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*Repost* Old OrionDirectorate post (prior username change) — Hello everyone, I found this success story interesting. I hope others do too, especially the ones seeking the financial aspects of manifesting. **For those new here, I'd like to clarify once more tha…
Start Here: Essential Resources & FAQs — The idea for this post came up in [this thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/Wordpress/comments/1cpme25/mods_can_this_subreddit_implement_a_minimum_karma/) by wiz to avoid the number of similar questions …
Do things you want always have to be created in the mind first, or can you manifest things you want in a more generic way? — For example, I don't have an idealized vision of the car or house I want, but would be very pleased with several different brands of cars, and several different types of homes that are already on the …
Handling another crush as a FA — Hello all, spring is here and so is a new crush. I really can't get used to how excited but anxious my butterflies and fantasies make me. Sometimes they make me so anxious to the point I get dysfuncti…
Long road to dream job and instant healing. — Bestcub called me to write this, I hope it will be helpful to someone. A story like many others. After years of wandering around shitty loa and other stupid spheres, books and forums I finally start…
Share your startup - quarterly post — Share Your Startup - Q4 2023 [**r/startups**](https://www.reddit.com/r/startups/) **wants to hear what you're working on!** Tell us about your startup in a comment within this submission. Follow thi…
Need Guidance on Turning My Design Into a Functional Social Media Website — Hello everyone, I’ve been learning IT for the past few months, with the long-term goal of becoming a white-hat hacker. I also have a couple of years of experience in graphic design. However, when it …
Hosting Company Gaslighting Strategy? — I work as a sub-contractor for a marketing company and their biggest client uses a niche hosting company that is more paranoid than Elon Musk in a bunker. I have to install Wordpress manually, do manu…
Apple-style vs Standard "Startupy" Landing Pages — One thing I'm struggling with our landing page design is whether to take an Apple style approach where the headings are — "So much power", "A whole new leap forward", etc and we have cool-focused sect…
Thoughts on branding approach for B2B website? — https://preview.redd.it/e5mxjr1ghtve1.png?width=3012&format=png&auto=webp&s=cade89114c5cadadae4dc7567cde6ba8d4d583d0 I think the design is generally good, but I'm specifically curious about the logo …
Question for the template flippers out there - where’s the real money? — Genuinely curious - for all the devs who “custom build” sites that are clearly just recycled templates from ThemeForest or whatever the latest place is nowadays. Where’s the *actual* money coming fro…
Singe page website / landing page — I purchased a domain name through Cloudflare, and am hoping to set up a single page landing page/website I can use to generate traffic to (via ad campaigns, organic traffic, etc.) in order to collect …
Bundle pricing and host suggestions — Sup y'all, I'll start by mentioning that I did read through the FAQs regarding pricing as a web developer. This post is regarding bundling and host selection. I recently worked with my brothe…
What web builders would you recommend in 2025 for simple websites? — **I**’m looking to build a few simple websites in and wanted to get recommendations on what the best web builders are at the moment. I’ve been working as a digital designer for over a decade but woul…
Finding the web designer of a Site? — Hi All, Is it possible to find the website builder of a site without contacting the owner? I see lots of good sites where I'd be interested in hiring the builder. * Anyone know how to do this? TY …
Website Rebrand and Redesign Advice — First Let me say: I have absolutely no eye for design. If it is more complex than a stick figure, I cant imagine it in my mind. However, I do know of already existing designs that I love and want to r…
What's the best free alternative to Dreamweaver for making a personal website? — I know the easiest route is to just use Wordpress, but I don't want a Wordpress blog again right now. Dreamweaver makes sense to me. I need to see the code view or what I'm looking at makes less sense…
web page concept — heya, i just came on here to share an idea i have for a webpage, to people who know more about this stuff than i do lol. It's for hosting my art and creative works, sfw and nsfw, and the different pla…
New to drupal Trying to install themes — I'm very new to web build outs I'm using Cpanel I don't know how to install composer can i do it though Cpanel? The goal is to be able to at least change themes in Drupal to start with. Any help is…
How is the job market right now for jobs in web/product design, ui ux, front end development, etc? — Hi all, I work in digital marketing, but am getting burnt out and am trying to learn web design and build a portfolio. Long story short, what I enjoy most about my current job in digital marketing has…
Anyone? Figma ➡️ WP, XTheme — I see tools touting Figma to Wordpress, Elementor, but haven’t seen any for Figma to Wordpress, Xtheme. Xtheme has been around for over a decade and we love it as a WYSIWYG builder to hand over to c…
Resources for learning basics of design — hey hey! I'm a product manager who used to be a data scientist so I've got some experience inthe 'business' and 'science' corners of the product triangle but I'm keen to learn more about the design s…
SQL Commands | DDL, DQL, DML, DCL and TCL Commands - JV Codes 2025 — Mastery of [SQL commands](https://jvcodes.com/sql-ddl-dql-dml-dcl-tcl-commands/) is essential for someone who deals with SQL databases. [SQL](https://jvcodes.com/what-is-sql/) provides an easy system …
Is there a better way to create posts that actually match your brand? — As a solo builder, I’ve been working on a small idea I think might be useful — especially for startups and B2B teams trying to stay consistent with branded content on instagram. The problem: Creatin…
How are unemployed designers managing financially right now? — I was laid off two months ago and have been in the job search grind since - applying, interviewing, and trying to stay hopeful. But I’ve also been feeling pretty stressed and anxious, especially as ti…
Google not indexing images from my site? Images don't show up in search results? — I submitted my website to Google months ago and they've successfully crawled it many times. For some reason it doesn't seem they are indexing any of the images on the site. My website is image heavy a…
Need Help with SEO for medium-sized e-commerce sites — I own a medium-sized e-commerce website, and we’ve never really focused on SEO. Yep, we've mainly relied on paid ads, but traffic is getting more expensive, so we’re ready to take SEO seriously now. I…
Total Newb: Backlinks & keyword research — I’m trying to launch my new company website and really don’t have the budget to pay someone to do socials and the website. Been building it out myself on Wordpress with the help of AIOSEO plugins. …
How do I put together a multi-product design system as a sole designer? — Hi all, my UX design journey has been chaotic but I suspect that’s normal. I was in visual/web design for about 8 years then 2 years ago I got my first UX role (after trying to pursue and study UX f…
Ressources for designing complexe software — Hi, a lot of resources and guides online are about web design. For example, if you scroll through dribble, mobbin or just look up ressources, most revolve around how to build, design and create a good…
The Ability to Scale Predictably Is a Superpower (Here’s Why DTC Brands Can’t Skip Performance Marketing) — The ability to **scale predictably** is a superpower—especially for DTC brands. If you’ve worked with or inside a DTC company, you know the drill: * You launch, get some organic traction, and then… …
What questions can you ask a client who doesn’t know how to define their brand? — Sent over a questionnaire to my sales team to use for onboarding and they all came back and said most of the clients don’t know how to answer the questions related to their design guidelines (contract…
Webflow or Wordpress for SEO, local business? — Most of my competitors use WP, but I just found someone ranked 2nd with his handyman business using webflow My site currently runs in Squarespace and I am tired of the limitations. Budget is not an i…
Is there FLOSS no-code software to build a static website with modern animation like Framer? — Hi, here's a little bit of context: I know nothing about coding, but apparently we can host a static website for free on github, so I searched some ways to build a website in no-code for free. I'v…
Should we use Grafana open source in a medium company — I work at a medium-sized company using New Relic for observability. We ingest over 4TB of data monthly, run 20+ services across production and staging, and use MongoDB. While New Relic covers logs, me…
Minimal or No Design Emails Will Almost Always Outperform Designed Emails — For most ecom owners, either spending the time yourself or paying a professional to intricately design each of your emails has to be one of the worst ROI decisions possible. I'm not exactly sure wher…
Why are so many brands still sleeping on real customer video reviews? — Building an ecommerce tool and diving deep into reviews lately. It’s wild how many brands obsess over “testimonial-style” content, yet totally overlook the power of real reviews & content from their …
What will it take? — Seriously… What does it take to land a UX role these days? My wife is graduating with her masters in UX from a good program but it seems that the industry is evolving and everyone is making it seem …
Freelance in SEO or full-time remote job: Am I making a mistake by still applying? — Hey everyone, I’m at a bit of a crossroads and could really use your advice—even if it goes against what I’m currently thinking. Since I was 18 (I’m 20 now), I’ve been building websites just for fun…
Freelance in SEO or full-time remote job: Am I making a mistake by still applying? — Hey everyone, I’m at a bit of a crossroads and could really use your advice—even if it goes against what I’m currently thinking. Since I was 18 (I’m 20 now), I’ve been building websites just for fun…
Building My First B2C SaaS Product – Learning, Struggling, and Still Going — I’ve been working on my B2C SaaS app **Gamify** for a little over a week now. It’s a habit-tracking, gamified to-do list app — a mix of fun and structure I’ve always felt was missing in other tools. …
Thoughts on asdf — I ran into this tool a few years back and didn't give it much thought (I ended using pyenv at that time) But now I am juggling a few projects that require different versions for different things. En…
Freelancers – the only person that can evaluate your pricing is the buyer (not Reddit) — *(TL;DR at bottom)* Questions like this pop up on this subreddit every few weeks: > How much should I charge for a basic website? Or: > Is $500 for a single-page Figma design a good price? ...and…
10 startup lessons I’d tattoo on every founder’s arm (in comic sans) - i will not promote — 10 startup lessons I’d tattoo on every founder’s arm (in comic sans) 1. no one cares about your idea. not even your mom. show traction. 1. 2. build fast. talk to users faster. and by “talk,” I mean…
Seeking Your Input on a Tool to Boost LLM Rankings — Hey SEO community, as the title says, I’m building a new tool just for us, and I’d love your feedback. More people start using GPT and similar AI for searches. It’s still early days, but the trend is…
Is there a UX role in existence that doesn't involve so much documentation? — So I come from a background in design. I was a bit of a generalist before—branding, logos, layouts, art direction—and while that was fun, it started to feel fragile. Like I was always one trend away f…
We open-sourced internet’s largest incident response glossary with over 500+ terms — We just published a public glossary with **500+ terms** related to incident response, on-call, alerting, SLOs, postmortems, and more. I think this is perhaps the internet's largest glossary for incide…
My co-founder decided to quit: I'm stuck and could really use some advice | I will not promote — Hey All, A few months ago, I shared my story here (original Reddit post in comments) about starting an IT consultancy business in the Netherlands with a friend right after graduation. At that time, w…
Are you still using GBP posts as part of your local strategy? Curious how you approach content & competitor insights — I’ve been working on a side project around automating GBP content and understanding local competitor activity. I'm not here to promote anything, just to validate if the idea has legs. Curious how oth…
Can someone explain to me why my competitor is ranking second on Google when the homepage is just the shop with no text and his menu has the shop and a contact us page? — I’ll DM links if that’s allowed and anyone would like to see both sites. I’m currently building out a site (it’s basically finishing just setting up payment gateways and adding product to the shop on…
How can I get credible backlinks for my mental health startup website? — Hey everyone, I'm building a mental health awareness and support platform called *Trusme*, and I'm trying to improve its SEO through quality backlinks. I'm not looking for spammy directories or paid…
He mentioned in the opening of this lecture, I think, that he has a background in the corporate world, providing team-building programs for companies, or vanilla psychology as you call it, so, yeah, I…
Thanks. That’s interesting, nothing official that he did. Wow, be interesting find out more about him, such as how he arrived at such genius concepts. Figured it out, read from previous religion, scie…
Knowing that there's a physical reason for the confusion and lack of awareness makes it easier to accept. One feels like an outsider; the people around you seem to know how to be with each other. An…
I'm going through the training in the index. I'm using it for appearance, but is there anything I can do along with that to help build faith in the law? Thanks!
I’m new to this forum. I want to ask you guys something. I’m embarrassed plus I don’t know who else to ask. I started seeing a reiki therapist/psychic about 2 years ago. When I first met her I felt I …
i had the same dreams when i was a child until today, that i am 33 years old, like i was drowning in a broad daylight or evening in a isolated ocean, as in! no people around me and i was fall into the…
Try focusing on your environment and not getting to excited . Tell yourself you want to explore your surroundings before and during . Don’t go straight into getting excited and trying to control every…
Don’t Try focusing on controlling too much immediately or getting Carried away trying to do influence it strongly at first . Try just remaining calm by focusing on your environment and exploring as yo…
And to add further, I’ve also got a quick free one hour introductory course on Kubernetes architecture that’s a bit different. Rather than slide after slide of diagrams, we build a Kubernetes cluster…
Hi guys, I started 2 Youtube series to help new people getting into devops. The first one: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL-WCaWbINSZ6tTkXVYXKvB7oC7-t19rHF revolves around containers and kubernet…
What does that look like??? Find a new hobby. Anything. Try learning to knit. Learn to build robots. Take a class in 17th century blacksmithing. Join a woodworkers guild. Join an improve troupe. Volu…
I hope my doctor did not get his medical degree by manifesting grades instead of learning his stuff and knowing what he's doing to my body... just saying. The same applies to the civil engineer in cha…
As I said above, it's for people who has tons of disbelief, to start small and BUILD up. You, as in most people need faith to be built. Well.. My first moneymission I had 80k out of the blue, it's one…
You're on Year 10 of "building up", enough with bullshitting yourself. You have manifested anything real and never will. And you know it. For every balloon story you experience, you casually ignore 90…
You obviously didn't understand my comments. I didn't say I am building up, I never said 10 years and I didn't mention all the other shit I got for myself. If you want to live like you do and not have…
It's very easy to debunk everything as a fluke, even if it comes knocking on your door. And beginners often succed in any bigger mission they set to as a first timer bc they have no expectations of it…
No what I meant was that it usually takes years to build up solid faith for lob itself, to see your mind as cause and effect towards your reality and to manifest with a snap. And that happens with alo…
I had a quick glance at this on my break and will chip in more later, just by point 1 alone I see you haven’t grasped it, feeling is the secret indeed. But the feeling isn’t emotions. 2 That knowing…
Love these arguments. Point 1: There is a difference between hypnosis (true authentic feelings of experience of here and now of the desired outcome) and daydreaming. When you give your mind and your…
I’ll take a crack at it Point 1: The answer is sm vs cm thought. Daydreaming is not focused with intent, the mind often wonders and you still feel it’s not true in the end or with emotions that are …
Even if you're doing the right steps and apply it the right way, and doing that daily, it will take more time if you're new and working on a tough first mission. The lion states 4 months. If you haven…
This is a very silly reply. Any idiot knows that faith is essential (and unwavering faith is not, just 51% sunconscious faith vs 49% subsconsious unbelief) to LOB success. That is not the point of t…
This is a very foolish comment. Any retard knows that many people at times lack faith. Faith is essential for manifesting your desires. Where there's no faith, there's no effect. That's the point to…
>The objective of LOB or LOA is to build lasting faith, not just temporary faith, over the long term to effect change subconsciously in the face of obstacles in life no matter what negatives are in th…
Therapist will navigate with you your core wounds which will help you to identify your fears and patterns, learn healthy boundaries, learn about attachment in deeper and learn more about yourself, wor…
I've been in therapy for over a year for various reasons, and for me the first thing I needed to work on was my self image. Understanding and accepting myself, building confidence and a stronger sense…
At this point in your journey, I believe, you need two ingredients: grieving and not avoiding your emotions (somatic work, journaling, revisiting painful memories, allowing yourself to cry, etc) and s…
I think building discernement and self-trust will reduce the risk of "inevitably being discarded". Meaning, at some point in your healing journey, you'll learn to identify people who are good relation…
I'm also a recovering FA and I recently realized a few REALLY important things that are actually really simple. Figure out your boundaries and enforce them from a calm place. Our anxiety builds in our…
To me, the book doesn’t so much denigrate avoidants as it highlight their challenges in relationships, to help anxious types recognize patterns and seek stability—often with secure partners as an idea…
You don't go up to a mountain and meditate to heal your attachment wounds, then come down and jump into a healthy relationship. That isn't how the human nervous system works. Healing happens in relat…
Love the question!! You don’t need a relationship to grow, that’s the beauty of it (you can but it will be slower, depending on what kind of partner you end up with) You could try to explore being mo…
>Not saying you’re entirely wrong but that wasn’t the point of the ladder experiment. The point of the ladder experiment was to teach about awareness. > Ah. Conscious awareness. Complete rubbish and…
I cried when I first time heard Cognitive Dissonance by Sophie Holohan, I am FA but lean avoidant "Get too close, build a wall Miss a friend, never call".
I think I have the opposite issue? I can’t form an attachment to any therapist no matter what. I always want to retreat and it feels like I’m sending myself toward a trap each session, the closer I ge…
It helped me to cut out some toxic family members. One of the elements that fed my anxious attachment was that I had low self esteem. I worked really hard to build that up, but it was difficult to m…
It’s unhealthy to project or “mind read”. I think there’s a bit of this going on in your post. It may feel (to you) they hate you, because rejection feels bad. It’s not a good feeling to an ego or o…
Your feelings are valid, AND they are not facts. The above commenter is trying to offer you some wisdom; you can choose not to be reactive and take it personally and look again and ask “what can I lea…
You are correct. Your perception of love is warped. And thus it can be really hard finding it without accidentally finding yourself in shit relationships. As many have commented, avoidants typically …
My mistake. I must have misunderstood that. I’m sorry. I still stand by my comment- you can’t always spot an avoidant. The walls they build to ice us out are not “up” until something triggers them. M…
ok so i typed up a hypothetical example haha let's say i have a coworker/acquaintance who seems like they'd have a lot in common with me, but we don't know each other well. i want to become closer to…
You have to give more time to build a rapport with people from the apps. People in the wild, you instantly see them in person without any competing preconceived notions, then you gradually get to k…
By ‘phantom ex,’ I mean that the most recent crush is serving as an idealized image of someone they can never have, which makes it easier to compare others to this unrealistic standard. It’s common in…
Used it at my workplace a few years back to manage Ruby and Python versions on our servers and on workstations. It was really good at not messing with library paths unlike some other tools at the time…
## Amazon Price History: **Beginning Azure DevOps: Planning, Building, Testing, and Releasing Software Applications on Azure** * Rating: ★★★★☆ 4.7 * Current price: **$32.29** 👍 * Lowest price: $31.…
No, I would not say that’s a proper definition of bare metal K8s deployment. If you say “bare metal deployment” to me I expect you to then take me to the rack(s) of multiple machines in whatever pass…
Congratulations, and you are in the top 5% of devops. How did you build your homelab?
Operating systems are also virtualization. If you wanna be a real man go code in assembly. Honestly why are people so attached to tech? Your value as devops or any engineer for that matter is buildin…
Usually when I feel like this I go outside and use my hands to manipulate the real world. As for your issues with alienation, sure you are building an operating a rube Goldberg machine to run an app…
For my org, it’s basic economics at the end of the day. The cost of build (or rebuild) vs buy. Optimize for the lowest cost to meet the business need. When Elastic changed their licensing, our genera…