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Out of a delusional episode and have quit drugs, but evidence of something "wrong" with saying it was delusional has emerged today... — First off do me a favor plz, google for "what is the electrical phenomenon some stipulate is needed for a timeline shift?" yourself and tell me if it throws in the answers anything about a change in S…
how to apply skills from therapy and date like a sane person? — tl;dr how to keep a connection going with a secure potential love interest who likes to be alone when you’re anxious-preoccupied af 😭 i’m a lifelong anxious-preoccupied and through years of Doing Th…
Daffodils on a first date? — I'm late 30s M, she's early 30s F, this would be for a *first date* (an early dinner of wine and tapas at a cute wine bar). **Context:** I grow thousands of flowers throughout the season, and have h…
Accidental awakening — Officially effed around and found out. Open to advice but I also feel an obligation to share that this is possible through the tapes because I never saw it coming and I'm currently struggling. I was …
My boyfriend (21M) and I (21F) never engage in foreplay (handjob/fingering/head) What can I do? — Okay, so.. my boyfriend (21M) and I (21F) have been together for over a year and a half now. He was my first for pretty much everything, and has sort of taught me all I know about sex and intimacy. Ou…
In this case it is accurate. For me a red flag is a reason to not continue a relationship. Someone wanting to move off the app to whatsapp before meeting is a red flag - meaning it is a full stop, do …
"Feel free to get butchered or scammed though." Yeah pretty sure the butchers and scammers can only do their work through Whatsapp
We dated last year for a few months, but ended it because we wanted different things (me a relationship, him, causal). We kept in touch for a bit and the stopped talking until last month. He reached o…
I recommend therapy. Also YouTuber Heidi Prieb (I am butchering her name) is a former avoidant. She has great video skills for all attachment styles, but her videos do not replace talk therapy IMO.
Pig butchering scam is usually the long con. Sorry to hear about that.
Ah yeah forgot "pig butchering" lol. Very likely, yes. Too bad this is the only person actually talking to me from Tinder lol.
I'll save getting "pig butchered" experiment for later 😀 Yesterday I went to a networking event that a colleague sent me. Her boyfriend and *his* colleague (both work for a direct competitor 🤦♂️) …
I’m gonna get butchered for this but need a place to vent This is more of a rant, although I guess I’m looking for other people who came to the same realization. I am 36 2 years separated, still goi…
I'm about to butcher an analogy, apologies in advance. Trauma is the effect bad experiences had on us. The hammer is the experiences, the broken teapot is the trauma. Our hammers don't all look the …
I feel like my mom did it because she is a repressed bisexual tbh. She didnt do any of the showering stuff or comments or things like that to my sister who was more feminine but to me, I've always bee…
My friend lived with someone almost 4 years and until he had a butcher knife threatening to kill her, she had no clue about his schizophrenia. He hid it well and she was talking to his parents and the…
For the last year and a bit I didn't want to date but I have run into a few cuties here and there. Out of all my previous relationships, all but one (out of four), I've met organically and not online.…
Ancient Greek poets were able to recite the entire Iliad from memory. Do you think books have domesticated us because we don't remember long works of fiction in that way anymore? Do you think GPS an…
Yeah, my mom never knows what to get me for my birthday or holidays. Sometimes she’ll buy me jewelry which I never understand because I am very butch and have been presenting this way for the past 9 y…
My mom used to say to me as a kid “the rabbit who doesn’t learn to hop ends up in the butcher shop” At the time I thought it was to encourage my freedom Now I know she’s actually the butcher and w…
**Your body, your choice.** Absolutely 100% get it done if this has been something you’ve wanted to do to the point it’s become a goal and will help you have more confidence in yourself. However I hop…
It’s not that your life goes to shit or the universe tests you. You’re right Neville doesn’t talk about this. Neville specifically doesnt even mention the universe, because there is no universe, only …
I remember when my first therapist as an adult had me go to dbt classes bc she suspected bpd. I was so confused trying to follow along and I couldn't complete any of the assignments but I remember fee…
Yes, by letting things come up and be seen, they aren't being repressed (which doesn't work). By not obsessing over them you allowed them their appropriate amount of space and time and attention (bei…
Dude! I don't know how or if I can help. If I can say anything one thing to help, its that you will be sorely missed. The shit that keeps me going is that sappy ass quote that pops up from Kingsmen,…
I don't know many people that are dating a gender performance the way you're describing. You don't have to be feminine to find relationships whether they're platonic or otherwise. You can be a masc …
I would want to know. I'm a farm girl who worked as a butcher for years. We are absolutely not compatible. I'm sure there are people who wouldn't see it as a big deal. But I eat meat at pretty much ev…
Definitely this. Very few people - especially those who are alive - can *ever* understand what it’s like to have to protect family during *literal* homicide events starting at 14. As in holding a kni…
Sorry about how much you’re struggling. *Extremely violent trauma? Yes.* *Multiple homicides.* ⚠️ WARNING: HEAVY SHIT below, MAJOR TRIGGERS: life or death, murder below. More than I ever shared …
Was tied up by my uncle and aunt and beaten and then had scotch bonnet pepper put in my wounds. I forgot to tell them I had homework - which id done. I have adhd + aut and was already terrified of the…
At the height of “getting Roman Empire’d” it hadn’t happened to me but I was in a committed relationship. I live in a walkable tight knit community with a market that I frequent. The head butcher was …
I basically look like Jonny-2-shoes. I have longer hair than some girls at this point. One poor girl had her hair butchered by a hairstylist and didn’t believe I had hair longer than her until I undid…
Don’t leave the app until after you meet. So many romance scams and pig butchering scams pressure people to get off the app where they’re harder to trace or report.
I have some ideas, actually! In another post I joked about a government-run database of singles, but I think that is clearly a good place to start. Remove the profit motive from dating apps. I'm gonn…
They are really weird about languages, aren’t they? Mine scolded me for not caring about the [foreign language] school I had to go to on Saturdays, because the teachers literally just spoke English fo…
What is pig butchering
Here’s the Wikipedia article on [pig butchering scams](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pig_butchering_scam).
Some of these are fun, quirky stories and some have abundant filth, so be warned. 😁 Also, many of these are the first in a series. -Haunting Adeline by H.D Carlton -Lights Out by Navessa Allen -Thr…
butchered it with lame texting after the 1st date
i think i would have turned bad too, if i wasnt hyperempathetic its a blessing and a curse, it let me understand this concept a huge, giant, ginormous problem is shame. shaming people for being the …
I once saw this tech bro acquaintance post about “the big problem in fake profiles and NKers in recruiting” with a bunch of tips on how to spot them. One of them was saying a red flag is a face that …