as much as she needs

Idk if I'm anxious or I just get triggered by the right (wrong?) person, but: Tbf and imo, the "as much as she needs" is just a nice way to say "i'm making this easy for you, but please don't take lo…

How much space do DA avoidants need when deactivating? — I (M,21, Secure) and my *girlfriend* (F, 21, DA), been dating for 6 months (however both agreed to not proclaim it a relationship yet) and right about 6 month mark she began deactivating (sudde…

You told her you'll wait "as much as she needs" - but aren't you losing yourself? Shouldn't you have some boundaries? I thought that's what secure attaches have naturally. I don't, I am an insecure (a…