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Am I (26M) being triggered by my anxious attachment with this guy I'm seeing (25M)? Hi everyone, I (26M) am struggling to separate reality from past trauma (a toxic avoidant ex) and need a rational a…

Think of the comments as inverted Uber ratings. (click to find out what this means) — I last posted a variation of this a little over 5 years ago. We're a little overdue for a repost. --- You know how every Uber rating is right on the verge of 5 stars unless something's particularly …

Official r/realityshifting Discord — ## Welcome to Shifting Help! ### The official r/realityshifting subreddit's server! I made this server a while ago to serve the purpose to give the right information to shifters across the world !…

Donald Trump & the LOB — JM sub, It has been talked about Trump and the LOB a few times on this sub, and I wanted to remind you about how Donald Trump has used, and still uses the LOB in his favor. Recently, I've seen an in…

Handling another crush as a FA — Hello all, spring is here and so is a new crush. I really can't get used to how excited but anxious my butterflies and fantasies make me. Sometimes they make me so anxious to the point I get dysfuncti…

Reading interest in text — I am looking for some feedback or insight. I’m 49m and she is 50f. I met her on a dating app. It was great energy and really engaging. We went on a great date and she was very complementary and we di…

Long road to dream job and instant healing. — Bestcub called me to write this, I hope it will be helpful to someone. A story like many others. After years of wandering around shitty loa and other stupid spheres, books and forums I finally start…

Sidebar Navigation On Landing Pages... Good UX? — I was browsing around ThemeForest the other day, looking for some layout and design inspiration, and I found something I can't say I've seen before. It’s a landing page with a sticky sidebar nav that …

Website Rebrand and Redesign Advice — First Let me say: I have absolutely no eye for design. If it is more complex than a stick figure, I cant imagine it in my mind. However, I do know of already existing designs that I love and want to r…

Mentoring available? — Looking for someone to mentor me to become a UX/UI Designer, willing to pay hourly!

Is there a better way to create posts that actually match your brand? — As a solo builder, I’ve been working on a small idea I think might be useful — especially for startups and B2B teams trying to stay consistent with branded content on instagram. The problem: Creatin…

Looking for marketing internship — Hi everyone! I’m currently exploring remote marketing opportunities and would truly appreciate any leads or referrals. If you know of any openings or teams hiring, please feel free to reach out or tag…

Sharing my learnings as a mid-seniority job seeker — I started job-hunting in April. After two weeks of sending applications and receiving zero feedback (only ghosting), I scheduled a few calls with my mentor. Based in Eastern Europe and looking for a f…

Best SEO Slack groups for networking? — Hey everyone — I’m looking for an active SEO-focused Slack community. Not just for learning, but mainly to connect with others in the industry and hopefully find remote work opportunities.If you're pa…

Best SEO Slack groups for networking? — Hey everyone — I’m looking for an active SEO-focused Slack community. Not just for learning, but mainly to connect with others in the industry and hopefully find remote work opportunities If you're …

SEO Results in 2-3 Months — I run a small business and am looking for someone to help transform my website through SEO, which up until now has had very little traffic. In the past I have mostly relied on word of mouth and target…

SEO and Digital Marketing IG accounts — Hi everyone,​ I'm looking for Instagram accounts run by digital marketing agencies that not only offer services like SEO and content marketing but also focus on educating their audience, particularly…

Looking for participants. — Hi, I was wondering if anyone would please fill out a questionnaire to help me with my final dissertation? It's totally anonymous and no data is recorded apart from your responses! Thanks.

SEO for Online Store on Subdomain — Hi all, I am looking for some advice as I don't have a lot of experience with SEO for online stores. Here's the situation: Just started at a business that has a main site with product landing pages…

What questions can you ask a client who doesn’t know how to define their brand? — Sent over a questionnaire to my sales team to use for onboarding and they all came back and said most of the clients don’t know how to answer the questions related to their design guidelines (contract…

Looking for Educational Resources — I have been getting into SEO recently and I consider myself a beginner. I have a basic understanding of keywords, and some front end SEO. Still working on backlinks. Where are your most recommended le…

What will it take? — Seriously… What does it take to land a UX role these days? My wife is graduating with her masters in UX from a good program but it seems that the industry is evolving and everyone is making it seem …

Research -- What makes you hire a copywriter? — Hey everyone, I'm doing some market research and would really appreciate any input you have. Also, this isn't a promo post or anything of the sort, just me diving into the market. First off, a bit ab…

What AI Assistant can I use to copy or clone a website? — Hey everyone! I’m looking for an AI tool or any easy method to help me copy or clone an existing website—mainly for learning purposes or to use as a template. I don’t have much experience with web dev…

Freelancers – the only person that can evaluate your pricing is the buyer (not Reddit) — *(TL;DR at bottom)* Questions like this pop up on this subreddit every few weeks: > How much should I charge for a basic website? Or: > Is $500 for a single-page Figma design a good price? ...and…

Interview for associate devops role, not sure how it went, need opinions — I had a technical discussion with with a smaller company(around 100-200 employees) and they are filling out a new devops team. I have 7 YOE at large tech companies as a software engineer, but my dutie…

Looking for CAC/CPC benchmarks for a coffee e-commerce in the U.S. — Hi, I’m starting an online coffee e-commerce business in the U.S., selling both exotic and regular coffee bags. I’m trying to estimate how much I should invest to get started. Does anyone here know t…

I work with meat snacks and my supplier is one of the leading companies. Looking for a partner. — I’ve developed two types of meat snacks products - beef jerky and dried beef slices. My supplier is one of the leaders in the space and is EU-certified organic. Marketing isn’t my strong point, so wo…

Is Eye-Tracking Worth It for UX Testing? Looking for Real Experiences — Has anyone here actually used eye-tracking for UX testing? Is it worth the investment, or does it not really offer much over basic user testing? Curious about real-world experiences with it!

How can I get credible backlinks for my mental health startup website? — Hey everyone, I'm building a mental health awareness and support platform called *Trusme*, and I'm trying to improve its SEO through quality backlinks. I'm not looking for spammy directories or paid…

Best way to do Google/Meta reporting? Anyone interested in helping for a project? — I’m looking for the best way to present weekly/monthly data for both campaigns with key metrics in addition to high level P&L data like gross sales, order volume etc. Any thoughts on the best and cl…

Should I redirect the sales? — This is not a rant/rave about my e-commerce journey as I expected a lot of turmoil and for e-commerce to not be all it was cracked up to be. This is actually witnessed by the shhear number of people …

Dreaming of Full Time Freelance Consulting in SaaS B2B (I will not promote) — Hi r/startups, I’m in the process of developing a consulting service designed specifically for startups, from Pre-Seed all the way to Series B. The idea is to offer a practical, hands-on partner for …

How do you deal with the spam? — I recently (4 weeks ago) started a shopify store in a niche market with my handmade products. Doing organic advertisement with product videos on tiktok, facebook, instagram and youtube. Generally spea…

Site review and feedback requested — Hi there, I am new to the e commerce space but have been a crafter/sewist for a long time. With Joann's craft and fabric stores closing in the US, I made an ecomm site focused on subscription boxes fo…

Helpless( I will not promote) — I have been looking for a summer internship in the AI and ML space for two months now. I have one related to web scraping under a professor at an institution, but it will be unpaid. I also have anothe…

What are the skills needed to manage a Shopify Plus account? — Some background: I've been a web designer/developer for 25 years. Spent 13 years as Senior Web Developer for a medium size corporation that manufactured consumer electronics, primarily working in the …

New to SEO and Trying to save my local business — Hi Everyone! I run a local companion care service for seniors and I’m staring down what feels like an impossible mountain with SEO. I’ve watched countless YouTube tutorials, learned a bit about on-si…

Marketer Here! Looking for E-Commerce Store Owner to Partner Up With — Hey, as the title reads, I'm a digital marketer, with experience in Meta Ads, TikTok Ads & Google Ads in lead gen + sales, over the last 5 years. I've recently left my job, and am looking for one E-C…

Burnt out founders-I will not promote — Hey guys! I'm interested in acquiring and relaunching small AI tools. Would love to chat if you're open to selling or partnering. Looking for resume, hiring, email or chatbot tools. Web apps primari…

Where does one look for startup vacancies? (I will not promote) — Do startups looking for staff post on LinkedIn? I’ve always been interested in joining a startup on the ground floor in a senior position or perhaps even co founder, but haven’t ever come across such …

Thoughts on an image sharing tool with link permissions? (i will not promote) — **Looking for feedback: Tool for sharing images securely with permissioned domains (like DocSend, but mainly for images)** Hey r/startups, I’m working on validating an idea and would love your thoug…

Thoughts on a platform that can give AI suggestions layered on top of product documentation (i will not promote) — **AI suggestions layered on top of product documentation** Hey r/startups, I’m exploring a product idea and would love to hear your thoughts. **The problem:** Many users land in product documenta…

Time-based permissions — What tools are you using for managing time-based temporary permissions, such as AWS/GCP accounts, database, SSH access, etc. ? Looking for a solution for managing permissions for people accessing res…

Restricted access for employees (I will not promote) — What tools are you using for managing time-based temporary permissions, such as AWS/GCP accounts, database, SSH access, etc. ? Looking for a solution for managing permissions for people accessing res…

Should I disclose that I’m working on my own startup while still searching for full-time opportunities at other companies? I will not promote — In order to sustain myself and bootstrap my startup, I’m currently looking for full time roles. I’ve been working on it for over a year, and on my resume I’ve actually put that I stopped working on my…

Looking for solid affiliates (not random IG girls) — We run a women’s journaling brand with a strong psychology/wellness angle. Our affiliate program’s been live for a while, but most signups so far have been low-quality and not serious. We offer 30% c…

I’m looking for recommendations on a good Front-End course/certificate. Ideally for UX designers — I’m looking for an easy to follow, front end coding course that will teach me the basics on building a single page prototype. I’ve seen some job postings for UX designers asking them to use code to …

Portfolio, Case Study, and Resume Feedback — 05/04/25 — Please use this thread to give and receive feedback on portfolios, case studies, resumes, and other job hunting assets. This is not a portfolio showcase or job hunting thread. Top-level comments that …

What would you be willing to pay for at your company? — Over the years, we’ve seen several licensing dramas and ongoing debates even on this sub — the latest being Redis becoming open source again. Someone once said: “I'm fine with companies making money …

What did you pay for your Shopify store (agency/designer)? Was it worth it? — Hey everyone, I’m currently looking for an agency or designer to build my Shopify store, and the quotes I’ve received range from €5,000 to €15,000 – for what seems to be similar scopes of work. That’s…

I am new and have to say, I am in awe of this Welcome! Honest and to the point! As well as hilarious! Actually looking forward to learning more here. I'm on my way to find JM's PDF! ❤️👍

I am so excited to be here! I plan to make my way through the index exactly as instructed. I stumbled here by accident, and it turned out to be exactly what I needed in the moment (and exactly what I …

Hacking the Out of Body Experience by Bob Peterson is filled with tons of techniques and methods. Or if you're interested in awakening consciousness and "going beyond methods" then you could check ou…

a) law of assumption, not law of belief. And where did you get the other descriptions from? I've been on Neville sub for a while, literally noone describes the law in those words or speak in a spiritu…

Didn't this site or another related one used to have a booklist for beginners somewhere? Either on their wiki, or as a pinned post? Been looking for it on various astro subs but can't seem to find it…

Is it possible for multiple “travelers” to converge in one place? Not sure if it was AP, but if it was then it was accidental. May have been a crazy dream, but I’m looking for an Elijah from Detroit. …

For a second I thought this community was the opposite of what I'm looking for

So my long story short.. yes I reached out after almost a year and not with any love or dating intentions. We started to reconnect and things started to happen for us again. We’ve been back to togethe…

I'm a little new to this, but do any of the books above contain info on the chakra system? I'm looking for something that gives more than a introductory to them and explains how they are interconnecte…

I am 52. Alone doesn't have to mean lonely. I remind myself that it has only been 4 months since everything exploded for me. I moved back to my hometown. I am looking for teaching work and such. As f…

I am in the same boat as you while looking for work. I try to keep to a routine everyday, even if job stuff isn't going the way I would like. Cheers! AK.

Unfortunately I find this reddit to be too toxic to have any kind of meaningful help to anyone without being trolled or attacked here for providing real legal advice. Most of the people here are just…

Hello, I'm Kale, and Im 34. I was just married 3 months ago after being in a loving 8+ year relationship with the kindest person I've ever met. Three days ago she told me she had developed a relation…

Try therapy. Just remember that therapy can take a long time and be expensive.  If you haven't already in the meantime, try looking for parenting classes.  Or try parenting forums, if a specific p…

How do we know "they" don't have any LOB success worth a damn ? (Grammar much ? ) Might have a little something to do with his lack of pouncemonials here for the past 4 years, and the little phras…

Hey, Joseph Murphy wrote in his book 'The power of your subconscious mind.' Translated from slovak language (so maybe I don't use the exact same words but the main idea is the same) "Our subconsc…

Yes it's few. Can take months, but a change or at the very least some thoughts of thinking from the desire will be noticed within 2 - 3 weeks, IF you are doing the technique correctly. And they may ev…

The Index is just a long list of books, post and stories (dozens of them by the way), what exactly should I be looking for in the Index? Like I said I'm already reading the books of Murphy, can't keep…

That’s nice to know that it works for you also in third person point of view. :) I was trying to say with it, that it’s easier to make sure to not merely think of it, but get the feeling of it being t…

I’m seriously waiting and looking forward to it.

Simply get back to the things that give me joy in life. Nature, cycling, career progression, healthy cooking, travel, caving, gym, movie buff, research, etc. Never abandon my identity ever again when …

You don't go up to a mountain and meditate to heal your attachment wounds, then come down and jump into a healthy relationship. That isn't how the human nervous system works. Healing happens in relat…

Hey, really appreciate you sharing all this. That FA-FA dynamic can be such a rollercoaster—sounds like you’ve been through a lot and done some serious inner work already. Respect. Since you’re looki…

Usually most people are a little bit chill and collected in the first few weeks of meeting each other. There are no global standards or benchmarks, but if you’re looking for general guidance maybe som…

I’m actually more of a football fan than a Taylor fan. I wondered if the difference is he’s just “a guy” personality wise- albeit a hugely successful pro football player- and not like another Harry St…

I've been in this exact situation when I was an FA in a LDR with another FA in another country. And our f2f time was very little like yours but we spoke daily, intensely and talked and had plans. I kn…

Is anyone aware of any apps that help DA’s? Something that could be used in conjunction with in-person therapy? The couples type apps are too much pressure, so looking for something that can help avoi…

i met my now husband on a dating app. “the wild” is a really hard place to meet people these days. most people who are looking for love are on dating apps, including people you meet in “the wild” that…

Im sorry, but 80GB ingest/month is not medium company. 80GB/hour may be middle sized company. You are really looking for small scale/homelab sized solution. Worst part of grafana stack is loki. If yo…

Focus on showcasing your cloud support experience and how it relates to DevOps principles. Your background gives you a solid foundation in understanding cloud infrastructure, troubleshooting, and work…

Sounds like your are looking for something that is simple and self hosted, check out the OSS version of Harness [https://github.com/harness/harness](https://github.com/harness/harness)

Early in my career I’m pretty sure I did a technical home assignment and the company just took my work and never hired the role. It sucks. It happens. But recently, companies ghosting candidates on t…

Use your money as a down payment to buy an existing business that’s had stable revenue and net profit for the last three years. There’s way more to it, but this way you get what you’re looking for wit…

Not yet, but i am really considering reselling items from Chinese manufacturers. Just as a side hustle really looking for items that would be interesting to sell, but have a hard time making an actual…

Hey, [OpsLevel](https://www.opslevel.com) CTO here. We have a ton of respect for what the Backstage community has accomplished. It's impressive how they've expanded the IDP space and created a vibra…

If you’re going into clothing or shoes, make sure that you are actually passionate about the product as it is very easy to get caught buying fakes if you don’t know what you’re looking for. But in my …

An entrepreneur is not just someone that’s wants to do their own thing eventually. Neither is the entrepreneurial spirit good intentions, a desire to break the chains, or a desire to own your own thin…

Umm.. I think your % is off and there are way more lurkers here and some real people out there. I thought about doing posts, a podcast, or a book as an entrepreneur about how hard it was for years ru…

Hi OP. I [25M] had VERY similar experience recently with the girl [25F] I was dating. It basically was the same as you described but in a shorter time frame - 2 months, and also we had sex twice. Ho…

Based on my impression of your post, you already know the answer and you're looking for a reason to keep it. Take the money, enjoy a vacation and start your next thing

Can you be more specific with what advice you're looking for/share your site? If you're interested in rebranding or leveling up your creative, my agency Sumi provides affordable services for small…

This kind of discount is all in the positioning. There's not much information here about your typical engagement structure -- e.g. whether it's monthly, annual, how much it costs, whether you bill by…

My friends and family are telling me to slow down, but the pressure for our business is high and the competition dynamic and many. I code 4-5 days a week from 11am, often until 430/5am. A few times th…

Haha, I'm not looking for an applause, just sharing what worked for me. Maybe it might help someone else, maybe it might not. Anyhow, for me, bending over backwards would be to give into their needs …

Sure! And do you know what you'd be looking for?

First, I think this is the wrong question to be asking. You can’t completely know someone’s attachment style until they attach to you. I think a better question would be “how can I identify relationsh…

That is a great point, very true. I think you're looking for the answer as a whole, not just "therapy." And you can try this question as a follow up (sort of along the lines of what you said): "What…

Honestly, the biggest clue I get is how I feel. Are my thoughts racing? Do I feel anxious almost to the point of being manic? Is it affecting my sleep, like I’m waking up early and can’t fall back asl…

All insecurely attached people tend to show up the same early on in relationships. They're usually all persistent at the start, which is a sign of someone that is insecure. Secure people don't priorit…

So maybe the best strategy is to set some rules for dating. Here's some suggestions: Make it clear on the first date that dating for you is an exclusive engagement. While you are dating one person, y…