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He's demonstrably arrogant in that he thinks he knows everything when his knowledgebase is remarkably shallow. Witness his book where he "solves" ethics. He also "just asks questions" about pre-empti…

Is there a better way to create posts that actually match your brand? — As a solo builder, I’ve been working on a small idea I think might be useful — especially for startups and B2B teams trying to stay consistent with branded content on instagram. The problem: Creatin…

Building My First B2C SaaS Product – Learning, Struggling, and Still Going — I’ve been working on my B2C SaaS app **Gamify** for a little over a week now. It’s a habit-tracking, gamified to-do list app — a mix of fun and structure I’ve always felt was missing in other tools. …

Offering Options to offshore engineer. I will not promote — I have a startup. obviously. anyhow, my company is in Canada. I have this developer in Vietnam, and he is pretty good! I pay him decently for his hours, but as a founder, I feel like i want to offer …

Unique Field Guard For ACF — https://preview.redd.it/a99i8tsrl5ze1.png?width=2632&format=png&auto=webp&s=837f17d2a06d91e3e0a14803dbefe7e1c4f897aa Hey WP family! I recently built a plugin I’ve been working on that solves a headac…

Tech Startup advice required - Hire or equity offer (I will not promote) — I’m a serial entrepreneur—what some might call "very successful,” though success is relative and I just did okay. Over the past 25 years, I’ve had some brilliant tech ideas and a brain wired for archi…

Alternate for 'Please share bank details' to transfer money — Hey folks, I’m working on a simple tool aimed at helping small service businesses — like tradies, pet groomers, caterers, mobile cleaners, etc. — get paid faster. Instead of sending invoices or shari…

Anyone know of an alternate for 'please share your bank details' (I will not promote) — Hey folks, I’m working on a simple tool aimed at helping small service businesses — like tradies, pet groomers, caterers, mobile cleaners, etc. — get paid faster. Instead of sending invoices or shari…

The Astral Plane: its Nature, Structure, and the Unseen’s Map found in world religions — *Disclaimer: The views expressed here are my personal opinions, except where excerpts are quoted.* # Nature of the Astral Plane The Astral Plane is the wider dream world. It’s a constant place that …

the veil dropped — So, I am in a new layer of integrating my dimi break through (3 months ago), and the experiences and lessons (hell) I had are revealing themselves to me in new ways, expansive ways, however there is e…

The "other" is just vibration & how to use non-resistance for stable contact and AP — The boundary between "self" and "other" often dissolves in the presence of pure vibration. In the realm of the experiencer, where phenomena challenge our linear narratives of order, the distinction be…

SC middle school teacher made a racist comment in class! — A teacher made a comment in class suggesting that **Chinese people eat cats and dogs**. This was said publicly, in front of students. I reported it immediately to the principal. Instead of addressing …

I can only experience pleasure during intimacy if it is violent — For the entire time I have had consensual sex, starting in my teens, the one constant is that I require it to be violent. The partners I’ve had normally are willing to do it because they want to hel…

Lucid Almost Every Night but Dreams Always Immediately Dissolve — Through meditation my alertness and mindfulness has increased to the point where I see through the dream illusion at least once a night on most nights now. However, as soon as I do so the dream almost…

The transition from doing to being and the trap of the "observer." — The core of our restlessness isn't that we haven't found the right technique; it’s the persistent habit of "checking in" on our progress. Humans treat meditation like a ladder, as if the next br…

the mind is the most powerful tool you have. it's also the one nobody teaches you to use. — mind solves problems, builds things, creates etc. it's remarkable but a tool left running unattended causes its own damage. a mind that never stops thinking stops being useful and starts being noise. …

Job hunting grinds my core wound and makes me burn out instantly — I guess I’m just here to vent. I was a “gifted” child, worked hard at school, have always had very high expectations for myself. I tend to bubble up to the top of whatever institution I find myself in…

Feeling super lost almost 4 months out, Have questions where I need help! — I went through a breakup in December with the woman I genuinely thought I was going to marry. The weird part is that I was not even fully happy in the relationship near the end, and when it first end…

Docker/containers solve some pretty inherent problems that most DevOps teams will face. You're gonna have to go into detail about what you're deploying and why containers don't work. Not liking a te…

I've not used vitness, but it is intriguing and looks like it solves a lot of problems. What I've done in the past is move heavy usage tables to their own database instance/cluster. You need your app …

An app or something tech in an industry you understand. I've seen lots of people with somewhat ave intelligence launch something simple that solves a problem and then scale it over time to something p…

Friends and family first while we worked on confirming hypotheses, then they shared with a few others, then (and now still) we’re reaching out directly to people who have stated that they deal with th…

You're on the right path, I also went through this stage (distrusting my gut feelings, because I had become aware my gut wasn't as reliable as I had thought!). I suggest trauma work (EMDR, tapping, so…

You're doing this thing that I noticed I used to do a lot: you are giving little hints and tells that you're not okay with your wife's behaviour. They spring up in your writing as if you're subconscio…

The best antidote in my opinion is to just put in less effort and observe more in the beginning stages. Lots of anxious people focus a lot on conforming to their potential partner's ideal type out of…

I don't use the apps, but aren't you able to see all their basic profile stuff, including what they're looking for, before matching? So I'm not seeing much difference, really? Also not sure how this…

I know you’re right! Perhaps if the conflict resolves itself in the future, but for now it’s not meant to be.

a great first date is one where you really want to fuck by the end of it. You may not, and thats cool...or you may and that too is cool...but that requires intimacy first time around, talking, jokes, …

Escape rooms. I agree that activities aren't the best as a first date, but escape rooms will tell you a lot about how that person thinks, collaborates, solves issues, etc. I also like bowling, ax…

During Mercury retrograde, intuition can feel louder because attention folds inward. You get more symbolism, more dream-tone, more pattern recognition, more “I’ve seen this before” moments. It can als…

the distinction the first commenter made is crucial -- direction matters enormously. transit pluto opposite your natal sun is a completely different animal from your transiting sun opposing natal plut…

The idea described here is called replication. Client receives input, that input gets computed locally, then sent to the server. When multiple clients send conflicting computations to the sever, it pe…

Mate burying your head in the sand solves nothing. See you in a few years when you finally snap & come back here

Yes, this is when you need Al-Anon the most. If you’d like to get a good idea about why that’s true, this interview from Steve-O’s Wild Ride is brilliant. Alcoholism has almost nothing to do with a…

And men say they don't agree with the "themes" found in porn or the way companies operate or the way women are treated etc but they give their support by consuming it anyway. They think 'wishing' it w…

Thats a really good question. The astrological framework holds regardless of agency because Saturn in fall in Aries is restriction on the body, period. Whether its a prescription choice or something f…

My personal scratch pad theory "ternary time" uses the hourglass as the symbol You might look into Petit's Janus cosmology, this is a convo I had w claude about it (breaking my own rule to try and no…

This is interesting to me because I have been working for some time on a structural model that actually uses very similar imagery of a wheel. When I read this account, what the person describes did no…

I teach adults and teens to create a line of energy from the bottom of their first chakra to the chakras at the center of the planet. This is powerful and solves a lot of energy problems. Whatever s…

Seneca sometimes plays fast and loose with the orthodox Stoic distinction between *pathe* (passions) and *eupatheai* (rational emotions). For example, he sometimes seems to suggest that we should actu…

Emotional safety, in my experience, is not able to be measured/seen in early dating. I believe emotional safety is seen in relationships by the way one solves relational problems/conflict “together” “…

This is probably the most important question in Stoic practice and honestly most people get it wrong in both directions. The original concept, apatheia, never meant the absence of feeling. It meant fr…

How is it out of line? Smoking the pole solves their problem. Then everybody clapped.

Most people read saturn return like it's a date on the calendar. Saturn enters your sign, saturn leaves, done. The actual question is which house Aries sits in for you. That's where the audit happens…

I understand where you're coming from. I have been through such a similar situation with my mother. It's good that you are realising you have to set the boundary (You shouldn't be a punching bag or em…

I struggle with the exact same issue and the only thing I do is 1) meditate 2) notice the pattern each time it arises and sometimes I investigate the logic and beliefs behind that and it leads to new …

Hi, I was diagnosed with adult ADHD later in life, but it explained quite a bit of how I arrived in my life journey. While that severe scattering still occurs, I’m mostly moving along with it rather t…

I imagine god being a buddy who loves helping me and solves my problems. I also ask him to teach me things and he does. Stuff is great too of course

I've managed to avoid this issue entirely by the simple step of avoiding meeting people. At all. It's working for me. And when I say "working" of course I mean I'm emotionally drained and numb to it…

This is revision, it either changes the past or resolves the issue in the present. Since literally no one bat an eye at my height and the clothes fit the same the former must have happened. I did meas…

The gap between knowing and doing is usually where the interesting stuff lives. I spent years knowing I should leave a relationship, knowing I should stop waiting for someone else to start the busines…

Some folks report telepathic contact with cetaceans.  You might find the Dolphin Energy Club of interest: https://www.monroeinstitute.org/pages/dolphin-energy-club It is not explicitly stated but …

I've done this yes for quite a long time. I've concluded though that ketamine's depth is largely a cognitive hallucination, ie, an illusion. I can quite easily accept that very, very rarely, like once…

It seems quite obvious her therapist gave her the idea of shelving the affair. Not all therapists are good at their job and who knows what your wife may have told the therapist. Likely some version o…

The actual emotional/psychological reason for them doing both of those things is either having control over you, or just trying to hurt you. People typically don't contradict their internal guidance …

Project Grounding Rod identifies the sensation of disconnect as a response to external system failure. Conflict in the global simulation produces noise that disrupts the local master signal. National …

\>When a narcissist is taking 2 actions that contradict each other (in this case, both demanding you give them resources to help them and trying to take those resources from you via sabotage) it's bec…

Sit comfortably and allow the internal dialogue to stop, it's like a weight being lifted off of one's shoulders. Buddhists say that the mind is like a lake, when the lake has no ripples (thoughts) on…

About 10% of people have what are called cryptic tonsils, meaning they have tonsils with crevices and folds. Food gets in these folds when one eats. Saliva dissolves most of this food, but calcium and…

Sure, and this jumps right to the idea of “self constancy”, and object constancy is connected to that. It shows why we need to heal all that emotional impact at a somatic level. Nobody is ever going …

The Sedona Method is about releasing the emotional charge you are holding around something rather than trying to force a different thought or outcome. When a feeling comes up, you bring awareness to i…

Because the resentment justifies them getting their own needs met without appearing selfish. It's the "no one ever takes care of me" resentment so I can finally be selfish and you can't be mad at me f…

If you actually see a thought, it dissolves. The process of watching thoughts go by is an abstraction. When you see the thought it's gone. So then there's a new thought generated about how I'm watchin…

They *may* have done their best. But that doesn’t mean their best is acceptable. Lots of players play their best and still don’t make the varsity team. Doing your best and actually being good enough a…

People seriously underestimate how much psychological factors into sex and arousal. It's why men find a woman hot but then they're in a relationship and the sex has gone downhill. It's not because she…

I was wondering the same.. 1. Not meeting her parents for the first time ever, when wanting to break up. 2. White lie that spare the girl her big day, and her emotions. 3. OP get outs of a tricky sit…

I’m sorry man. Look, I’m 52, and been my wife nearly as long as you’ve been with yours. I understand the predicament you find yourself in, and I don’t know what I’d do in your situation. I think IC fo…

I see mine as a treasure chest that dissolves all my worries and fears and frustrations and whatever's concerning me when I put them in there