book
AT YouTube
Evidence
Citations (20)
Attachment Theory can have you see things. Suddenly, every other song I heard was about anxiously attached meets avoidant. I cried to a song I used to think was cheesy, thinking I finally understood…
Why the fuck do people joyfully reminisce about being abused online? — I'll just be watching some random video, not related to child abuse, abuse survivors, and abusive parents, and I'll find one comment, \*multiple\* comments happily recounting "Oh, this cat swatting th…
My man, I feel that deeply, as a FA myself, who seems to exclusively date other FA or avoidants. You need to start here, TheLoveChat Youtube: https://youtu.be/H8yRnR3iYA8?feature=shared - this man h…
You deserve better than the way he has/is treating you. Seems like he wants your attention even after things are over. Sorry you’re going through this. Reminds me of that YouTuber who embroiders d…
The question isn't what niche to pick. The question is what you can't stop talking about. I see this with subjects who want to start something new - they look outward for what's popular, what makes…
So, here in the US, we have therapists that will label themselves as “mental health coaches” to serve patients outside of their state, but are licensed in their home state (and thus more qualified to …
Op-I have a feeling your Dad never taught you what wealthy people are taught; never talk about money, it isn’t polite. Not that I have ever been wealthy or have any wealthy people in my family. Bu…
There are two great YouTube channels that could provide a broader lens through which to view what’s happening. They are GFL Station and Sarah Shook. Both are relatively clear conduits. You do not need…
I happen to be fortunate enough to have an excellent therapist who has helped me a ton. But you're right access is severely limited. That's one of the reasons I think that people on their healing jou…
This is the most important role that the narcissistic family system has, and the illusion of a “group“ couldn’t function without it. I have the same role in my family system, and I found out that it …
Look for the VELO technique, 3x a day, for 15 min each, should at the very least make that entity keep his distance, if not go away entirely. Look at YouTube VELO Nanci Trivellato
I wonder if there’s any concrete evidence that YouTube actually degrades the experience. Based on my understanding of how hemisync works, I don’t see that it is terribly susceptible to compression iss…
CBT and DBT barely did much for me. I had to go through about 20 or so therapists just to have a small toolkit of things that DO work, but the recent switch to a trauma informed therapist specialize…
If you aren’t familiar with Rebecca Mandeville, I highly suggest her work. She’s got lots of great YouTube videos on this subject, as well as a book which is great, and a short and easy read. She brea…
I will look into these. I am familiar with that YouTube channel but only on a surface level. Thank you again!
Except for the fact that YouTube compresses the audio and you are not getting anywhere close to the full effect.
Small follow-up to my post yesterday. I waited until evening and, just as I'd hoped, got a response to my low-key check-in text. Now they're gone for the weekend and the more I think of it the more my…
> This reduction in rumination is brought to you by a video about Carl Jung and stopping thinking that YouTube decided to show me. Thanks, YouTube! One video or two different ones? I just got a video…
I recommend a place called The CTAD clinic for information. They have a great YouTube channel. There’s a lot of misinformation about it out there, so be careful what you read. Check your sources.
"she immediately brought up a joke my husband made" "She was furious." " we humiliated her in front of her friend" <===== Okay, first of all... these are DEFINITE type of clinically narcissitic mother…