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How to stop being attracted to "unavailable" people?

Your Pocket Therapist by an actual therapist Annie Zimmerman helped me out A LOT. Highly recommend. Also this workbook helped me out when I was early on in my journey https://a.co/d/08PmwgCA

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment3/17/2026
Start Here: Essential Resources & FAQs

Start Here: Essential Resources & FAQs — The idea for this post came up in [this thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/Wordpress/comments/1cpme25/mods_can_this_subreddit_implement_a_minimum_karma/) by wiz to avoid the number of similar questions …

r/Wordpresspost5/13/2024
Website Rebrand and Redesign Advice

Website Rebrand and Redesign Advice — First Let me say: I have absolutely no eye for design. If it is more complex than a stick figure, I cant imagine it in my mind. However, I do know of already existing designs that I love and want to r…

r/web_designpost4/22/2025
LogWhisperer – AI-powered log summarizer that runs locally (no OpenAI keys, no cloud)

LogWhisperer – AI-powered log summarizer that runs locally (no OpenAI keys, no cloud) — I built an open-source CLI tool called **LogWhisperer** that uses a local LLM to summarize Linux system logs into human-readable summaries. It’s useful for triaging noisy logs, quick postmortems, or j…

r/DevOpspost5/6/2025
Rejected in the final interview after a month long process

Rejected in the final interview after a month long process — This is honestly just a rant post, because I feel completely deflated at this point. I’ve been actively looking for a job for over a year now, moved to Spain three months ago to start a new life, and…

r/UXDesignpost5/6/2025
A shiny experiment in 3D Web graphics

A shiny experiment in 3D Web graphics — I had some fun building an interactive diamond configurator to show off the power of material properties with the help of WebGPU. It’s a cool way to learn how things like thickness and IOR are used t…

r/webdevpost5/7/2025
ICE Resources + Discussion Megathread

ICE Resources + Discussion Megathread — Hello r/asianamerican, The purpose of this megathread is twofold: 1. List of ICE-related/immigration resources 2. General discussion of ICE-related topics and news **RESOURCES** These …

r/AsianAmericanpost1/27/2026
How to Meditate (or at least one way to get started)

How to Meditate (or at least one way to get started) — Intro: There are endless amount of intentions or, in other words, ways to focus your meditation practice. At the end of the day, your meditation practice is \*yours\*, so make it your own. This post …

r/Meditationpost3/8/2026
Stop Asian Hate's iconic victim Grandpa Vicha's murderer Antoine Watson is going to walk free now without punishment

Stop Asian Hate's iconic victim Grandpa Vicha's murderer Antoine Watson is going to walk free now without punishment — [article 1](https://www.nbcbayarea.com/news/local/grandpa-vicha-sentencing-murder-case/4058429/) [article 2](https://www.cbsnews.com/sanfrancisco/news/granpa-vicha-killing-san-francisco-suspect-relea…

r/AsianMasculinitypost3/28/2026
TIL that in mid-19th-century New York, marriages between Chinese men and Irish women were incredibly common. The Irish immigrant community had a massive surplus of women (two for every man), while the Chinese community was overwhelmingly male, leading to frequent unions between the two groups.

TIL that in mid-19th-century New York, marriages between Chinese men and Irish women were incredibly common. The Irish immigrant community had a massive surplus of women (two for every man), while the Chinese community was overwhelmingly male, leading to frequent unions between the two groups. — https://www.speakingofchina.com/amwf-history/marriages-irish-women-chinese-men/

r/AsianMasculinitypost4/7/2026
Is this a good DevOps book?

[The Devops Handbook 2nd Edition](https://a.co/d/e7fROis)

r/DevOpscomment5/3/2025
LLMs ('AI') are coming for our jobs whether or not they work - Chris's Wiki

[Counterpoint](https://arstechnica.com/ai/2025/05/time-saved-by-ai-offset-by-new-work-created-study-suggests/).

r/DevOpscomment5/5/2025
How do you validate your idea before building it?

This book "Running Lean" provides detail strategy on this. This image provides detailed step-by-step guide on the roadmap [https://sketches.sachachua.com/static/2012-12-28%20Book%20-%20Running%20Lean…

r/Entrepreneurcomment5/7/2025
Marketplace Tuesday! - May 06, 2025

Hey! We’re Spyral Media, and we help early-stage startups launch fast, professional websites. Our Rapid Web Launch service delivers SEO-optimized, mobile-friendly WordPress sites **in just 7 days,** p…

r/Entrepreneurcomment5/7/2025
Practicing acceptance while anxiously attached?

Just found out I have an anxious attachment and thought I would share my current journey….This book was my intro into my anxious attachment journey https://a.co/d/hkWAHRB from here I purchased a journ…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment10/2/2025
The New Agora: Daily WWYD and light discussion thread

>*In order to move on, you need to not only stop feeling sorry for yourself,* *but also stop feeling sorry for the world.* *That is forgiveness in its essence.* *To give up a certain lens to see…

r/Stoicismcomment11/13/2025
The New Agora: Daily WWYD and light discussion thread

Folks, tomorrow (Saturday 10 AM EST) I'll be doing a live zoom talk in the Conversations with Modern Stoicism series, and would love to see some of this community there. Here's the [link](https://luma…

r/Stoicismcomment1/9/2026
How do I grow?

I hear you and can relate to much of what you articulated. For me, Internal Family Systems therapeutic framework has been life changing. It provides a model where I get to work on practicing secure…

r/HealMyAttachmentStylecomment2/21/2026
Best pointers for Do Nothing meditation

Do nothing means to find stillness. Not only in the body, but in the mind too. It’s definitely a practice to have the self discipline to have this level of stillness. Especially when most people don’t…

r/Meditationcomment3/7/2026
3 years in. Bro, it gets wild.

It’s by Dr Helen Schucman, and it’s an extended version I think? It’s like 2000 pages on Kindle. Took me 2 years to finish it the first time. I’m 50% through my second read and it’s astonishing how …

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/8/2026
how do i detach myself from my thoughts

In yoga, it’s said that if you can’t use logic and reason to change the mind/habits, something must be stored in the body. It’s been proven that the body keeps the score - book https://a.co/d/062WTQ…

r/Meditationcomment3/10/2026
I (F18) am jealous of my boyfriend (M18) for the gpt chat

You've been given lots of good advice, but I don't see that anybody else has done the math yet: > genius, top 0.0001% in the world A cumulative probability of 0.999999 corresponds to a [z-score of 4…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/10/2026
In Need of Guidance and Advice

A quote was found to be attributed to Marcus Aurelius in his Meditations 3.12 (Hays) ^(Book III. ()[^(Hays)](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Special:BookSources?isbn=9780812968255)^) ^(Book III. ()[^…

r/Stoicismcomment3/13/2026
My 22F boyfriend 22M is scaring me

The only difference is that [methamphetamine has an additional methyl group attached to the amine group](https://freebythesea.com/amphetamine-vs-methamphetamine/).

r/relationship_advicecomment3/14/2026
my "method" to manifest everything

I will be messaging you in 1 year on [**2027-09-15 10:58:11 UTC**](http://www.wolframalpha.com/input/?i=2027-09-15%2010:58:11%20UTC%20To%20Local%20Time) to remind you of [**this link**](https://www.re…

r/Manifestationcomment3/15/2026
I'm tired of people assuming that everyone can afford therapy.

Yes! You are absolutely right! There are so many privileged assumptions out there it can be totally infuriating! And I say that even though I do get therapy. Now, even if one does get therapy, in my e…

r/CPTSDcomment3/15/2026
What can I do when my (20F) husband (20M) is convinced I cheated on him because I’m pregnant again and refuses to listen to me.

OP: I know the prenatal NIPP tests are more expensive than the tests after the baby's birth. Most labs charge around $1,500, but if you search online you can find labs (hopefully one near you) th…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
Magnesium works?

Sure. Here you go: https://a.co/d/0f0KMdp8

r/Anxietyhelpcomment3/17/2026
The One Habit that has Completely Transformed My Life

Can you give a.concrete examples? How many beliefa do you Focus on at a time? How many repetitions per day and for how many days for them to really feel like they are imprinted in your subconcious m…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/18/2026
Why do people have it out for me?

A different way of looking at it, basically saying the same, is mindset and habitual thinking. You observed the cashier act a certain way. Then you interpreted what you observed. Your interpretation …

r/energy_workcomment3/18/2026
AM diversify your dating pool

Most of the Asian women I know are married to Asian men. The ones who married white, latino or black dated Asian men regularly. I understand why it feels unfair but statistically the rates are more co…

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/18/2026
Caught wife with her best friend (F)

Relationships are an ongoing adventure requiring daily affirmation of partner and concerted effort to communicate in an honest open nonjudgmental way. Women are so unique, and need attention more so …

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/18/2026
I am going to do an affirmation challenge for 1 month

I will be messaging you in 1 month on [**2026-04-18 23:39:29 UTC**](http://www.wolframalpha.com/input/?i=2026-04-18%2023:39:29%20UTC%20To%20Local%20Time) to remind you of [**this link**](https://www.r…

r/Manifestationcomment3/18/2026
Bad things will lead to greater life.

A quote was found to be attributed to Marcus Aurelius in his Meditations 2.17 (Long) ^(Book II. ()[^(Long)](https://lexundria.com/m_aur_med/2.17/lg)^) ^(Book II. ()[^(Farquharson)](https://en.wikis…

r/Stoicismcomment3/20/2026
I feel like I'm missing the point of Epictetus.

I have been reading the Discourses recently and I agree that it can be hard for a beginner to grasp. I think read-alongs are a great way to learn. I'm currently using [ViaStoica](https://viastoica.com…

r/Stoicismcomment3/20/2026
Violence against Asian communities in the US spiked after Covid. What happened to the movement to stop it?

https://aapidata.com/data/what-the-media-gets-wrong-about-anti-asian-hate/ > Summary of findings: Most reported anti-Asian hate incidents are verbal rather than physical attacks. Although there has b…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/21/2026
Violence against Asian communities in the US spiked after Covid. What happened to the movement to stop it?

https://aapidata.com/data/what-the-media-gets-wrong-about-anti-asian-hate/ > Summary of findings: Most reported anti-Asian hate incidents are verbal rather than physical attacks. Although there has b…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/21/2026
Violence against Asian communities in the US spiked after Covid. What happened to the movement to stop it?

When you're so defensive of being racist as lived experience and dismiss the data that goes against what you think with anti-intellectual tropes, you can't also be mad when you get put in the racist/r…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/21/2026
Me 19m and my gf 20f ass stinks during sex can someone give me some advice?

Get a bidet. Life changing and easy to install in a few minutes. https://a.co/d/08mmGseb

r/relationship_advicecomment3/22/2026
How do I deal with a non-virtuous past that led to a good and comfortable present?

A quote was found to be attributed to Marcus Aurelius in his Meditations 7.56 (Hays) ^(Book VII. ()[^(Hays)](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Special:BookSources?isbn=9780812968255)^) ^(Book VII. ()[^…

r/Stoicismcomment3/23/2026
Is it possible to be too grounded?

I know a really great book for dp/dr [at last a life](https://a.co/d/014el1aW)

r/Meditationcomment3/24/2026
She came back

I will be messaging you in 1 year on [**2027-03-24 19:00:57 UTC**](http://www.wolframalpha.com/input/?i=2027-03-24%2019:00:57%20UTC%20To%20Local%20Time) to remind you of [**this link**](https://www.re…

r/BreakUpscomment3/24/2026
The New Agora: Daily WWYD and light discussion thread

A quote was found to be attributed to Marcus Aurelius in his Meditations 11.4 (Long) ^(Book XI. ()[^(Long)](https://lexundria.com/m_aur_med/11.4/lg)^) ^(Book XI. ()[^(Farquharson)](https://en.wikis…

r/Stoicismcomment3/24/2026
Stoic Quotes to help Soldier in need

A quote was found to be attributed to Marcus Aurelius in his Meditations 8.36 (Hays) ^(Book VIII. ()[^(Hays)](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Special:BookSources?isbn=9780812968255)^) ^(Book VIII. ()…

r/Stoicismcomment3/25/2026
What’s your “pocket Stoic” book?

There's a small book useful for day-to-day stuff: The Black Book of Mental Strength (https://a.co/d/0dbfCPo9) Very useful for quick mental exercises or triggers.

r/Stoicismcomment3/25/2026
San Gabriel Restaurant Removes Stinky Tofu from Menu due to Citations and Complaints

I believe it ~~was~~ is Tofu King ~~and it has since been replaced by a noodle shop~~. I remember they even had a room where they prepared it, but the ventilation was silly as it vented straight to th…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/25/2026
Violence against Asian communities in the US spiked after Covid. What happened to the movement to stop it?

It was (and continues to be) misinformation that tries to justify or stoke racism against black people amongst Asian Americans https://aapidata.com/data/what-the-media-gets-wrong-about-anti-asian-hat…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/26/2026
Something I wished I had heard about sooner when I struggled leaving my now nex that would've made me leave a lot earlier.

I can share all of them if you like, the process started about 1 year before the nex discard: \- My psych did a assessment of core childhood wounds (schemas) with me and then started on the ones that…

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment3/26/2026
What differences normal Saturn from retrograde?

This is a great question. The traditional take is that Saturn retrograde turns the obstacles inward, so instead of external barriers you're dealing with internal ones like self-doubt, fear of authorit…

r/astrologycomment3/27/2026
Chinese American restaurants question why Chinese cuisine can't get the chef's table treatment

I don't know about “elevated” Chinese food (have not gone since my wedding nearly a decade ago, that was 600+ per table. *edit [It is freaking 1520 per table now!! Highly recommend for the view thoug…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/28/2026
Chinese American restaurants question why Chinese cuisine can't get the chef's table treatment

I don't know, may be it's the area I live in, but i think Chinese food is plenty expensive already! I had hot pot with my wife about 3 years ago, and the tab turns out to be $120+ total, after that I …

r/AsianAmericancomment3/28/2026
I figured out why my affirmations weren't working and most folks miss it.

**Defaulted to one day.** I will be messaging you on [**2026-03-31 06:13:55 UTC**](http://www.wolframalpha.com/input/?i=2026-03-31%2006:13:55%20UTC%20To%20Local%20Time) to remind you of [**this link*…

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/30/2026
Have You Found Weed To Be Helpful For Your CPTSD Symptoms?

I actually get more relief from a good mushroom complex, I recommend looking into Everyday Dose & a solid mushroom complex like this one - [https://a.co/d/0dVmYyMR](https://a.co/d/0dVmYyMR) \- I take …

r/CPTSDcomment3/30/2026
Do you think we could do more to support each other professionally?

Whites also behave this way and network when they are in East Asia. A lot of corporate "expat"/manager level jobs are simply gained because you know someone. Even the entry jobs for MNCs might be done…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/31/2026
Easy read book recommendations?

As a Man Thinketh - James Allen. This is a good edition, also includes his book From Poverty to Power. Read them both carefully. https://a.co/d/0bmVa9w7

r/lawofattractioncomment3/31/2026
It Doesn't Get Better

Im really sorry you are carrying that, and I relate to the "life improved but it still hurts" part. Sometimes its not that youre doing anything wrong, its just grief and attachment taking longer than …

r/BreakUpscomment3/31/2026
What if death is just a dream you can't wake up from?

[](https://emojiterra.com/es/guinando-el-ojo/)

r/LucidDreamingcomment3/31/2026
What would a stoic say to combat “jealousy” (ex: someone I love involved with someone else) ?

A quote was found to be attributed to Marcus Aurelius in his Meditations 2.6 (Hays) ^(Book II. ()[^(Hays)](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Special:BookSources?isbn=9780812968255)^) ^(Book II. ()[^(Fa…

r/Stoicismcomment3/31/2026
Gateway Voyage Online

I recommend their course on gaia [https://www.gaia.com/course/the-monroe-institute-experience?type=journey&rfd=nhSHFS&source=SHARE&uuid=89380bcf-545d-4fbe-9f84-ae4715b5b353](https://www.gaia.com/cour…

r/gatewaytapescomment4/1/2026