rebellious

Going no contact. Am I making a mistake? Relationship since January died in October/November. Reasons are her journey/healing made her "rebellious" (her words) which meant she was pulling away to f…

I’m 20 and my mom still asks for my phone and laptop every night or there's consequences — I'm 20 (F) and turning 21 in a few months. My mom recently started asking me to surrender my laptop and phone again. "Again" because she did this to me as well when I was 13-18 years old. Before, she…

Need the best advice I could ever get. — hello everyone, in advance please apologize if my story is jumbled as I am writing with raw unedited feelings at the moment I don't know how to start, but im a 27m filipino, I live in America since 2…

Trying to understand if my relationship with my mom is unhealthy or just normal conflict — **I (24F) have a complicated and long-standing relationship with my mom that I’m trying to understand.** Growing up, I often felt unfairly treated within my extended family, especially due to favorit…

How do i "change" my parents — . As the oldest daughter, my parents has always been way too protective of me. It almost feels like they don´t want me to experience anything and all they want me to do is "study". I recently turned 1…

Does this count as emotional neglect? — I have recently discovered that I might have been neglected by my parents, mostly my dad. I've struggled with my mental health for a long time and I'm slowly realizing that my childhood impacted me mo…

Is this normal, or am I being dramatic? — I just want to hear others opinions, and if someone else has/had similar experiences, because I feel like I'm being overdramatic about this. All advice is welcome and I would really appreciate it. I a…

Arguably the ultra-thin body had been around for decades before that. Famous Hollywood starlets like Judy garland and Marilyn Monroe were starving themselves and living off of cigarettes. I’ve seen ar…

Thank you. I can see how my 12H placements dictate a lot. This really resonates with me esp touching on my experiences with my family. I chose silence because my sister was rebellious as a teenager an…

I went through something similar with my mother after I turned 19. I'm a dude so dynamics were a little different and it wasn't spurred on by a partner but a chronic medical condition. My mother did …

I hope you're serious! Apparently reading the comments this a wildly unpopular preference, but I really dig when balding men just let the back grow wild. I've only seen two men rock the Benjamin Frank…

12th house Saturn (R) 29.54 Cap + Jupiter (R) 6 Aqu oppose Mars 4 Leo 6th house. Physically- hypertension, mentally- ADHD (really bad), chronic depression. I can get pretty irritable and impulsive whe…

She had confided in me that she has been cheated on before in a past relationship, and, for lack of a better word, has had a strict upbringing from her parents. I feel this has led to rebellious tende…

It’s “subversive” but acceptably so. It’s actually the most risk-averse, least rebellious thing Asian women can do. They think they’re rebelling, but they’re really just going for a white social upgra…

I too relate to your childhood. Back then I was determined to be a child under their image, but once i was older that image became that i was an rebellious daughter in their minds despite myself not l…

Mars in aries Moon conjunct lilith What you're describing is aries. Their rebellious side is similar to aquarius, but more passionate. Capricorn is traditional, and likely to lean conservative like …

Who’s telling you that it needs to be clean? Is it still the voice of your parents? If you are ok with a little mess let it be. I mean I don’t live in a total mess. But letting my clothes on the floor…

Sounds paradoxical. I think all the air signs are somewhat paradoxical. Gemini being the most obvious paradox as they are two faced. The difference between Aqaurius and Gemini is Aqaurius tries to rec…

I have no idea if this resonates with you (it's AI, not me, it just gives me a basis to research) but I thought I'd share it. Chiron in the DSC with the moon & Lilith just seems rough, I had to know m…

Well duh! Moon square Jupiter opposite Uranus .. not only do you love food, but can be quite rebellious/unpredictable.. you would resent the boundaries of a diet pretty quickly, and rebel against it. …

Sending hugs and kisses 😘 And good luck with exams! OP, while I don’t Asian step parents, but my cousins does, and she’s been through it. I remembered seeing how badly my cousin was treated by …

Speaking of a Liu, I think Alysa Liu talking about this would be great since she's been a hot name for a few months now due to the Olympics, so she has the platform. She also lives in Oakland, which i…

Had it not so long ago, since I only recently learnt my mother was narcissistic (father's toxic in a different way). But anyway, it struck me so much to realize how different our upbringing was compar…

I'm 35f now and your parents sound sooo similar to mine. I honestly can't remember if there was ever a point in my life I went to them for emotional support, because I also noticed how they turn every…

Dude. I was so sheltered. I was a hot house plant. And I didn't get to go through my rebellious teenage phase. I went from mature overachiever to hot mess in my 20s because I wasn't allowed to 'live'.…

All of that is so real! I also didn't really have a rebellious phase (at least not in the classical way). Having one in my late 20s and experimenting was what started this whole thing for me. Also fee…

The chart literally points at a hint. Both main generational planets in the same sign lock in the "male part" - whatever that means for you - in Taurus. Pluto and Chiron in Saggitarius look like the…

My nparents are both deceased. As an adult, they never treated me as any more than a rebellious teen. The thing is I was never a rebellious teen. As a teen, I was studious and well behaved.

Thank you, really. It’s been so hard for me, because I’ve always respected my parents so much. They’ve done so much for me and the idea of going against them hurts me, not because I feel like I owe it…

Obedience through fear and authentic respect are two different things. You’re simply being an independent adult. Start looking out for your best interests because they certainly are not. You have a…

Being abused is one type of existence, btw, though negative attachment. But when they neglect you like you are invisible, don't even exist. That is why neglected children become rebellious and do all …

Sun in Gemini makes you naturally curious and expressive. Relatives judge you because Gemini energy feels restless and non traditional to them. Rahu in Aries amplifies your rebellious streak. The cor…

Lol seems like it. There's 5 of us total. The 2nd oldest, 'E', is the one I'm trying to figure out where her head is because some things she does is just like our mom and we call her mom jr. when we r…

I come from a very conservative, religious, divorce is not acceptable, kind of culture and family. I'm also a woman so you know that the expectations are even more for us. I was very rebellious from t…

Throughout childhood, bullying, social struggles, my dad never asked how I was doing. Throughout my teen years and rebellious activities, drugs, partying, alcohol, promiscuity, my dad never asked how …

Black Moon Lilith like your inner wildcat. Rebellious, perhaps. The part of you that won't behave. Your raw, honest, unapologetic truth. Since it's in the 12th of Leo, you might keep your wild side t…

Yes, 20 F and I really really relate to you ;( <3 SO SORRY for this rant here. But if you relate, maybe it will give you some catharsis. It's such a complex and painful place to be in. I find myse…

I grew up thinking it was normal to feel like my dad disliked me, I was a nuisance, and that no-one else could have an opinion that was right, except him. I thought it was normal to be shouted at, and…

venus also rules taurus and the 2nd house, so ur venus being opposite this placement feels like she considers u a rebellious child, like youre in some weird phase that is foreign to her. its foreign t…

Oh wow this is so eerily similar. Nex's parents divorced, dad moved a new wife and her kids into his house and neglected his own kids for a time, who were living with an indebted mother in council hou…

A lot of times we pick up behaviors from other people. Anyone in your family quick to anger? How do people respond when you have strong emotions? How mush would you say you bottle things up? Whe…

i have a question. was i being unusually emotionally available there? actual personality: hyperindependent, very hard on myself, extremely concerned with what other people think of me, easily oversha…