don't compare

Interesting people call that positivity: the "others have it worse" mentality I mean. To me proper positivity would be acknowledging it could be worse, but also that it could be better and not to sell…

I think I might have really bad work/academic anxiety [rant ig] — I'm a sophomore at HS and I've noticed I suffer from really bad anxiety, its never relationships or health related, always something work related like "Finish 4 chapters of discrete math by the end of…

Hi I've literally never posted on reddit before but I think I hit my final straw today. I just found out a coworker got engaged. I am one of only two single people at my job. And it seems that most of…

Just this that don't compare your life with other it will only makes you miserable from the inside you will never know what they are going through and they will never know what you are going through t…

Try to find a better job, start a small project, it's not too late. Everyone has their own life and circumstances. Don't compare your life to others.

I hate that this happened to you. It boils down to dopamine rewards. It's not because she's special or better than you. It's because cheating gives them a drug like dopamine high. That dopamine motiva…

If you're not ready yet, then it's totally ok. Say it when you feel it and are ready. My bf and I both started feeling it about 3 months in, but didn't say it until 4 months, after we both went throu…

APs want you to be a robot basically. I don't think they know exactly what builds discipline. All they expect from you is: Make lots of money; get married to/marry a rich person; make babies; make me …

> Also, I think it's best that u don't compare your upbringing to your white friend's. That is just gonna send you down a rabbit hole full of depression & agony. Asian culture & white culture are too …

This is much more succinctly put than I can muster this morning..bravo to this comment. I don't compare my trauma to anyone else's, it's all trauma. Full stop. It's all impactful in the same ways in …

If you're basically a beginner and have OCD, meditation techniques will indeed require consistent practice and repetition and experimentation on a daily basis before any lasting benefits become undeni…

I started step 4 this week and I loved the line "don't compare your inside to other people's outside".

It's understandable you feel like a piece of you died with her. In a way that's beautiful, maybe that piece left to follow her into heaven. Try to remember what used to give you joy. All the things b…

They are exes for a reason. He's with you. He wants to marry you. Don't compare yourself to other women. I'm sure you're beautiful in your own right. Start being kind to yourself and giving yourself …

"Gave up everything to become a mother". You make it sound like having kids is such an awful thing and you end up living in misery, missing out on stuff. I'm a mother and I have never felt this. I go…

You need change. And I applaud you for realizing this at 23. I only did in my 40s. Couple of things. Firstly: Read "the game of life - Florence Scovel Shinn" if you can't find it, I have a link to it …

Been there, done that (well, still trying to do it). My 20s were stolen from me - because of all the psychological and emotional abuse, my health collapsed, so for 10 years I was basically a puppet of…

23 is absolutely not too late. Most people who seem naturally social just got more practice earlier, that's literally the only difference. One thing that actually works is putting yourself in situati…

Don't compare. Everyone has their own timeline.