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Please don't get sucked into staying in a relationship with a poor partner because of the [Sunk Cost Fallacy](https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-sunk-cost-fallacy-7106851). You don't have to stay …

OK try thinking of a common place you go to that's memorable and see if you get images If not then I suspect you may have [aphantasia](https://www.verywellmind.com/aphantasia-overview-4178710#:~:text…

It’s so absurd! This is a slight tangent but it is such a red flag when these people are “always” getting entangled with narcissists 😂 How is that even possible?! Are they going to Cluster B Mixers?…

[spiritual bypassing](https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-spiritual-bypassing-5081640) - spiritual bypassing is a form of emotional neglect where people bypass the grief, pain, and suffering of the t…

I have been thinking about your answer. This might be a good time to start to talk about your NMother with your Dad and what to do in the future. He gave you the book and opened your mind. It seams, h…

I think it's a huge waste of your time, energy, attention, and effort. Abusers don't change, they just learn better ways to manipulate. Cut them off and set yourself, your partner, and your child fre…

>"People don't get trauma responses from good enough parenting." - my therapist Your trauma responses are proof it was "that bad". We have to overcome abuse brainwashing, conditioning, indoctrinati…

I'm keen to hear some tips too. I've listened and learned way too much about people with narcissistic traits, so I thought I knew almost everything. Many people know about the Grey Rock Method or the…

Again, [attachment.](https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-attachment-theory-2795337)

I am so sorry your bf has either been lying to you for so long over such a serious matter, or has decided it's OK for him to revoke his commitment to you and change his mind at this point. His giving …

They voted for an abuser bc he represents them. Links on their dysfunction: [authoritarian follower personality](https://www.issendai.com/psychology/estrangement/summary.html#authoritarian) (mini di…

LAT = Living Apart Together, another way of saying, each has their own place + relationship. Here is an article https://www.verywellmind.com/living-apart-together-8681585

See [spiritual bypassing](https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-spiritual-bypassing-5081640) - spiritual bypassing is a form of emotional neglect where people bypass the grief, pain, and suffering of t…