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You know what sucks about being in the process of healing your attachment type? Dating someone who has no idea they have an insecure attachment and you're just wasting all that hard-earned security on someone who doesn't care

Wow that is amazing. You should be super proud! I'm also fearful avoidant, and have a similar timeline as you. Did the same to communicate, stay present and pushing down the ick during a long 8 month …

r/attachment_theorycomment7/9/2025
Is Getting Ripped Apart Normal in Product Design?

Is Getting Ripped Apart Normal in Product Design? — I’m new to product design, and at this startup, I wear both the product designer and product manager hats. I meet regularly with the CEO (my boss), and during our sessions, we review the website and r…

r/UXDesignpost5/1/2025
Feeling stuck between a promo and burnout - advice?

Feeling stuck between a promo and burnout - advice? — I'm approaching 5 years at my current company (2 years as junior, 3 as mid-level) and am submitting a promotion case for Senior. I won't hear back for a couple months - my director feels optimistic, b…

r/UXDesignpost5/1/2025
Fav Motion prototyping tools

Fav Motion prototyping tools — Hi there, I’m a product designer looking to get better at prototyping so that I can better communicate my designs to engineers and leadership. What are tools you like using other than what Figma alr…

r/UXDesignpost5/2/2025
What does your design director do?

What does your design director do? — I'm an IC product designer and a bit mystified by higher level design leadership. I've been looking at job descriptions for design directors, and they'll say things like "drive [company]'s product des…

r/UXDesignpost5/2/2025
Dreaming of Full Time Freelance Consulting in SaaS B2B (I will not promote)

Dreaming of Full Time Freelance Consulting in SaaS B2B (I will not promote) — Hi r/startups, I’m in the process of developing a consulting service designed specifically for startups, from Pre-Seed all the way to Series B. The idea is to offer a practical, hands-on partner for …

r/startupspost5/3/2025
Looking to transition to Europe as a Senior Product Designer from Canada

Looking to transition to Europe as a Senior Product Designer from Canada — As the title says, Is this something thats possible and what is the current demand like for Product Designers in Europe? I'm currently looking to gain new experiences within my role as a Senior Prod…

r/UXDesignpost5/4/2025
Scaling from solo founder to teams of 3-5+ (I will not promote)

Scaling from solo founder to teams of 3-5+ (I will not promote) — I will not promote! What leadership issues have you guys faced going from yourself to small teams, when scaling? Currently researching this transition phase for my own learning (former military, now…

r/startupspost5/5/2025
Considering a move from big tech to a small company. Worth the risk?

Considering a move from big tech to a small company. Worth the risk? — I know this sub leans junior, but hoping to get some advice from senior folks. Especially people in Bay Area, NYC, or Seattle-type tech scenes. Tagging this as Job Search and not Senior Only because I…

r/UXDesignpost5/6/2025
UX Management

UX Management — For a long time I’ve been more interested in design over management. I’m sensing that’s starting change. I’m becoming more interested in a leadership role. Me: I’m a senior with 10 years of UX exper…

r/UXDesignpost5/7/2025
Ever feel like you’re doing all the right things in business, but still wrestling with doubt, decision fatigue, or just low-level burnout?

Ever feel like you’re doing all the right things in business, but still wrestling with doubt, decision fatigue, or just low-level burnout? — You’ve got the strategy. You’ve read the books. You’re pushing forward... but something’s off. What I’ve noticed in myself (and in others I work with) is this: It’s not always about more knowle…

r/Entrepreneurpost5/7/2025
Spent 1 year solving a problem users “loved” but wouldn’t pay for: my learnings [I will not promote]

Spent 1 year solving a problem users “loved” but wouldn’t pay for: my learnings [I will not promote] — We are 2 years into building our SaaS, but spent 1 year building something people “loved”, “were excited about”... yet did not pay for. Since then, we have slightly pivoted and gained traction, but I …

r/startupspost5/7/2025
Organization lost access to website

Organization lost access to website — (Edit: mostly solved. Consensus is there isn't a good process to reclaim a site that has been lost. Open to other thoughts, but thank you to everyone who has offered their advice already!) I've been …

r/Wordpresspost5/7/2025
Women keep telling me I need to date younger and now my daughter has too.

Women keep telling me I need to date younger and now my daughter has too. — I (39m) look young for my age and have been dating for the last 4 years. I have mostly dated women in their 30s and about half of them have told me to date someone younger after things didn’t work bet…

r/datingoverthirtypost3/1/2026
Workers at Asian Americans Advancing Justice are striking for fair wages!

Workers at Asian Americans Advancing Justice are striking for fair wages! — For more information on why they are striking, visit their union’s instagram @aajcollective. Please support our nonprofit workers and send a letter of support to leadership using the link above! It is…

r/AsianAmericanpost3/11/2026
Husband suddenly wants to end our marriage and says it’s because of sex. We have a toddler. I also discovered he’s been dishonest about where he’s been. Looking for perspective.

Husband suddenly wants to end our marriage and says it’s because of sex. We have a toddler. I also discovered he’s been dishonest about where he’s been. Looking for perspective. — I’m 39F and my husband (34M) and I have been married a little over 3 years. We have a toddler (2). Recently, completely out of nowhere, he told me he thinks we’re “not compatible” and started talking…

r/Divorcepost3/14/2026
Writing about my experience with Iboga medicine 🌱

Writing about my experience with Iboga medicine 🌱 — Earlier I made a post and someone commented that they didn't want to watch a video. Understood! Here is an account of what I saw during my time with ceremony number one with iboga. It was not what I i…

r/Psychonautpost3/25/2026
Why don’t I relate to my sun sign (Aries) at all?

Why don’t I relate to my sun sign (Aries) at all? — As a kid I didn’t believe in astrology for the sole fact that aries didn’t describe me at all. I am 25 now and that still hasn’t changed. I’ve learned about moon and rising signs and both fit me perfe…

r/AskAstrologerspost3/31/2026
The importance of Asian male role models

The importance of Asian male role models — I'm a long time lurker and I'd like to share my perspective as a half Asian millennial guy in the US. Having strong Asian male role models has been key to my development as a person. My dad was Chine…

r/AsianMasculinitypost4/1/2026
How do i come to terms with being by myself?

How do i come to terms with being by myself? — As someone with a litany of mental health diagnoses its really hard to confide in people without making them uncomfortable/tired of me or getting them to understand how i feel or think. Ive ruined fri…

r/therapypost4/5/2026
Free Claude artifact: 90+ daily leadership lessons from 20+ books!

Free Claude artifact: 90+ daily leadership lessons from 20+ books! — Hey everyone, I’ve had an ongoing reading list sitting since at least 2020 that I kept adding to and honestly kept forgetting what I’d already read. I got through about 75% of them but realized I wasn…

r/selfhelppost4/5/2026
partner of four years broke things off out of nowhere. her friends hate me now and i wish i could just go back in time

partner of four years broke things off out of nowhere. her friends hate me now and i wish i could just go back in time — Me and her went through some of the hardest events in both of our lives together. we made it through a breakup already, (we thought we would end up being long distance for college, she ended up at the…

r/BreakUpspost4/6/2026
the big dream of moving out

the big dream of moving out — Moving out seems like such a no brainer, especially when you're already an adult and financially independent. But for me, it always seemed unachievable. For the longest time I was so deep in it, I gas…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/8/2026
Survive or maybe so? I just want to let it out my feelings

Survive or maybe so? I just want to let it out my feelings — You know I beg, I plead, and I ask them if we can talk like adults. Even though I shouldn't be part of this situation, I involve myself because I don't want to lose them. I love them both, but do they…

r/therapypost4/10/2026
i hate my life so much and i don't know what to do

i hate my life so much and i don't know what to do — i'm in my senior year of highschool and i just hate myself and my life so much what the hell am i doing. i'm a horrible student. half my grades are b's. i'm painfully average and i study most of the …

r/selfhelppost4/11/2026
Fox TV’s July 1994 “Encounters” Report on the CE-5 Initiative: UFO Intelligence Didn’t Follow the Script: After filming a conclusion stating that no UFOs were seen, three appeared over a distant ridgeline. Joseph Burkes MD

Fox TV’s July 1994 “Encounters” Report on the CE-5 Initiative: UFO Intelligence Didn’t Follow the Script: After filming a conclusion stating that no UFOs were seen, three appeared over a distant ridgeline. Joseph Burkes MD — Fox TV’s July 1994 “Encounters” Report on the CE-5 Initiative: UFO Intelligence Didn’t Follow the Script: After filming a conclusion stating that no UFOs were seen, three appeared over a distant ridge…

r/experiencerspost4/11/2026
I'm a Taiwanese-American scientist running for Congress in CA-32. Another candidate called me a Chinese spy and asked a rival campaign to act on it. Here are all the receipts.

I'm a Taiwanese-American scientist running for Congress in CA-32. Another candidate called me a Chinese spy and asked a rival campaign to act on it. Here are all the receipts. — **Edit 2**: The full unedited video of the forum I attended on April 8, 2026, less than two hours after seeing the March 5-6 texts from Anna Wilding is now live on YouTube. I showed up, I did my job, …

r/AsianAmericanpost4/11/2026
CPTSD — Trauma is taking me forever to get rid of

CPTSD — Trauma is taking me forever to get rid of — hey guys, i wanted to share my story, vent, and get some advice. so growing up, i have felt depressed/severely anxious almost my whole life! people surprisingly call me one of the happiest people …

r/CPTSDpost4/13/2026
Why did it take OpenAI 24 hours to roll back a faulty model?

There's all sorts of reasons why it might take that long, though I'd echo that 24 hours doesn't seem that long to me considering their scale of operations. Ignoring all of the technical side of thin…

r/DevOpscomment5/4/2025
LLMs ('AI') are coming for our jobs whether or not they work - Chris's Wiki

That take hits harder than most AI doom threads. >“In most non-tech organizations, internal dev and sysadmin is like janitorial services…” And that’s exactly why LLMs don’t have to be perfect, they …

r/DevOpscomment5/5/2025
Do your deploy dashboards ever show business impact, or just health checks?

Hey. A separate team handles this sort of thing, I handle other works but we are interested in this as a business. Feature flagging - Yes this is widely used and they pull metrics and try to correla…

r/DevOpscomment5/8/2025
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Is there an autistic women’s guide to dating? The trouble is I’m successful in every other area of my life. I have lots of friends and am in a leadership role at work. It’s not like I don’t understand…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/21/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Early 30s (M) long term relationship ended late last year, trying to recover and get back out there. Work takes a lot of my time and as a result I tend to gravitate towards people there. Problem is I…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/21/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 27, 2026

Ah, I see the "difficulty finding someone with an equally active lifestyle" a lot. I could see how that's difficult. I think a lot of people like to slow-down heading into middle-age, so it's tough. …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/27/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 27, 2026

You make great points and I do agree with being careful about giving up on a potential match to quickly. I usually have a minimum two date rule if there's any potential. Unfortunately in her particul…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/28/2026
Is there anything in current astrology that indicates something like a global lockdown coming up?

Tbh the US has a natal Aquarius Moon n Pluto is slowly but surely moving towards it. Not cute at all tbh. I think it will be somebody getting killed or like mass pandemonium with groups of people, n U…

r/astrologycomment3/3/2026
Does strong energy field scare people subconsciously, here is my experience

We tend to seek common ground as a species. This is why a friend introducing you to someone you don't know is more of an immediate acceptance on both parts because you both know someone in common and …

r/energy_workcomment3/8/2026
Alysa Liu on Eileen Gu “Y’all would have told her to go back to China. Now that they’re back in China, you’re mad.”

That’s why I’m completely team Eileen. If America actually accepted Asians, put us in their movies, let us occupy leadership roles at corporations and in politics, etc they might have some point. Bu…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/8/2026
Brain Drain

The South China Morning Post (SCMP) has been accused of using its editorial platform to manufacture positive sentiment toward China while frequently publishing hit pieces targeting the United States. …

r/AsianAmericancomment3/9/2026
Recommend podcasts / videos about healthy male roles and positive masculinity

The Art of Manliness!!! It’s a great podcast that focuses on leadership, good habits, healthy marriages, mental health, career advice, financial success, etc.

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/9/2026
Letting go of LUST

Same group. Sivananda's acolyte Vishnudevananda, who was famous and brought it all to the West and wrote a bunch of books himself is who is accused of sexual assault. \*No accusations of wrongdoing …

r/Meditationcomment3/9/2026
Are there any “they can do no wrong” placements?

Sun conjuncts Jupiter and Venus and Mercury in Scorpio here. Big personality, and in the 10th house even... Have had a bit of trouble with humility at workplaces. Or rather, they have trouble with…

r/astrologycomment3/9/2026
Healing is noticing abuse in REAL time.

Also, setting boundaries and respectfully asserting yourself in these situations is a SKILL. It’s one I never learned. I am in the thick of it right now! I am in a leadership position with a person wh…

r/Codependencycomment3/10/2026
Rant about Asian American access to education in NYC

Prep school has a specific meaning and it’s not the one you intend. For example—Dalton is a prep school and that is in fact elite. Probably enrichment, after school program, tutoring or extracurricula…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/11/2026
As an East Asian, I feel discriminated by colleagues

Racism is present a lot. So is abuse and discrimination. I think it has gotten a lot worse with Trump becoming president because he is racist, sexist, white supremacy supporting according to many new…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/12/2026
Were things better for Asian men 20 years ago or now?

Despite Trump and his supporters wanting to dial it back to old days when everyone ‘knew their place’, it’s definitely gotten better even with the challenges we’ve faced. More platonic and romantic in…

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/14/2026
6'4" ✅ Jacked ✅ Veteran ✅ CEO ✅ ... Dating Stills Sucks ✅

I dont think he is neither did I imply. Nobody is that insane (I hope). But most of usual list of /r/AM excuses. Excuses used almost every other post of height, toughness, leadership dont app…

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/15/2026
Major John Liu Fugh

Well upon changing “led” to “fled” then I guess he is not a descendent of KMT leadership. And to answer your question, historical correctness is not about knowing the events of history themselves but …

r/AsianAmericancomment3/15/2026
Major John Liu Fugh

ok but what did I specifically say that was incorrect? its not a trick question. Putting aside some of the comments where I may have been more flippant. I don't buy into this idea that everyone who…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/15/2026
Major John Liu Fugh

So many ignorant hateful comments below. OOP please don’t feel discouraged by these Redditors. There is still much good in the world. Do not give in to the petty squabbles of Redditors. I’m happy to…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/15/2026
Major John Liu Fugh

Of course this will be downvoted based on what I’ve seen in this thread, but my dad was the first of three generations of Chinese-Americans to serve in United States Army, commissioning as a 2nd Lieut…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/16/2026
What in someone's chart might reflect a "I'll just do it myself" sort of nature?

Echoing strong a Mars placement. I spent a long time thinking about the fact that I always end up in leadership positions even if I don’t intend to. I prefer to stay in the background and not bring…

r/astrologycomment3/16/2026
So I'm a bit confused how does capricorn represent the father if it a feminine sign wouldn't it make more since for leo to represent the father since it ruled by the sun and cancer rules the moon so there like yin and yang in way

I would say that Capricorn has some very admirable masculine traits, like determination and forward-thinking, and has a remarkable ability to balance efficiency, patience and ambition. And of course t…

r/astrologycomment3/18/2026
AM diversify your dating pool

Married would have sufficed if you needed to mention it at all. Most of what I’m hearing is sheer numbers, which won’t get us there and without a unifying sense of community. Without it there is very…

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/18/2026
AM diversify your dating pool

Demographics are the first step. East Asian passing people have some of the highest rates of out-marriage. Things like political, media, and corporate leadership is more possible if there is at leas…

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/18/2026
I don't get stereotypes and their relation to Sun signs?

You're actually picking up on something that took a lot of astrologers years to articulate properly. The Sun sign became the "default" stereotype because newspaper horoscopes in the 1930s needed somet…

r/astrologycomment3/19/2026
How do I (M22) explain to my girlfriend (F20) that I have a substantial amount of money?

I’m so sorry about your father. I would not tell her about your finances this early in the relationship. You are young, this is your first relationship and you want her to be dating you and not your…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/19/2026
Despite every effort, I'm developing feelings for my boss. Am I cooked?

As someone who had a crush on a guy at a dog park and i was trying everything not to, i found that it’s mostly the mystery you formed around him that makes you crush harder. The more questions i conju…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/19/2026
How do I (F26) talk to my partner (M33) about casual misogyny?

I will offer a counterpoint from a man's perspective. Women have nesting instincts that men don't, and want more controlled environments because of this. Men have the natural urge to present themselve…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/19/2026
The Gift of Fear by Gavin De Becker

Can you elaborate on this? Is it because men typically have the power in the situation and can coerce women but not v.v. because... ... typically many of the assertive qualities we associate with mal…

r/CPTSDcomment3/20/2026
You're not allowed to be angry. You're not allowed to feel your emotions.

yup and in corporate - expect to endure emotions from leadership

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/21/2026
Have any of you ever done psychedelics at work or went to work a day after tripping?

No, but my last, very challenging psychedelic trip revealed to me (among other things) that I'm essentially wasting my life at my current (or rather, former) job because it doesn't align with any of m…

r/Psychonautcomment3/22/2026
My partner (f34) “quiet quit” our relationship and I (m37) need closure.

Im in a similar boat, 34F with my soon to be ex 38M fiance. Weve been engaged for 1.5yrs. Rented a huge house with my daughter for about 8months. We were settling down, we had our own share of respons…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/22/2026
A lot of parents give their children mental disorders then pretend as if it's the child's fault.

Lol my mom joined leadership for our local NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness) chapter after I went to the mental hospital several times and was telling the people there about what my mom was r…

r/CPTSDcomment3/22/2026
"Men Can't Be Men Anymore"

To answer "What am I missing here?": Speaking only to my own personal experience in the corporate world.  There is a tendency in many companies to encourage equal outcome as opposed to equal oppor…

r/Stoicismcomment3/23/2026
"Men Can't Be Men Anymore"

Having been in the corporate world for 20 years, I would argue this is more perception than reality. There has been a lot of talk about getting women into leadership, but no meaningful change. A lot o…

r/Stoicismcomment3/23/2026
"Men Can't Be Men Anymore"

Girls have been outperforming boys in school for at least 100 years. [https://time.com/81355/girls-beat-boys-in-every-subject-and-they-have-for-a-century/](https://time.com/81355/girls-beat-boys-in-e…

r/Stoicismcomment3/23/2026
Schools Hire Asian Teachers at Half the Rate of Other Groups, Re.search Finds

I'm doing my dissertation on Asian American teachers (Educational Leadership) as an AAPI teacher myself. We make up less than 2.5% of the entire teaching population and most of that is female. Femal…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/23/2026
Why MAGA 2.0 Hates Legal Immigration Too

Love Hasan's commentary and love this video. This is why the model minority myth isn't good for us and why we should push against it whenever possible. The generalization that Asians are high achiever…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/24/2026
Schools Hire Asian Teachers at Half the Rate of Other Groups, Re.search Finds

Sadly, this is the prevailing view of Asians in most left organizing spaces. I was involved with an org during the height of anti-Asian hate crimes, and spoke to the leadership about putting together …

r/AsianAmericancomment3/24/2026
Will those with “difficult placements” always struggle throughout their lifetime?

I have a plethora of difficult placements. Sun Square pluto 12th house sun 7th House Saturn Mars in Cancer Saturn opposite chiron + Ascendant Capricorn Moon In some charts, my Moon squares Venus. S…

r/astrologycomment3/25/2026
Welp… that’s it. It’s officially over.

it isnt *for* him or to win him back. i just wish he was able to be a part of the journey🤍 he left february 24th. i worked every single day afterward up until march 22nd. a lot of 10-12 hour days. pr…

r/BreakUpscomment3/25/2026
Did anyone else's parents never teach you literally any basic life skills at all. And then turn around and mock you for not knowing them

Yes. I grew up in a home without guidance or leadership and was left to figure things out on my own. I was also expected to magically know things there were never taught to me nor modeled for me.

r/CPTSDcomment3/26/2026
My GF (22F) told her parents about my (24M) secret financial situation

Yeah, sorry, no dramatic "rich person drama" caused the end. As we both matured out of college, our professional work-life balance goals diverged enough that I felt she didn't have the bandwidth to b…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/27/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 28, 2026

i like that you put the bit about leadership up top, i think it will be a big hit with women

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/28/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 28, 2026

I like it! Particularly the leadership prompt and the bulleted list one :). I think this is a good profile because it gives lots of hooks to engage with you!

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/28/2026
Tell me your manifestation techniques that always works !!

Manifestation is different for everyone, but I manifest best by doing. As an example, I wanted a new job, so I took actions like cleaning out my closet to align with an in-person job (after working re…

r/Manifestationcomment3/29/2026