not being over it

Together for over a decade. i was over it within 3 months after i asked for divorce. Granted, i was being heavily abused and finally realized it with therapeutic help and lots of reading. I did alot o…

10 months later — It’s been 10 months since my ex of 5 years broke up with me and I still keep struggling with it and playing the “should’ve could’ve would’ve” game. I keep judging myself for not being over it and, for…

Over 6 months since the breakup, and I also feel guilty about not being over it, although I know that’s silly.