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Therapy is not going well, I don't know what to ask for or where to redirect sessions. — I came here seeking advice for a different path to try or how to ask for or seek the right help, even if it's outside of therapy. This post grew and grew as I found myself struggling to describe what …
AWS network automation — I find myself in a funny position to redo part of the network in AWS. We have two parts: one is newer and uses transit gateways that are centralized in a single account, the other is older and vpc pee…
JSON-LD by llana Davis — I am newer to SEO and stumbled across this app via ChatGBT. My 7-day trial ends in the next two days and then we’ll be charged the $400 annual charge. Before we commit though, has anyone (or does an…
Voice-to-text recs for sales professionals — Happy Monday killers! Hope everyone's crushing their quota this quarter. So, I've been in sales for about 5 years now, mostly SDR roles, and I'm starting to feel it. My wrists are *screaming*. All th…
Physical Reaction — I will try to keep the backstory short. I had not known anxious attachment was a thing or that one of my coworkers had become one of only a couple people I really felt a deep connection to, until a f…
Understanding Infidelity — Last year, I (25M) broke up with my now ex girlfriend (26F). We were together for 3 years and were living together at the time, but I discovered that she was cheating on me with a coworker of hers for…
A couple great tips for easier Revision. — Revision is an extremely important yet underrated technique. After going through an event that "future" manifesting just wouldn't solve, I knew the only thing that would fix this situation is to chang…
Don’t you fear being too isolated? — I recently got rejected by a girl that I really liked. We started off as very good friends and unfortunately I caught feelings for her. So right now, I’m grieving the fact that I lost a really close f…
I (21M) have survived two decades of severe physical, emotional, and financial abuse from my Indian parents. I'm finally exhausted and need to tell my story. I am not free yet. — # TL;DR: I'm a 20-year-old only child in India who has endured severe physical, verbal, emotional, and financial abuse from my parents since toddlerhood. They have beaten me, medically neglected me, …
Why do people on shifting subs avoid sleeping methods? — Most successful shifters I know use some variation of WBTB, lucid dreaming, astral projection, or just shifting when they are already super tired. It is pretty obvious there are common threads between…
The best thing about more Filipino representation in media? — Growing up, the biggest name for Filipinos in the west was Rob Schneider. I'm sure the newer generation doesn't even know who that is nowadays.
He asked for a divorce… after “upgrading” everything I owned — I’ve been married for 6 years, and out of nowhere, my husband tells me he wants a divorce. No buildup, no real warning... just dropped it like it’s nothing. What’s messing with my head is everythin…
The ACTUAL reality regarding interracial dating for Asian men in the West — I wasn't intending to make this post but was forced to after this post to set the record straight after the below doomer information was posted [https://www.reddit.com/r/AsianMasculinity/comments/1s…
My mum is a pedophile — It took me 7 years to finally realise that my mum was a straight up pedophile and I still have to live with that women.What made me realise was multiple incident, the worst one when I was 10-13. She w…
How do I keep going? — About 8 months post-separation now. Stuck on the other side of the country from family for medical training after my wife cheated on me while I was applying to residency - chose to stay as a compromis…
My ex is getting remarried tomorrow — My ex is getting remarried tomorrow. Today he sent me a text “I’ll never understand your choices” and “I would have always fought for my family”. He says this because I’m the one who initiated the d…
My ex's new girlfriend is 10 years younger and it's making me spiral about how I look. — I know this is unhealthy. I know comparison is the thief of joy. I know I should be above this. But my ex is now dating a 28 year old and I'm 39 and I've never felt uglier in my life. not because she…
What do I do now? — \*\*TL;DR;\*\* Context: we (Me M27) are coworkers who met through work approx 1.5 years ago, initially I was in a different department but returned about 9 months ago. Thought we were friends but su…
Trying to decide between 2 women and I’m stuck. — I’m dating 2 women at the same time, we’ll label them Option A and B. A: a woman I’ve been with for several years, though the last few have been us on & off. B: a woman I’ve been seeing for about 7 …
Just read that post "nobody warns you your trauma surfaces in your 30's" and it's got me quite scared — I'm 26, and this past year has honestly been the best year Ive ever experienced in terms of healing/growth from trauma. shifts I've made: 1) no longer externally referenced 2) individuation begin…
Written Chinese names for Korean/Japanese/Vietnamese people - Do you systematically follow this tradition? — As a Taiwanese person who has always had a written Chinese name, I find it charming to see how my Japanese/Korean/Vietnamese acquaintances' names can be formatted in Chinese characters, compatible wit…
Who else puts up with technologically-illiterate narc parents? — My ndad is one of those boomers who barely knows how to use basic tech like printers, computers, and certain smartphone features. And teaching him is a pain! Whenever I show him how to fix something,…
NB19 feeling overwhelmed by partner M23s friend. m35. How do I set boundaries without damaging the relationship? — So I’m NB19 in a newer relationship (officially two months as of yesterday) with my partner M23 and I was pretty decently happy about it. We met online and I have known this guy for a few years, we go…
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Text of original post by u/upernikos: I will try to keep the backstory short. I had not known anxious attachment was a thing or that one of my coworkers had become one of only a couple people I reall…
That's really interesting. How did you get the first sensation to mostly stop? And what do you do now with newer smaller sensation?
Hey, thank you for your thoughtful response. I definitely don’t want to sink into victimhood or act like I don’t have any agency. I do have other friends as well, they are just newer friendships that,…
If you want effort, you should be clear about your intentions, especially if it’s a newer relationship. You should have said, “I want to go out on Valentine’s Day, can you plan something?” and then as…
Single with no plans for Valentine’s Day. Broke AF and stretched my finances thin this paycheck til I get paid Wed, (bills and a spontaneous 3ish hr away concert), but should have enough for going out…
Note there's a newer thread
Went out for dinner and drinks with a couple awesome 40F newer friends over the weekend including the one who asked me out for coffee 1:1 recently who I hope might like me. Regretfully I got sick last…
I am the same way. Like I can look at a man and think he’s attracted but after this relationship. It took all my energy and now I have this newer and shinier energy that idk if I want to give that to …
Had a pretty amazing day hanging out with a newer friend (40?F) 1:1 finally after me or her getting sick and having to postpone previous attempts, and until now have only gone out together with mutual…
A healthy relationship, in a nutshell, should be you and your partner vs The Problem. In a compromise, you should both feel like you’re mindful of each others’ needs while staying true to your own. …
I have. Family services as well. Both told me that this is a newer problem, so there aren’t really defined lines on how to deal with it yet unless I show egregious misuse, which I’m trying to document…
I believe the newer focus level are already on the Expand app. You can toggle between hemi-sync and Monroe Sound Science with Focus 10,12,15,18, and 21. They are unguided though.
He had a dog and he got a newer rescue dog and the newer dog attacked his face leaving a scar and the old dog defended him by attacking the newer dog to stop him... And the guy turned on the old dog. …
It probably isn't 8 years of him feeling that way, though. Id say maybe the last year or two at best, or else he mightve tested her earlier, and him pulling away physically is only a newer thing from …
Im curious since its newer what the turnout would be like.
I struggle with the exact same issue and the only thing I do is 1) meditate 2) notice the pattern each time it arises and sometimes I investigate the logic and beliefs behind that and it leads to new …
You've discovered the age old ailment that empty-minded meditation is used to treat. Our minds might be running on newer software every generation, but our hardware and BIOS is very, very old and con…
That’s a really interesting way to describe it. The comparison to old hardware running newer software actually makes a lot of sense. Our environment has changed incredibly fast but our minds probably…
I was on acid once , got 2 hits from a party and took it ,after I got home, minutes later after I took the tabs they start to shift and realized it was about 4-5 different tabs stuck together and they…
I think ai is an unnecessary expense that encourages users to Avoid developing skills that they need to shift such as visualization. I've noticed many newer shifters embrace genai, then those same peo…
If you're from an East Asian family - there's belief in Feng Shui, that old clothes contain the "qi"/energy of the last wearer. It's a thought that "you can bring the bad energy of someone else's life…
Grief, sorrow, despair, call it whatever you want, they are all the same emotion, driven by cortisol. Chronic PTSD can create an epigenetic change, for some of us, in how our RNA manages cortisol. The…
This sounds like some of the newer associations from modern astrology. The association between zodiac signs and particular figures, like the father, is contested. The 4th house (whatever sign it falls…
Exactly. Settling for less is besides the point of manifestation, IMO. If OP wants an apology they should be able to have it, or should they just drop all their current friendships too to get newer le…
I kind of agree. Personality and having game matters but I think with the newer generation sexual attraction which mostly base on looks sometimes just outweighs it. it's like the person decides in fe…
For the newer folks I'll also add, I know some periods of life will just be rough. Sometimes we can hear these things and think it means we need to avoid or push down our negative emotions, and that w…
I tried really really hard to like it but it’s too messy for me and I don’t want to do it the shower because it grosses me out. I’m waiting for a newer, more precise models to come out.
The selfish vanity and blatant disregard for your finances and your own previous arrangements would have me showing her the door. People like her are empty shells and she’d trade you in for a newer mo…
I should hope so too! Time to get a newer hybrid, you gotta be over 55 to drive a Prius my friend.
Yeah I expected something worse and more problematic when checking the downvoted reply. My best guess is the downvotes are hating on the recommendation to use AI But summarizing big amount of data is…
I think Jammin' in New York was really the comedy special that I started out on George with. It's what was on the TV growing up. After that I really watched anything he did that I came across, whethe…
For me, stories about what's happening at work almost always tie back to my own emotional state. Like, my receptionist is pregnant, and I'm very happy for her but I'm also dealing with my own feelings…
Gently, I understand getting to a place of self-loathing because of shame. It's normal and human. However, self-flagellation is a continuation of the harm, both to yourself AND to your husband, becau…
I appreciate your reply and that you have a different opinion! Apologies if my formatting isn’t as nice as yours lol I’m relatively newer to reddit and use mobile. I do disagree with some points you…
What's your method to having an OBE? I'm newer. Been at it for maybe 8 weeks. I've had 2 phenomenal ones similar to you experienced but didn't leave my house. I got too excited when my cat saw and was…
This gives me hope for newer generations, but also makes me annoyed at my GenX Mom for continuing to be uninterested and disappointed in everything about me. She moved here at 8 years old as a refugee…
Are you sure? He isn’t doing things like telling you you’re being “oversensitive” or “irrational” when you express a feeling? He treats you as equally intelligent and capable as he sees himself? …
“Homey” means welcoming and feeling at home—the word is much newer, dating only to the mid 1800s. “Homely” has always meant unattractive, was first recorded in the 1300s, and originated in the Middle …
The flaw in your proposition is the "this whole time" part, like some come-to-Jesus moment where they "get it". When they're prompted to feel shame, feel humiliated, trapped in a corner, experience a…
You’re not missing anything. While this is a newer term, the practice isn’t new. Different strokes for different folks. I wouldn’t be compatible with it and it doesn’t sound like you are either. …
Result of decades of Asian American culture being defined by Joy Luck Club and the like Also if you’re talking about 1.5 (immigrated as kids) and 2nd generation Asian Americans being much more chill,…
I agree and relate completely with your “anxious eventually shifts to avoidant within relatively stable relationships” theory. Newer relationships are more likely to trigger my anxiety than my family…
ALSO, it sounds like you’re taking on the role of housewife and full time working mom. Coming from a now housewife that was also a full time working single mom. Your workload isn’t any different than …
The only historical fact I’ve got from you so far is he coined the term —combining binaural beats, breathwork, mantra, and yoga nidra, but invented nothing new. REBAL is just another aspect of the lig…
Start with frequency, states and neville and the promise. Try the newer ones.
Yup, I have went deep into that rabbit hole, I read a bunch of books, not just for yogic philosophy, but others too.. I spent a bunch of time understanding stoicism, Buddhism, hinduism, sufism, old Eg…
My mother got me the generic, white, basic kitchenaid mixer. Great gift, but newer versions were out. I’d asked why not the larger one I’d asked for. The response was that she would never buy me anyt…
Yes and no. Mostly yes. Let me explain. I have always loved cats and Mr. Bean, so my mother buys me cat-themed gifts, mostly from Temu these days. I asked for an Ulta gift card for Xmas and my birthd…
This is not true. Newer research proves this untrue.