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I have a hunch that it will just add more pressure, especially since you would have made the game and he'd see the effort there. Of course he'd have to play it, appreciate it, "do well", etc. You men…

General manager compensation — Hi All, I've owned a small seasonal diner for 5 years now and am planning on drastically stepping back next year. An employee who has been with me for 4 years, and who I trust / get a long with/ have…

Sunken Cost Fallacy — Married for almost 27 years. Got married at the ripe age of 19. Funny thing, I thought it was a mistake on my wedding night when he got out of bed to jack off because I was so exhausted from the long …

I got a job after 4 months — even without feeling 100% confident — I’ve known about Neville’s teachings since 2022 and I’ve manifested some amazing things before, but lately I was feeling really discouraged. I left my previous job and ended up being unemployed for 4 …

Quit therapy after 3 sessions—was I wrong? — I started going to therapy, and I had three sessions with her. I felt unvalidated. She kept nitpicking my reactions—the way I smile when I talk about something that is uncomfortable for me. So she sa…

I finally understood how manifestation really works — I started manifesting not long ago, and I admit I was having trouble accepting the reality I wanted. Because of life circumstances, I was even feeling a bit discouraged about everything. I had a limit…

I don't love my parents — Growing up as the eldest daughter I had a lot of unspoken expectations bestowed upon me, especially since I performed relatively well in school. My mom cares about my grades because she wants to compa…

need help from an educated birth chart reader to interpret my chart — I have A LOT of aspects to explore. The overall theme of my life feels like ongoing depression when dealing with family & friends. Both of my parents have mental issues and divorced after 34 years of …

Got accepted into one of the most prestigious universities in my country and my AP's still aren't happy — I got accepted into the top engineering school in my country (UWaterloo), but my APs are still unhappy about it. Not a word of congratulations or good job. My AD actually spent 30 minutes telling me t…

I am addicted to restarting my life and I don’t know how to stop — For a love of God, if you have the same experience, let me know. I feel so lonely and crazy! TL;DR: I keep restarting my life every time something isn’t perfect, deleting my progress and starting fro…

Year of financial success — This is my solar return chart (from my birthday this year 05/05 to next birthday 2027) So the question is if I'll do well financially this year.

Why did I not do well academically based on my chart? — So I'll say that it was more like I fluctuated a lot academically. I would crush it for a few semesters and then absolutely flop afterwards. I also gravitated more to subjects like Latin and English, …

Will I ever have a guiding force in my life? — I see people around me having their parents, mentor and so many other who guide them through to do well in their lives and then there’s me who has figure out my own path, will it ever change?

Lil rant I had — Last night I went a lil coo coo and got really stressed, ig I remembered writing things can help with it and so I ended up writing the message bellow. thought I might post it to get so insight on thin…

Minor rant: has anyone's parents used unusual events or phenomena as a motivational talking point? — Another dramatic event resurfaced. I get that parents want their children to have the intent to work hard and contribute and achieve, but sometimes the method to do so is bizarre and absurd (at least …

Need to get this off my chest — I’m a 23-year-old woman living with my family(my parents and my 29-year-old brother). Things at home have always been tense, but lately it’s become unbearable. I’ve always felt like the “last kid” to …

Have a life altering exams on june but im losing the war against procrastination. Deciding to do my best the next 2 months — Background: I’ve struggled with procrastination for most of my academic life. I almost always end up finishing things right before the deadline. it always comes with a lot of stress and the feeling t…

I manifested passing a really important exam — In the month of Jan I started prepping for an important professional paper I was to write in Feb. At that point in time I was going through something rough in my personal life, and I knew this test wa…

I Know I Can Do Well, So Why Can’t I Focus When It Matters Most? — I'm 18, standing at one of the most important points of my life, preparing for a major exam with Physics, Mathematics, and Chemistry as my core subjects. Chemistry feels like my strength, Math is som…

My Dad hit me frequently as a child, I've never been able to identify my emotions — I was born mid-90s so around this time it was still considered "normal" to hit your kids. Disgusting, I know, but that was that. My Dad used to spank me as a young child (like under the age of 8 or …

I feel quite lost. — I've never really had someone I could talk to about my problems. I have lots of people in my life I COULD talk to, but I feel like there's no one who could understand. I don't know where it starts. …

Anyone else can relate? About introversion/social anxiety in regards to friendships and relationships. Being labelled "awkward" or "weird" — I'm 37 year old male who works as a dentist with a successful practice and own my own house. Despite my occupation, I have always been the shy, reserved, "quiet" type since I was a child. Never really…

used to watch long lectures easily, but now I can’t focus anymore — how do I rebuild my concentration? — ​ I’m struggling with something that’s been bothering me a lot lately. I used to be able to watch 2–3 hour lectures without much trouble. I could sit for long periods, stay focused, and comple…

Need help, multiple therapists have said they don’t know how to help me I don’t know what to do — Hey guys, I’m a 25 year old man and have some serious problems that stop me from living a normal life: 1. Extreme debilitating anxiety. I can’t talk to people on the phone and even asking for help at…

“Good” breakups are honestly probably even worse — Broke up today. He initiated the “we should break up” line but I think we both saw it coming. We hugged and cried a bit and ironed out our misunderstandings and miscommunications but we still decided …

Dealing with POCD and anxiety due to I have no idea what — Hi fellow Reddit users. My name is Sergio, i'm 26 years old and i've been dealing a very weird case of OCD and anxiety, specially this last year. I am going to therapy btw, but sometimes i feel like i…

Staying in My (41F) relationship with my BF (47M)? — I (41F) am dating my bf (47M) for almost 3 year. I have been divorced for 4 years with two kids (6 and 8) and have 50/50 custody with my ex. I didn't introduce my kids to my bf until we were 1 year in…

I feel like my parents wanted kids only in the “puppy stage” and now they just resent us — I’m 22F and lately I keep thinking my parents were never actually ready to have kids long term. It feels like they wanted children only when we were small and dependent, but now that we are older and …

Does anyone else’s parent keep score like this? — tl;dr: my mom (41 F) uses everything against me (18 F) and i don’t know what to do I feel like whenever I get into any disagreements with my mom, she will use every nice or supportive thing she’s eve…

Has anyone experienced a clash of your parents' worldview and objective reality? — This question is abstract. What I'm saying is that when I was younger, my parents basically thought they had everything set up for me. The life plan was to do well in school, get into college and do w…

How many matches do you average per week on Hinge? — I think I do well on Hinge as an Asian male. I average about 10-15 matches per week. However a majority of them go nowhere or I end up unmatching them due to incompatibility. Maybe 3-4 I can number cl…

Brush up on the company, what they do, their market, etc. Why do you want to be there specifically. Have that answer solid. It’s really important to convince them you’ll like it and therefore try hard…

I’ve seen a few folks do well on Roblox by creating engaging, unique experiences. It’s all about understanding the audience and iterating fast. If you can tap into what players love, the platform offe…

Try to get to the heart of the matter, if something is pulling you into this type of dynamic the solution can only come from you. Abandonment issues usually do well with therapy. And in the meantime l…

I feel you so so much. “I just want out and to find peace.” That’s exactly what you should do. Just leave no need to make a production. Just go do what’s best for you. Just take solace in the fact…

I just wanted to know if I can get good marks in a test I didn't do well in?? I studied but ended up forgetting things from it. 😢 😭

This is probably the toughest thing for me. For one, if you have a partner that does this type of thing often, they could be avoidant. There's a reason we often don't do well w avoidants bc they don't…

I've never caught feelings for anyone either. I relate to the feeling of being gatekept out of something that everyone else gets to experience, as well as the FOMO that comes with it. In my case, rath…

Some people are planners, some people take it day by day. I'm a planner, I don't do well with people who take it day by day, and I've learned that the hard way. I always end up putting in more plannin…

My boyfriend moved in this past week! I was super anxious over the weekend because he's a fellow procrastinator, though I was reminded that I don't do well with last minute big changes. I ended up tak…

I can't post since my account is new, but I'm asking for advice: I met someone after spending a year celibate, and I'm a bit confused. We've been dating for a month and spent a lot of time together, i…

You would do well to discuss this with a therapist. There’s a reason you are avoidant. Whatever happened or traumatized you isn’t your fault but it is your responsibility as an adult to take steps to …

No! I just don’t do well with insecure people. I just have so many random connections on my life. It is a running joke that run into people I know all the time. I don’t always remember how I met them.…

I’m 34M, POC, live in PNW and I’m honestly just trying to understand what happened. From 18 through my early 30s, dating was pretty normal for me. I had relationships, met women through friends, apps…

Jupiter in Aquarius in the 7th house here. It’s exactly opposite my moon and ascendant. Trines my sun in Libra (my chart ruler). This gives me an ability to naturally not judge people off of stereoty…

setting aside physical traits that likely dont necessarily lend themselves well to online dating (i wont bring these up because they have not been researched in any systematic way), my race/ethnicity …

That makes me miss my ex. I've never been so turned on by giving someone head, it's something I can do well, but was not my favorite. But with him, it actually turned me on intensely.

Yes I know he is South Asian. South Asians make up a large proportion of high performing students who do well on the SHSAT.

I find that being feared is overrated. I feel like Asians do well because we actually build community and support each other. I believe thats where true strength comes from not this hyper individualis…

I've also learned to stop sharing around the middle school era because whatever I want, say, or do never measure up to the "potential she knows I have in me". They don't understand, somehow, that we …

Yes, longer meditation sessions can be more powerful. If you are doing well with 45 minute sessions, it’s definitely worth trying 1 hour or longer. Building up gradually tends to be best so as to avoi…

Saturn in your 7H gives you the desire to have strong, meaningful relationships. That includes both parties making an equal effort. Saturn doesn’t do well with empty promises and lack of commitment. …

Yeah your chart gives major sugar baby vibes. This person definitely prefers to rely on other people's funds, the ultimate receiver. Your house of income (2H) is Mars ruled, so you're supposed to be e…

women aren't being fully honest here. you'd do much better with nice hair. BUT that doesn't mean you can't do well with thinning hair. shaving it is a good solution for some. keeping it trim is anoth…

Musically, I distinctly remember that it was Psy and Gangnam style that opened the door slightly for an Asian song to do well in the West. It was all a big joke/lowkey banger & shared heavily but it n…

Sometimes it's the person. I've had FWB relationships that worked spectacularly until circumstances ended it. I moved in one case, he got involved in another. The first I didn't stay friends with, the…

and look out if you do well when you grow up, they hate you even harder. Mine act like yheyvwould be happier if i was dead or in prision so they could make it back about themselves.

Also change the first prompt to "I don't do well with heights... And I enjoy..." 

Mercury sitting in a friendly house of Venus closer to Venus and farther from Saturn mars Rahu. May be low on dikbala still having a strong Mercury sitting with good sthana Bala is pretty decent. Anot…

If anything my Aries Mars hinders me, but it’s in the 12H conjunct Saturn. I do well working on my own though

Sorry to say it is only getting worse it remain the same at best. Mercury periods don’t do well for Scorpio Lagna natives. Having his Mercury period start around April 2026 peaking till Sep 2028 only …

I’ll also add that sometimes the underfunctioner doesn’t do well with not being the centre of your universe anymore. It’s not that they’re resentful of the baby, but they’re resentful that you’d be le…

Maybe it’s a location thing but Asian guys in Seattle have no problems dating. Contrary to what this sub thinks I’ve dated or have been friends with tons of Asian women that exclusively date Asian men…

Men have zero understanding of what women find attractive. Most of them want a guy who looks a little pretty. Which is most Asian guys, but not all, women don't want a this Rambo / GI Joe aesthetic Am…

so we had met fairly recently at that point. i normally wouldnt have asked so quickly, but since he was headed to an event, i figured hed be having lots of women interested in him in hust a few short…

Unpopular opinion but Asians are gonna go through natural selection, but I think we already have. The world's been global for about 60 years now so all the Asian women who wanted to got with white me…

QUESTION: Do you make so much money that £14k on a non-essential personal expense doesn’t hurt the family bank account? My issue would be less with the philosophical questions of the relative value …

Instead of your goal being feeling better about being a failure, perhaps it should be to work on being kind to yourself. You're not a failure by any reasonable standard. Perhaps starting with what and…

Yep. My dad's praise especially irks me, because he always makes it about him. If I share how I struggled to get through something and finally achieved a good outcome, he'll sort of scoff like I was…

Thank you, this is helpful. He does like to plan and seems to do well with direction. I don’t want to seem like I’m overstepping.

Face is the most important in that you won't get anywhere if you're ugly, but as long as it passes a threshold you can rely on other traits. As you say the guy isn't facially ugly but not model-tier,…

From the comments and the post there are some points that we can infer. Scorpio Ascendant with Sagittarius Moon with Jupiter/Moon in 2nd house, Saturn/Ketu in 5th House, Mars in 10th house, Venus/Rahu…

Agreed. I don't think it's unique to this book, but most books in the genre (and tbh, most therapy) typically limit their analyses to the immediate family. To stretch beyond the family is to interroga…

He is certainly a dream guy for certain segments - like gold diggers, height fetishers. I'm not one to judge. And I"m sure we both have seen far far worse guys do well. Disappointing to see the cru…

What are things you tell yourself in low moments if it’s something you think you’ve managed to do well. In my head, I know that. And sometimes I act with this in mind, but on nights like tonight I fin…

Hey sweetheart, have you thought about an outpatient or inpatient therapy program if you can afford it? It might do well to be separated for a while, have some deep intensive therapy with zero distrac…

The LOA people who sell courses enjoy teaching LOA. For me I attracted programs that wanted to create millionaires. These are people who have a mentor training program that really wanted to help the …

Five. If you want a fresh start, and I mean a REAL fresh start, come work in Canada once this is all over. Paramedics do well here(Ontario at least). I read an article where a significant number of he…

Sleep deprivation is indeed abuse (according to the Geniva convention, it is considered torture and cruel punishment), as is denying appropriate food. Please seek help with a teacher or counselor at…

My god, thank you from the bottom of my heart for your response. I started crying when I read your last paragraph. When my newly started counselor asked me, I did the same thing. I wish I knew why som…

Exactly. I personally think that the Leo sun is supposed to be regal, not really narcissistic. Like strangers have told me many times they've seen paintings of women in museums or palaces who look lik…