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This was not my experience even when I was heavily DA. I think it could almost seem that way from the outside because it did take me a loooong time to warm up to people (still does! though not nearly …
DA healing update: searching my true self, my inner child finally seen — Some of you may know me at this point. I'm (40M) dismissive avoidant, my wife fearful avoidant (41F), together 17 years, married 13 years, 3 children. I've been working on my attachment style for 5 mo…
Same situation. Anxious attachment and limerence. This has been more painful than any breakups I've had. Here is what I recommend - Go low contact since no contact is not possible in your case. Out o…
No worries!!! Oh, I am all about leverage. I sent a couple of anxious texts earlier that I regret, so don’t send anything now!!! I will look at this tomorrow. You need to keep things chill - he is ju…
Has he had testing to determine which herpes he has? HSV-1 typically causes outbreaks on the mouth. HSV2 typically causes outbreaks on the genitals. Either one can appear in either location, or even m…
I didn't miss anyone at all. Whether friends who disappeared from my life or family members who died, I didn't look back at all. Out of sight out of mind. All my grandparents as well as my mother died…
I just want to say: you are not a lost cause. Nothing you wrote sounds like someone who doesn’t care...it sounds like someone who is overwhelmed, burned out, and stuck in a loop they don’t know how to…
My narc remained obsessed with his ex for a very long time. I caught him constantly looking at her profile and he’s snicker and talk about her. Same thing he swore up and down he wanted nothing to do …
I always had the mentality out of sight out of mind wasn't just for objects but for people too. Any time of any sign of conflict my brother and I would disappear to our rooms. We didn't know it wasn't…
These people have a pattern. But often we disregard those patterns because we’re blinded by love. The thing is he is friends like best friends with all of his exes. I didn’t want to be part of that …
Karma?!?!. Its 2026. List the people you know that are scared of karma?! Yea no one. No one rethinks their actions bc of being afraid of such nonsense. You want to believed in a mindset that “hey th…
I know it hurts but the best thing you can do is delete or hide everything about them so you can begin to heal. I met this girl and we dated for a month and after we had sex she broke up with me sayin…
No contact is removing them from everywhere. Literally out of sight out of mind. You shouldn’t be seeing what they’re doing, that keeps the attachment alive.
putting your phone in another room when you text him might help break that habit of watching for the read receipt - out of sight out of mind type thing
Im not too sure how they are now, Ive been NC for more than 6 years with the birth giver and THE BOYS. My sister is LC and only talks to the youngest brother by text only. My sister and I are the only…
Personally my own realisation came from my dad sharing some very horrific information with me rather callously on his birthday that lead to a string of events where I had to report both my parents to …
Tbh you’re spiralling over this while he’s probably not thinking much about you in comparison. I just dealt with something similar very recently although I was the one who messed up. How I move on i…
She's doing what's best for her you need to also. Its probably for the best its long distance now tho so you dont have to see her around. The more you feel it tho the easier accepting and moving on is…
The things he procrastinates on where it affects you: absolutely not. There's no reason he should be causing you to fear getting your NEEDS CUT OFF. You should not have to teach him to be an adult omg…