he's just not that into me

Great question! Firstly, I recommend listening to Michael Greenberg's podcast. Episode 252. Secondly, ask yourself, has rumination ever improved your relationships? And/or led to reconciliation w w…

I'm four dates in with a girl, and I'm having a hard time getting a read on her. The dates have been fun, she's attractive, we have common interests and values, and in general she's great on paper. Ou…