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I am needing some advice, I am an anxious (duh LOL) attachment who is long distance dating an avoidant (at least to what i believe, based on the hot and cold). I recently had my feelings hurt by him a…

How to indicate to women that they shouldn't background check me before I can explain the situation? — Help. I am a 41M with the most aggressively Whitebread name imaginable. For purposes of this post, let’s call me “Tom Brandon Anderson.” My dating profile only says Tom, but I work at my family busine…

I didn't know that was an actual thing there were websites for! Though I think I'd pass on cuddling with literal strangers, haha. I wish it were too, especially as a man. I mean I can't imagine askin…

Asked a lady friend out for a lunch date and she said yes. After that the momentum of everything halted rather suddenly. Why answer yes when you could have answered no lmao

I’ll just note that my therapist has been with me for 6 years, and he did not suggest I change my boundaries, just presented the mathematic reality that it means a smaller dating pool. There was no ju…

Loneliness isn't solved with romance. It's solved with friendship. Post divorce my life felt empty until I realized this. Dating for company is toxic - you'll be covered in red flags and need/expe…

Yeah I have a hard time sympathizing with it, but I do have tall privilege so I try to be understanding about shorter guys that have a complex about it. Not that they should. Every lady friend of mi…

Yup, get I got into this topic with a lady friend of mine who isn't a hugger even with her closer friends, but has stated if she was in a relationship, and felt attached that she would be very affecti…

It's really strange overall. I have a friend who is exactly 6' on the dot. When he was building his dating profile a lady friend of his told him he needed to change it because lots of women would as…

I agree. I spent way too much energy being upset that people believed that garbage. In the end 90% of the people figured it out, some years later. I still remember a guy I was casual drinking buddies…

Original copy of post by u/Lost-Bad-8718: Help. I am a 41M with the most aggressively Whitebread name imaginable. For purposes of this post, let’s call me “Tom Brandon Anderson.” My dating profile on…

So when I was in school I would get scared to get too close and end things after a couple of weeks or if my lady friends did not approve of my choice in bf too, but I never did anything beyond first b…

All right, so I'm a vegan guy but I put in my profile "I am vegan but I try not to be annoying about it" or something like that. Basically, while I wasn't likely to date somebody who LIVES FOR BBQ or …

My ex was covert,so he was sly about everything. To begin with he made me feel beautiful ( never actually said the words though) later he would tell me the kind of woman he prefers,blonde( apparently …

For me dates 1-3 are just a chemistry check and not that serious, date 4 or 5 is when I start poking around for red flags and asking deeper questions. I refuse to commit in under 3 months, though, whe…

i am asian and i hear it ALL THE TIME from my dad to the point i don't even want to talk to him on the phone. My mom doesn't nag as much but still mentions how she "failed me" in getting me married a…

Hey dear ,first you are an amazing mum and have never had eczema but my son has had since he was born now he's 5yr ,have tried all the cream and also hospital checks tried to change his diet too but s…

I wanted to give her a chance. And it was the first time i had a mutual lady friend say we should go out.