more communicative

You should check out the book Nonviolent Communication!! There are free PDFs online if you want to try before you buy. I'm moving from AA -> Secure and it has been super helpful. The basic idea is: …

> I think this is an anxious trait so I want to know if this also happens to you? Why am I reacting like this? Is it justified or is it my insecurity talking? How do you communicate, instead of pullin…

I feel really conflicted about this post. Enough to come back to it days later. On the one hand, everyone is entitled to their own boundaries and enforcing your own boundaries is empowering and health…

I'm glad she was patient with you too. Perhaps you did something early on that allowed her to feel secure in a way OP has not gotten to feel, and that made her more comfortable working with you on thi…

Although many Taureans tend to be reserved, your Aries Ascendant and Gemini Moon should allow your emotions to flow more freely, or at least make you more communicative. However, the opposition of yo…

I really find a lot of the posting on here very negative and accusatory. So hang in there. As many have said, if you did neglect your relationship and partner over a long period of time, then you ha…

man this hits close to home, went through something similar with my ex a few years back. the texting thing and hiding phone was exactly same pattern rebuilding trust is possible but it takes work …

Just to add a “cheating husband’s” perspective, since it seems to be mostly betrayed women’s perspectives so far and you were asking for one: Yes, I stopped cheating on my wife. It required a lot of w…

Dear Connect_Tap1042, First off, kudos to you for being so honest about your feelings and actions. It's certainly not an easy thing to do, especially when fraught with guilt and regret. Others may di…

I have been thinking a lot about my anxious attachment and whether past relationships were unrealistic. I’ve been seeing someone consistently since late November, but things aren’t nearly where I’d ex…

Yup I feel you. She has 3 kids, two under 5 and lives 40 minutes away. She calls most days and I get texts during the day but we were more communicative earlier in the relationship and I miss the more…