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Why Don't Quality Men Seem To Want To Be With Me?

Let me preface and say I'm not trying to be rude or make you feel bad... I'm probably not what you would think of as a "quality man" so feel free to ignore this. What I am though is self-aware and emp…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/7/2026
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Ultimately, you will be ...an older man. So it sounds to me as though you are more or less guaranteed to be what she wants. I'm not exactly sure what you have to navigate here. Are you concerned that …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/18/2026
42M. Do these things basically disqualify me entirely?

OP I think you have potential. Being a homeowner and having a stable job shows you are self reliant. I think that's a quality many women like. There are 100 percent women who prioritize a man's money…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/10/2026
Am I invisible to men as a woman in mid 40s? I'm not dealing with aging well.

Amen sister. As a lifelong nerd, geek or whatever you call me, I’m not a body count bro. I’m a loyal, high-quality man. I know my worth and I’m not interested in changing who I am just to find someone…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/10/2026
How do I (F26) talk to my partner (M33) about casual misogyny?

Thank you for this comment. My husband takes boys trips a few times a year and there is almost nothing I'd enjoy less than being around a bunch of farting, belching, Cheeto-dust-covered men leaving th…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/20/2026
Burned Haystack: I Break the Rules

Nope. I used basically the same strategy when I was over 40, divorced, fat, and had no idea if I would ever find a good mate. It saved me from wasting time and energy on men who were objectively not u…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/27/2026
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I think for the intention of finding a relationship, I'm not sure if my philosophy is the best given I haven't been in a real long term relationship in 5 years, only a few situationships here and ther…

r/datingoverthirtycomment4/4/2026
Why Don't Quality Men Seem To Want To Be With Me?

At first I was going to say that with your travel and hobbies and cool career, you come across as someone who is a bit flighty and not ready to settle down, even at 51. But really, I think you would…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/4/2026
Why Don't Quality Men Seem To Want To Be With Me?

What is your definition of a quality man? From everything I’ve been reading in these dating subs, I feel like I’d be a quality man, but I know I’m not everyone cup of tea. Whether it is political or…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/4/2026
Why Don't Quality Men Seem To Want To Be With Me?

What’s your definition of a “quality man?”

r/datingoverfortycomment4/4/2026
Why Don't Quality Men Seem To Want To Be With Me?

Second this. What is a quality man? And remember similar matches with similar most of the time.

r/datingoverfortycomment4/4/2026
Why Don't Quality Men Seem To Want To Be With Me?

This is what I was thinking. I doubt that the OP would have thought I was a quality man, but my wife did.

r/datingoverfortycomment4/4/2026
Why Don't Quality Men Seem To Want To Be With Me?

If you and I (56M) sat down for coffee, I would be wondering if you had time to date me. I think I fit your definition of a quality man. Healthy and fit and financially stable. My life isn’t glamorou…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/4/2026
Why Don't Quality Men Seem To Want To Be With Me?

Non of the things you mentioned about yourself here makes YOU a quality partner yourself. So I wonder what is your definition of a quality man. Education? Wealth? Social status? Family values?

r/datingoverfortycomment4/4/2026
Why Don't Quality Men Seem To Want To Be With Me?

You have little idea as to what [most] men value in a romantic partner. What's a quality man to you? You willing to post a photo of yourself that shows how you look on "date night?"

r/datingoverfortycomment4/4/2026
Why Don't Quality Men Seem To Want To Be With Me?

What’s a quality man, to you? In what way were the 2 LTR guys “non-quality men”, or were they just not a match for you?

r/datingoverfortycomment4/4/2026
Why Don't Quality Men Seem To Want To Be With Me?

I won't pretend to speak for all men. I can only speak for myself and the men I know well. Im not sure what you ladies define as a quality man. But I am fit, emotionally mature, can communicate well…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/4/2026
Why Don't Quality Men Seem To Want To Be With Me?

I hate these comments, lol. I think it has less to do with a quality man not wanting to be with you, and more about what you're willing to accept. Paul kept you around because you were likely the ba…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/4/2026
Why Don't Quality Men Seem To Want To Be With Me?

I believe she is keeping herself occupied other ways because she has time. She did mention that she is accommodating, which makes me think that if she meets the "quality man", she will make the time …

r/datingoverfortycomment4/4/2026
Why Don't Quality Men Seem To Want To Be With Me?

To start, what do you consider a "quality man"? Second, and this is the ripping off the band-aid part: you never mentioned anywhere about how physically attractive you are (or believe yourself to be)…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/5/2026
This subreddit is bad because of the moderation.

The irony is that you are the flat-earther in this discussion. You refuse to back up your point in a philosophy sub of all places. This is exactly why it is moderated the way it is - for quality manag…

r/Stoicismcomment4/5/2026
My (M33) wife (F28) cannot accept that I dated a, on what she calls a "low class" woman (F30).

You nailed the perfect question for him to ask her. Who is the higher quality man she is having the affair with or the one she is planning to get with.

r/relationship_advicecomment4/5/2026
Why Don't Quality Men Seem To Want To Be With Me?

I think most people in dating are seeking some kind of validation. If a quality man likes you, then you’re a quality woman. If an attractive women likes you, then you’re an attractive man. At the en…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/6/2026
Do I [24F] tell him [28F] about my insecurity, or just let him see it himself?

Talking with my partner about my insecurities around my body helped me to feel safe, seen, and comfortable with him. Not all men know how to have these kinds of conversations but a quality man listens…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026