← Back to Resources

book

You may be right

r/raisedbynarcissistsUpdated 30 days ago
1
mention

Evidence

Citations (17)

My sibling was killed last week

I am so sorry for your loss. We lost my husband's brother when he was 37- and his mom was AWFUL of course- I could write a whole book... I think my main takeaway was- they are not going to change. You…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/7/2026
first shifting story i encountered

first shifting story i encountered — When i was a little little kid like 6 or 7 yo(yeah 67 whatever). I vividly remember that between us kid we told ourselves a story. We never repeated it to adults because they wouldn't understand. We …

r/realityshiftingpost3/18/2026
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

Thank you so much for this detailed response! This was very helpful. I think you may be right about the place he is at right now. I like the idea of just observing behavior at this stage instead of ma…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment12/18/2025
DA Downplaying friendship

Yeah, I think you may be right. Loss may feel inevitable. When I was younger, I found new relationships including friendships exciting and full of potential, but I realized that they all ended in the …

r/attachment_theorycomment1/5/2026
I deactivated again while healing, wondering whether your experiences are similar

Thanks! That makes sense, yes. The page looks interesting, I'll check it out. It's strange to think of myself as traumatized because my past doesn't hurt, but I think you may be right.

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment2/6/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 09, 2026

>  If a crush has similar music tastes, then we are more likely to have other interests and alignments in other ways. This is actually a great example. You even use probabilistic language here. You …

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/9/2026
What is even going on?

I disagree with some of your other points, but I wanted to address point 1 specifically. You may be right that "apps kind of reward low-effort/high-volume behavior," but you can successfully use the …

r/datingoverfortycomment3/10/2026
If someone is repeatedly triggering you despite knowing what your triggers are is it emotional abuse?

I was going by when they said, "I dissociated - between my 'angry girl' and my 'architect'," but you may be right. I could be mistaken.

r/CPTSDcomment3/18/2026
What Standards to Reduce?

You may be right. Maybe I talk about work too much. IDK. Maybe I pick the wrong guys. Neither would surprise me. I’ll do some soul-searching on that.

r/datingoverfortycomment3/27/2026
r/Codependencycomment3/27/2026
Shouldn't I talk to these people ?

I guess I am talking to them to plant seeds, to push them into the process to wake up to their true nature. I don't believe its necessarily bad having conversations with someone regarding this, but yo…

r/AstralProjectioncomment3/31/2026
The method I used to reach the I AM state.

Yes, I believe I've reached the void state a few times as well, but this experience was far deeper than anything else. An infinite vacuum should be absolutely void as well, so you may be right. Then a…

r/nevillegoddardcomment4/4/2026
Has anyone else’s nparent had a psychotic break after abusing GLP-1s?

I actually wouldn’t put it past her to start using another drug to keep the weight loss going, so you may be right

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/4/2026
How was your first dating experience post-divorce? How'd it feel when/if it ended??

Right now, in this moment, I don't think how I see her will change. The things I love about her are things that everyone in her life loves about her. Things that are real, not romanticized or exaggera…

r/Divorcecomment4/9/2026
I Feel Like a Candle in a Small Black Box.

I think you may be right about the spectacle stopping. One of the thoughts I've had was that I may be having less insight and epiphanies because I am older and wiser, in a way. So I have more answers …

r/Meditationcomment4/9/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - April 12, 2026

You may be right. We also just have absolutely the right stuff to be great friends, and I have gone from failed date situation to real good pals before. One girl I met on Tinder offered to help me get…

r/datingoverthirtycomment4/13/2026
M34 married to F31 having intimacy issues

Thank you for sharing your experience and giving me something to consider. I think when it first started happening I was less aware because we had been so frequent with our intimacy that when it slowe…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/13/2026