he doesn't love me

Great question! Firstly, I recommend listening to Michael Greenberg's podcast. Episode 252. Secondly, ask yourself, has rumination ever improved your relationships? And/or led to reconciliation w w…

My 18M bf broke up with me 17F because he got an A in maths — hi, im 17F and I'm dating 18M, we met in grade school and became high school sweethearts. It's been 4 years and we have been going on really strong, although he lives 30 mins away and goes to a differ…

Is there still a chance? — Hey guys.. I'm going through a rough break up rn as my ex confessed she doesn't love me anymore. Idk if I should believe her or not as yesterday she was saying she loves me and we always called and …

[20M] I lost the only person who truly loved me because I went on "autopilot" — I’ve been with my girlfriend for almost three years. We’ve been together since high school; I met her when I was 15 or 16, and she was 17 or 18. At first, we were just friends, and I liked her a lot—…

I can't let go and still have hope for an ex that had already said he doesn't love me - looking for advice, community — (⚠️I apologize for the length of this post) Context: I (27F) can’t let go of my ex and still have hope even after he clearly told me he doesn’t love me I’ve been in an on-and-off dynamic with my ex…

I am shocked and hurt — I am a female aged 41 yrs married for almost 15-16 years. For 10 years of our marriage we lived in different cities because of career and job.For last 5-6 years we are living together. I have left the…

Friendship with an ex — can you really be friends with your ex? He says he doesn't love me anymore but wants to be friends in the future, not right now. I know we won't ever be together, this break up came out of nowhere, I …

I found an engagement ring in his office and fucked everything up. I've been with my boyfriend for 2ish years now, he's definitely avoidant but secure leaning. Since the beginning, we have had the sa…

It's been about 3 months, we were constantly in contact, but it was only because I pressured her, and each time she gave mixed positive and negative responses, but in the end she still indicated she d…

"From my perspective, the situation was more complex than that. I did love him and there were many times I was genuinely happy to be his wife. But over time I started lose my attraction because I fe…

My husband is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He's so kind and loving and an absolute goof ball. We both started getting serious when both of our lives felt like they were falling apart, …

Perfect! This is also what I want to hear when I ask that - stuff about me, the PERSONALITY that is unique and mine. If a man just told me how he likes how I do xyz and help him, I would consider tha…

How to fight the negative thoughts which might even be facts like he's gonna break up with me soon or this is what he hinted that he wants to end things or that he doesn't love me anymore. What do you…

Sound awkward i know but i don't tell ppl that i love them after 3 months i think love is something grows overtime. She is talking about ppl whome she had with them long relationships for years and no…

I've had a girlfriend that I met through reddit for at least 4 months, it was about to be 5. Little by little, I started to fall in love with her, looking at what made her different, seeing what I did…

If she left me she indeed doesn't want a relationship with me, she told me that she doesn't love me anymore, there is no doubt about that. The thing is that She lied to me multiple times about her not…

What happens if you're still in friendly terms ? He said he was burnt out and did not know if his feelings were genuine for me anymore. He said he may not, or idk my brain may have shut off, but I g…

I really don't understand you guys. I'm starting to feel really stupid. My ex broke up with me, and even he says he misses me and that it's really painful, but I just can't understand why he doesn't t…

Dearest lilithlola, From reading your post, it's ever so clear that you possess an enormous strength and courage that has guided you through the difficult journey of ending a long-term relationship. …

Part of me does wonder what she was thinking when it comes to me seeing that :( I wasn't even stalking her the post just appeared on my timeline. I do think she moved on, she was much faster than me w…