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First, I want to give you a secret of ALL relationships: Break ups, when they happen, occur bit by bit with little "jabs", "negative comments" whether they are said out loud or just to yourself. Th…
Set out to launch my first e-commerce brand, feedback? — Looking for advice on a health and wellness business, A transdermal nootropic patch designed for biohackers, deep workers, and anyone looking for clean, all-day cognitive enhancement without the stim…
Asian erasure or something like that — This is a little vent post about this youtube short I just watched on the “viral no-water chicken soup”, which is like pretty obviously asian inspired based on the ingredients (if you search for this …
A simple example of how narcissists create no win situations. — My fil is a narcissistic abuser. I want to mention he did MUCH worse things than what I’m depicting below. But the example is so simple I wanted to share for people who maybe stuck in similarly confus…
Self improvement ideas that aren't wake up at 5am and take cold showers — If you need someone to tell you to drink water and journal at this point you haven't been on the internet. Here's stuff I never see in those threads that actually moved the needle. Tell someone speci…
Platonic composite chart — How does a composite chart of a platonic relationship or a friendship look like? I’ve read that composite chart is the container where independent people bring their natal chart ingredients and their …
My gf broke up with me — I'm an American 34 she's Thai 38, she was already stressed with her family and her debt so I totally understood her situation and was always there for her we've been dating for 8 months so the thing w…
You are calling the middle the end — You checked again, and nothing. Maybe a small part of you still expected something to have shifted by now. A message, some movement, anything. But the 3D looks exactly the same, so the conclusion fee…
I created a podcast to help further the conversation between science and spiritually - Here's Ep 1 of Inquisitive Spirit! — **EDIT: HAD TO REUPLOAD. USE THE LINK AT THE BOTTOM OF THIS POST** Hello fellow Wanderers, Almost a decade after my spiritual awakening, the genesis of my quest, I have only recently realized that …
help me manifest this guy i like — he just told me. how do i make him chase me (manifest the impossible basically) “he said im lovely but im not quite his type and that he is not interested” what is the best way to manifest? help im…
The guilt is consuming me and I don’t know what to do in my life situation. — My life conditions are pretty wild and I’ve been living in it gradually realising how messed up everything is. Not to be too long, I would say that my family has bad hygiene like really bad to a poin…
Self love through cooking date-night meals for myself has helped me immensely — Generally, I used to really detest myself, however things have slowly been getting better with therapy and separation from the main source of discord in my life. I say discord, but really my love is p…
My (38M) wife (35F) makes her life harder than it needs to be. — We are married with kids and life is busy. My wife is taking medication for depression and I suspect that she has ADHD as well. We spend much of our days keeping the kids under control and trying to m…
How do people manage everything? — I just don’t get it. Not only do I feel like I’m wasting my life away and not doing enough for jobs (internships, clubs, classes, etc.), but I’m also wasting so many opportunities to just live life (t…
Disagreement between me (F43) and husband (M49) over lunch invite — We have been together 16 years and married for nearly 7. We had planned to spend the day together on Sunday. On Saturday morning I suggested two activities to which he said no (which was fine). On Sa…
i hate my life so much and i don't know what to do — i'm in my senior year of highschool and i just hate myself and my life so much what the hell am i doing. i'm a horrible student. half my grades are b's. i'm painfully average and i study most of the …
I can feel my mind falling apart with every passing day- my mental health has never been this bad and I’m just so tired — At least not for a very long time. I am so easily triggered, being triggered leads to fits of rage and frustration that have been increasingly physical essentially being self harm. I find myself fatig…
Self improvement ideas that aren't taking a cold plunge or going for a run at 5 AM — If you need someone to tell you to drink water and journal at this point you haven't been on the internet. Here's what I never see in those threads that moved the needle for me. Compliment people wit…
first heartbreak at 32 - I get it now — I'm transgender and pretty heavily towards the asexual end of the spectrum. I only barely tried dating until last year, when I decided I might as well try for real before consigning myself to a life a…
Why are narcs always hoarders & why are all of their possessions always broken/in disrepair? — I guess this is a rhetorical question because it's pretty much a reflection of how broken they are as people, how little they care for anything but themselves and their inability to accept a loss of c…
At this point in your journey, I believe, you need two ingredients: grieving and not avoiding your emotions (somatic work, journaling, revisiting painful memories, allowing yourself to cry, etc) and s…
Free will is a fundational lense through which we experiment the world. We have the impression of free will. We hold ourself and other responsible for their actions. It seems impossible to think the w…
We dated last year for a few months, but ended it because we wanted different things (me a relationship, him, causal). We kept in touch for a bit and the stopped talking until last month. He reached o…
My first date i had with this person was coming over to his house and watching nature documentaries lol. Its usually a huge red flag, but we work nights so there's literally nothing for us to do bes…
You are right on. CK One perfume anyone? Black and white, long sleeve shirts with no volume etc? Skinny jeans, giant boots? Sigh, I am so dissapionted. I hated that area, and was RELIEVED when J-…
Have him walk through exactly how cooking together would work, including who plans the meal and who sources ingredients. Make sure you both agree to those details. If he doesn't stick to the plan or a…
And also the selfish specificity of it, to me. This is his memory to recreate for himself and his happy time. Not, like, his favorite bar to hang out with friends and here’s their stools and the ingre…
Not gonna lie, your mom might actually be the rational one here. Most of the candy in that box is basically a triumph of industrial food engineering. Stuff like artificial dyes (Red 40, Yellow 5, etc…
You know what's funny? The more that I read into this and the more posts I see on here, the more I see that cheaters follow a pattern. The ego and the narcissism to think that we, the betrayed, are so…
Muscle armoring and hyper vigilance are two of my most persistent symptoms. I'm working on unlearning the patterns of tension. Things that can help: Body movement to unlearn the pattern. Things like…
I think it’s highly unlikely that this exact recipe is a “ancestral”dish in any region outside of asia. These are ingredients that are were not widely available outside that region until relatively re…
Food is one of those things that is soo hard to prove its origin unless you have a clear evidence. It is shared across cultures, modified, changed, to the point it can become characteristically differ…
I should have been more specific that I was referring to the ingredients since you're not the first person to mention this. It's not a clear cut example of erasure but it's still really weird to insis…
I think OP was talking about TCM medicinal ingredients traditionally used to make tonics
Success needs a lot of factors to come together for somebody to truly stand out. Timing is paramount and the quality of a birth chart determines the eventual success or failure of a native. Every birt…
Absolutely. It’s the brownie experiment. This is real. A chef, in front of s class of students, prepared the world’s best brownies. She used the finest ingredients from around the world. Dutch …
my theory is that hoffman knew full well that LSD-25 was psychoactive. i've always found his story about going "whoops! i'm tripping! what a surprise!" to be a little unconvincing. the nazis had been…
In total I ingest 30 mg of affronextract, which is from the plant of saffron. Each capsules has 15 mg and 0,525 mg Leptiocrosalide. I take one after I eat in the morning and the other one before sleep…
In total I ingest 30 mg of affronextract, which is from the plant of saffron. Each capsules has 15 mg and 0,525 mg Leptiocrosalide. I take one after I eat in the morning and the other one before sleep…
Man, online dating is just like taco bell. Every profile I see now seems like the same 5 ingredients arranged in a slightly different way. I guess its "different" and "still food" but bleh. Also, when…
Thank you! Of course, I may do a post too on this I’m now thinking but I’ll write out exactly what I did as it may be helpful: Ingredients: Pen & paper Think about yourself and what you want to exper…
No to what? Adrenochrome harvesting theory IS Qanon/Pizzagate hogwash, through and through. And the very idea of harvesting adrenochrome from a human was likely nicked from the 1998 film *Fear and Loa…
Meanwhile the rest of world pride of not having ingredients from US
Cooking and cocktails. I was never much beyond the grill. When married I did cleanup and the exwife cooked. I've been buying fresh ingredients and making things myself to expand my knowledge. Same wi…
Food poisoning happens from western brands such as Chipotle who do not source ingredients from China. But people will still go. Something happened once in China more than a decade ago, and China will …
The usual. Working out- strength training is very important at our age. Orangetheory- people say hiit isnt good for perimenopausal women. Thats nonsense. I stopped and gained 15 pounds in 4 months. I …
As of 3 years ago, Chinese parents would rather get diapers [directly from Japan](https://qz.com/160028/japanese-diaper-makers-are-fighting-a-new-competitor-chinese-diaper-pirates) rather than locally…
That all sounds impressive. But you should know there is no such thing as medical grade skincare. That is a marketing term and not a regulated standard. In fact, there is no regulated standard for med…
> honest ones will tell you they really just don't know Almost no one knows because supplements aren't regulated by the FDA for doing what they claim. There are now independent labs that have done te…
Thank you! I learn something new! The ingredients in Dermatica, well some of them you can't find over the counter in the UK so they have to be prescribed. Or you buy them from a supplier like Dermatic…
I’m curious if part of the problem is that your wife is taking on the bulk of the mental load. You mentioned reaching out to ask who owns a task/what is more important, which is putting more work back…
Do you have the opportunity to Join a Local Sport ? I'm just thinking: Well, what if someone wants to be with you TODAY, as you are right now - are you Ready for it ? You gotta get ready for your …
That is wonderful advice and cooking is wonderful - yet as someone who has dealt with depression and sensory issues: COOKING IS HARD AF! It is not just cooking. It is also shopping, and cleaning, an…
The main ingredients in a bubble is air and water-another element. Air doesn’t need water to fixate upon itself as no element needs another element to fixate upon itself. The only example of naturally…
Personally, as someone that eats at restaurants instead of owning/operating them, I don't really care about "elevating" our food, I only care about being able to afford the foods I grew up eating. If …
Yup, Italian cuisine is mostly about simplicity, few ingredients, and letting each one shine. Chinese cuisines are usually about balance, transformation like wok hei, and harmony.
Because the kind of food that the article talks about are not fine dining Chinese food. They are just your average Chinese restaurant food. The fine dining Chinese food is the Buddha-jumping-walls, th…
They already doing it. By using "free range chicken" and "Wang beef", and ritualistically put ingredients in the soup by yourself (thus making it 过桥米线 as opposed to regular 米线), they can now [charge y…
I just want to be clear. When “elevated” was mentioned i did not imagine chinese banquet food. To me that isnt elevated. Its just a separate type of cuisine for an occasion. I regularly dine at such p…
I love being an adult bc i have my own money to buy all the ingredients to make my own snack concoctions. The injustice i used to feel as a child in the grocery store, only being allowed to choose one…
Hey! I'm 49f with auto-immune disease, and my bf is 34. If you have a bit of patience and understanding, things should be fine. I think the biggest thing my bf deals with, with me, is that I have a v…
was it "you can't cook chinese food because you're not 100% ethnically chinese" or "you can't cook chinese food because you're not a chinese resident physically in china with access to the correct ing…
I'm Chinese American too and native Chinese don't acknowledge me as Chinese either. I guess culturally I'm different from them but it really sucks not truly belonging anywhere. Ingredients can be bo…
There is plenty of Chinese food in the US that is made similar to how it is made in China (with some modest accommodations for availability of ingredients). You just have to go to the right restauran…
I’m really interested to understand this a bit more - if you like someone enough to be friends, find them attractive enough to sleep with and build physical intimacy with. What’s missing from that sit…
I hate that youve experienced this. Ive had similar things where my Chinese family are consistently surprised I know how to use chopsticks despite them having seen me grow up. Ive also heard this sen…
You can get past these things. If you personally can. I'm not sure I could. But I know she's got one of the most important ingredients. A conscience.
You're within and talking about the SF Bay enclave so you don't have a broad experience. So let me explain: 1. Chinese restaurants depend on the customers. If it's predominately White, it has to comp…
We split things in a way that on the surface seemed pretty even (eg. if we went out for dinner we split the bill), but I spent more because he stayed at my place 2-3 nights a week and didn't pay for g…
There is a deeply held belief that marketing is a "tax" paid for being unremarkable. If the food is exceptional, the "fragrance of the wine travels through the deep alley" (酒香不怕巷子深) Just like you sai…