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Mating in Captivity
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Does this have to do with my attachment style or is it normal?
Esther Perel wrote a pretty famous book about this titled "Mating in Captivity". On some level I think it's a human conundrum. A safe, secure relationship does not necessarily make for a thrilling…
r/attachment_theorycomment10/30/2025
Does this have to do with my attachment style or is it normal?
Read Esther Perel Mating in Captivity. It’s great reading on this.
r/attachment_theorycomment10/31/2025
Does this have to do with my attachment style or is it normal?
I recommend Mating in Captivity by Esther perrell :)
r/attachment_theorycomment10/31/2025
why are they able to put in more effort with the affair partner than in their own relationship?
The book Mating in Captivity has some of the answers you are looking for.
r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/14/2026
I cheated on my husband (online) and want to leave this behind me.
Read “mating in captivity” by Esther perel.
r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/28/2026
I (29F) slept with new guy (34M) for the first time and felt he was rude to me. Was he?
Heyy, first of all - I think you did everything with a lot of respect and good intention for both of your parts. I'm sorry that he was so disappointing after sex - that was nothing to do with you, and…
r/relationship_advicecomment3/30/2026