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Being on disability has helped me heal so much faster — I've felt quite bit of a guilt applying for disability and gaslighting myself that it's "not so bad" and "I keep taking money for people who actually need it" while i kept being in a constant deep pai…
19 F how do i be less codependent and seeking of external validation — I am not a very busy person as I am still seeking work and not yet able to go to uni so I spend a lot of time by myself or with my friends or boyfriend. im not sure if im codependent towards my partn…
For those who have accepted / semi- accepted being alone... what are you filling your time with now? — I have semi-accepted that there's a chance I will not find the type of person who fits my life. I'm not saying I deleted the apps ...the apps are still there, but no match does not make me feel sad …
This sub is making me really sad — I have my own fair share of problems but reading here makes my problems seem not so bad at all... When i read here about people that have witnessed their parents murder somebody and such stuff, its j…
First Connection After — Not quite divorced yet, 9 months into a 12 month waiting period, but had my first new emotional connection recently. Man it has fucked me up. While I think I have been ok with the divorce for a while …
it's been a few weeks since — I had to split from my husband of almost 14 years. He had stopped loving me quite a while back and I got tired of trying to reignite his love for me. I don't think that it was possible but it didn't s…
Let me preface this by saying there's a lot of overlap to all these labels we give ourselves. That said based on current attachment theory I'm FA-leaning avoidant becoming more securely attached. I …
Learning to love myself was very difficult for me. Thankfully, I also have a therapist who calls me out and really pushes me. The first 5 months were difficult, but it started getting better each week…
So don't dig. Rest a bit. It's not so bad down here. Theres...uh dirt...and cute worms...and sometimes a butterfly floats overhead. I'm not sure what happened so I'm not confident telling you that y…
Original copy of post by u/c6h12o6ph: I have semi-accepted that there's a chance I will not find the type of person who fits my life. I'm not saying I deleted the apps ...the apps are still there, …
I think your Saturn in Leo in the 1st house (I always use whole sign system) may counteract your 5th house placements. Yes, Sagittarius is expansive and it's connected to optimism, but Saturn in the 1…
It's not so bad after you get used to it. Relic of the old internet :)
Hey man, I've been there. After 5.5 years of being together with someone, being alone scared me shitless. But let me tell you, leaving me was the best thing my ex ever did for me. Turns out it's not s…
The issue is that you have no respect for yourself. You're ok with her walking all over you. You let her have her cake and eat it too. For years. And now you still are. You've gotten used to bein…
Ooh never thought trauma could cause it. Interesting.. would make a lot of sense for me as well, along with underlying conditions lol. Its not so bad.
Sorry for asking but this seems relevant - what'd he do? Also - it feels very relatable. I noticed how my ex treated her ex, sure he turned out to be a pos but there were some pretty inexcusable or d…
Do not force yourself to date. If it feels like a chore don’t do it. I see so many men like you fall into a trap to just settle with first woman who attaches because as you said you just miss your old…
TLDR is its complicated, and if you want to read a fantastic book on abuse, its causes, and how to spot the warning signs instead of this rambling, read “Why does he do that” by Lundy Bancroft. The bo…
It's possible that your therapist has become a conditioned anxiety cue. You saw her when you were deeply depressed, so seeing her again may bring back memories of those awful depressed feelings. If th…
Saturn is doing quite a damage, in your natal chart ( as usual). Essentially the position in the The third house is not so bad, but the main thing is that he opposes your Mars from the Capricorn, and…
Maybe she thought someone was better out there, went to find out only to find it’s not what she expected so now she thinks maybe you’re not so bad after all.
Yeah, my parents started getting us pets when we were around 5ish or so. No matter what I did, they’d always turn up dead via “mysterious” circumstances that weren’t so mysterious once I was older and…
That’s not so bad. It’s where are you from? Oh I live in town, no where were you raised? Oh in Indiana. NO. Where did you come from? I was born and raised in Indiana and then I- NO WHERE ARE YOUR PARE…
Regarding your “marriage counselor” Would it be ok if a boyfriend beat his gf and it’s not so bad if he stopped after marriage? Cause they are saying the same thing.
My dad’s ex was a bit like this, not as bad, but the very self centred and dominant personality was unbearable over time. However, it was the price we had to pay for a relationship with him. I guess…
Your own child's comfort and well being < Having a huge boobs. If they wanna distance themselves... Maybe that is not so bad idea.
Something I found that weakened a demonic presence I once had in my apartment was to turn it into a joke. Instead of fearing it, I learned to laugh at it. During one of our final face-offs, it reveale…
100% sometimes I'm like this and I hate it but my girlfriend likes it and doesn't care so it's not so bad in my case. I can wake up in the morning and not remember a thing, sometimes it feels like a …
But does reality shift only works when you are asleep like it feels you are in a nightmare but you can move around like a lucid dream but you keep changing to new places teleportation sometimes worse …