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Conveying the psychedelic experience to the (potentially curious) "uninitiated" - how do you do it? — First the question, then the context: how do you most accurately convey the psychedelic experience to someone who has never taken psychedelics (may or may not have been in an altered state due to othe…
Manifesting New Skills and Knowledge with the Law of Belief– Is It Possible? — Hi everyone! I’m reaching out to this amazing community because I’m diving deep into the Law of Belief and want to explore how powerful it can truly be.🙏❤️ I keep wondering—can this law actually he…
Can Manifestation Really Help You Get Full Marks in an Exam If You Only Wrote Part of the Answer? — Hey everyone, I have a question that might sound a bit out there, but I’m curious to hear if anyone has had a similar experience. I recently took an exam where I only managed to write answers for ab…
Type 1 Diabetes — Hi everyone, I have recently been diagnosed with type 1 diabetes and have had to start taking insulin injections. I don’t want to live like this forever though, completely dependent on something so m…
My arguments against manifestation — 1. **Maladaptive daydreaming proves that manifestation isn't real**; Manifestation doctrine teaches that what you focus on expands and manifests in your physical reality. Do not split hairs and try to…
Confused about affirmations — Hey guys i am confused about self concept and beliefs. Like i am currently unemployed and want a remote job i have few beliefs like i dont have the right network connections I need to get skilled a lo…
Sidebar Navigation On Landing Pages... Good UX? — I was browsing around ThemeForest the other day, looking for some layout and design inspiration, and I found something I can't say I've seen before. It’s a landing page with a sticky sidebar nav that …
How does one go about creating these sorts of animations? — Sorry in advanced if this is a stupid question. I am such a noob when it comes to this sort of stuff. I came across this website ([https://animejs.com/](https://animejs.com/)) which has a really cool…
I got ghosted and I feel blindsided — I (26F) met a guy (26M) 3 months ago who was in every sense of the word my dream guy. We spent 1 week together before he left back to his country. Ever since we have Facetimed every single day, and we…
Is there a better way to create posts that actually match your brand? — As a solo builder, I’ve been working on a small idea I think might be useful — especially for startups and B2B teams trying to stay consistent with branded content on instagram. The problem: Creatin…
Sharing my learnings as a mid-seniority job seeker — I started job-hunting in April. After two weeks of sending applications and receiving zero feedback (only ghosting), I scheduled a few calls with my mentor. Based in Eastern Europe and looking for a f…
Need an advise for my website — Hi there, I need your help because I’m struggling to get a higher ranking on Google for my website. I’m a Psychologist and Psychotherapist, and I have been working in a small city near Milan, Italy.si…
How to get the code for the interactions I created on Figma? — So say I create a hover effect of a button going from a small button with just the icon to make it expand and include the text on the button as well. Once I have create an interaction like this, do we…
How do you guys make content/creatives for your ad campaigns? — Spending an average of $800/day on meta ads for the past couple months. What’s increasingly getting harder for us is making creatives and testing it. We don’t test a lot currently. 2-3 of our ads have…
Freelancers – the only person that can evaluate your pricing is the buyer (not Reddit) — *(TL;DR at bottom)* Questions like this pop up on this subreddit every few weeks: > How much should I charge for a basic website? Or: > Is $500 for a single-page Figma design a good price? ...and…
Interview for associate devops role, not sure how it went, need opinions — I had a technical discussion with with a smaller company(around 100-200 employees) and they are filling out a new devops team. I have 7 YOE at large tech companies as a software engineer, but my dutie…
Free Search Phrase tool? — Hi, I built a blog and I am looking to optimize it and look for some new potential search phrases. Are there any really good tools that are free? Would love a one and done tool but if a couple of fr…
10x increase in Shipstation monthly fee. Alternatives? — I've been using shipstation for around 3 years now, it's functional, but gets the job done. I only ship about 30-50 packages per month, and the integration with my website(wordpress->Woo->shipstation)…
Dreaming of Full Time Freelance Consulting in SaaS B2B (I will not promote) — Hi r/startups, I’m in the process of developing a consulting service designed specifically for startups, from Pre-Seed all the way to Series B. The idea is to offer a practical, hands-on partner for …
The "Perks" listed at the bottom of an ad for a *Senior* Product Design with 5 years of experience. — Stuff like this is why I read job ads throughly and I encourage all young job seekers to do the same. This tells me they are either hesitant to discuss benefits, or there are none to speak of and th…
Thoughts on an image sharing tool with link permissions? (i will not promote) — **Looking for feedback: Tool for sharing images securely with permissioned domains (like DocSend, but mainly for images)** Hey r/startups, I’m working on validating an idea and would love your thoug…
Thoughts on a platform that can give AI suggestions layered on top of product documentation (i will not promote) — **AI suggestions layered on top of product documentation** Hey r/startups, I’m exploring a product idea and would love to hear your thoughts. **The problem:** Many users land in product documenta…
Plan to build the healthiest farm-to-table meal delivery service. Seeking advice. I will not promote. — I WILL NOT PROMOTE. Plan on building what I believe can be the cleanest and most transparent farm-to-table meal delivery service brand, and I’d love feedback from anyone who’s worked in DTC, food or j…
Seeking Technical Co-Founder for Fantasy Football Punishment Platform (I will not promote) — Hey everyone, I’m in the process of building an exciting startup focused on **fantasy football** and I’m looking for a **technical co-founder** to join me and help bring this idea to life. The core i…
What's the best SEO Shopify tools to boost organic traffic? — My niche has a big potential for organic growth but l'm a newbie when it comes to SEO. Any good tools you have used that paid off? I don't use Zapier or things like this so would need native integrat…
G4 connection -Shopify or GTM? — Just ran into some guidance that said that all google tags should be administered with the Google Tag Manger (GTM) and the Google analytics G4 should be disabled in the Google & YouTube app inside of …
My and many other Shopify sites have been cloned by someone in Woocommerce. How do I report and get it removed. — Presuming it is for scam purposes. A customer thinks they are ordering from my website but end up giving their credit card info to this cloned site. Did a search on the contact info on the clone si…
Looking for advice, Sporting club daily events with signups — Has anyone built anything like this? or found a plugin that can do daily events with easy sign ups, Think golf or Lawn bowls. usually around 50-100 people per event every day. How would you do it.
MySQL Database Quota Reached - Clean database — Hey everyone, I’m currently hosting several websites on SiteGround’s GoGeek plan which comes with 40 GB of web space. Most of my websites use between 1–3 GB, with one around 5.3 GB. However, one of m…
Theme Help — I'm looking for a simple theme like this: [https://www.robovacxcleaner.com/](https://www.robovacxcleaner.com/) that I can use to create 1 page review sites. I'd like a drag and drop builder. I'll expo…
Aspiring Dance Studio Owner - First Steps? — ~ TL;DR: Aspiring dance studio owner (currently in school). Active in the dance community and planning ahead. Looking for first-step advice, financial tips, and mindset guidance from other small busi…
Would web developers be interested in a business that analyzes their websites and helps improve monetization? — First-time poster here—apologies if I’m slightly off-topic. I’m planning to build a website that helps website owners improve how they monetize their sites. I’d like to know if there are people who …
Created a website completely using firebase studio and gemini 2.5-pro — I'm primarily a Machine Learning developer with about 8 years under my belt. I've always wanted to build my own web project but had absolutely no prior experience with front-end or back-end web develo…
Best Practices for the List View — Hi all, While using Wordpress in the past few years, I've developed the habit of renaming my element bocks in the List View sidebar to make navigating the page easier for myself and hopefully others.…
How do I report a Shopify store? — I placed a large order using the SHOP app. Not only was my order wrong but the contact email for the store is wrong and so is the email on the website. It comes back with an “address not found” from m…
Developer completely changed my design — I worked so hard on it and the other developer practically said my work was ugly and hers was better. He was like "Are we going to use her work because it's better... I mean different?" He said "Maybe…
How would I create an active demo section? — https://preview.redd.it/z0zqo2sqq8ze1.png?width=2148&format=png&auto=webp&s=93373216fb9f7e07f32e1d3c4224c444450fc427 Something like this where you click the feature on the left sidebar and a short gi…
Duolingo leader throws shade at r/UXDesign — You all might remember this thread a few months ago, [debating Duolingo renaming UX to “Product Experience.”](https://www.reddit.com/r/UXDesign/comments/1j3hvkw/duolingo_renames_ux/) The VP Mig announ…
Am I overreacting? — My husband and I own a small business that is doing pretty well. It is very 50/50 and we are equally as important in this business. He constantly refers to things as “my employees “ or “my drivers,” o…
To-do lists in text form don’t fit our way of thinking, they are slow and unproductive. To-Do Models is the way to go. — I’ve found Projects modeled visually instead of written in flat lists to be wayy more productive and successful. Traditional to-do lists are linear—one-dimensional. You follow a fixed path: top to bot…
Hello, added some plugin that should've make my site https secured and for some reason it now looks like this even after deleting the plugin. What is going on?
Freelancing rates — Hey all, I built a site for my side job (assembling furniture for taskrabbit) and was thinking of offering to build similar sites for fellow taskers if they’re interested… What’s the going rate for …
Need Help Integrating Custom OpenAI Assistant in WordPress Chatbot — Hello, Reddit! I’m working on integrating a custom-built OpenAI assistant into a WordPress site and could really use some help. The chatbot is supposed to interact with users, respond to questions, a…
Feedback on Branching Strategy for IAC Repository — Hello, One of the challenges I’ve faced when researching branching strategies is that most resources are focused on software deployment workflows, often emphasizing versioning and tagging. These stra…
how do people get their product in stores? and how do they manufacture it from scratch? — I just saw a cnbc money video about a random guy that started selling plain old peanut butter and made million. crazy thing is I recognized the peanut butter brand and it just started showing up all…
ELI5: What is TDD and BDD? Also, TDD vs BDD? — I wrote this short article about TDD vs BDD because I couldn't find a concise one. It contains code examples in every common dev language. Maybe it helps one of you :-) Here is the repo: https://githu…
Second fake client this month – classic invoice scam disguised as a website project — Just wanted to share this as a heads-up to other freelancers and small agencies. I recently had a potential client who reached out for a WordPress website. We even had a short phone call, everything s…
Every day I try to do things right. Every day they say no. Now I duct-tape and maintain the mess I warn them about — Hey folks, Just wanted to drop this little gem of corporate masochism So I work at this company where we develop software for real state agencies, in this 'properties' sql table we have a field cal…
Built Artificial Intelligence driven accounting prototype for small businesses — struggling to find beta users. Any advice?(Tried LinkedIn as well) — I’ve recently developed a prototype of an Artificial Intelligence powered accounting tool tailored specifically for small businesses — the kind that typically have just one in-house accountant or rely…
Can I have POS terminal without a company? — Any help would be very useful. Is there any possibility to accept payments at a POS terminal that does not require me to have a company or to have to declare a VAT number? Then to use the money eithe…
Hey small businesses why do you make it so hard for me to buy your stuff? — So I'm making a fairly large purchase about 15 units (well trying to ) at a local tree / garden store. I picked one with a very large garden and confirmed they have lots of stock on the phone. I sent …
Thanks for making that great post! I wish i found something like this subreddit earlier. And i am sure it's a wonderful resource for beginners.
So my husband turned me on to the idea that my weird dreams are something called lucid dreaming and showed me this sub. Pumped to be here! So periodically I will experience DILD and take control of …
My mom is extremely psychic/spiritual/etc. When she was a child she mostly dreamed that she could fly out of her bedroom window, but she would always be scared to go further. She sometimes knows thing…
I'm someone who doesn't really visualize. Like I don't see anything when I attempt to. I feel like this kinda creates a barrier in terms of I'm not sure if I'll just snap into a moment where I'll be a…
yes , it took me like 2 months to master it , all i did was lay on the back look up and close my eyes , i would invision seeing myself fly around my neighborhood while doing this practice , , this ga…
I had no idea that everyone didn’t dream like this all the time. I have had lucid dreams for as long as I can remember, and I can interact with them. I have even died in dreams to be reborn in the sam…
This sounds like bullshit, but I am open to be convinced it's real. You compared it to LD, but lucid dreaming is just controlling your dreams, it's in your head. AP according to you guys is literally …
idk your situation, but generally do you feel like this is cruel if that person genuinely did nothing wrong to be treated as an annoyance?
I like this “it issss what it isss” mentally u have.
Respectfully, this is what happens when you only focus on material aspects and totally disregard the "spiritual woo woo." I'm not saying everyone ever needs to be enlightened, but there's a reason why…
Has anyone ever experienced death in their lucid dream? I’m usually aware of my dreams, never really tried to control it or anything, but one dream I had was I was falling from a air plane and I had t…
For years, I would look for a resource like this. I finally gave up about six months ago. Figures you would show up now. lol
Happy endings like this makes me feel good, haha. So glad it worked out for you. :)
I have not been public-facing but generally when people come to me with issues I take care of them. This was due to complaints about a certain comment that made people feel unsafe. It's important a co…
Yo. It’s a good kill. Congrats. This sub is a pretty straightforward place, so I’d like to politely ask how you feel this is a legit kill when it is just a lucky strike amongst a series of losses. …
Yeah I've seen a lot of increase in those posts too. I don't think is the subreddit to tell everyone else that NC led you to get back with your ex, first of all is giving everybody false hopes or unre…
I believe there's a passage from the Bible that goes something like this: 'Thou shalt be banned for 69 days for asking a ridiculous question on the Joseph Murphy sub.' Thread locked.
Based on my experience dating a DA, yes this is all “normal” for them. He made it clear we were only to see each other once every two weeks. He didn’t “have capacity” for more than that. The week afte…
Ohhh yes 😑 my distant avoidant was exactly like this!? whenever I thought things were going great... he would withdraw for days and I would leave me crying and sleepless 😔
It's always like this😂
I feel like this is such an underrated post. I find myself very anxious in some relationships and very avoidant in others, so I don’t know what I am overarchingly… But I always know that I have to bo…
I respect how politely you've addressed this. But please see the other perspective too: 1. Most people are told by their avoidantly attached partner that they're clingy when they're just trying to n…
Usually most people are a little bit chill and collected in the first few weeks of meeting each other. There are no global standards or benchmarks, but if you’re looking for general guidance maybe som…
It's a little bit soon to jump to concluding that she's lost interest. People do have (hopefully whole, fulfilling) lives separate of us, and just because we don't hear from them for a day (especially…
Didn’t even know that was an actual theory but wrote something like this in my journal yesterday with regards to my feelings towards the end of a relationship with a DA. I wrote “the patterns that of…
You are correct. Your perception of love is warped. And thus it can be really hard finding it without accidentally finding yourself in shit relationships. As many have commented, avoidants typically …
I'm so sorry, this sounds so hard. If you can, I think it would be amazing to focus on yourself right now and what you need. My long distance boyfriend dumped me out of the blue after one disagreement…
Holy shit yes it also applies to Pluntnic people in I want in my life!!! Why are we like this!?!?
Agreed. I also dated a guy like this and things got progressively worse and worse- no amount of ‘*understanding*’ would have fixed it because ultimately he wasn’t fit to be in a relationship. On refle…
My ex was/is exactly like this. Had mutual friends telling me he either didn’t talk about it or would say “I don’t give a F about her.” But during this time he was also drinking very heavily. I heard…
IMO shops that want per hour accounting like this are doing themselves a disservice. A lot of my best work comes when I am not "on the clock". There is a reason knowledge positions exist. If I was ask…
Usually when I feel like this I go outside and use my hands to manipulate the real world. As for your issues with alienation, sure you are building an operating a rube Goldberg machine to run an app…
I am actually working on something like this on my weekends. There are tons of moving parts to this and lots of decisions at each layer. As much as I hate k8s you are definitely missing out on some o…
Hey thanks for posting this. I started my entrepreneurship journey around an year back and the struggle to focus and manage distractions is so real. I have not been diagnosed officially but have read …
I advise everyone if you can buy a startup that is struggling and grow that as it saves time, money and validation. especially for first time founders with lack of experience. I know someone selling a…
I feel like this might be a bad advice for someone leaning more avoidant than you because simply other person being secure does not work in vast majority of cases. It’s not that FA’s partner making th…
Love the intent. India needs more founder-driven communities like this. Keep it focused, cut the noise, and real builders will show up.
If trying one on in person wasn’t an option, I’d like an AR feature like this
Thank you for sharing your perspective :) And I do totally see your point about over applying attachment theory. I think I feel hurt by these hot and cold dynamics and probably as an anxious person I …
Thank you for sharing your perspective! A good reminder that this is how a secure person would act and next time I will fall in a similar situation I will try to act more like this :)
The first question is, why does the drugs trigger you? What are you imagining or feeling when they talk about it. Logically, it's just part of their past. If it was something that could happen again o…
My takeaway from this is that you should release this app for the general public. Would be useful for loads of people, not just avoidants. In my own life, I often don’t have enough energy to respond t…
That seems really light actually, if it came in a small prompt/notification with yes button. This would work for me in days where my emotions are being too intense for instance, or I am running low on…
I like this idea. It seems to help both the anxious leaning and the avoidant just check in for the day rather than the avoidant expecting to have to check in continuously, or the anxious person waitin…
Why not capitalize on the app you’ve built? Theres a lot of controversy in this comment section but it seems like there is an interest/need for something like this when it comes to attachment types
Man, now being secure (slightly avoidant leaning) with a secure partner makes me not miss moments like this. It's definitely innovative and creative of you, but having to do all of that just to get a …
No offense to DAs but perception of time is very different. "You cant say something like this.... we only know each other for 6 month" would not surprise me.
Tbh I look for someone who is able to understand my POV when I tell a story, means show empathy not dismissing/judging, someone who is able to reassure me when I have my doubts, someone who doesnt tre…
I really like this.
Try not to look at it like this attachment style is selfish while the others are more selfless. We often assume APs are selfless and will sacrifice everything for their partners but reality is that s…