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I attended Matthias Barkers free webinar (The trauma you can't remember), so you don't have to! — I was curious seeing Matthias Barker on social media, he has some really good topics that he discusses and at surface value seems incredibly genuine. However, I was skeptical with the increasing prese…
This is a support sub. Be kind to each other. — Almost everyone who comes here is here because they are going through a very painful and difficult time. We're not all at our best. If you go into someone's topic, remember that they came here askin…
Welcome to r/ecommerce! Please Read Before Posting — **Table of Contents:** I. Account Requirements II. Content Rules III. Linking Policies IV. Dropshipping Guidelines V. Reporting Violations VI. Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ) VII. Encouraged C…
My Keyword Research Workflow — Hi guys, I wanted to check with you if my keyword research workflow canbe improved. Here's how I've been doing: Finding general keywords: Google Trend: Look the best variation of a generic keyword…
Why am I losing keywords? — I'm a bit lost. For the past 6 months I have been working on improving the rank of my website. When I first started, I just left an agency that wasn't doing a great job. When I switch from them, they …
Started a Pistachio Spread Brand in Turkey — Now Trying to Go Global (Advice Appreciated!) — Hey everyone, I’m based in Turkey and help run a family business that produces natural pistachio butter — no additives, no sugar, just roasted pistachios. It’s something we’ve been doing for over 15 …
Seeking Your Input on a Tool to Boost LLM Rankings — Hey SEO community, as the title says, I’m building a new tool just for us, and I’d love your feedback. More people start using GPT and similar AI for searches. It’s still early days, but the trend is…
Is there a UX role in existence that doesn't involve so much documentation? — So I come from a background in design. I was a bit of a generalist before—branding, logos, layouts, art direction—and while that was fun, it started to feel fragile. Like I was always one trend away f…
Funding for Established Business Model (I will not promote) — I’m looking to start a version of a business I’m already in (it’s my 9-5 W2), understand well, and have identified gaps in the market, as well as near term acquisition targets. It’s the type of busi…
Why do most tech billionaires avoid flashy lifestyles—are there any who embrace extravagance? I will not promote — I’ve always noticed the contrast between how different the tech entrepreneurs are compared to the others who are in finance, fashion, entertainment, or property. It is almost the expectation in the ot…
Is this site using a bootstrap or plug-in? — This bookstore has a section where, if you you click on one of the books in a slider, it expands a panel about that book below. These sliders under "New and Featured" and "Trending" (the entire div is…
Fed up with scattered UK property data, I built an AI tool that combines everything into one smart search — **What It Does** This is an internal tool I’ve been building to help with UK property prospecting, market research, and deal due diligence. If you've ever tried to buy or invest in property in the U…
Its time to Grow India — I'm building a focused community dedicated to one purpose: building startups. In this group, we’ll exclusively discuss how to launch and grow startups, explore market trends, understand how to secure …
Small Business Case Study: How We Grew Our Instagram & TikTok with an AI Social Media Assistant (No Ad Spend!) — **Post Body:** Hi everyone! I co-own a small business (a boutique cafe + online store) and wanted to share our experience using an **AI “social media assistant”** to grow our Instagram and TikTok. W…
What’s the best way to validate a niche before launching a POD store? — I've been sitting on a few niche ideas for months, but I'm stuck trying to figure out which one has real potential. Everyone says "do your research," but what does that actually look like for POD? Do …
Has any ordered from Daddy butter? — First of all, I want to be extremely fair to any business in questioned, they are fairly new business, daddy’s butter. I’ve seen this particular business on Facebook. I’m very impressed with what they…
No one should suffer because we have trauma. — I see a lot of people accept harmful behavior, because their partner has past trauma, but in my opinion, that is wrong. I know I can come off as harsh sometimes, but we have to have honest conversatio…
Female banter — noticing a double standard trend. I match. bumble so woman reaches out first. “how is your day going” or “hi.” what I’m noticing is that if I match their vanilla, they go dark pretty quick. if I …
Song banned from Casinos cause 'it makes you win more' — There's a song trending back on TikTok videos and people claim Ring My Bell by Anita Ward is banned in casinos because the frequencies supposedly make slot machines pay out more the story going aroun…
tried dating sites at 41/42 and only get messages from 20 year olds — i'm a 42 year old female, never married, no kids, live alone. i'm chubby, have a shaved head, and am covered in tattoos... yes, its a look that tends to limit the kinds of responses i've gotten when t…
Implications of personal Pluto aspects relative to your generation/other generations — For example, if a person had Venus square Pluto on their natal chart, although the degree would vary, they would have the same aspect with everyone else with the same Pluto sign as them. I also know y…
Six months after the worst breakup of my life, I finally understand why I couldn't heal for the first three. — I'm writing this because I wish someone had said it to me when I was in month one. For the first three months I did everything people tell you to do. I went to the gym. I saw friends. I kept busy. I …
Asian erasure or something like that — This is a little vent post about this youtube short I just watched on the “viral no-water chicken soup”, which is like pretty obviously asian inspired based on the ingredients (if you search for this …
Any predictions on music, film, entertainment for this following years and 2030s? — I have see a couple of posts talking about how certain saturn shifts create new musical trends and needs from artists. Of course, it's not just saturn alone most probably. I am curious how the general…
TikTok Video Calls Racial Dating Preferences Racist, Draws X Backlash — Link: https://x.com/i/status/2035395580797534514 The backlash may be aimed at South Asian men right now, but let’s be real—this is how a lot of people see Asian men in general. A video posted on Tik…
dealing with weebs? lol — hi all, i hope everyone is doing well! i (22F) am a japanese-american who just got into a phd program and will be further studying the asian american diaspora. i love my community very very much and l…
17F, my parents read my private chats out loud and still don’t trust me 2 years later — I’m 17F, and something happened 2 years ago that my parents still haven’t let go of. Back when I was in 10th grade, I started talking to a guy online. It was just casual at first, and within a few da…
Stop Asian Hate's iconic victim Grandpa Vicha's murderer Antoine Watson is going to walk free now without punishment — [article 1](https://www.nbcbayarea.com/news/local/grandpa-vicha-sentencing-murder-case/4058429/) [article 2](https://www.cbsnews.com/sanfrancisco/news/granpa-vicha-killing-san-francisco-suspect-relea…
I am completely convinced that somehow my mind is being read. — Hi people, this has started to happen around 8+ months ago. It primarily happens on Instagram or Facebook. Random thoughts pop up in my mind, some topics long forgotten (not in the trend) maybe 10-15 …
A Post from Ex — I just recently joined this sub, and I wanted to share something that’s been on my mind. I was digging through old photos to join the “10 years ago” trend, and while searching, I accidentally came ac…
Am I over analyzing? — I thought this chat was going well and we were connecting on a meaningful level. We're supposed to meet up tomorrow for the first time for coffee and today this comes in after a few other messages tha…
Longevity trend and stoicism — So there is this trend around extremely rich people to control every aspect of their lives to live as long as possible or to ingest substances to even prolong their lives, which is interfering with th…
What would you do differently for your 5-9 after your 9-5? — I go through all my notifications and apps like it's a routine. Work has been tough so I wind down by connecting with my friends, replying group texts that I missed throughout the day, catching up on …
In medieval Europe, astrology was taught at universities alongside medicine and doctors consulted the stars before treating patients — This wasn't fringe stuff. Major European universities like Bologna, Paris, Padua and Florence had actual chairs of astrology, and medical students were expected to study it as part of their training. …
How Am I Supposed To Feel? What Am I Feeling? — So I (26F) just got out of my first real relationship with someone (25F) who I really liked - the day it happened (a week ago from tomorrow) I was devastated and begged her to stay, and about the same…
You have the answers — ​ Hello folks, hope your day is going well! Below i'll post the final chapter to a short work I put together. while out of context it does provide some useful tips on how to be. A dedicated …
My dream recall is so strange — I’m looking for any tried and tested remedies to help remember dreams. I tend to go through phases, sometimes I remember them vividly, other times it feels like I don’t dream at all. I haven’t yet wo…
Is this salvageable? — Iv been seeing someone for a handful of months but things seems to be trending towards a less than ideal place. I feel like I’m having to prove my self and the way I feel. Like I feel I’m trying to b…
How to overcome social isolation? — Long story ahead. If you can relate, let me know. I’m 27 now, and I haven’t had a single friend since elementary school. I moved to a different area at the start of middle school, wasn’t able to quit…
My (28M) girlfriend (28F) is pregnant with twins. We had an arguement today and she was mad and showed me a video on her phone sucking off her ex. Now what? — [Updated] My partner and I are on holiday for the long weekend. It'll be our last chance to go away before the babies come so we headed off. Two days in, we're having a fight. I'm upset, she's upset. …
Looking back and realizing that, from the start, she went out of her way to try and hurt me with my triggers/personal limits, and how bizarre and petty that was to experience. — So, at this point it's been about two years since my narc went full no contact with me. I don't think it's super common for the narc to be the one to break things up, but a big reason is because I was…
Is my husband having an affair? — My husband was intentionally detaching from me for past two years. But his cruelty specially increased in the last one year when he started resorting to taunts and sarcasm. He showed contempt to me. D…
I (20M) broke up with my (20F) girlfriend and now regret it. How can I rebuild trust and potentially fix things? — So for context, me and my now ex (we'll call her Jessica) had been together for 10 months prior to the breakup. The relationship was going great until about 5 months in, when Jessica and her family mo…
Ndad is forcing me to do heavy labor knowing I’m chronically ill — I have been stuck with my parents for the past year and I’m finally getting out in a month or so to live with my partner. I have POTS, scoliosis, migraines, and hypermobility in several joints. Yes I …
Why are People Hating on Asians Hanging Out with Other Asians — This is the most bizarre trend I’m seeing on TikTok, instagram, and Twitter. Essentially you have people (mostly other Asians) hating on Asians hanging out with each other Essentially they’re allegin…
Just when I think I am starting to heal, I get pulled right back in — It's been a month after the sudden end of a 7.5 year relationship. We haven't spoke since, and that's the way you wanted it. No dramatic blow up, just it wasn't worth the effort to try to fix for my…
Nobody talks about the quiet kind of growth — the kind that happens with no applause — We celebrate the big moments. The promotion. The weight lost. The degree earned. But nobody really talks about the smaller, quieter shifts that actually change who you are. The morning you chose not …
Ending a 10 year relationship — Me (32M) and my now ex-Fiance (32F) just ended our relationship. More specifically I ended the relationship because I had reached my point where I no longer had romantic feelings for her. This was jus…
My husband left but wants a second chance… — So my husband left in Jan and we’ve been separated since then. We did therapy up until a few weeks ago when he told me “I don’t want to give up all of the other lives I could be living for this life w…
I dumped her, we reconciled but she rebounded with someone else... what do I do? — Ive been dating this woman for 8 months. She’s 12 years younger than me, I’m 37M shes 25F. It started off as a casual/hook up but she wanted more as it prolonged so we eventually started dating. I do …
The 2019 DevOps Roadmap link (aka https://roadmap.sh/devops) is no longer useful and should really be removed or majorly updated as it's confusing to newbies. It's actually linked twice in different…
I totally agree that there is a general trend to project personal issues and give drastic advice, especially since... well, it's not your life. I particularly notice it when it comes to fear of a par…
You're welcome to ask. A lucky strike - that sounds just like an LOB effect to me, haha. Also, to answer "a gambler high off a win", I didn't specify my wins in the above pouncemonial, though have a …
Thanks for all of the above. I can relate in that I may on occasion turn inward a bit when I’m super tapped out socially or like physically don’t have the reserves left, but I socially exhaust a lot l…
Yes, you think it's BS because it validates your fears. And just because something is 'imprecise' doesn't mean it's not useful, or effective. Otherwise we wouldn't have hundreds of studies on variou…
I just finished reading “Attached”, and it gave me such a better understanding of attachment styles and myself. One of the ways my anxious attachment style has been manifesting post-break up with an a…
There is no such thing as “the smartest business to start today”. There are trends, opportunities, needs and problems to solve. It’s difficult to future-proof businesses these days with the constant v…
https://roadmap.sh/devops Oldie but goldie, you dont have to be on the latest trend but understand dev business problems and provide solutione to them
Simple SEO is beneficial for the site, and you can use ChatGPT to make sure to highlight keywords and phrase your page descriptions in a way that makes it stand out in the algorithm. Social media is…
Well, like I said, if she didn't improve, I would walk away. But things have been on the up trend. We no longer have periods of no contact. I interact with her every day like we used to at the start. …
You know avoidant are just people don’t you? A human who has suffered and who, SOMETIMES, reacts a certain way to being triggered. If you don’t want to date someone then don’t but don’t just label eve…
The majority of attachment content online is antagonistic towards avoidants, not anxious. Accredited therapists, such as u/thesecurerelationship, have called this out. Any blowback of recent is in res…
>Whatever the actual proportion is, I bet there is definitely a rise in non-secure attachment overall. Yeah, agreed. People keep citing these dated and dubious "statistics" that 50% of the populati…
Was doing therapy with a probable FA in their 40s & was permissive with my schedule because they had financial concerns & single parent. Too permissive. They late cancelled on about 38%, said they…
I don't think you got it "completely wrong"! These are venn diagrams and trends in messy human behavior, not clean engineering categories. There's no ERD for attachment. You're doing a great job learn…
Im working through my avoidance in therapy too and it looks very similar to you what you described. I noticed that if I’m intentional and confronting my avoidant tendencies with one friend or one rela…
Even though I'm FA, as a person whose almost exclusively avoidant in friendships, I don't think this is true at all. My secure friendships all followed a pretty distinct trajectory of periods where I …
Ha! Hilarious that it cited this post. I googled too, and chatGPT did say it’s not an official term. Perhaps it based the concept on the info I plugged in about my specific experience with a specific …
Hello all! I was hoping to gain some insight from the group and see if anyone else has experience with this? **Has anyone been able to rekindle a friendship/relationship with someone who is avoident i…
It’s *extremely* trendy right now where I live lol
Therapy-speak is hella common in my area for female profiles (don't know about male profiles but gonna guess no). I don't mind them but every now and then, you'll get some TikTok trend and see it on …
I fear we're all trending toward needing to be spoon-fed personalized AI content instead of thinking for ourselves.
Sometimes a break up happens when it shouldn’t. It could be because someone has too much pride, external influences, and/or just easier to give up and move on to the next person, which is the new norm…
I gotta say, Ive never received more attention from women where I live before I shaved my beard and left the mustache lol I’ve gotten lots of compliments even from women I work with, and the amount of…
It looks good! I love the mustache trend.
it’s why I stopped run clubs for the most part. it’s just a dating scene in my city, kind of waiting for the trend to die down before I join up again. just been running solo/with some friends for a bi…
Saw a new " is this a tiktok trend?" While on bumble where multiple profiles i saw last night had in their bio or a prompt " like for a tbh or a rate (based on your looks?) " which just ugh. Go somewh…
What is this new trend of all the women with mediocre profiles on dating apps demanding “princess treatment” now.
The only person I made it to three dates with, I dated for a year and a half. That sounds like a strange situation. If he had to pursue you relentlessly, it doesn’t sound like you were that into him e…
Idk but let’s hope it doesn’t turn into something similar to the well-established trend where bitter, lonely men complain about what women do on the internet. That trend is mad lame.
Losers? Hokay. Woman aren't less shallow than men and it's a weird trend to say that they are. BUT, in general, women are more likely to grow attraction to someone they weren't initially attracted to…
I'm noticing a trend, I am getting a lot of matches, but a lot of them are just "radio silent" out of the get go. I could understand if we have a conversation, don't vibe left on read but not unmatche…
This was my question. And also, were the sweatpants and sweater a matching set? There is a difference between a really high quality set and what you wear to do chores. I'd wear athlesuire if we were g…
Couldn't it be just the new fashion? Look up what young people are wearing nowadays. Baggy jeans/sweats and oversized hoodies. It's just what is in in 2026. [https://www.instyle.com/fashion-trends-to-…
I’m not judging anyone for going with their gut feeling but I suck at texting. I’m much better in person. But it always breaks down in the texting app phase somehow. Something *always* happens. I hope…
Honestly I don’t see it because the very skinny aesthetic was still around until 2010 ish with the Kardashians being the ones to change the mood of what a hot woman looks like. But there is probably a…
Very apt observation. I’m personally pretty disturbed by this global trend I hoped was gone for good. I’d love to hear other astrologers’ views
Hm, found an interesting article related to heroin chic of 1990s and 19th century romanticising tuberculosis. >*The connections between romanticizing tuberculosis and fashion have shifted to encompa…
Could also be Aquarius energy, which is associated with a tall, thin look. Late 90s were big Aquarius times with both Neptune and Uranus in Aquarius. Now we have Pluto in Aquarius, and this Ozempic tr…
Good observation. Same trend happened when Saturn was in Aries from 1967-69. That was also the rise of Twiggy and that ultrathin huge-eyed starved waif look. Margaret Keane's art was also popular th…
Original copy of post by u/chi17cr: noticing a double standard trend. I match. bumble so woman reaches out first. “how is your day going” or “hi.” what I’m noticing is that if I match their vani…
But is there not a general trend of white men fetishizing Asian women? Like, not all white men, sure. But an uncomfortable amount. If you type "Asian" into the reddit search bar, the largest communiti…
The industry itself is predatory and vampiric. The trend has been increasingly violent and dregrading material. Often leaving the actors with regrets, trauma, feeling they were pressured etc. Even phy…
That’s a really interesting observation! Saturn in Aries definitely resonates with themes of structure, restriction, and the physical form, so it makes sense that cultural aesthetics around thinness a…
I am so happy for you! And lmao, I experienced the same when I was really depressed about this one incident at my school and want something to change, law just drop right into my lap but via sns group…
Comment removed - you are entirely missing the point of the trend of the problematic comments.
Do you mean you’re half Asian half white or Asian American trying to fit in with “white” American trends? I’m confused.
i vote for the mamianqun! in addition, wearing a cloud collar (yunjian) over the grad gown is a bit of a trend in chinese hanfu revival, i think a red one would totally vibe if youre allowed to do tha…
Of my 2nd gen+ Asian American friends, I think it's quite common, especially after the past couple of years where asian culture has seemed to become a trend with Kpop, Asian makeup, asian fashion, etc…
i have this too. yes it absolutely can. i have felt ugly the majority of my life and often struggle to know what looks good on me. so i end up following trends and styles that look good on other peopl…