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Piecing Reality Together After Going NC/VLC — \[TW, mention of CSA and general abuse\] I probably don't really need to give as much background info as I plan to, but I'm going to in hopes of finding...solidarity? I guess? Essentially looking fo…

I think it might be your ego?  My last partner was CRAZY intelligent. And that's the main thing that initially got me interested. He was also hesitant to go too fast due to a nasty divorce.  I app…