, purely forward focused and actionable. Some context about me: …
Questions about going no contact — My mom’s manipulative games finally backfired on her and she has ended up in a serious health situation. She refuses to accept that she cannot care for herself right now, if ever, and has continued to…
I (F30) am having straight dreams while married to my wife (F29) right at our year anniversary — We’ve been married for a year, together for 6 now. She stayed with me and cheered me on all through law school, the bar exam, and everything in between. It hasn’t always been pleasant, but thankfully …
How do I 32F tell my husband 30M that I do not take him seriously? — My husband (30M) and I (32F) have been married for two years and together for seven. The last year or so he has been fairly vocal about how our sex life has changed and I don’t often initiate or seem …
I'm tired of my mom, am I wrong? — She's just sort of incompetent, like she goes around life making bad choices and not knowing what she's doing, then says "she's trying her best" given the circumstances, I know she's trying, I know s…
Seriously? Making a conversation interesting is too much effort for you? If your already resentful about doing all the work before you've even met a woman, maybe you're right and you should just be …
You’ve already shown him that after having the conversation it doesn’t really change anything. So why should he take it seriously? So prove him wrong and choose yourself. It’s been 8 years. It’s n…
In my opinion, "It's their money" is one of the most 21st century things ever said. People nowadays are often just like that, "It's their house, their money, you got nothing, be grateful that the pers…
The ~~weird~~ intriguing thing about you is how hard you’re trying to sound like a cynical intellectual. It’s honestly just awkward to watch. You aren’t half as smart as you think you are little bro. …
So he makes a choice to not initiate for a few weeks and he's a major asshole. She makes a choice to not initiate for years and...?. Seriously?
Seriously? Are these men lined with leprechauns gold. If a guy is not into me that’s fine. I don’t need the details or to have sex with him repeatedly so he can give me a more personal rejection.
So, he's telling you that he is only interested in living beings if they entertain him, and, if they do not or have actual real life situations - like medical needs - he will dump them on the curb wit…
I read that up until he called himself a beta. Then I laughed and came to comment... Because seriously? Hahahaha, how pathetic can you be? He has a girl who is clearly smart and comfortable and open a…
Seriously? Have him get pharmacy technician license (then, biotech/drug companies will want him on fill teams for drugs). Or, look at Oregon State University's technical writing certification.
What does it mean to you to take someone's concerns seriously? Because to me it means to be treated as human. Not being seen as a romantic interest.
"What does it mean to you to take someone's concerns seriously?" It means I take their concerns seriously. I treat them with the empathy and concern that they're entitled to. Some of that is a minim…
Right—he sees HER as needing fixing, but didn’t take counseling seriously?? He’s the problem
Seriously? Is it a certain demographic?
.....are you trolling bro? 1:1? Seriously? Also it's a cosplay, she uses tons of makeup. Have you seen those anime cosplay removing all their makeup?. There's ton of other japanese game that deserve a…
Seriously? My kids had the jab before uni. Things have changed that much in 10 years??
God your comment was like an icicle to the heart. It literally made me feel cold inside because I remembered that whole shit with my ex-husband. Yep. They think things are super happy because *they* a…
It was the language of his text that turned me off. something like "sooooo, you're probably going to hate me but my friends invited me to this exclusive lake property so i'm going to go. You should Go…
I'm with you. I'd be transparent about any STI I'm carrying (thankfully, I don't have any) and I would expect the same from any woman I might potentially have sex with. I take every STI seriously. …
Seriously? It’s the opposite for me. I know more ways to have fun now, with or without my clothes on! I don’t go on a date thinking of what it could become. I don’t live my life in the future. If …
It SEEMS her contact with the guy is over?? Dude... if she still works with him, it's NOT over... And sorry, but the odds of them having an emotional connection, working together with daily proximi…
Look up the TED talk "How to fix a broken heart". It makes it easier to understand why we can't keep talking and interacting with a person we have feelings for. It really sucks to kill a friendship,…
Seriously? "Happy birthday! Here's a bunch of things that remind me of you and my other bad decisions." 🙃 Lady, get fucked 🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻 I hope you kept the bath bombs, so you can send her a 'self-car…
What? What does it matter seriously? (As long as you’re safe and smart about it, and my body count is pathetically low.
*said she’ll never do something like that again* Seriously? Bit late for that. - she's told her friends and family, honestly she can't keep her mouth shut and it was something that's caused you to b…
Thank you for sharing! Perfect timing on this, because I recently found pictures of her on his phone. I sent her photo to three different friends, and they all admitted to being confused because they …
He talked about a woman (regardless of it being you or not) in an way that was viewing her as less than human for her looks. 'The Humpback'?! Seriously?! Who the fuck would say that? I have second-han…
Seriously? Maybe Sunny died of neglect. Malnutrition, maybe. Maybe Sunny got shaken by an angry parent and died of shaken baby syndrome. Maybe Sunny got murdered. Maybe her siblings and one of her …
It does, and thats ok. It is so strange, at 44 i am getting more attention/options then when I was in college. She told me she would help me with advice on future dates and I am good with that. People…
I found this post by accident and talked to the guy in the pic. He argued like you - something about making peace with this reality, his 15 years expierence etc, how shifting is a bad concept etc. I …
Ya know, I suppose while it's been a struggle, when something small goes wrong there's an element of "Seriously? Can I not catch a break?" Its like I take it all personally. Thank you for your com…
He knew what he was doing. You can't seriously be trying to rationalise staying with someone who decided to ignore your physical pain and boundaries for sexual pleasure. Is he the only guy in the worl…
Maybe it's time to shut the door and walk away from this robot. Because.... Seriously???
Seriously? He's putting on a performance to get out of cleaning up after himself. He's manipulating you.
Seriously? You’re the example of why so many decide to leave. Not hurting someone outright is the bare minimum..
"How do I know if I'm the abuser here or she is abusing me?" Seriously? I don't see anything abusive about her behavior. If you think her decision to carry the baby to term is abuse, you're wrong. Tha…
Seriously? This is so hastily written and disjointed. I was worried people would think it is AI (I used a whole em dash! Fuck you ChatGPT they were mine first!). I’m suppressing most of my feelings so…
Are you calling my female friends ugly? Seriously?
Seriously? If you don’t get it, there’s no explaining it.
>*I'm not defending Bledsoe OR going against him. I'm just neutrally posting this fact: he was supposedly misinformed on WHEN the star would line up with the sphinx.* Here's the thing, though -- firs…
You need therapy to work through your issues. You shouldn't have let your husband dictate your perfume, hair, etc Just because you chose to give in to him doesn't mean he has to give in to you, kee…
Your fiancé is not alone. My mornings are best exemplified with an old workplace poster that says “coffee first, your bullshit second”. Come at me at any point before I am fully booted up, and an invo…
Where to begin… There are no saints in relationships. We are all human and carry many experiences, learned behaviors and emotions with us. You said “I’m not a fair fighter”, and I have to wonder what…
There's a very realistic chance of actual harm yes, and he has a past criminal record for violence. Unfortunately no, one thing he's not is cowardly, he was involved in organised crime when he was you…
You can’t stop SSRI’s suddenly- it’ll make you very sick. It’s usually a six week process weaning off meds like that to do it safely. You need to take your meds and then consult with a doctor to make …
"...growing together using her powerful connection" Seriously? You want to grow using someone else's power? Change that mindset. Let her go and wipe that fantasy of yours because there is absolutely…
First of all I’m sorry for your experience. Regarding your story I only have an opinion. But maybe it can serve you as a - very distant - outside perspective: I believe you picked this person for …
First of all, the most important thing is to find your own technique. It’s fine to read other people’s methods, but always adapt everything to your own style. It should feel comfortable, never feel li…
And you have sex with that? Seriously? You say he’s 26 but it still feels illegal. Ew