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Should I continue?

I think you're actually seeing this pretty clearly, but you’re just hesitating to act on it. I think the issue isn’t really the suburb or even his kid, it’s that the future he’s building is centered a…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/6/2026
How often do you get approached in real life?

That’s actually such a great moment and a reminder that nothing “ran out” just because of age. You didn’t suddenly become more attractive, you just got real-life proof of it. And the fact it happened …

r/datingoverfortycomment4/6/2026
Intentionally having bad sex?

This may not really about “not letting sex dominate,” it’s about control. He’s deciding when sex is allowed to be good and expecting you to go along with it. That’s not a healthy dynamic. And the “you…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/6/2026
Being age 46 has been….difficult

This actually feels really normal to me. I think a lot of people hit this point in their 40s where time suddenly feels real, not abstract, and your brain starts going into those “what if” loops. The p…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/6/2026