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Need Advice, Confusing Breakup

Need Advice, Confusing Breakup — Hi guys. I am going through a really confusing breakup right now and partially just need to talk and partially want to ask for advice. I was with my now ex-boyfriend for 1.5 years. On paper he was the…

r/BreakUpspost4/8/2026
How to navigate when it feels like your therapist over-explains things?

How to navigate when it feels like your therapist over-explains things? — I never know what to do in general in life when you're in a situation where someone is telling you something that you already know. Since I'm the type of person who is afraid of offending people I usu…

r/therapypost4/2/2026
My (25F) boyfriend (30M) invited his parents to my masters graduation and then called me entitled and selfish after I said that it made me feel sad to hear that they felt awkward at the invite.

My (25F) boyfriend (30M) invited his parents to my masters graduation and then called me entitled and selfish after I said that it made me feel sad to hear that they felt awkward at the invite. — So my parents can’t make my graduation, so my boyfriend offered to bring his parents. They normally visit from France to New York three times a year to see him, so they would be moving their trip up b…

r/relationship_advicepost4/6/2026
r/AstralProjectioncomment7/23/2021
What are the signs to spot a DA or FA in early talking stage?

Thank you for explaining. Im french. Oh okay I definitely see what you mean here. 

r/attachment_theorycomment5/20/2025
how to deal with an avoidant's freeze response in hard times?

Oh ok… yes, those examples make sense. That is what I would’ve done too. I think that it is hard for some people to realize what they should initiate with. Several months ago, I was trying to chang…

r/attachment_theorycomment10/28/2025
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Same here. It's so hard for me otherwise. I am truly surprised that it's not like this for others, which is good to discover. For me it used to be until yesterday/today, if they don't text me daily th…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/18/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Oooh okay. I still think yes, lead w bird, then follow with pretty sunset/sundress/hat photo! I also wonder if there’s text we’re missing—what are you ambitious about/toward? From this I see that you’…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/20/2026
r/BreakUpscomment3/8/2026
F**CKKKKKKKKK

Oh okay. Yeah, it hurt pretty bad. I wasn’t asking him to do couples therapy yet, I just asked if he would get individual therapy as I was in therapy myself. He kept putting it off despite knowing our…

r/BreakUpscomment3/9/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 08, 2026

oh okay, makes sense. I misunderstood what you had said earlier.

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/9/2026
r/realityshiftingcomment3/11/2026
What are the most infuriating sentences your ex has said to you during or after the breakup?

“We were morally wrong” so to him, being in a same sex relationship with me (which he started btw) was morally wrong, but cheating on me wasn’t, got it. “I was with you because it was convenient” oh …

r/BreakUpscomment3/13/2026
I don't know the difference between what's real or not anymore

Oh okay I misunderstood your story because I thought you said you got trapped there, thus here is where it's blissful. I was like, fuck you must have not checked out the news.

r/Psychonautcomment3/17/2026
r/relationship_advicecomment3/18/2026
"You'll understand when you have kids..."

My mom used that on me once. Oh ok mom. Then hopefully she'll understand this no contact. 

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/19/2026
How do you go about a session where the tape audio feels too brief?

Oh ok I see what you mean now. Wish you success in your journey too!

r/gatewaytapescomment3/19/2026
my boyfriend always talks about my body as if he’s settling for it :( (20M 20F)

I wouldn’t say stupid, no!  I would say it’s idealistically naive, which I do not mean as any kind of insult - you’re 20!  You ARE just learning this all stuff, tons of women experience this kind of t…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/20/2026
Easiest way to Lucid Dream

ooooh ok i always thought it meant having to wake up and then perform the technique during rem sleep

r/LucidDreamingcomment3/21/2026
r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/21/2026
New method *Forceful- lucid dream

Oh okay haha, didn't realize! My brother weirdly enough only dreams in black and white, so I was starting to wonder what a non-3d dream would be like lol

r/LucidDreamingcomment3/22/2026
When did you know your marriage was over?

Oh OK. Could be anything. People cry sometimes. I wouldn't dwell on that. My wife cried too at our wedding. But she was just very emotional.

r/Divorcecomment3/23/2026
Why do I keep seeing fairies?

Hey, I just saw one the other day up here in Oregon. I assume it is because I have been very extra in tune with nature recently. Like going into the forest and praying with the tress and bushes, perfo…

r/experiencerscomment3/23/2026
Mom threatening suicide if I don't come back

If it helps ease the guilt, remember you do not have the knowledge or skill set to save her from herself. Call the non emergency number or 211. Explain the threats and that you would like a crisis tea…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/24/2026
does anyone feel like you have too much lore?

I don't talk about any details outside of here or therapy, but when I'm with my therapist, I just let it all out. I figure she's trained and paid to listen to it and compartmentalize it, and frankly i…

r/CPTSDcomment3/25/2026
Can I make up new tools (such as REBAL, EBT) for my own purposes with my imagination or intent?

Oh ok got it I am currently learning this Technique from the tapes

r/gatewaytapescomment3/25/2026
Failure & The Power of Awareness

Oh ok I see completely saturate my mind in the 4D of me and her together and it will show in the 3D sooner or later. Is that correct?

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/26/2026
MDMA after effects after one month, is this normal?

Oh ok, thanks for the information. Everywhere I've seen has said mixing L and mdma is no/very low risk. Maybe I should check out some more sources. I've mixed 2cb and mdma (but not 400mg) 4 or 5 time…

r/Psychonautcomment3/26/2026
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

Oh ok ty I didn't know about this term I think I was still able to see lots of things with her, I wouldn't say she's a stranger because we talked a lot and I observed tons of things, but yeah it prob…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment3/27/2026
Weekly Rant/Vent Thread

>they do not want you to be genuinely happy, they want you to perform for them so they feel good about themselves. Man this would kill me in my last relationship. He'd criticize me for something (or …

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment3/28/2026
r/relationship_advicecomment3/29/2026
r/vedicastrologycomment3/30/2026
Does robotic affirmation really helps?

Ooh okay okayyy thanksss. I mean ik he will come back and we will mendle things but like yk the how and when. I mean he will break contact and I hoped within these days so I can go to his football tuf…

r/Manifestationcomment3/31/2026
I can see auras now

Oh okay. I’m not sure yet. I just noticed I could do it tonight. Im going to go try on more things tomorrow. The only color I’m seeing online that’s negative are like dark and muddy colors. So far eve…

r/energy_workcomment4/1/2026
I (28F) want a divorce from my wife (39F) after she gambled again tonight?

Oh okay so this is a long time coming for sure. Well I'm sending you all the love and positivity I can via the internet. Addiction has many victims and most the times it's a lose lose situation. Thing…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/1/2026
I tried to communicate with an orb, and it responded. Please advise.

**PART 2 OF 2:** **My Acid Trip:** This is honestly a long backstory but I'll make it short as hell. Basically around 2018 I was in an *extremely* dark place, and very depressed for a very long…

r/experiencerscomment4/1/2026
r/Meditationcomment4/1/2026
28F, should I give up on finding love?

Oh okay, thank you. Saturn MD wasn't easy. I hope Mercury MD with Saturn AD can provide some relief. 🤞🏻

r/vedicastrologycomment4/2/2026
BF (25M) ignored my (24F) safe word and I don’t know how to feel.

I think we're missing the context of: what was his reasoning for why he ignored the safe word? Especially when it was repeated multiple times. "I was too drunk"? — oh okay, well, if you can't not RAPE…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/2/2026
r/LucidDreamingcomment4/2/2026
My ‘35F’ boyfriend ‘54M’ of 9 years broke up with me today over personal toys.

Most women start the shift during our 30s and eventually have no more fks to give. We cant be manipulated anymore, we start realizing we have needs also, we can see through lies and shady behavior, we…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/3/2026
Are meaningful connections actually rare?

Oh okay, I think when your young everything feels end of the world and so in your case it might truly just be the fact your young, obviously I don’t know your story and I’m not psychic, but I would ke…

r/ExNoContactcomment4/3/2026
My (25f) neighbor (29f) believes she is miraculously pregnant

Oh okay that’s really good to know, thank you

r/relationship_advicecomment4/3/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - April 02, 2026

oh ok, I was just going off on your first post here, but if your vibe was vibing, then I gueass that's fine.. not cut out for dating may not be the case, just not found the right person yet, is probab…

r/datingoverthirtycomment4/3/2026
r/vedicastrologycomment4/3/2026
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r/vedicastrologycomment4/4/2026
r/vedicastrologycomment4/4/2026
When my cousin(33f)get married. Tried AM setup

All things are so true. She's a workaholic, she can talk to anyone even if she doesn't find any interesting things in them. Oh Okayy, yeah. She has high expectations about marrying and finding the r…

r/vedicastrologycomment4/4/2026
When my cousin(33f)get married. Tried AM setup

Oh okay will keep this in mind ! Thank you so much !!!

r/vedicastrologycomment4/4/2026