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Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

This might genuinely be terrible advice, so please take it with a grain of salt, but here is a process that has been helping me when my anxiety flares up like that. This might be long, forgive me (ADH…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/11/2026
How to handle tense home environment due to my (26F) sister (34F) sister feeling overwhelmed?

How to handle tense home environment due to my (26F) sister (34F) sister feeling overwhelmed? — My home dynamic has drastically shifted since my mom (67F) had to suddenly leave for 6 months to help out my sister living in another continent deal with a devastating situation. We didn’t have time t…

r/relationshipspost4/2/2026
Can no friends and moral support make you feel stuck in life ?

Can no friends and moral support make you feel stuck in life ? — ​ I feel like someone is controlling me or something because I'm just constantly using my phone and living in isolation. barely talking to someone over the phone or meeting someone in fact I j…

r/selfhelppost4/6/2026
i just blocked the loml after 3 years 😔 /s

i just blocked the loml after 3 years 😔 /s — REDDIT KEEPS ADDING LINE BREAKS!!! PLEASE TRY TO LOOK PAST THEM 😭😭😭 — /s for the loml part this is all true fake names and throwaway acc contains drunk confessions, sober confessions, cheating, …

r/BreakUpspost4/7/2026
Grieving

Grieving — TW: Depression, emotional abuse, pet loss, and grief mentioned. \*Edited for clarification and to add paragraphs, because major wall of text. I have been completely no contact with my mother since M…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/9/2026
My girlfriend tells long, detailed work stories every day after I get home exhausted. 25M-23F, 6 months.

Honestly it kind of sucks but it might just be something you have to get used to. Don’t strain yourself trying to remember every little detail from a 30 minute story, just look for key words and get t…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/18/2026
How do I (39F) forgive my husband (39M) for making a fake vet appt for our senior dog?

Your husband is resentful and actively punishing you. He believes because he works and pays bills you should do 100% of everything else irrespective of anything going on with you or that you work, and…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/19/2026
I’m scared I’m the kind of mom people talk about here, even though I’m trying so hard not to be…

The fact you are even capable of self reflection or and even just the fact you are here asking this question and worried about it is a pretty good sign you are not the kind of mom most of us here talk…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment3/22/2026
Anyone else get that constant “something is wrong” feeling?

You just described my anxiety. I can not objectivly say that there is anything going on in my life that warrants anxiety but I still have it. Some people's anxiety is triggered for good reasons like t…

r/Anxietyhelpcomment3/28/2026
r/relationship_advicecomment4/1/2026
My (M27) Best friend since High School (F26) told me she cheated after we got engaged

OP, She's in relationship salvage mode and saying anything and everything to get back to normal and have a clear conscience. She says that she wants to marry you. Did she ask what do you want to do? D…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/1/2026
I want to enjoy being alive

I'm going to make a lot of assumptions because I can't read your mind or talk with you, but I hope that some of these prompts help. It sounds like you're loney -- your close friends aren't around and…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment4/2/2026
Am I absolutely insane for being the most heartbroken I’ve ever been for a 2.5 month not even official relationship?

i am in this exact situation. i met her through a dating app and after messaging for around 2 weeks, we had our first date. it felt perfect. before meeting her, i was in the best place mentally that i…

r/ExNoContactcomment4/2/2026
Advising my (M33) girlfriend (F30) on her looks.

What does “recently” mean? How long have you been engaged? Is there anything going on in her life or health wise that could be affecting this?

r/relationship_advicecomment4/6/2026
Sidelined by my (F34) fiancé’s (M38) groomswoman (F37)

Honestly--whether or not your fiancé and groomswoman have anything going on aside--you said that he defaults to her or stays silent when there’s tension between the two of you. If this were the case w…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/7/2026
Sidelined by my (F34) fiancé’s (M38) groomswoman (F37)

I have a close guy friend that has a wife. When they were dating 90% of the time that I hung out with him. I also hung out with her. It was very rarely. Would we just be me and him alone. Not because …

r/relationship_advicecomment4/8/2026
I (21M) forgot to delete a old nude and my (Ex?)girlfriend (20F) broke up with me

Naww this scared me just the other day someone I’m talking to asked why I have pictures of me and my ex in my phone still and got upset but like we have so many pics together from a 3 year span I don’…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/11/2026